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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 03:37 PM Original message |
who would take their 14 yr old daughter to monterrey mexico to live for 2 months |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 03:38 PM Response to Original message |
1. where is the mother? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 03:40 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. oh... the mother is horrible. nah, the mother isnt in the cards |
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karlrschneider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 03:40 PM Response to Original message |
3. No more dangerous in general than any other large city. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 03:45 PM Response to Reply #3 |
7. that wasnt the data i received doing a search of the city. this is why i am posting |
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karlrschneider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:03 PM Response to Reply #7 |
16. There are parts of it I avoid but the danger is exaggerated. |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 03:40 PM Response to Original message |
4. where's the mother..? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 03:46 PM Response to Reply #4 |
8. the mother is out of the picture. she has no rights. as much as we dont like to believe |
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DesertRat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 03:44 PM Response to Original message |
5. I've been to Monterrey and liked it very much |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 03:48 PM Response to Reply #5 |
9. when did you go? really i would like to be assured of that, but |
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DesertRat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 03:53 PM Response to Reply #9 |
12. I went in 2005. I used the same caution that I would in any large city |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 03:56 PM Response to Reply #12 |
14. cool to know. and that wasnt that long ago. thanks. i appreciate |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 03:44 PM Response to Original message |
6. I doubt if Monterrey is any more dangerous than anywhere else |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 03:48 PM Response to Original message |
10. I would because of the learning experience. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 03:54 PM Response to Reply #10 |
13. lol lol clark,... you are soooo off. i really dont want to raise her. not my job |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:26 PM Response to Reply #13 |
24. OK - I'll take you at your word. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:29 PM Response to Reply #24 |
27. hse is my niece. i have kids of my own. nope,.... |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:53 PM Response to Reply #27 |
41. Oh, trust me! I know. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:59 PM Response to Reply #41 |
43. bah hahahah. that is funny. i hear ya. at least niece isnt a girlie girl |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 05:16 PM Response to Reply #43 |
46. My husband wanted a little girl. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 05:21 PM Response to Reply #46 |
47. that is what i tell my husband. the opportunity he misses not having a daughter |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:25 PM Response to Reply #10 |
23. We're talking about a 14 year old girl alone in a hotel all day |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:31 PM Response to Reply #23 |
30. i THOUGHT so.... geez. lol lol llol. thanks. not like i WANT to be in this position |
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mitchtv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 03:10 PM Response to Reply #10 |
80. No Colombia? |
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AnnInLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 03:50 PM Response to Original message |
11. Overreaction? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:00 PM Response to Reply #11 |
15. could be overreaction hence my post about those that have experienced the area |
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Marie26 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:04 PM Response to Original message |
17. No more than anywhere else |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:10 PM Response to Original message |
18. Monterey is a lovely place and no more dangerous than |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:14 PM Response to Reply #18 |
19. sounds like you have been there. good to know. now on the dollar |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:18 PM Response to Original message |
20. Think of what she has to gain! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:24 PM Response to Reply #20 |
22. no, i would not say the same thing about those areas, but then i would not have |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:28 PM Response to Reply #20 |
26. The brother's not talking about a private school, he's homeschooling her. |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:50 PM Response to Reply #26 |
39. No, he needs to hire someone to accompany her then |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:52 PM Response to Reply #39 |
40. That's what I think, too, Warpy. No 14 year old is going to sit inside alone |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 05:01 PM Response to Reply #40 |
44. ya..... lol lol |
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mitchtv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 03:16 PM Response to Reply #26 |
83. you got that right |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:22 PM Response to Original message |
21. All your brother needs to do is hire a competent professional to supervise your neice. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:28 PM Response to Reply #21 |
25. lots of assumption. i have taken care of his daughter for years |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:31 PM Response to Reply #25 |
29. I hear you, seabeyond. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:36 PM Response to Reply #29 |
31. sittin in a hotel studying on her own. but then |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:46 PM Response to Reply #31 |
36. Is she isolated in a hotel in Houston, too? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:55 PM Response to Reply #36 |
42. oh pn you dont know. i have to decide today to make the offer |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 09:00 PM Response to Reply #25 |
61. Sorry, I guess I misunderstood what you meant by stopping him from taking her to Mexico. |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:30 PM Response to Original message |
28. I LOVE Monterrey! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:39 PM Response to Reply #28 |
33. no she doesnt speak the language |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 06:10 PM Response to Reply #33 |
48. I didn't think |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 06:22 PM Response to Reply #48 |
49. thanks, |
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DesertRat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 06:36 PM Response to Reply #28 |
50. My teenaged daughter had a similar "boob" incident |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 03:08 PM Response to Reply #50 |
79. It was unnerving... |
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DesertRat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 03:18 PM Response to Reply #79 |
85. Thanks, yes she was |
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Igel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:37 PM Response to Original message |
32. Tell him to find a nanny for the day. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:40 PM Response to Reply #32 |
34. he has talked about that at the beginning. but didnt talk about it last call |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:50 PM Response to Reply #34 |
37. I suspect that you're right. He may be trying to manipulate you. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 05:02 PM Response to Reply #37 |
45. so |
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Nay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:43 PM Response to Original message |
35. The company your brother works for must have other employees' |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 04:50 PM Response to Reply #35 |
38. i tried talking him into getting her back into school. |
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bklyncowgirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 06:56 PM Response to Original message |
51. It sounds like a great opportunity for her IF puts her into a school where she can make friends |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 07:09 PM Response to Reply #51 |
52. Most Mexicans are terrific people |
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bklyncowgirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 08:27 PM Response to Reply #52 |
56. The Mayan people are pretty special. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 08:49 PM Response to Reply #56 |
59. he is a traveler always has been i see always wll be. that is something |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 07:22 PM Response to Original message |
53. I'm going to get in trouble, but I thought this thread was asking... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 07:25 PM Response to Reply #53 |
54. funny. i did ask the gal at the wendy's window last night if she wanted two boys |
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mzteris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 08:09 PM Response to Original message |
55. Question for clarification - |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 08:46 PM Response to Reply #55 |
57. she is a good kid. smart, kind. the work is the same with what i see as most kids |
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DesertRat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 01:49 PM Response to Reply #57 |
64. One of the reasons that she doesn't care about hygiene |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 02:13 PM Response to Reply #64 |
65. lol desert rat i hear ya as that making an impact. and maybe that is what |
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DesertRat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 02:42 PM Response to Reply #65 |
75. It's called natural consequences |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 02:43 PM Response to Reply #75 |
76. i think you might be onto something. might try my own and not nag to |
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Hippo_Tron (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 04:28 PM Response to Reply #57 |
91. She's right about that age where some kids get hygiene some don't |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 04:47 PM Response to Reply #91 |
92. kids end up at my house. i do the running around. they spend the night here |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 09:16 PM Response to Reply #55 |
62. i re read my post. that is probably what you are referring to |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 08:47 PM Response to Original message |
58. I think it is actually a nice place |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 08:50 PM Response to Reply #58 |
60. good. everyone is making me feel much better about backing off n/t |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-14-07 11:05 PM Response to Original message |
63. UPDATE: a friend sent sites, doesnt sound like major U.S. cities. sounds scary |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 02:20 PM Response to Reply #63 |
69. We were in Mexico City when this alert came through the |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 02:24 PM Response to Reply #69 |
71. i dont think in responding my my concerns warrants your disdain |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 02:27 PM Response to Reply #71 |
73. Should I use any smileys? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 02:32 PM Response to Reply #73 |
74. because it is necessary to question if 14 yr old niece will get involved with a |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 02:49 PM Response to Reply #74 |
77. For the record 14 year olds have, American 14 year olds |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 03:00 PM Response to Reply #77 |
78. well, again from the tone of your post, you pretty much have a whole scenerio |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 03:11 PM Response to Reply #78 |
81. Let me repeat it slowly |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 03:16 PM Response to Reply #81 |
82. i thanked you for info a good three posts ago. yet still |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 03:19 PM Response to Reply #82 |
87. I guess we need smileys (nt) |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 02:17 PM Response to Original message |
66. Monterry is no more dangerous for the average person |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 02:19 PM Response to Reply #66 |
67. She |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 02:20 PM Response to Reply #66 |
68. read post #63. people are being awfully snarky because i am concerned |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 02:24 PM Response to Reply #68 |
70. this is not snarkiness |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 02:25 PM Response to Reply #70 |
72. thank you for the info |
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midnight (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 03:16 PM Response to Original message |
84. This sounds so frustrating. I just want to ask you to step in and |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 03:18 PM Response to Reply #84 |
86. gosh for years i said let me be the aunt. |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 03:28 PM Response to Original message |
88. I'm sorry but it sounds like your brother is a lousy parent |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 04:00 PM Response to Original message |
89. Monterrey is the hometown of an old acquaintance of mine--- |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-15-07 04:04 PM Response to Reply #89 |
90. i will make that suggestion elehhhhna |
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