From Roger Moore of the Orlando Sentinel:
I Now Pronounce You Chuck & Larry is a pretend-to-be-gay firefighter's farce that is entirely too stupid and crude to tote its alleged "message" about tolerance through the flames to safety.
The tricky mission Adam Sandler, his writers and his go-to director, Dennis Dugan (Problem Child, Big Daddy, Benchwarmers and other classics), set out on is to take an audience moronic enough to roar at the gay slur that rhymes with "maggot" to a place where they're a little ashamed of ever having said that word.
But the movie is written and played in a way that rhymes-with-maggot is set up to get the big, bigoted laugh every time.
Pronounce presumes to puncture stereotypes even as it is trotting out every mincing, leather-clad sissy this side of Fire Island to reinforce those stereotypes.
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Sandler's ad-libs have the sting of an actor worried about his image and how this will play to his core audience. There's no newlywed kissing, thank you. A party is "homo-palooza" because "Gay guys know how to dance good. It's the law, or something."
Even the message is botched, utterly, in a finale that no one should have to face sober.
"There's nothing worse than pretending to be something you're not." In Sandler's case, that pretense would be "tolerant" and "hip."
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