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BOSSHOG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 12:00 PM Original message |
Would you want your daughter to marry an ex-gay man? |
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Avalux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 12:02 PM Response to Original message |
1. That makes me ill. |
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Kikosexy2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 12:08 PM Response to Reply #1 |
13. Yes... |
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King Coal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 11:30 AM Response to Reply #13 |
81. I would say only if he can prove he's not gay anymore. |
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Montauk6 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 12:03 PM Response to Original message |
2. I'd be more worried that she'd be getting involved with a fundie. |
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Kber (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 12:06 PM Response to Reply #2 |
6. No shit! |
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smartvoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 02:06 PM Response to Reply #2 |
39. Yep. nt |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 12:03 PM Response to Original message |
3. Is there such a thing as "ex-gay"? |
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BushOut06 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 12:05 PM Response to Reply #3 |
4. Well, he could be bisexual |
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Arkansas Granny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 12:24 PM Response to Reply #4 |
19. That's kind of what I think. I personally don't know anyone who |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 12:44 PM Response to Reply #4 |
23. Yeah, but thats jusr semantics!!!! |
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cfield (648 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 04:30 PM Response to Reply #23 |
48. Sort of...maybe |
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BushOut06 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 04:56 PM Response to Reply #23 |
49. Not really |
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foreigncorrespondent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 06:07 PM Response to Reply #23 |
54. Oh God! |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 02:32 PM Response to Reply #54 |
63. What you said, FC |
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UncleSepp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 02:29 PM Response to Reply #23 |
61. Your experience as a gay "bisexual" may not extend to everyone |
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catmother (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 01:23 PM Response to Reply #4 |
32. back in my wild days (the late 60's) i worked in a beauty salon in |
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annabanana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 01:27 PM Response to Reply #32 |
33. Oh hell no.. |
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catmother (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 01:41 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. that was my feeling. i don't know why but i seem to always |
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Arkansas Granny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 01:42 PM Response to Reply #32 |
35. I exposed my children to many gay and lesbian friends of mine. |
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Yollam (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 02:02 PM Response to Reply #4 |
37. Exactly. Ex-gay is bullshit. |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 02:36 PM Response to Reply #37 |
42. I got burned once... |
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Yollam (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 02:41 PM Response to Reply #42 |
43. That's terrible. |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 11:57 AM Response to Reply #42 |
82. Ouch. I can relate to a lot of your post. |
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oldcoot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 03:39 PM Response to Reply #37 |
46. These particular Christians do not live in the real world |
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liberalitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 12:07 PM Response to Reply #3 |
8. I think that's kind of like being ex-white or ex-black.... |
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Raster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 12:16 PM Response to Reply #3 |
17. No, there is not. I am gay. I *KNOW* that men who are gay are |
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FreedomAngel82 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 01:07 PM Response to Reply #3 |
26. I don't know |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 02:31 PM Response to Reply #3 |
62. No. |
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liberalitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 12:06 PM Response to Original message |
5. No, but I wouldn't mind if my gay son married a CURRENTLY gay man... |
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Kber (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 12:07 PM Response to Reply #5 |
7. You'd have to arm wrestle for it. |
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liberalitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 12:07 PM Response to Reply #7 |
11. Is that in Emily Post? |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 02:43 PM Response to Reply #5 |
44. go for mother of the groom...that way you are only obligated for the |
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liberalitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 02:13 PM Response to Reply #44 |
59. and the flowers.... flowers too.... and they have to be stunning! |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 02:34 PM Response to Reply #44 |
64. And the tux rentals... |
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Tyler Durden (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 12:07 PM Response to Original message |
9. Non-sequiter/Non compos mentos. |
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rpgamerd00d (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 12:07 PM Response to Original message |
10. I would object to my daughter marrying something that doesnt exist |
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SmokingJacket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 05:41 PM Response to Reply #10 |
52. That sign in your sigline: I've seen it 1000 times and never noticed |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 12:08 PM Response to Original message |
12. A co-worker of mine dated a guy who didn't tell her he was gay and just |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 12:11 PM Response to Original message |
14. I guess that's the adult version of "imaginary friend." |
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DinahMoeHum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 12:14 PM Response to Original message |
15. If G*d didn't make gays and lesbians, there wouldn't be any. |
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FreedomAngel82 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 01:08 PM Response to Reply #15 |
27. I like that one |
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Raster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 03:22 PM Response to Reply #27 |
45. That is, if you believe the bible-myth horseshit, which I don't. |
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catmother (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 12:14 PM Response to Original message |
16. it happened to my friend's mother. she had no idea when she |
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Boomer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 12:56 PM Response to Reply #16 |
24. Naivete or denial? |
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catmother (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 01:13 PM Response to Reply #24 |
29. well my friend's mothers case was about 40 years ago, things |
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Boomer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 10:46 PM Response to Reply #29 |
57. Talk about a river in Egypt |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 01:15 PM Response to Reply #24 |
30. That romance writer had a bestseller based on it, though. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 02:39 PM Response to Reply #30 |
66. Terry McMillan isn't a romance writer |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 04:19 PM Response to Reply #66 |
73. I know, but isn't she the unnamed author? |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 10:09 AM Response to Reply #73 |
77. "Stella Got Her Groove Back" |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 10:39 AM Response to Reply #77 |
79. ... |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 11:28 AM Response to Reply #79 |
80. Sorry! I think the snow is mesmerizing me this morning... |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 02:37 PM Response to Reply #24 |
65. You're talking about Terry McMillan, who isn't a romance writer |
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Boomer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 09:46 AM Response to Reply #65 |
75. Ooops. Thanks for the clarification |
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catmother (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 12:17 PM Response to Original message |
18. i had a gay friend who asked me to marry him. it would be a |
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Devlzown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 12:27 PM Response to Original message |
20. That is hilarious. |
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Sequoia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 12:28 PM Response to Original message |
21. I'm reminded of another movie: Pillow Talk |
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MissMarple (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 02:30 PM Response to Reply #21 |
41. Here's link to snopes re Nabors and Hudson. |
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lakeguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 12:32 PM Response to Original message |
22. i'd rather have her marry a gay man. |
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FreedomAngel82 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 01:05 PM Response to Original message |
25. This part really got me |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 01:08 PM Response to Original message |
28. there is no such thing as an ex-gay man or woman. n/t |
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EC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 01:20 PM Response to Original message |
31. no such thing, so now, he would obviously be a shyster.. |
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minerva50 (229 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 01:59 PM Response to Original message |
36. My Grandmother told my mom that her dad was gay. |
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porphyrian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 02:05 PM Response to Original message |
38. I reject the premise of the question. |
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robcon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 02:14 PM Response to Original message |
40. I have a niece and a friend who are 'ex-gay' |
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Yollam (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 03:45 PM Response to Reply #40 |
47. The key word is "act". |
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Duncan Grant (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 06:32 PM Response to Reply #40 |
55. What is a gay lifestyle? |
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foreigncorrespondent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 04:36 AM Response to Reply #55 |
58. Funny!!! |
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Duncan Grant (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 02:41 PM Response to Reply #58 |
67. It's all so Robin Leach: "Lifestyles of the gay and fabulous!" |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 02:44 PM Response to Reply #58 |
71. I DO own a chainsaw... |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 02:43 PM Response to Reply #55 |
70. I was gonna ask that, too, but am tired of trying |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 02:42 PM Response to Reply #40 |
68. Your niece isn't an ex-lesbian |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 04:26 PM Response to Reply #40 |
74. I think that falls under the "sexual experimentation" umbrella and not |
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Boomer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 10:03 AM Response to Reply #40 |
76. Women's sexuality doesn't equate with men's |
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Zhade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 05:30 PM Response to Original message |
50. Um, that's not possible, since being gay's not a choice. |
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kathy14-0 (62 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 05:31 PM Response to Original message |
51. Is there an appropriate response to that |
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karlrschneider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 06:01 PM Response to Original message |
53. Over the last couple decades, I've learned about at least 4 of my oldest |
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AngryOldDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-10-06 06:40 PM Response to Original message |
56. Sure, why not? |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 02:46 PM Response to Reply #56 |
72. People cannot change their sexual orientation n/t |
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Jara sang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 02:17 PM Response to Original message |
60. Isn't "ex-gay" merely bi-sexual? |
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frustrated_lefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 02:42 PM Response to Original message |
69. Perish the thought.... |
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savemefromdumbya (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 10:12 AM Response to Original message |
78. There's no such thing as ex gay - you don't suddenly lose it! |
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