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Xyzse

(8,217 posts)
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 10:33 AM Jul 2013

Saatchi divorcing Nigella after not defending him for choking her

What a jerk.

http://omg.yahoo.com/news/saatchi-says-divorcing-nigella-lawson-111344034.html
Saatchi says he is divorcing Nigella Lawson
Associated PressAssociated Press – Sun, Jul 7, 2013 8:45 AM EDT

LONDON (AP) — Prominent art collector Charles Saatchi said Sunday he is divorcing his celebrity chef wife Nigella Lawson because she did not publicly defend his reputation after images emerged of him grasping her throat in a posh London restaurant.
...
The Mail on Sunday said that Lawson was not made aware of the divorce move prior to publication.


So, he is divorcing her, telling this to the news before telling her. All this, for not defending his abuse.

Some people just feel so entitled. This is an abuser shifting blame to the victim.
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Saatchi divorcing Nigella after not defending him for choking her (Original Post) Xyzse Jul 2013 OP
She's well rid of him. yardwork Jul 2013 #1
Agreed! Xyzse Jul 2013 #3
Sick thinkin boston bean Jul 2013 #2
Yeah... Then to cite the reason Xyzse Jul 2013 #5
He comes off as a narcissist and a control freak. madaboutharry Jul 2013 #4
This is classic abuser behavior - "Look what you made me do to you!" bullwinkle428 Jul 2013 #6
So... That makes the divorce easier, quicker and cheaper for her. politicat Jul 2013 #7
One of the many things that were offensive in that event was his clamping his hand Sheldon Cooper Jul 2013 #8
He can pick his spouse and he can pick his nose Orrex Jul 2013 #10
While Saatchi is known for his art collection, his fortune comes from advertizing and we should Bluenorthwest Jul 2013 #9
Good riddance eissa Jul 2013 #11
I hope she gets half his fortune ... srican69 Jul 2013 #12

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
2. Sick thinkin
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 10:39 AM
Jul 2013

What a frickin entitled jackass. The pics ought to be enough for her to prevail in any lengthly divorce proceeding.

madaboutharry

(40,216 posts)
4. He comes off as a narcissist and a control freak.
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 10:40 AM
Jul 2013

He said he is divorcing her for not defending him after he choked her. This is one marriage that should not be saved!

bullwinkle428

(20,629 posts)
6. This is classic abuser behavior - "Look what you made me do to you!"
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 10:44 AM
Jul 2013

I hope she never has to worry about the evil bastage again.

politicat

(9,808 posts)
7. So... That makes the divorce easier, quicker and cheaper for her.
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 10:45 AM
Jul 2013

That is a level of self-important, entitled jack hole usually reserved for Neocons.

Sheldon Cooper

(3,724 posts)
8. One of the many things that were offensive in that event was his clamping his hand
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 10:49 AM
Jul 2013

over her nose. I believe the media called it 'tweaking'. This asshole tried to defend it by saying that, in essence, she had a booger hanging out of her nose and he was trying to remove it. First of all - bull fucking shit. Secondly, who picks their spouse's nose at all, much less in a public space?? The normal thing would be to discreetly inform them of the problem, perhaps offer them your handkerchief if they didn't have one, etc. But to try and excuse your behavior by claiming that you were picking your wife's boogers? It transfers the blame and embarrassment onto her, which is typical abuser behavior. He is too fucking disgusting.

Orrex

(63,219 posts)
10. He can pick his spouse and he can pick his nose
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 11:38 AM
Jul 2013

But as an abusive asshole he should keep his hands to himself and keep is idiot mouth shut.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
9. While Saatchi is known for his art collection, his fortune comes from advertizing and we should
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 10:50 AM
Jul 2013

credit that industry with the actions of their own leaders. Art collecting is his hobby, his profession is advertizing. Calling him an 'art collector' is like calling Jay Leno a mechanic. Correct but not fully accurate.

eissa

(4,238 posts)
11. Good riddance
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 11:41 AM
Jul 2013

The photos and that insane remark should guarantee that Nigella will be comfortable for years to come (although I'm not familiar with UK divorce laws, I can't imagine that she won't be receiving a good chunk of change.)

srican69

(1,426 posts)
12. I hope she gets half his fortune ...
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 11:48 AM
Jul 2013

not that she needs it - but it will be fun to hurt this prick where it hurts most

- but alas I guess he pro'lly has a pre-nup protecting him

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