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AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
Sun Aug 18, 2013, 10:38 PM Aug 2013

When did this place become the home of anti-choice?

From the people bitching about people wanting to keep their lawns looking nice, to the people wanting to outlaw football because of potential injury, to the those who want to ban Pit Bull's for no reason, the fucking authoritarianism of some is disgusting. If someone wants to waste their time cutting their grass, then watering it, then cutting it again, let them, it is their freaking choice. It is your choice to close your windows and wait until they are done or be ok with their grass cutting. If some kid wants to play football or soccer or rugby, and their PARENTS have no problem with the inherent risk, then it is no one's business to interfere. And if someone wants to adopt a pit bull puppy and love and care for it, then who cares if they want to adopt one. Pit Bulls are amazing dogs, I have had three in my life and never felt anything but love for them. I am a Democrat because I support Abortion Choice, I am a Democrat because I support Gay Marriage Choice, and I support Grass cutting every day of the week if someone wants to, playing football because a kid wants to and adopting a pit bull because someone wants to. Take your jackboots and desire to control others somewhere else. I rarely post, but these last few days have infuriated me as I have watched others act like they are some kind of superior human because they don't cut their grass, or let their kids play football or they sign petitions to ban pit bulls. The average American is not some fucking anthropology specimen to study, and it is NOT FUCKING WEIRD to want to cut your grass, play full contact sports or want specific dog breeds. GET THE FUCK OVER YOURSELF. Sorry for the rant, but it has been difficult watching these anti-choice sentiments here.

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When did this place become the home of anti-choice? (Original Post) AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 OP
why, I oughta alert that! mitchtv Aug 2013 #1
Not looking to offend any individuals AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #2
Well, for the first example, the lawns... Scootaloo Aug 2013 #3
This message was self-deleted by its author Pretzel_Warrior Aug 2013 #6
Shutting down golf courses would be an amazing environmental victory Scootaloo Aug 2013 #9
Ironically AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #12
Who said anything about your masculinity? Scootaloo Aug 2013 #13
and obviously doesn't care about limited resources Heddi Aug 2013 #21
I don't care AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #24
Water is a limited resource. You should care Heddi Aug 2013 #26
I care about everyone AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #31
Actually its an issue Now. LostOne4Ever Aug 2013 #62
In West Texas AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #64
I agree with you on that LostOne4Ever Aug 2013 #67
And if AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #72
You should care about how much water you use. As has been mentioned and ignored by you, cui bono Aug 2013 #42
Use as much as you need, but in most places water is a shared commodity bhikkhu Aug 2013 #51
it absolutely gives him away Skittles Aug 2013 #55
The grass thread the other day AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #57
No, I chose to tell you why people might be concerned about it Scootaloo Aug 2013 #82
Actually AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #84
But if you've got a well maintained, healthy lawn you use less water rl6214 Aug 2013 #20
Exactly AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #34
Or, you can simply devise a sliding scale for pricing water that makes it Egalitarian Thug Aug 2013 #48
See AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #60
Yes - This is how Most Nations handle Public Utilities HumansAndResources Aug 2013 #68
I also have no problem with this AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #70
You left off the horrible chemicals that are then washed down the public BlueToTheBone Aug 2013 #94
Now now, you're about to anger your betters. NutmegYankee Aug 2013 #4
This message was self-deleted by its author Pretzel_Warrior Aug 2013 #5
LOL LearningCurve Aug 2013 #19
rec'd for rant quality cthulu2016 Aug 2013 #7
I don't know if I agree AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #10
There are control freaks everywhere madville Aug 2013 #8
And so often it is those that have utterly failed to do just that, that are the most insistent Egalitarian Thug Aug 2013 #47
Get your pitbulls off my lawn!!11 leftstreet Aug 2013 #11
Hey, you can cut my grass if you want! I'm all for it! delrem Aug 2013 #14
WOW! You've been here a whole 4 months and you want to know when this place became ANYTHING? KittyWampus Aug 2013 #15
LOL AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #22
How would we know you lurked here for years??? Heddi Aug 2013 #27
I'm sorry AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #30
Hi. You really shouldn't post while intoxicated Heddi Aug 2013 #32
Many of us have LostOne4Ever Aug 2013 #63
I haven't seen any of this being called out here. Useless without links to the problem. freshwest Aug 2013 #80
LOL nice attempt to silence dissent. The search tool is your friend AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #89
Without paragraphs sheshe2 Aug 2013 #95
Sing it brother! Egnever Aug 2013 #16
You have to remember that some people feel MicaelS Aug 2013 #17
MicaelS AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #28
How do you feel about lead in paint or gasoline? jberryhill Aug 2013 #83
Gasoline is what we have for now AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #87
You should have stayed away from those paint chips long ago jberryhill Aug 2013 #88
so saying water shouldnt be wasted is now fascism? Dustin DeWinde Aug 2013 #58
Not at all AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #59
so you know water shouldnt be wasted but you waste it anyway Dustin DeWinde Aug 2013 #61
Nope AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #69
self control is always needed. most of us learn that well before adulthood Dustin DeWinde Aug 2013 #73
I am not the one trying to browbeat AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #75
How is that different LostOne4Ever Aug 2013 #66
Wow. You have gained some insight into DU since you signed up in April Heddi Aug 2013 #18
Nice AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #23
You shouldn't be posting on DU while you're at work Heddi Aug 2013 #29
:) AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #33
Is there a new word called attentionistic ? olddots Aug 2013 #43
Never. Iggo Aug 2013 #25
Do you think it's ironic A Little Weird Aug 2013 #35
No AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #38
If you're not trying to shut down discussion on DU A Little Weird Aug 2013 #39
I think you do..... AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #40
I have now changed my mind about you. Pretzel_Warrior Aug 2013 #46
Ok AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #54
In some republican areas, it is..... Jenny_92808 Aug 2013 #36
And that is insanity AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #37
Well I too have been here since 2001 and I think your rant is simply fine Samantha Aug 2013 #50
thank you Samantha AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #56
there are self righteous people on the right and on the left that think they know best and know how liberal_at_heart Aug 2013 #41
This is the defining difference between the prevailing mindsets. The authoritarians feel Egalitarian Thug Aug 2013 #44
It's changed so much for those that cannot stand anything but an echo chamber. Rex Aug 2013 #45
So while we're on the subject of choice, analystinparadise, what are your Pretzel_Warrior Aug 2013 #49
Pro-Choice on Abortion until Third trimester AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #53
so in the third trimester you get to Dustin DeWinde Aug 2013 #71
LOL AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #74
so you can be against third trimester Dustin DeWinde Aug 2013 #78
Yeah AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #86
Are you longing for the days when every other thread was about sex? Spitfire of ATJ Aug 2013 #52
U too. . . B Calm Aug 2013 #92
Keep green ridhithomas Aug 2013 #65
I doubt you are the only one who feels that way LostOne4Ever Aug 2013 #76
It isn't universal... Sotf Aug 2013 #77
DU has more than a few closet RW authoritarians. kestrel91316 Aug 2013 #79
You're quite right, but the purpose is plain. This is an income stream for the owners. Egalitarian Thug Aug 2013 #90
You've been a member for four months. progressoid Aug 2013 #81
Signed up four months ago AnalystInParadise Aug 2013 #85
Generally unhappy people who feel a need to go against the grain lamp_shade Aug 2013 #91
heh. fuck authoritarians. Inkfreak Aug 2013 #93
 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
2. Not looking to offend any individuals
Sun Aug 18, 2013, 10:44 PM
Aug 2013

just don't understand how some choice is better than other choice.

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
3. Well, for the first example, the lawns...
Sun Aug 18, 2013, 10:44 PM
Aug 2013

Watering lawns requires the use of the very definition of a public resource - water. Water spent hosing down an inedible, decorative crop is effectively wasted water. And the more arid your area, the bigger a waste it is. It in in effect squandering a necessary resource, just so your house in Arizona can look as though it's actually in an English meadow. There SHOULD be ordinances thaat restrict ornamental waster usage, and that give some sort of preferential treatment to using native regional flora as yard plants.

Response to Scootaloo (Reply #3)

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
9. Shutting down golf courses would be an amazing environmental victory
Sun Aug 18, 2013, 10:50 PM
Aug 2013

Given the amount of fertilizer, herbicide, and insecticides they pour all over, plus the constant hosing.

What I do know is that someone running their sprinkler isn't using water from their bath tub to do it.

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
12. Ironically
Sun Aug 18, 2013, 11:00 PM
Aug 2013

I lived in Southern Arizona for a few years before I moved to Hawaii, and I had a Super Green lawn. I used hardly any water from the tap. Instead, I used rain barrels that I collected water from during Monsoon season, in fact many of my neighbors did the same. And again you are deciding what is and what is not a waste. If someone wants keep their lawn green and is willing to pay the financial cost, then I have no problem with them doing so. My yard consequentially did look like an English meadow in Sierra Vista, AZ and I was environmentally conscious, but I would have used all the PUBLIC water I AM ENTITLED TO. See that's the thing, water is a PUBLIC UTILITY and as long as I am not violating existing WATERING ORDINANCES, I don't care how much water I use. Here in Hawaii, I also have a nice Super Green lawn that I water often and mow every Sunday. I did it earlier today and I can assure you it has nothing to do with masculinity or a desire to keep up with the "Joneses".....I do it because I enjoy the appearance of my nice cut green lawn, the same reason I play football in my 40's, I ENJOY IT. Just like the reason I have two pit bulls I ENJOY my dogs.......Don't tell me what I can and can't do, stop taking my FREAKING CHOICE away from me. FUCK, it is like Repukes in here sometimes

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
13. Who said anything about your masculinity?
Sun Aug 18, 2013, 11:05 PM
Aug 2013

That's a very odd thing to bring up to someone who's talking about water conservation and xeriscaping.

Heddi

(18,312 posts)
21. and obviously doesn't care about limited resources
Sun Aug 18, 2013, 11:16 PM
Aug 2013

Per his...rant? " I don't care how much water I use"

Too bad he can't see that usable water is in limited supply. Sure sure, he may use a water barrel but what, like 90% of people don't. The millions of acres of golf courses don't use rain barrels.

And if he's using rain barrels, then why does it matter that he's paying for his water, which is a public utility, so who cares how much he uses as long as he's not breaking any exisitng water laws (what he said upthread). So using rain barrels or not?

But he don't care.

He said so.

" I don't care how much water I use"

We're facing an ecological disaster re: usable potable water. But this guy. " I don't care how much water I use"

Awesome.

BUT DONT YOU TELL HIM HE CANT PLAY FOOTBALL!!! GODDAMN IT! That's fascist shit! He'll play all the fucking football he wants. Just don't ask him to think about the water depletion this planet is facing. " I don't care how much water I use"

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
24. I don't care
Sun Aug 18, 2013, 11:52 PM
Aug 2013

It is a public utility, I use public utilities and I pay for them. I don't care. But please continue to lecture me about how you are my better. I enjoy it so.

Heddi

(18,312 posts)
26. Water is a limited resource. You should care
Sun Aug 18, 2013, 11:54 PM
Aug 2013

There will be a potable water shortage relatively soon. Perhaps not in your lifetime, or even mine, but it will happen. Desalination is expensive and cannot keep up with the demands of a rapidly growing planetary population.

But hey, you got your manly lush green lawn (since you're so concerned about your manhood, as you pointed upthread), so why SHOULD you give a fuck about the other couple of billion people on this planet?

I mean, really. The nerve of people. Caring about others. that's so...so...liberal

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
31. I care about everyone
Sun Aug 18, 2013, 11:59 PM
Aug 2013

I care about their rights to choose what is best for them and their family. I know I have some nerve to support the rights of women to get abortions, our gay and lesbian friends to marry each other, people to own pit bulls, kids to play football, and people to do what they want when they want with their lawns and PUBLIC utilities. I am a monster.....




At least I know what Public Utilities are for.

LostOne4Ever

(9,309 posts)
62. Actually its an issue Now.
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 01:58 AM
Aug 2013

I live in west texas and the water out here is already running low and we have watering bans almost every single year.

The bigger and richer cities are now trying to get deals with smaller towns so that they can have more water as it is currently.

The idea of running out of drinking water out here where it can and has exceeded 120+ Degrees during the summer is scary.

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
64. In West Texas
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 02:04 AM
Aug 2013

i would agree with you, I am from Texas originally.

But West Texas is not everywhere. My mind in this issue is closed, in the absence of regulations or limitations put in place by the city, county or state, I will use what I want from a Public utility and there is not a damn thing wrong with that. If I was wasting water in drought, then yes, I am a criminal. People are making this ridiculously complicated.

LostOne4Ever

(9,309 posts)
67. I agree with you on that
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 02:06 AM
Aug 2013

But I am just noting that there are places where water supply is an issue currently.

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
72. And if
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 02:10 AM
Aug 2013

I lived in those places I would tear up my lawn and replace it with less thirsty crops. This has less to do with water for me and with authoritarian mindsets.....

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
42. You should care about how much water you use. As has been mentioned and ignored by you,
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 12:47 AM
Aug 2013

water is a limited resource. That's why people want to limit certain choices, because of people who don't care about the consequences of their choices and how it affects others.

There are laws in place about speeding, theft, murder... shall we take those off the books and leave it up to choice? We can get a glimpse of how that would look like with the "stand your ground" laws. Do you think those are working?

bhikkhu

(10,730 posts)
51. Use as much as you need, but in most places water is a shared commodity
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 01:02 AM
Aug 2013

Waste shouldn't be encouraged. Of course you're allowed to waste water, but don't expect any awards for it. A little more "we're all in this together", a little less "my property is my kingdom" would temper things.

on edit - all natural resources are limited. In this country everything tends to be free market - use all you want as long as you pay for it. The problem there is that all resources are limited - cost is often the only means to limit use, "what the market will bear". The heavier the demands on resources, the higher the prices goes, and the worse off it is for those who can't afford it. There is a real cause and effect there; in my area a few years back new construction raised water usage to the point that the infrastructure had to be expanded significantly, and at great cost. Everyone's water bills went up to pay for it, permanently, and there are plenty of brown lawns in town where people literally have to choose between using water and putting food on the table.

That's going to be more common as climate change sets in. Essentially waste raises everyone's costs, so you're allowed to, but its certainly not helping anyone.

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
57. The grass thread the other day
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 01:30 AM
Aug 2013

had comments about masculinity and lawn care. You would have known that if you were informed about this topic, but instead you chose to attack the messenger. I got it.

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
82. No, I chose to tell you why people might be concerned about it
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 03:04 AM
Aug 2013

Namely that people on DU realize that living in the desert hand maintaining the fifth green on your doorstep might be wasteful of an increasingly scarce public resource.

It's not an attack on you, though you seem very insistent on taking it as such. While screaming that people who disagree with you are fascists and republicans.

Congratulations on you for both paying a water bill to water your lawn (or using your own collected water, I'm not sure which you're doing, you seem to say you did both?) However it's my experience that municipalities tend to severely undervalue and mistreat their water resources, leading to wasteful consumption and degradation of this most necessary of the commons. The logic of "I PAID FOR IT IT'S MINE!" doesn't really fit well with water, since again, it's a community resource rather than a private one.

But hey. You want to be angry. you go ahead and be angry. But I have to tell you, it makes you look a little silly, you being all raged-out at someone who has a My Little Pony character for an avatar.

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
84. Actually
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 03:46 AM
Aug 2013

I am happy and smiling. The angry people are the ones trying to take choice away from me in their oh so progressive but really regressive world view. But it's cool, fortunately their views are outside the norm.

 

rl6214

(8,142 posts)
20. But if you've got a well maintained, healthy lawn you use less water
Sun Aug 18, 2013, 11:15 PM
Aug 2013

And part of that is keeping the proper length and you use less water.

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
34. Exactly
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 12:05 AM
Aug 2013

But what the hell, we are just primitives that don't understand that mowing grass, playing football and wanting the dogs of our choice is inherently wrong and evil.

 

Egalitarian Thug

(12,448 posts)
48. Or, you can simply devise a sliding scale for pricing water that makes it
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 12:59 AM
Aug 2013

stupidly expensive to have a lawn. Coercion is not required, Scootaloo.

 

HumansAndResources

(229 posts)
68. Yes - This is how Most Nations handle Public Utilities
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 02:06 AM
Aug 2013

The first X kilowatts or cubic-meters are cheap - so even the poorest can have lights and bathe. Then the price goes up for those who want luxury-living or use a bunch for produce things to sell. This is better than the "one price for all" system.

My ideal would be we each **Own** our Individual Shares of Natural Resources like water, so we can use our share without answering to anyone, paying only for the "service" of delivery and choosing who does that. If we want more than our share, we can buy excess from others **Who Are Willing** to sell theirs to us.

BlueToTheBone

(3,747 posts)
94. You left off the horrible chemicals that are then washed down the public
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 11:18 AM
Aug 2013

drains into the communal water. Yep, there should be ecological laws. But of course, property owners trump all. (I'm one too, but I do try to think of the generations to come)

Response to AnalystInParadise (Original post)

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
10. I don't know if I agree
Sun Aug 18, 2013, 10:54 PM
Aug 2013

with everyone in my rant either, BUT I believe they have the choice to do what they want. And that is my whole point.

madville

(7,413 posts)
8. There are control freaks everywhere
Sun Aug 18, 2013, 10:50 PM
Aug 2013

Who are never content with trying to manage their own lives, they want to intrude on everyone else's party as well.

 

Egalitarian Thug

(12,448 posts)
47. And so often it is those that have utterly failed to do just that, that are the most insistent
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 12:57 AM
Aug 2013

that everybody else comply with their wishes.

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
15. WOW! You've been here a whole 4 months and you want to know when this place became ANYTHING?
Sun Aug 18, 2013, 11:07 PM
Aug 2013

LOL!

did you forget which account you were posting under?

Heddi

(18,312 posts)
27. How would we know you lurked here for years???
Sun Aug 18, 2013, 11:56 PM
Aug 2013

You have a sign on date. Not a "started lurking on" date.

And I'm quite sure you've been here for years. Lurker? Um, no.

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
30. I'm sorry
Sun Aug 18, 2013, 11:57 PM
Aug 2013

Are you trying to accuse me of something? Or are you just angry that not everyone wants to be a part of your little fascist tea party where you decide what people can and can't do?

Heddi

(18,312 posts)
32. Hi. You really shouldn't post while intoxicated
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 12:00 AM
Aug 2013

Care to back up in any way anything that points me as a fascist, or a tea-partyist?

because i think you're a troll, zombie, or sock? (which you haven't denied)(because you probably are, but that's okay, just as long as we're on the same page)
because I think your OP is shit? (because it is, because you can't back up a single thing you've posted)
because I think you're a greedy shit for not giving a shit about how much water it takes to keep your lawn lush and green? (because you said so in your own threads)

You should look up the word "fascist" because you really don't know what it means.

LostOne4Ever

(9,309 posts)
63. Many of us have
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 02:02 AM
Aug 2013

I have actually lurked here from time to time since 2002, but only started posting in april of this year.

Problem is no one has any way of verifying this for either of us

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
80. I haven't seen any of this being called out here. Useless without links to the problem.
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 02:28 AM
Aug 2013

I have no interest in any DUers's choice of canine breed, lawn maintenance routine or chosen sport.

Broadbrushing the DU community by saying it is made up of jack booted thugs, fascists, anti-choice authoritarians, and then equating it with women and gay rights is an insult to both groups.

Being born either is not a choice. Demanding the right to the freedom to live with the same rights of privacy and respect as others not discriminated against in law and society, is nothing like choosing a dog, sport or landscaping one's home. We are talking about freedoms that define one's entire lifetime, and those rights are not for others to judge, and not trivial.

It demeans both groups and close to the slur that being gay is 'a lifestyle choice.' That comes from RWers.

You mention that the OP has been a member since April 19th, 2013, but says here he has been at DU for years. The date one signs on is unimportant, but the content of posts are.

I object to mocking the important issues of the two discriminated groups to the way a person wants to live their life in choices with no comparison.

I think the OP is a call-out and a slur against DU in general, and borderline sexist and homophobic. What do you think?

sheshe2

(84,151 posts)
95. Without paragraphs
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 11:54 AM
Aug 2013

it is difficult to read this OP. Much less understand where they are going here.

It is a broadbrush that is being used and it paints a convoluted picture.

I agree with you, freshwest:

"Broadbrushing the DU community by saying it is made up of jack booted thugs, fascists, anti-choice authoritarians, and then equating it with women and gay rights is an insult to both groups."

I feel a lot of anger coming from this OP and yes indeed a mocking tone.

MicaelS

(8,747 posts)
17. You have to remember that some people feel
Sun Aug 18, 2013, 11:10 PM
Aug 2013

That they know what is best for the rest of us. If they can't tell the rest of what to drink, eat, read, watch or do, why they feel they are the ones being oppressed.

If we would only LISTEN to them, and do exactly what they tell us to do, why the US would be a perfect place. Of course all their finger waving is just for our own good.

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
28. MicaelS
Sun Aug 18, 2013, 11:56 PM
Aug 2013

You hit the nail on the head, our so-called betters know what is good for us. I am enjoying the personal attacks, kind of proves my point about them being jack booted thugs. I think there is a place in the political landscape they would feel more at home in than here. Most people here seem to be tolerant and accepting of others. Most people here seem to be just fine with choice being the way we should live and let others live. There is always that small fraction though that seeks to tell us poor deluded fools the errors of our ways and how if we just obeyed them we would be better off. We are just unaware of what is for our own good, and they will force us to see they are right. Oy vey!

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
87. Gasoline is what we have for now
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 03:53 AM
Aug 2013

Still waiting on science and government to bring me something better for my lawn. And paint, I tend to not use. Steel framed house with brick, no need for paint

Dustin DeWinde

(193 posts)
58. so saying water shouldnt be wasted is now fascism?
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 01:39 AM
Aug 2013

Seems like some folks are internalizing and adopting teabag thinking.

The original poster said he doesn't care how much water he uses. Others correctly pointed out the selfishness of that sentiment. No one here is stopping him from selfishly depleting a shared resource, but we sure as hell have a right to voice our opinion on his selfish attitude.

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
59. Not at all
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 01:46 AM
Aug 2013

Telling me that using a public utility how i want as long as I am willing to pay for it does have an authoritarian taint to it though. If the city places restrictions on me, I GLADLY follow the restrictions. If no restrictions are in place, then I will use as much freaking water as I want to. And if you don't like it, tough crap, I am violating no laws, breaking no social contract. I am practicing my rights.

I have enjoyed the laser like focus on water usage and the ignoring of other issues. It really kind of proves my point that others know better for me and mine and therefore I should obey my so-called betters. No thank you.

Dustin DeWinde

(193 posts)
61. so you know water shouldnt be wasted but you waste it anyway
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 01:58 AM
Aug 2013

Because your city has not gotten around to restricting it yet?
You won't think of your neighbors till you are required by law to stop squandering shared resources, then you complain of too much regulation.

Show self control and maybe you wouldn't need to be so heavily regulated.
And as long as you aren't breaking any laws you are indeed free to behave selfishly just as others are free to criticize your selfish behavior
See how that works?

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
69. Nope
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 02:07 AM
Aug 2013

If it is not a problem, I have no need, want or desire to restrict myself. Please continue to lecture me about how you are my better because I won't acquiesce to your viewpoint. I show self control when self control is needed. If it is not needed, I am free to do as I want within the law. Therefore, to quote Rage Against the Machine "F^&k you I won't do what you tell me". But I am saying it with a smile on my face and in a spirit of friendship.

Dustin DeWinde

(193 posts)
73. self control is always needed. most of us learn that well before adulthood
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 02:17 AM
Aug 2013

And you keep referring to people who disagree with you as your "betters".
Whatever floats your boat I guess. But kindly leave me out of your fantasies..

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
75. I am not the one trying to browbeat
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 02:20 AM
Aug 2013

and coerce people to change. I guess you miss all the threads where anyone who wants a green lawn, wants to mow it, wants their kids to play football or likes pitbulls is treated like an oddity.....Here's the bottom line, most people like their lawns, like football and don't give a shit about breed specific legislation. The oddities are the people trying to force others to abandon what they believe in.

LostOne4Ever

(9,309 posts)
66. How is that different
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 02:04 AM
Aug 2013

than the city banning watering the lawn?

Its a restriction isnt it? And if water is an issue don't people have the right to lobby for more restrictions?

Heddi

(18,312 posts)
18. Wow. You have gained some insight into DU since you signed up in April
Sun Aug 18, 2013, 11:12 PM
Aug 2013


I've been here since 2001. That's 12 years. 12 years in October, actually. I'm not really familiar with these shocking revelations you're going on and on about. I mean, 12 years in, you'd think the anti-choice, anti-lawn, anti-grass cutting, anti kids-playing-football contingent would be pretty well known.

But they're kind of not. In any way, shape or form.

So really, you're kind of talking out of your ass, if you want to know the truth.

I'd say "welcome to DU' but 1) I have a feeling you've been here before and 2) I have a feeling you'll be back again once your current incarnation is banned.

Oh, and paragraph breaks are free here. Admin doesn't charge for you to use the "enter" key after sentences. You should try it. It would make your silly yelps easier to read (and mock)

Heddi

(18,312 posts)
29. You shouldn't be posting on DU while you're at work
Sun Aug 18, 2013, 11:56 PM
Aug 2013

You're supposed to be asking that of your customers, not other posters.

it pays to pay attention!

Lol re: ad hom and accusatory. Say, you haven't read your own OP by chance, have you? Because when I looked up "ad hominem" and "factually inaccurate accusatory thread that paints people with a broad brush" on Wikipedia, it just linked back to your OP...

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
33. :)
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 12:01 AM
Aug 2013

Please by all means, keep it up. I'll let you have the last word, since part of the authoritarian mindset is to dominate others no matter the facts of the matter. So please, continue. I am done with you.

A Little Weird

(1,754 posts)
35. Do you think it's ironic
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 12:06 AM
Aug 2013

Do you think it's ironic that your post about how "DU is becoming the home of anti-choice" criticizes what people can choose to discuss? Should people have to run their ideas by you first? Or maybe the admins should modify the terms of service based on what you deem acceptable to have an opinion about.

I think a better solution would be for you to either a) weigh in on discussions about pit bulls, football, or lawn cutting schedules so that you may enlighten people who have not considered your point of view, or b) trash the thread so you don't have to be bothered by it. Just my opinion.

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
38. No
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 12:13 AM
Aug 2013

but you are proving my very point. People are free to CHOOSE to say whatever they want, I am free to CHOOSE to criticize them for their ignorance. They are free to ignore me or CHOOSE to criticize me right back. My rant just concerns choice, that is all.

A Little Weird

(1,754 posts)
39. If you're not trying to shut down discussion on DU
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 12:19 AM
Aug 2013

If you're not trying to shut down discussion on DU by implying that people are "jackboots" or "authoritarians" for having certain opinions, then I fail to see what your rant is about. In other words, you are criticizing what people should choose to discuss. In any case, I reserve the right to discuss whatever I want and I don't need to "get the fuck over myself".

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
40. I think you do.....
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 12:34 AM
Aug 2013

But that is my opinion and I am free to wield it, just as you are free to wield yours. The fact that you have trouble with that logic chain tells me all I need to know. I don't want to shut anyone up, but I won't be fucking silent either. Get used to it.
 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
37. And that is insanity
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 12:12 AM
Aug 2013

Rain barrels are awesome. I even learned how to make my own to keep out mosquito's and other pests from my caught water.

Samantha

(9,314 posts)
50. Well I too have been here since 2001 and I think your rant is simply fine
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 01:00 AM
Aug 2013

I too lurked for months until one day someone posted something that made me so angry I had to jump in. I understand how that works.

I too lose my patience for people who try to tell others how to live their lives. I am totally non-judgmental and I look for that in others.

Everyone seems to need a rant everyone once in awhile to get things off their chests; many here do that.

Yes, rain barrels are awesome. Anyone who learns to make them to ward off mosquitoes can't be all bad!

Sam

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
56. thank you Samantha
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 01:26 AM
Aug 2013

There is a cool place here in Hawaii, in Waianae on Oahu specifically that teaches you how to make rain barrels and also how to channel the runoff from your roof into the rain barrel. Waianae is pretty dry for Hawaii so every little bit helps.

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
41. there are self righteous people on the right and on the left that think they know best and know how
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 12:44 AM
Aug 2013

people should be living their lives.

 

Egalitarian Thug

(12,448 posts)
44. This is the defining difference between the prevailing mindsets. The authoritarians feel
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 12:53 AM
Aug 2013

it is perfectly fine to force their will on others. Egalitarians feel coercion is antithetical to liberty.

When the option of force is removed, negotiation and persuasion must suffice and creativity is required.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
45. It's changed so much for those that cannot stand anything but an echo chamber.
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 12:54 AM
Aug 2013

Bless their little hearts!

 

Pretzel_Warrior

(8,361 posts)
49. So while we're on the subject of choice, analystinparadise, what are your
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 01:00 AM
Aug 2013

Opinions on legality of abortion and the rights of gay people to marry?

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
53. Pro-Choice on Abortion until Third trimester
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 01:21 AM
Aug 2013

Pro Choice on gay marriage, or better yet, complete equality for gay and lesbian couples in all areas of public life.

Dustin DeWinde

(193 posts)
71. so in the third trimester you get to
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 02:09 AM
Aug 2013

Tell the woman what she should do?

How very magnanimous of you to grant two trimesters of choice before imposing your views on strangers.

Are you a republican by the way?

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
74. LOL
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 02:17 AM
Aug 2013

Since 1.5% of abortions occur after the 24th week, I feel pretty comfortable with my opinion. I said I was against it, I never said I would stop someone from doing it. I never said I would criticize anyone who got one. I said I was merely against it, I make no argument in making my beliefs law and I make no condemnation of anyone who gets an abortion after the third trimester. Unlike my so-called betters, I don't want to change anyone's behavior.

Dustin DeWinde

(193 posts)
78. so you can be against third trimester
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 02:26 AM
Aug 2013

Abortions which are none of your freaking business, but folks can't be against you'd selfish views on water conservation?


Well alrighty then. Now you are boring me. Good day to you, sir.

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
86. Yeah
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 03:51 AM
Aug 2013

It's called choice, I love your binary logic, I am against it, therefore I must hate it. Not at all, I am against it, but if no laws are being broken it is none of my business. Just like my fucking lawn, my kids playing fucking contact sports and the kind of fucking dog I want are none of your fucking business? That's a lot of F bombs......but LOL sometimes you need to use swear words to get a point across. I am not trying to take abortion away from anyone, SO WHY do people feel it is in their interest to take things away from me. And that is the whole debate, I might be against something but I will DO NOTHING to stop anyone from pursuing it themselves.

 

ridhithomas

(12 posts)
65. Keep green
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 02:04 AM
Aug 2013

I have a lawn and find it to have good qualities.Use lawn sprinkles to keep it green as well as healthy.

LostOne4Ever

(9,309 posts)
76. I doubt you are the only one who feels that way
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 02:24 AM
Aug 2013

But liberalism is a broad ideology and the democratic party is an big tent party. You get a variety of people with different ideas here.

Civil/social/ Left wing libertarians like myself will probably agree with you on every point. In fact, I do agree on all those issues.

However, other groups here might disagree depending on the issue. Some might feel that water is a scarce and valuable public resourse and will object to it being used in a manner they feel is wasteful. Some groups here might feel that contact sports pose too big a danger to kids and lobby for laws that remove the physical aspects of the sport. Other feel Pit Bulls are simply too dangerous and pose a threat to the public safety (even though fatal dog attacks in general are less frequent than people getting struck by lighting) and should be banned.

But you got to realize, this is both liberalism greatest weakness and our greatest strength. We accept everyone and are open-minded to every idea. By listening to a wide array of views and opinions we expose ourselves to far more information and can make better decisions. However, it also means we have alot of divisions we have to work through. The union supporter and the environmental activist are going to but heads now and again. The Civil libertarian and the public safety advocate are not going to see eye to eye on things like spying or smoking bans.

Its hard at times, but its what makes us...us! Its one of thing things that separate us from conservatives and why we liberals are almost always on the right side of history.

 

Sotf

(76 posts)
77. It isn't universal...
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 02:25 AM
Aug 2013

Choice is only for certain things... The right things...

Other things should be dictated because people don't know what is best and thus require enforcement in some form or another (economic, legal, social) to properly conform.

 

kestrel91316

(51,666 posts)
79. DU has more than a few closet RW authoritarians.
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 02:28 AM
Aug 2013

They have, like, a single liberal stance on perhaps abortion, but then are extremely RW about everything else. And the admins give them a pass for years.

Makes me wonder about what the real purpose of this place is - perhaps DU is just more kabuki theater, more bread and circuses to make us think we are doing something worthwhile. And all the while, somebody is laughing at us.

 

Egalitarian Thug

(12,448 posts)
90. You're quite right, but the purpose is plain. This is an income stream for the owners.
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 04:08 AM
Aug 2013

It might have been begun for any number of reasons, but it grew, and though the monthly revenues aren't making anybody wealthy quickly, it is more than most people realize. In addition, the sale price would constitute a comfortable retirement for all and there are other, less obvious but still valuable benefits to the owners and their families.

They didn't hit it big like Markos Moulitsas, but don't kid yourself, DU is a valuable asset.

progressoid

(50,043 posts)
81. You've been a member for four months.
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 03:00 AM
Aug 2013

Issues of individual choice have been discussed here for years. Sometimes you'll agree with the majority of DU, sometimes you won't. It's what we do.

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
85. Signed up four months ago
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 03:48 AM
Aug 2013

Lurked since about 2004.....The Manning/Snowden/Surveillance thing is what finally convinced me to sign up and talk.

lamp_shade

(14,856 posts)
91. Generally unhappy people who feel a need to go against the grain
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 05:09 AM
Aug 2013

on just about every issue. That's my observation of many of the authoritarians I see on DU.
Good rant, BTW.

Inkfreak

(1,695 posts)
93. heh. fuck authoritarians.
Mon Aug 19, 2013, 07:22 AM
Aug 2013

I like to play football on my freshly cut grass while the sprinklers are left on for my pit bull to play with. Then we go to Olive Garden.

There are no shortage of complaints in the form of OPs here on DU. Yours could be included. My advice is to ignore em. Or embrace em. I love reading some of these flamefests. I do enjoy how some posters have lasered in on a sentence or two, rather than address your rant on the broader point.

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