. . . in the deathless days before she died

[bigtree]

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SOMETIMES, when after spirited debate
Of letters or affairs, in thought I go
Smiling unto myself, and all aglow
With some immediate purpose, and elate
As if my little, trivial scheme were great,
And what I would so were already so:
Suddenly I think of her that died, and know,
Whatever friendly or unfriendly fate
Befall me in my hope or in my pride,
It is all nothing but a mockery,
And nothing can be what it used to be,
When I could bid my happy life abide,
And build on earth for perpetuity,
Then, in the deathless days before she died.

--William Dean Howells


In loving memory of my dynamic and beautiful sister. To Maria, who suddenly died a little before Christmas last year at the young age of 48 and to all of the loved ones lost.

[nc4bo]

1. I'm so sorry. Remember her well and carry her with you always.

My little sis died in '84 at the age of 19. She was my BEST friend and I still miss her dearly and I know how you feel.

:hug:

[question everything]

2. With deep condolences

I hope her memories will bring you peace and solace.

[scorpiogirl]

3. My condolences to you.

My brother died at the early age of 33 just a few days before Christmas 2002. His passing was also sudden and unexpected. Thank you for sharing the poem.

[roguevalley]

4. I am sorry for this. That poem is so nice. May your sister know

peace and safety in the summerlands and may she make sure you know about it. Bless you this season.

[northofdenali]

5. How beautiful a tribute -

and thank you.