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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:29 PM Original message |
Okay this is no knock on Sen. Obama, but I HATE it when men put their hands behind women... |
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The Velveteen Ocelot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:30 PM Response to Original message |
1. Doesn't bother me at all. |
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Lifetimedem (652 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 10:08 AM Response to Reply #1 |
118. me either |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:30 PM Response to Original message |
2. Let's see - |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:31 PM Original message |
I'm rooting for them! |
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Kerrytravelers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:30 PM Response to Original message |
3. Only speaking for myself, I don't mind it. I never saw it as sexist. |
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glowing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:30 PM Response to Original message |
4. He's a gentleman who respects women.. Hillary is a classy woman. |
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liberalmuse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:30 PM Response to Original message |
5. No problem here. n/t |
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napi21 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:31 PM Response to Original message |
6. I feel he was showing a sign of inclusiveness. We're together, |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:32 PM Response to Reply #6 |
9. No, I'm not seeing anything and I like your statement about... |
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tblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:31 PM Response to Original message |
7. Oh, Mookie, please. |
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fed_up_mother (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:32 PM Response to Original message |
8. No problem for me. |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:34 PM Response to Reply #8 |
15. Well, I open doors for everyone, and I like it when men walk on the curb side of the sidewalk... |
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JonLP24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:43 PM Response to Reply #15 |
34. Me too |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:08 PM Response to Reply #34 |
48. Good for you! |
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kristopher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 09:28 AM Response to Reply #8 |
111. As an ESL teacher in Japan |
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1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:33 PM Response to Original message |
10. a "man" opened a door for me once... i kicked him in the balls. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:35 PM Response to Reply #10 |
17. Deleted message |
1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:38 PM Response to Reply #17 |
25. ok. just don't be opening my doors... n/t. |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:41 PM Response to Reply #10 |
33. I had a woman stop at the door of a 7-11 the other day waited and looked at me when I got there. |
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Texasgal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 11:20 AM Response to Reply #33 |
128. Gee, I'll bet your a blast at parties. |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 11:44 AM Response to Reply #128 |
135. Yes, "gee." The woman is either too stupid to work a door, or she is a sexist pig. |
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ieoeja (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 02:30 PM Response to Reply #33 |
155. Ha! I have been known to say things like that. |
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RollWithIt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 07:46 PM Response to Reply #33 |
169. Well hey, at least he didn't stand behind her staring at her ass and playing with his wedding ring.. |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 11:57 AM Response to Reply #169 |
180. Welllllllll.................. |
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ThoughtCriminal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:30 PM Response to Reply #10 |
66. So every day I go to the Post Office |
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tburnsten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 11:21 AM Response to Reply #66 |
129. Post of the thread! |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 02:48 AM Response to Reply #10 |
85. He certainly knew who you were afterward. That's an insane level of hostility. nt |
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youthere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 07:08 AM Response to Reply #85 |
102. pssst... |
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DRoseDARs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 03:00 AM Response to Reply #10 |
86. If I had been in his position, I'd've called the cops on you and pressed charges. nt |
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youthere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 07:09 AM Response to Reply #86 |
103. psst.... |
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cliffordu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 03:01 AM Response to Reply #10 |
88. Same here. Except it was reversed |
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On the Road (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 07:01 AM Response to Reply #10 |
100. A "Man"? |
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youthere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 07:06 AM Response to Reply #10 |
101. Ohmigawd... |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 10:09 AM Response to Reply #10 |
119. People just naturally open the door for people here |
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ieoeja (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 02:32 PM Response to Reply #119 |
157. psst... |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 12:05 PM Response to Reply #10 |
138. LOL! n/t |
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RollWithIt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 07:44 PM Response to Reply #10 |
168. LOL |
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realitythink (354 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:33 PM Response to Original message |
11. WTF are you talking about? |
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Mojorabbit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:33 PM Response to Original message |
12. Does not bother me |
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Pirate Smile (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:33 PM Response to Original message |
13. He is being polite and courteous. If he wasn't, he would get slammed. |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:29 PM Response to Reply #13 |
65. No, that's not what we're talking about here... |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:34 PM Response to Original message |
14. I'm Liberal, but I love a bit of courtly manners! |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:34 PM Response to Reply #14 |
16. I agree! |
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fed_up_mother (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:35 PM Response to Reply #14 |
20. Me, too. Our society could use a few more folks with good manners. We've become so crude & vulgar. |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:12 PM Response to Reply #20 |
53. People are really floored when you use good manners nowadays... |
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FedUpWithIt All (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:35 PM Response to Original message |
18. I like it. It does not take anything away from me as a person. n/t |
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undergroundpanther (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:35 PM Response to Original message |
19. It annoys me |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:40 PM Response to Reply #19 |
28. Only if it's done by a man who is neither husband nor boyfriend |
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magdalena (354 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 05:31 AM Response to Reply #28 |
95. This is exactly how I feel. |
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undergroundpanther (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 06:46 PM Response to Reply #28 |
182. In crowds I hold the person's hand |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:41 PM Response to Reply #19 |
32. Thank you. |
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dhpgetsit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:57 PM Response to Reply #19 |
43. I never gave it any thought before. |
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Two Americas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:33 PM Response to Reply #19 |
68. agreed |
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Smarmie Doofus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:36 PM Response to Original message |
21. An odd example, I must say: |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:09 PM Response to Reply #21 |
51. Good one! |
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JonLP24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:37 PM Response to Original message |
22. It is probaly subconscious rather then a deliberate move |
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iamjoy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:45 PM Response to Reply #22 |
35. No, You're Right |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:37 PM Response to Original message |
23. I don't have a problem with it. |
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Jed Dilligan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:41 PM Response to Reply #23 |
31. When I moved from Northern to Southern CA as a teen, |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:11 PM Response to Reply #31 |
52. I was raised in a military and English family, so I had manners drilled into me... |
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shanti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:19 PM Response to Reply #52 |
57. i've not heard of that connection |
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ContinentalOp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 12:34 AM Response to Reply #57 |
76. You just don't notice that everyone thinks you're completely rude and obnoxious. |
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Jed Dilligan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 11:34 AM Response to Reply #57 |
133. I guess it depends on your social circle. |
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Shakespeare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 11:45 AM Response to Reply #133 |
136. I've found quite the opposite to be true. |
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tburnsten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 11:30 AM Response to Reply #31 |
132. I know what you mean |
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amitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:37 PM Response to Original message |
24. I appreciate it. It is a gracious sign of respect and kindness. n/t |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:38 PM Response to Original message |
26. I get what you are saying. |
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FedUpWithIt All (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:48 PM Response to Reply #26 |
39. I said that i appreciate it but i also DO those things myself. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 05:38 AM Response to Reply #39 |
96. If you understand that some people |
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FedUpWithIt All (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 09:35 AM Response to Reply #96 |
113. But the behavior as described above makes ME comfortable. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 06:02 PM Response to Reply #113 |
160. Given a conflict |
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FedUpWithIt All (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 06:51 PM Response to Reply #160 |
164. I have PTSD. I have mentioned it on these boards before. |
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Jed Dilligan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:39 PM Response to Original message |
27. I do it all the time. I'm six-seven and my girl is five-three. |
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Mind_your_head (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:40 PM Response to Original message |
29. OP, please describe what you think would be appropriate in its place. eom |
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MichaelHarris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:41 PM Response to Original message |
30. I do |
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NNN0LHI (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:45 PM Response to Original message |
36. Ever walked up on to a stage before? |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:46 PM Response to Original message |
37. I don't think I quite understand. Men touch women and guide them around? |
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tazkcmo (668 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:47 PM Response to Original message |
38. I do it |
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Stinky The Clown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:51 PM Response to Original message |
40. Mookie, I generally agree with you, but we somewhat depart on this. |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:12 PM Response to Reply #40 |
54. Yes, I do too. |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
41. depends on the people and the situation |
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mrcheerful (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:03 PM Response to Reply #41 |
46. The custom started with long dresses, because dresses were so large |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:08 PM Response to Reply #46 |
49. Interesting!! I didn't know that...nt |
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susanna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:52 PM Response to Reply #46 |
73. Now that is an interesting thing to know. Thanks! n/t |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 01:12 AM Response to Reply #46 |
79. Still true nowadays, when women wear high heels. |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 07:41 AM Response to Reply #79 |
107. For that reason I know a gentleman always stands on the lower step of an escalator. |
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NV Whino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:53 PM Response to Original message |
42. Why is this even a story? |
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EC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 10:58 PM Response to Original message |
44. This used to be known as chivalry, |
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Peacetrain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:02 PM Response to Original message |
45. No offense, but is this really a "concern"? |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:09 PM Response to Reply #45 |
50. No, it's not a concern. I was just wondering how folks here think about it.nt |
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Peacetrain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:25 PM Response to Reply #50 |
59. Okie Doke!! I think it is just a nice way of saying "you go first" |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:05 PM Response to Original message |
47. I think it's gentlemanly and gracious. |
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jumptheshadow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 06:10 AM Response to Reply #47 |
97. Agreed |
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susanna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:13 PM Response to Original message |
55. My husband does it in certain situations. |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:27 PM Response to Reply #55 |
61. You do it to him too. that's the first we've gotten of that, but it makes sense in a crowd... |
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susanna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:41 PM Response to Reply #61 |
71. Exactly - DH and I chatted about it just now. |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 01:38 AM Response to Reply #55 |
81. your husband OK... |
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susanna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 02:18 AM Response to Reply #81 |
83. We'll have to be on different sides of this, I guess. |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 04:56 AM Response to Reply #83 |
94. I said it was obviously a show of friendliness |
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susanna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 11:20 PM Response to Reply #94 |
185. I can understand what you're saying. |
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Beregond2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:14 PM Response to Original message |
56. Really, doesn't one's reaction to things like this depend entirely |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:29 PM Response to Reply #56 |
63. Now, that's interesting. nt |
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boppers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:23 PM Response to Original message |
58. Trained (male) Dancer here. |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:28 PM Response to Reply #58 |
62. I know the waltz was the lambada of its day becasue no one leads and no one follows-scandal!!!! |
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boppers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:44 PM Response to Reply #62 |
72. ..and yet professional waltz/lambada dancers still use cues. |
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JanusAscending (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:26 PM Response to Original message |
60. Damn sure ! Hell , I wish he were steering me around!! |
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faithfulcitizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 09:58 AM Response to Reply #60 |
116. Me too! I think it's sexy in a chivalrous way. You know she likes it too. ;) |
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ProudToBeBlueInRhody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:29 PM Response to Original message |
64. Cindy has to steer Johnny around |
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AnAnonymousDemocrat (177 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:30 PM Response to Original message |
67. I think it can be a sign of affection, and I think it's nice. It doesn't bother me at all. n/t |
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fourvahl (147 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:38 PM Response to Original message |
69. It depends |
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Lord Helmet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:40 PM Response to Original message |
70. he's an old school gentleman |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-20-08 11:59 PM Response to Reply #70 |
74. Usually. |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 12:06 AM Response to Original message |
75. i like it when my boyfriend does that |
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drexel dave (452 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 12:42 AM Response to Original message |
77. MUCH bigger fish to fry |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 01:07 AM Response to Original message |
78. Depends on the man, depends on the relationship! |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 01:48 AM Response to Reply #78 |
82. I thought of Angela Merkel too.... |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 01:45 PM Response to Reply #82 |
145. Interesting about Palin! |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 01:24 AM Response to Original message |
80. Maybe it's the New Yorker in me, but |
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FrenchieCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 02:36 AM Response to Original message |
84. He does it to everyone, no matter the gender. |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 03:01 AM Response to Original message |
87. It looks courtly to me. Also, in contrast to McCain-Palin, it says he's in charge.... |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 03:15 AM Response to Original message |
89. he does that with men also |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 07:39 AM Response to Reply #89 |
106. Yes, he does. nt |
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Faux pas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 03:38 AM Response to Original message |
90. Would you like it better if he'd shoved her out of the way and |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 07:38 AM Response to Reply #90 |
105. No one is saying that. |
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Faux pas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 09:54 AM Response to Reply #105 |
115. Sorry, my lame attempt at being facetious. |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 01:44 PM Response to Reply #115 |
144. And it was probably 2am when I read it - no harm, no foul! |
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Waiting For Everyman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 04:07 AM Response to Original message |
91. It's nice. |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 04:21 AM Response to Original message |
92. Men are damned if they do, and damned if they don't. |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 06:31 AM Response to Reply #92 |
177. I agree with you on how everybody should hold doors for the next person... |
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muriel_volestrangler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 04:29 AM Response to Original message |
93. Aussie PMs get in trouble for doing it with the Queen, so it isn't seem as 'polite' by some |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 07:34 AM Response to Reply #93 |
104. I forgot all about that kerfuffle! Yes, I remember that one. You don't 'guide' the Queen! nt |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 06:57 AM Response to Original message |
98. Neutral. |
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youthere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 07:00 AM Response to Original message |
99. I like it when my husband does that for me. |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 07:44 AM Response to Original message |
108. It's something men do to each other too. It's not sexist |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 07:44 AM Response to Original message |
109. I don't mind if my husband does it, but I'd probably flip out if some random guy did it |
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Tutankhamun (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 09:22 AM Response to Original message |
110. I like to push the door shut in front of them. |
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AirmensMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 09:34 AM Response to Original message |
112. Obama can guide me anytime he wants to. |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 09:40 AM Response to Original message |
114. I was at the Orlando rally yesterday and saw Obama with his hand on |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 10:01 AM Response to Original message |
117. I gotta say that there are some odd ducks around here |
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tilsammans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 10:11 AM Response to Original message |
120. It's a warm and protective gesture |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 11:03 AM Response to Reply #120 |
124. one person's "friendliness and caring" could be |
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marlakay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 10:12 AM Response to Original message |
121. I was raised by my parents to have old fashioned |
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ensho (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 10:55 AM Response to Original message |
122. I hate it - have always hated it. |
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SmokingJacket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 11:00 AM Response to Original message |
123. I hate it when men do that to me; I step away. |
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JNelson6563 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 11:05 AM Response to Original message |
125. Doesn't bother me. |
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msanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 11:12 AM Response to Original message |
126. I saw a clip of this--she was looking up and waving to the crowd, |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 11:16 AM Response to Original message |
127. I like it when men walk a respectful five paces behind me |
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cherokeeprogressive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 12:14 PM Response to Reply #127 |
139. Silly Sally is sooooo silly. She thinks men walk behind her out of respect. |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 01:43 PM Response to Reply #139 |
143. I haven't heard a Silly Sally joke in YEARS! |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 01:47 PM Response to Reply #143 |
146. I've never heard one. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 11:24 AM Response to Original message |
130. it really bothers me a lot but i'm not in politics, yanno? |
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tburnsten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 11:28 AM Response to Original message |
131. An ex-girlfriend used to freak out on me |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 01:49 PM Response to Reply #131 |
147. Your ex girlfriend had an attitude problem... |
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tburnsten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 02:11 PM Response to Reply #147 |
150. Sorry then |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 02:16 PM Response to Reply #150 |
151. I'm sorry that was your introduction to the thread! |
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tburnsten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 10:23 AM Response to Reply #151 |
178. Well I'm married now |
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justiceischeap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 11:39 AM Response to Original message |
134. I think there should be more chivalry than less |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 12:33 PM Response to Reply #134 |
140. Chivalry: a man's inclination to protect a woman from every man but himself. n/t |
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goddess40 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 02:33 PM Response to Reply #140 |
158. I like that |
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Infinite Hope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 11:50 AM Response to Original message |
137. Get a grip. n/t |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 01:50 PM Response to Reply #137 |
148. No, read the thread and there is general agreement Sen. Obama is being courteous... |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 12:43 PM Response to Original message |
141. In my experience, more girls like boys treating them like girls than not... |
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NuttyFluffers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 01:35 PM Response to Original message |
142. i've seen this as a sexually neutral bit of intimacy and kindness... |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 02:23 PM Response to Reply #142 |
153. Hmm, hetero older woman here. I would consider doing this with my husband and |
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prayin4rain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 01:51 PM Response to Original message |
149. I certainly don't like it in a professional environment |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 02:20 PM Response to Original message |
152. It's good manners |
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yankeeinlouisiana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 02:24 PM Response to Original message |
154. Don't get social graces and sexism mixed up. |
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renie408 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 06:15 PM Response to Reply #154 |
163. Exactly. n/t |
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loyalsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 02:31 PM Response to Original message |
156. I don't like it |
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ieoeja (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 02:36 PM Response to Original message |
159. Did it for a blind guy once asking directions to the stairs. He got PISSED! |
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A HERETIC I AM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 06:10 PM Response to Original message |
161. I agree. The last thing we need more of in this world is.... |
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renie408 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 06:13 PM Response to Original message |
162. Doesn't bother me. I like having doors opened, chairs pulled out, and help with jackets. |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 07:40 PM Response to Reply #162 |
167. I like help with my jacket, and men are often surprised when I help them too-social reciprocity. nt |
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Azlady (889 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 07:10 PM Response to Original message |
165. I see nothing wrong... I |
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MadMaddie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 07:20 PM Response to Original message |
166. I like it. |
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WorseBeforeBetter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 09:17 PM Response to Reply #166 |
172. Me too. |
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RollWithIt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 07:47 PM Response to Original message |
170. Well hey, at least he didn't stand behind her staring at her ass and playing with his wedding ring.. |
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annunakigohome (223 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 08:46 PM Response to Original message |
171. "Old World Manners?!" Better than New World Boorishness |
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Catherine Vincent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 09:29 PM Response to Original message |
173. Obama can put his hands on me anytime he pleases. |
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cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 09:31 PM Response to Original message |
174. That's not steering...it's showing affection, IMO. |
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volstork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 09:31 PM Response to Original message |
175. "Ron and Nancy were tops at this." |
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carlyhippy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-21-08 10:11 PM Response to Original message |
176. I grew up in the south, I would be offended if he didn't do this |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 03:54 PM Response to Reply #176 |
181. With our elders it's a whole different thing. I, too, would have thanked him profusely, BUT... |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 10:26 AM Response to Original message |
179. Any person who does not have explicit permission to touch me and chooses to touch me |
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Geek_Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 06:59 PM Response to Original message |
183. I don't like being touched. But I do like having the door opened for me |
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annabanana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:03 PM Response to Original message |
184. It's fine with me... I also kind of like it when a man lends me his |
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