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originalpckelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 06:14 PM Original message |
Marriage equality is one thing that should not be up for debate. |
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dkf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 06:20 PM Response to Original message |
1. You've got it backwards. States should be in the business of civil unions not marriage. |
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originalpckelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 06:22 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. Yeah, whatever. |
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nashville_brook (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 06:25 PM Response to Reply #3 |
4. precisely. |
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Blecht (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:08 PM Response to Reply #3 |
55. The ignore function here is your friend |
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nichomachus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 06:28 PM Response to Reply #1 |
6. Says who? |
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JackBeck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 06:36 PM Response to Reply #1 |
8. No, civil marriage has nothing to do with religious marriage. |
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dkf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 07:01 PM Response to Reply #8 |
17. As an agnostic/atheist I am offended that there needs to be this extra person |
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JackBeck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 07:21 PM Response to Reply #17 |
19. I'm confused. |
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originalpckelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 08:20 PM Response to Reply #17 |
26. Ever heard of a justice of the peace? |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 10:37 PM Response to Reply #17 |
32. You don't need that at all. |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-11 07:42 AM Response to Reply #17 |
88. This "extra person" is simply a witness with the authority to certify the license. |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-11 04:56 PM Response to Reply #17 |
96. A justice of the peace can legally marry a couple, no religion involved. |
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kelly1mm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 07:00 PM Response to Reply #1 |
16. That is my position as well. CU for all. Leave marriage to private groups |
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csziggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 10:46 PM Response to Reply #1 |
37. "Marriage" is established in our laws |
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David__77 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:33 PM Response to Reply #1 |
71. Um, marriage IS a civil contract. |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-11 07:22 AM Response to Reply #1 |
83. Oh for heaven's sake, do I really have to do this all again so soon? |
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kick-ass-bob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-11 10:58 AM Response to Reply #1 |
91. Unfortunately, this is water under the bridge. |
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Maven (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-11 12:43 PM Response to Reply #1 |
92. Not this shit again. |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-11 04:55 PM Response to Reply #1 |
95. No, it certainly is not. |
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Not Me (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 06:21 PM Response to Original message |
2. When I hear the talk of extending "religious objections" |
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Harmony Blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 06:44 PM Response to Reply #2 |
12. They should change it to call it a civil union license. |
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eShirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-11 06:25 AM Response to Reply #12 |
81. or the religious could start referring to their ceremony as "Holy Matrimony" |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 06:28 PM Response to Original message |
5. k&r |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 06:29 PM Response to Original message |
7. K&R |
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TriMera (885 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 06:41 PM Response to Original message |
9. K&R. n/t |
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NYC_SKP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 06:41 PM Response to Original message |
10. K/R (nt) |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 06:43 PM Response to Original message |
11. I support marriage equality. |
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Harmony Blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 06:48 PM Response to Reply #11 |
14. I agree |
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originalpckelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 08:19 PM Response to Reply #11 |
25. As I said above: why now? |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 10:57 PM Response to Reply #25 |
47. Because changing the laws concerning civil unions/marriage is on the agenda now. |
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Unvanguard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:20 PM Response to Reply #11 |
64. Religious people do not own marriage. I don't want to give it to them. n/t |
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HockeyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 06:47 PM Response to Original message |
13. When did marriage morph into something religious? |
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Harmony Blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 06:58 PM Response to Reply #13 |
15. Christian fundamentalism has risen since that time |
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HockeyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 07:11 PM Response to Reply #15 |
18. People are really clueless what exactly marriage is |
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Zenlitened (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 07:22 PM Response to Original message |
20. Beautifully said: |
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johnnypneumatic (461 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 07:25 PM Response to Original message |
21. civil unions are separate and unequal |
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JackBeck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 07:29 PM Response to Reply #21 |
22. Almost every state that had civil unions has moved on to marriage equality. |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 10:30 PM Response to Reply #21 |
30. Some religious organizations do have 'divorces' |
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PoliticAverse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 07:37 PM Response to Original message |
23. The purpose of debate is to convince people of your position. |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-11 07:40 AM Response to Reply #23 |
87. Sadly, that is not why interracial marriage became legal. |
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PoliticAverse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-11 10:54 AM Response to Reply #87 |
90. You can't take the decision out of context... |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 07:40 PM Response to Original message |
24. well I think you are backwards on that |
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originalpckelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 08:25 PM Response to Reply #24 |
27. Actually, it is for your own benefit. |
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Unvanguard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 10:47 PM Response to Reply #24 |
38. You're contradicting yourself. |
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susanr516 (823 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 09:47 PM Response to Original message |
28. Marriage equality, NOW nt |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 10:24 PM Response to Original message |
29. Please let me get on the record |
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originalpckelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 10:33 PM Response to Reply #29 |
31. The rights won't keep us from getting bullied, bashed and killed. |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 10:37 PM Response to Reply #31 |
33. If you think that government putting a label on you |
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originalpckelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 10:43 PM Response to Reply #33 |
35. True, but when the government makes the law based upon irrational hate... |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 10:53 PM Response to Reply #35 |
44. And that's what we got when full marriage equality 'threatened' the nation |
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originalpckelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 10:57 PM Response to Reply #44 |
46. Are you high? Remember that whole not being able to do it by law? |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:25 PM Response to Reply #46 |
67. I cannot defend anything that was done in the days of Stonewall |
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justiceischeap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-11 07:01 AM Response to Reply #67 |
82. Was there a step for interracial marriages? |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-11 05:18 PM Response to Reply #82 |
98. There was not |
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Unvanguard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 10:41 PM Response to Reply #29 |
34. Marriage is a social institution, not just a collection of legal rights. |
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originalpckelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 10:47 PM Response to Reply #34 |
39. I just don't think they get that it's segregation we're being asked to accept. |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:02 PM Response to Reply #39 |
50. How does that segregation manifest itself? |
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originalpckelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:05 PM Response to Reply #50 |
52. When the law is segregation itself, changing the law is part of the solution to ending segregation. |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:10 PM Response to Reply #52 |
57. Again, how are you segregated, other than by social mores that are impossible to change? |
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originalpckelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:17 PM Response to Reply #57 |
62. Holy fucking shitballs. |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:23 PM Response to Reply #62 |
66. I'm trying to learn |
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Unvanguard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:06 PM Response to Reply #50 |
54. It manifests itself in one category for one group of families |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:14 PM Response to Reply #54 |
59. Yes, it's a new concept |
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Unvanguard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:16 PM Response to Reply #59 |
60. Okay, and if that works for you, great. |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:21 PM Response to Reply #60 |
65. And with all my might |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 10:49 PM Response to Reply #34 |
40. Segregation of schools by color |
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Unvanguard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 10:51 PM Response to Reply #40 |
41. I don't think same-sex marriage will end homophobia, or even combat it much. |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 10:58 PM Response to Reply #41 |
48. Can you acknowledge that it is a transitional step to equality? |
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Unvanguard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:00 PM Response to Reply #48 |
49. I would vote for civil unions at a ballot box or in a legislature. |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:06 PM Response to Reply #49 |
53. While my avatar says I'm from New York |
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originalpckelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:04 PM Response to Reply #48 |
51. I think marriages are usually getogethers. |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:16 PM Response to Reply #51 |
61. I'm sincerely glad that we have moved far beyond those days |
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originalpckelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:18 PM Response to Reply #61 |
63. Did they do that shit for people who wanted interracial marriages? |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:30 PM Response to Reply #63 |
68. In a way, they did |
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Unvanguard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:31 PM Response to Reply #68 |
70. Actually, Loving v. Virginia was decided on equal protection and due process grounds. |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:38 PM Response to Reply #70 |
73. If the Supreme Court uses those grounds |
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originalpckelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 10:53 PM Response to Reply #40 |
43. That may be true for them, but should it be true for our allies? |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:09 PM Response to Reply #43 |
56. I guess I don't get what you're asking |
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originalpckelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:14 PM Response to Reply #56 |
58. "Yeah, Blah-Blah and I have been PARTNERS for 30 years now." |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:33 PM Response to Reply #58 |
72. If a couple in a CU/DP uses the word spouse |
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TriMera (885 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:46 PM Response to Reply #72 |
76. If you don't mind, I'd like to jump in here. |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-11 06:19 AM Response to Reply #76 |
80. I thought that the law in WA had been changed |
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loyalsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:31 PM Response to Reply #34 |
69. It's way more than that |
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Unvanguard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:39 PM Response to Reply #69 |
74. I'm not sure what specifically you're referring to. |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:44 PM Response to Reply #74 |
75. If the Supreme Court struck down DOMA |
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Unvanguard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 11:46 PM Response to Reply #75 |
77. The Supreme Court would be striking down Sec. 3, not Sec. 2. |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-11 06:14 AM Response to Reply #77 |
79. I know there are a couple of cases headed to the Court |
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Unvanguard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-11 07:37 AM Response to Reply #79 |
86. No, they all challenge Sec. 3. |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-11 05:14 PM Response to Reply #86 |
97. I'm unaware of that principle |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 10:51 PM Response to Reply #29 |
42. I don't care about changing anybody's mind. I simply want my rights recognized. |
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originalpckelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 10:54 PM Response to Reply #42 |
45. Of course it did. |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-19-11 10:45 PM Response to Original message |
36. K & R |
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SwampG8r (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-11 12:02 AM Response to Original message |
78. all people should have marriage equality |
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Le Taz Hot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-11 07:27 AM Response to Original message |
84. There are certain make or break issues for me: |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-11 07:32 AM Response to Original message |
85. I'll likely be posting my July 10th sermon when I've got it completed. |
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Starry Messenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-11 07:57 AM Response to Original message |
89. I'm in Mexico City this week where Marriage Equality is the law. |
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jefferson_dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-11 01:32 PM Response to Original message |
93. K/R |
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tblue37 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-11 04:29 PM Response to Original message |
94. One among many. Fact is, NO equal rights should be up for debate. |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-11 06:10 PM Response to Original message |
99. Exact-a-fucking-mundo |
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