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Danmel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 05:46 PM
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My dad's in the ICU
He's 89 years old and in CHF. Fortunately he is in Columbia Presbyterian, one of the best heart centers in the country. They are going to do an angioplasty in the morning. If you pray, pray for him- he's a great guy= a good Dem, totally with it too. I am so distraught right now- and to top it off I have a terrible cold and I can't even go see him- the last thing I want to do is give him a cold that would likely become pneumonia . His name is Abe. Thanks for your good wishes, karma, prayer., whatever.
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Kerrytravelers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 05:47 PM
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1. My thoughts are with your family.
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ray of light Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 05:47 PM
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2. I will certainly pray for him. Best wishes!!!
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lse7581011 Donating Member (948 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 05:48 PM
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3. In My Thoughts And Prayers! n/t
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librechik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 05:48 PM
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4. get better--both of you!
blessings
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annarbor Donating Member (543 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 05:48 PM
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5. Sending thoughts and prayers your way...
Wishing him nothing but the best.

Ann Arbor
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babylonsister Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 05:49 PM
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6. Danmel, I'll be thinking of Abe, sending healing wishes for you both! nt
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Beaverhausen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 05:49 PM
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7. Good thoughts and prayers for Abe - and for you
:hug:
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Cabcere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 05:50 PM
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8. Hugs to you and your dad, Danmel
I'll be thinking about you both. :hug: Keep us posted, OK? :pals:
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durrrty libby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 05:51 PM
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9. Hope he makes it through ok. You could ask one of the nurses for a mask
for you to wear. I'm sure your Dad is afraid and having a visit from you

could do wonders.
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tularetom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 05:52 PM
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10. Get well Abe
My thoughts are with ya.
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Snotcicles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 05:52 PM
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11. My best wishes for Abe, and you also Danmel
I'm not much for praying but you have my sincere hope for the best.
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rockymountaindem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 05:53 PM
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12. Best wishes n/t
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Nite Owl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 06:08 PM
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13. Prayers and all good thoughts
to your Dad and you and the family. Take care of yourself and get well so you can see him soon. It is a great hospital.
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AlinPA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 06:08 PM
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14. I know first hand what he is going through. Hang in there Abe and Danmel.
I'm thinking positive thoughts about you both.
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LeftishBrit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 06:09 PM
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15. My very best thoughts!!!
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Totally Committed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 06:11 PM
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16. Done.
I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts.

TC
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ayeshahaqqiqa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 06:12 PM
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17. Prayers sent to Abe
Let us know how he does.
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Rick Myers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 06:12 PM
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18. All good karma to you, Abe....
May your dad be well! Lots of DUers send their best!!!

:hug:
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Solly Mack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 06:13 PM
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19. Warm vibes, Danmel.
Sending you both healing thoughts.

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Mz Pip Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 06:14 PM
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20. Sending good wishes your way
:loveya:

Mz Pip
:dem:
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 06:15 PM
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21. Best wishes to him, you, and the family. Wear a mask.
Go see him and wear a mask.
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onenote Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 06:16 PM
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22. My dad, age 92, just spent seven weeks in ICU and is doing great.
Edited on Thu Jun-21-07 06:16 PM by onenote
I'm with you all the way. Hang in there. These old guys are tough birds!
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MissWaverly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 06:16 PM
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23. A good Dem, fought the good fight all these years
God bless Abe and his loving family.

:-)
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liberalnurse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 06:45 PM
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24. You got it.
Abe is in my prayers. O8) :hug:
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H2O Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 06:46 PM
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25. Prayers
for your father and your family.
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malaise Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 06:49 PM
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26. Forget the cold
wear a mask to keep your germs away. Go to your dad. I wish him all the best. Tell him we need him to stick around to watch Bush and Cheney taken out in chains.
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DesertRat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 06:49 PM
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27. I'll say prayers for healing for Abe.
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Minimus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 06:51 PM
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28. Thinking of you and your dad - I wish him well.
:hug:
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 06:51 PM
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29. Good vibes going out for Abe *hugs*
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calimary Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 06:51 PM
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30. You got 'em - good wishes, karma, prayer, and whatever.
Time to light the green candle! Green - for healing, health, renewal. It's the color of spring, even though we're officially in summer now. We will be thinking of you - AND him.

:hug:
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Zoigal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 06:52 PM
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31. Sending my best

wishes to your DAd, you and your family.
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smirkymonkey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 08:38 PM
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32. My thoughs and good wishes are with you and your dad, Abe.
You're right - Columbia Presbyterian is one of the best hospitals in the country, definitely in New York. He's in good hands and hopefully all our good wishes, prayers, vibes, etc. will help him pull through! (and you too!) :hug:

Kick and recommmended!
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Rosemary2205 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 08:48 PM
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33. kick for Abe.
Hugs and best wishes to YOU. Not being able to get your hands on dear old dad at a time like this is painful in itself. :hug:
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tammywammy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 08:48 PM
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34. hugs
You'll be in my prayers :hug:
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 08:50 PM
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35. My Deepest Prayers Go Out To You Both.
:hug:
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 08:50 PM
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36. Thoughts and wishes for you dad and you.
:hug:
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Spazito Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 08:53 PM
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37. I will be thinking about your dad and thinking only good, positive
thoughts.

:hug:
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sellitman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 08:59 PM
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38. Get well Abe
It sounds like you have a wonderful person rooting for you. In some ways you are lucky.

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cal04 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 08:59 PM
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39. my prayers and thoughts are with you
and your dad
:hug:
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 09:01 PM
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40. thinking good thoughts for Danmel and Abe
yes indeed
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lonestarnot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 09:01 PM
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41. I will pray for Abe and you.
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bonito Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 09:03 PM
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42. Hang in there Danmel my best to both of you.
:hug: :hi:
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Infomaniac Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 09:06 PM
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43. Thoughts and prayers and healing vibes for you both.
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FloridaJudy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 09:10 PM
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44. Adding both of you to my prayers
May you be healthy
May you be happy
May you grow in understanding.
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BattyDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 09:22 PM
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45. Hugs and good thoughts to you and your father.
:hug: for Danmel
:hug: for Abe
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bear425 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 10:17 PM
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46. My best to your dad and you. I hope he will be well and
up and around soon. Take care of yourself. :hug:
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Sacajawea Donating Member (797 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 10:43 PM
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47. Abe & Danmel....thinking of you both....he's in great hands at CP.
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Stinky The Clown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 11:14 PM
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48. If the angioplasty is considered curative, that's good .......
Recovery is a matter of hours. The harder part is the emotional aftermath. Abe's gunna need ya.

I'm a few years younger, but went through the same thing just a few months ago. What was terrifying is now near-routine. It is amazing what they can do for us.
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Mark_Pogue Donating Member (274 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-21-07 11:21 PM
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49. My heart goes out to you!
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-22-07 12:11 AM
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50. God bless you, Abe, and God bless your family. We need you. Stay
and see how it ends, my friend. Your family needs you and so does your country.
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magellan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-22-07 12:52 AM
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51. My best and most positive wishes to you and your dad
:hug:
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NanceGreggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-22-07 05:00 AM
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52. Hang in there, Abe ...
... the entire DU Family is with you and yours!
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Eurobabe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-22-07 05:09 AM
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53. Vibes sent to Abe, get well soon- BOTH of you
so you can go see your Dad!! :hug:
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northernsoul Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-22-07 08:18 AM
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54. Hang tough, Abe!
you've got people rooting for you in Minnesota
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Javaman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-22-07 09:56 AM
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55. I miss my dad, so I will pray for yours. Get well Abe. :) nt
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Danmel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-22-07 04:11 PM
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56. Thanks for all the good wishes
They didn't get him from the local hospital to Columbia till later than we thought, so he has not had the procedure yet, but he was flirting with the female ambulance crew on the way uptown.

My dad is a holocaust survivor- he was in Auschwitz and a bunch of other camps, so he is every sense of the word a survivor. I am concerned because his pressure is unstable- low, not high, but still not that great. In the meantime, I m running a fever, so mask or no mask. I'm not going anywhere near him- the last thing I want to do is make things worse.

He says he wants to be around to watch the inauguration in 2009- so keep pulling for him in whatever way you're comfortable with. If any of you are Jewish and go to synagogue. his hebrew name is Avraham ben Shprintza. Thanks again for all of your good wishes- I will let you know how he's doing.

Deb

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jillan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-22-07 04:25 PM
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57. Deb - I have just been there
:hug:
My advice to you is to have someone there by his side as often as possible.
The truth is, is that the nurses are busy. When they see he is loved, they will give him more care.
I was told that often by both the doctors and nurses, that me being there made them do a better job.

And don't be surprised if he goes a little wacko from the anesthia.(spelling?) My dad was talking to the ceiling after his operation at 87, they told me that the drugs they use to put them under really take a toll on them at that age. It took my dad about a month to get out of 'the crazies'.



Much Mozel!
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Beaverhausen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-22-07 05:15 PM
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59. Sending more good thoughts his way
:hug:
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-22-07 04:27 PM
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58. Sending out my best vibes.
Hope all goes well. :hug:
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