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Especially since they all clearly still regard me as property good only for being a brood mare (because I'm a female human).
My best friend is lost to the Dark Side now, too. She moved to Texas. She was out here visiting the other night. Slowly the talking points started coming out - "...they're killing babies!" "States Rights!" "lazy moochers and welfare queens with six and seven kids just sucking off the system," "...rick perry! He's SOOOOO wonderful!" And "oh, no, he's not a religious fundamentalist (um, girlfriend, what about his hosting these "prayer gatherings" with all these fundie wacko "preachers" and his saying "I feel led to run...") "OH NO, that isn't fundie codespeak. He doesn't REALLY hang around with THOSE people!" And "he's been SO GOOD for Texas!" And "I had hope for Obama but..." and finally - the piece de resistance: "yes, I liked bush. I still do." GAK!!!!! While Clinton was president, you should have heard the talk from her - all peppered with the "Slick Willie" thing. And she loved dubya. Still does.
Sigh... :cry: My best friend in the whole world, for more than 40 years... a lost soul... :(
BTW - that last one - about still loving george w bush? She's one example I've seen with my own eyes and heard with my own ears - saying that "at least you knew where he stood. At least he stood for something." (Never mind that what he stood for was 1000% pure lice-eaten, worm-infested SHIT!) I tell ya - it's really true. People resonate to what they perceive as someone taking a strong stand. Doesn't even matter how horrid or criminal or downright sinful that stand is. If they're firm on it and take that stand with all their firmest most vehement convictions, they're a winner with this mentality. He used to campaign during the 2004 election on several buzz phrases including "you may not agree with me, but you know where I stand." These people have no respect for nuance, compromise, seeing the gray areas, or anything else. Certainty sells. Even if it's certainty about utter illogical nonsensical CRAP.
She's spent too much of her life hanging around yahoos - she does some acting and is into the celebrity rodeo and shooting circuit, and has lots of friends who are stunt people and gun lovers and NRA people and wannabe cowboys and other rough-and-ready types, and she knows people who've shot with dick cheney (and oh my can she excuse and rationalize THAT whole sordid episode away!). It's galling. FUCKING GALLING! When she brought up rick perry using such admiring tones to speak of him and his apparent preparations to run for president, my husband blurted out - "what's he running on, the Secession Party?" and this look of abject pain and disgust washed over her face. We've had that argument before with her - OH NO HE DOESN'T REEEEEEEEEALLY believe in secession. He was joking! But you know it IS in the State Constitution! Texas IS the only state whose constitution reserves the right to secede." So my husband and I both said - "well, okay then! Fine! Go ahead and secede! Buh-BYE!" And she started getting upset. "He was JUST JOKING!" "Um, sorry - WE DON'T CONSIDER THAT A JOKE, friend. Do you know how many people SUFFERED AND DIED to keep you assholes IN the Union?"
NONE of that cut through the layers of crap. And she watches Pox Noise. Along with the other Sunday shows, too, she says. She claims she watches "everything." But there's SO MUCH shit-speak coming out of her mouth these days that it's just DAMN FUCKING HEARTBREAKING!!!!!!! It makes me SO SAD!!!! My best friend. Lost. And gonna vote republi-CON again next year. I'm certain of it. Even Obama's nailing bin Laden (which she LOVED, because she knew people who were killed on 9/11) doesn't carry any weight with her anymore, although she was quite gleeful and triumphant after it happened.
It just breaks my heart.
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