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FourScore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-05-10 03:14 PM
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The World Shrugs
Male Monsters -- Girl Buried Alive for Being a Girl and the World Shrugs
Peter Daou
Political consultant, former adviser to Hillary Clinton
Posted: February 5, 2010 11:14 AM


***Trigger Warning***

Guardian:

Turkish police have recovered the body of a 16-year-old girl they say was buried alive by relatives in an "honor" killing carried out as punishment for talking to boys. The girl, who has been identified only by the initials MM, was found in a sitting position with her hands tied, in a two-meter hole dug under a chicken pen outside her home in Kahta, in the south-eastern province of Adiyaman. ... Media reports said the father had told relatives he was unhappy that his daughter - one of nine children - had male friends. The grandfather is said to have beaten her for having relations with the opposite sex. A postmortem examination revealed large amounts of soil in her lungs and stomach, indicating that she had been alive and conscious while being buried. Her body showed no signs of bruising.
http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2010/feb/04/girl-buried-alive-turkey


First, let me say this: the brutalization of women and girls cuts across all religious and cultural boundaries, so this isn't just about dis-'honor' killings, though few things are more heinous than a father murdering his daughter (after dispassionately discussing it with other family members). It's about the things males do to females and will continue to do unless the outcry is loud enough that the world begins to take notice.

In a December post, I made a painfully easy prediction: women would have another horrible decade. I gave a few examples.

Like this:

Denis Mukwege, a Congolese gynecologist, cannot bear to listen to the stories his patients tell him anymore. Every day, 10 new women and girls who have been raped show up at his hospital. Many have been so sadistically attacked from the inside out, butchered by bayonets and assaulted with chunks of wood, that their reproductive and digestive systems are beyond repair. "We don't know why these rapes are happening, but one thing is clear," said Dr. Mukwege, who works in South Kivu Province, the epicenter of Congo's rape epidemic. "They are done to destroy women."


And this:

13-year old Aisha Ibrahim Duhulow was stoned to death in Somalia by insurgents because she was raped. Reports indicate that she was raped by three men while traveling by foot to visit her grandmother in Mogadishu. When she went to the authorities to report the crime, they accused her of adultery and sentenced her to death. Aisha was forced into a hole in a stadium of 1,000 onlookers as 50 men buried her up to the neck and cast stones at her until she died. A witness who spoke to the BBC's Today programme said she had been crying and had to be forced into a hole before the stoning, reported to have taken place in a football stadium. ... She said: 'I'm not going, I'm not going. Don't kill me, don't kill me.' "A few minutes later more than 50 men tried to stone her." The witness said people crowding round to see the execution said it was "awful".


And there's so much more...

SNIP

...Sometimes I feel like we were all born into an alternate universe, a psychotic, twisted, perverted version of what life should be. Our existence is marked by unimaginable violence, hideous acts of evil against the most innocent among us. It's like living in a perpetual horror movie.

Setting aside the existential conundrum, one thing I know for certain: we can't stop jumping up and down, screaming at the top of our lungs, donating money to organizations that help women, telling our friends and families, doing everything in our power to stop these male monsters from continuing their savagery against women and girls.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/peter-daou/male-monsters---girl-buri_b_450959.html
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Mari333 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-05-10 03:16 PM
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1. women are hated all over the world
been living with that meme all my life. finally realized that anyone who hates me for being a woman, actually hates themselves. so they arent worth my time or energy.
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timeforpeace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-05-10 03:39 PM
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5. Somewhat more viciously and terminally in the Muslim world.
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Mari333 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-05-10 03:53 PM
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10. I have been studying misogyny all my life
Its fascinating. It started when I was a little girl and was told by a priest I could NEVER be a priest. when I asked him why, he told me that girls were not as divine as boys in Gods eyes.
That pissed me off so much I went into full tilt boogie for 50 yrs attempting to understand.
I get it now. Its insecure dominators who hate the nurturing aspect of themselves, projecting their own self loathing on others.
homophobes and misogynists are in every religion, but it wasnt always that way if you read ancient mythology.
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leftstreet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-05-10 03:18 PM
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2. How can the world 'shrug' when the world doesn't even know about this?
These stories aren't exactly on the nightly news
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Oregone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-05-10 03:19 PM
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3. Why does this shit surprise people anymore?
I'm more surprised they didn't cut her nose off first.

Humans suck
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grantcart Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-05-10 03:24 PM
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4. k and r
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femrap Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-05-10 03:40 PM
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6. The sadistic Evil of this
world is practically beyond one's imagination. And yet so much of it is supported and encouraged by organized religions.

Hatred of women is everywhere...look at he US and the huge backlog of DNA rape kits. Rape could be reduced by a very large degree if there were the political will to do so.

I recently read that Internet Pronography (misspelled on purpose so as not to attract more sadistic evil things) makes more $$$ than Google, IBM, Microsoft, Yahoo and COMBINED. (From "Empire of Illusion" by Chris Hedges). He has a entire chapter devoted to pron and its horrid effects on our 'culture.'

There are days where I believe the only answer is to arm the women for self-defense. Gunpowder did level the playing field.

And one last thing....Michael Vick and his treatment of dogs got more response from our 'culture' than the gang rapes of hundreds of girls under the age of 12.

Look in the mirror, dudes. You are your brother's keeper.
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T Wolf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-05-10 03:42 PM
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7. There, they bury their daughters alive. Here, their fathers date them and rape them. A
fundie is a fundie, no matter what variety.
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4_TN_TITANS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-05-10 03:45 PM
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8. How sick...
If my youngest daughter wasn't allowed to socialize with boys she wouldn't have many friends, as she doesn't fit in with girls very well. It's hard to believe how much of the world is centuries behind the curve as far as the evolution of society.
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DemoTex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-05-10 03:45 PM
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9. Makes me want to reconsider my beliefs in heaven and hell.
The girl, MM - heaven

The perps, her "loving" family - damnation to hell
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