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madmunchie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 03:21 PM
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My son is home from Iraq!

He was there for 1 year as a private contractor. He had been in the military before that, the Air Force. He wanted to make some extra money and start to build a life for himself. I, of course, was beside myself. I thought that he was crazy. He has watched politics for the last several years and is painfully aware of how much garbage is in what we call our Government. Part of him wanted to really know what was going on.

For the last year he has come home for R&R 2 times. Each time I picked him up at the airport I was so relieved and each time he left I was beside myself…but you just suck it up and live your life. I have been so antiwar that it isn’t even funny. I hate this administration and all other administrations that practice in deception and use our soldiers like GI Joes. We the people have too little voice and the corporations with many of the dough boys in Washington have too much.

He, thank God, was in the northern area of Iraq, where there wasn’t the all out bloody hell like there is in Bagdad. He heard bombs – car bombs – go off almost daily. He was under a table while mortars and RPGS were flying in. He worked on an Army base. He worked 12 hours a day 7 days a week. When you talk about all of the OT hours that he worked, he really on was paid 14.00+ an hour. He told me that the Government was giving quite a bit more to the corporation for each worker, but of course the workers didn’t get the full share of what was stated in the contracts.

Towards the end of his time there, there was an influx on new contractors, even though there was no work for them. When I asked him why this would happen, he said they don’t care if there isn’t enough work, they will hire as many as the Government will give them money to hire because they make money for all of those hires. He said that the last couple of weeks, he was looking for something to do. He told his supervisor that he had come there to work, not to look for work. He wanted to finish out his contract, which he now has.

So, now he is home and again, rebuilding his life. I cannot tell you the relief that I feel.


He has shared some of the stories with me. Like how women, in general live in fear, because their husbands can kill them and got maybe a month of jail time. How an Iraqi friend of his left Iraq 2 times got caught, put in jail and sent back to Iraq, all that he was doing was trying to find a job to be able to provide for his family. I commented that many have fled Iraq, He answered, yeah, the wealthy can leave, the poor are sent back. He told me the guy looked like he lost over 50 lbs during this time. He told me how the soldiers were giving “candy bars” to the kids on the other side of the fence, the little boys were in front taking the bars, the little girls in back watching. One little girl came to the fence and took a bar from the soldier, a little boy walked up to her and all out clobbered her for doing that. My son is quite stoic. I could see the hurt in his eyes. He told me how they live with a few hours of electricity a day and how most of the Iraqis don’t have a car to go to work. He told about one Iraqi that lied to his father about where he was working. He could not tell his father that he was working for the Americans. He told me that the Iraqis get about $100.00 a week for working. He told me about another one of his Iraqi friends that he had to sneak to and from work because he might get attacked if it were known that he was working with the Americans.

My heart breaks for what goes on there. I feel deep shame to be part of a country that has done this, but selfishly, I am glad that my son is home and that he is safe. And I hope and pray that somehow someway we can end all of this suffering and needless bloodshed.
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proud patriot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 03:25 PM
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1. I'm glad he is home safe
:)
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lancdem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 03:31 PM
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11. So am I
:)
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laylah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 03:25 PM
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2. ...
:hug: I am so glad to hear your son is home safely. May his recovery from this nightmare be swift and complete. Give him my thanks for his sacrifices and my apologies he was sent so far from home based on lies and manipulations.

Jenn
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 03:25 PM
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3. Thanks for the insight. Glad he is home.n/t
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poverlay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 03:26 PM
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4. Congratulations. Thanks for the post and... hang in there. n/t
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Tesla Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 03:26 PM
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5. I am so glad he is home safe.....
we need his voice!!
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etherealtruth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 03:26 PM
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6. Joy
His safe return is, indeed, good news!
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saltpoint Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 03:26 PM
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7. Tell him we are happy he's home and tell him thank you.
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Imalittleteapot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 03:28 PM
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8. HIs contract is up. Good. Keep that guy home.
My nephew is doing his second tour (Army) for one year. Two from his unit were killed last week. We are so worried.

I am so happy that you have your son back. Sounds like he's a sensitive guy, really caring about the Iraqi people. You done good Mom.
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madmunchie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 03:30 PM
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10. I pray for your nephew and for all over there. I hope that they all can
come back safe and soon.!
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Robbien Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 04:08 PM
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24. My nephew is there also
His third.

It is always so good to share in the joy and relief of those whose loved ones come home.

Great news madmunchie! Give him an extra hug from us.

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Cabcere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 05:19 PM
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31. My thoughts and prayers
are with your nephew and his unit. :hug:
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villager Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 03:30 PM
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9. Glad he is back, and may he continue to be a strong witness for truth
Peace to you and yours...
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madmunchie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 03:31 PM
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12. Thank you, and that is a good description of him. "A strong witness for
truth", that so much describes who he is.
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JohnnyLib2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 03:32 PM
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13. So glad for him and you.

Our neighbor, a decorated veteran, lost his contractor son in Iraq last year. Anguish.
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madmunchie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 03:34 PM
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14. I cringe everytime I hear of another dying in Iraq, they are so young
and hopeful and innocent. Why so many Americans have stood by a let this happen saddens me.
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niyad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 03:46 PM
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15. I am so glad he is home safe. may all of them come home safely, and SOON
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welshTerrier2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 03:52 PM
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16. that's great news he's home ...
now lock that kid in the basement ...
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madmunchie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 04:03 PM
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19. I wish I could!
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shireen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 04:01 PM
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17. i'm so glad he's home safe and sound!
What a sad experience. Things are bad enough, but I didn't realize that women were treated so badly in the north. Is this Shiite or Sunni territory?

The way women are treated in some parts of the world ... it makes me so angry :grr: And sad :cry:



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madmunchie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 04:03 PM
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20. Kurdish
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UrbScotty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 04:03 PM
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18. There is nothing selfish about being glad your son is home safe.
It's part of being a parent.

:hug:
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Sailor for Warner Donating Member (615 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 04:05 PM
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21. Congrats
Who was he contracting for?
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dogday Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 04:06 PM
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22. I know you are one happy mom and I know
this because I was in your position 2 months ago when my Son who is a soldier, returned home after serving one year in Iraq. Hold him close to you....
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Cabcere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 04:57 PM
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28. Glad to hear
about your son's safe return as well, dogday. :patriot: :hug:
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Zhade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 04:06 PM
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23. I'm glad he's home safe.
I'll keep my unfavorable opinion about his mercenary work to myself.

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SusanaMontana41 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 08:46 PM
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34. Me too
Couldn't have said both better myself.

Glad he's home. Hope he speaks out.
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hashibabba Donating Member (894 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 04:44 PM
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25. I'm so glad your son is home. It must be quite a relief!
I don't think you're selfish at all.
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Cabcere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 04:50 PM
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26. I'm so glad
that your son is safely home! :hug: I can't even imagine having to deal with some of the things he has dealt with over there - just reading what he told you about what he has seen is breaking my heart. :cry: I don't think you're the least bit selfish for being happy to have him home and safe - in fact, I can't imagine that anyone in your position would feel differently. :hug: Once again, I am very happy for you and your son, and my thoughts and prayers are still with those who are still suffering in Iraq and elsewhere.
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oasis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 04:55 PM
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27. Make your son some blueberry pancakes this Sunday and keep him from
going back.

p.s.It was good to hear about the positives of his homecoming.:hi:
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ronnykmarshall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 04:58 PM
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29. Send him our love.
And welcome him home!

:loveya:
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jody Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 04:59 PM
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30. I'm so glad your son is home safe.
Edited on Sat Jan-27-07 05:00 PM by jody
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Sweet Freedom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 08:00 PM
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32. I share your joy!
I remember after my brother came home, I realized I hadn't taken a normal breath since he'd been gone. It was great to exhale!

:hug:
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roamer65 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 08:42 PM
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33. Glad he got out before the Iran war.
It's going to get very ugly over there after the attack on Iran.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 09:01 PM
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35. Glad he is home and hoping he recovers soon.
Thank you for posting the info about him and life in Iraq.
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Alamom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 09:05 PM
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36. Good News. I am happy for you & your family. n/t
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Solly Mack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 09:06 PM
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37. I'm glad he's home. Hugs to you both!!!
((((madmunchie))))
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aaronbees Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 09:39 PM
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38. Home where he belongs...
Glad he's safe. That's sobering news about contractors having nothing to do ... really amazing given all that has to be done there.

:hug:
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madmunchie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-28-07 07:23 PM
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39. THANKS to all for all of your kind and loving words.
The words expressed hear have made me feel so good about a situation that I already feel great about.

I didn't realize the heaviness on me until he was home for good. All of a sudden a feeling of lightness enveloped me. I don't have any major worries looming over my head. He always made it sound like it was all work, no real problems and just a way for him to realize some of his dreams. A friend of his went there to save money to go to school to become a doctor, another went there to pay off school loans. Imagine, he was in Bagdad area as a firefighter no less! None of them enjoyed their time there, yet they felt compelled to complete their contracts. A great many of them are former military and they realize that in the military, there really was no money to be made and that there wasn't a choice over major decisions in their lives. I don't believe that these young men were so much afraid of the danger of a war area, but more to the fact that they didn't have any choice about anything in the military and that they wouldn't be able to really build much to a comfortable future as well. They wanted a say so in their lives for what they were willing to offer. Sounds like a fair request to me.

With my son, I know a big part was wanting to know first hand what it was like there. What was going on and why. He told me a long time ago that he felt it was "ethnic cleansing" of sorts going on. He told me a couple of months ago that there was a beefing up of troop numbers, then right before he got home they were sending troops out of the base...to Bagdad, leaving the Base vulnerable to penetration. Which had just happened a week before he left. He has tried to explain to some people that Bush really isn't even a Republican, he has tried to explain that there is a difference. It amazes him and me how some people are so superfically educated when it comes to what is going on in politics today.

I hope that he does talk to some people and share with them what is really going on in our country as well as in Iraq.

Lets all pray for the end of this awful bloodshed.

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NightOwwl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-28-07 07:42 PM
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40. I'm so happy for you! n/t
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-28-07 07:43 PM
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41. *hugs*
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mourningdove92 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-28-07 07:46 PM
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42. I am so glad he is home safe.
I am just getting ready to make my own post here about my son coming home, so, believe me, I know how you feel. :hug:
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madmunchie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-28-07 08:56 PM
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44. Its really hard to explain how it is to know that someone that you
love is so close to danger all of the time and so far away. I am blessed to have him come home safe and sound. I am so glad that you to will know the peace and comfort that I now have.

We are truly blessed.
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lovuian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-28-07 08:18 PM
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43. woohoo
:woohoo:
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