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Dover Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 06:09 AM
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21 Days into the Afterlife
Piero Calvi-Pariseetti
21 Days into the Afterlife

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I believe that most of us think of death as a black curtain that falls and puts an end to everything — our being alive, our being conscious, our having feelings and memories. Basically like falling into a dreamless sleep, or slipping into the drugs‐induced coma of anesthesia before surgery. Only, having died, we won’t wake up — that’s the end of it, just blackness and nothingness. Well, that is definitely not what spirit communicators consistently tell us. For instance, renowned psychologist Karl Novotny, who had died in Germany in 1965, came through his long time friend Grete Schroeder, who had sudden-ly and unexpectedly shown automatic writing capabilities, with lessons of psychology and psychiatry, subjects totally unknown to the medium, an accountant by profession. Asked by Schroeder to describe the process of dying, Novotny said:

It was a spring day, and I was in my country residence, where I rarely go. My health was poor, but I didn’t feel the need to stay in bed — on the contrary, I decided to go on a walk with some friends. It was a beautiful evening. Suddenly, I felt very tired and I thought I could not go on. I made an effort to continue, and, all of a sudden, I felt healthy and rested. I quickened my pace, and took in the evening fresh air: I hadn’t felt that good in a long time. What happened? Suddenly, I could feel neither tiredness nor the usual laboured breath. I went back towards the friends, who had stopped, and what did I see? I saw myself lying on the ground! My friends were agitated and desperate; one ran to find a doctor. I got near my ‘other self’ lying on the ground and I looked for the heartbeat: there was no doubt — I was dead! But I felt more alive than ever! I tried to talk to my friends, but they didn’t even look at me or bother answering. So I got angry and went away, but an instant later I was back. It wasn’t a pretty sight: all my friends, in tears, who were not taking any notice of me; and that dead body, identical to me, al-though I felt very good. My dog
was yapping in agitation and could not decide whether to come to me or to the other one lying on the ground. . . . When all formalities were dealt with and my body was put in a coffin I understood I was really dead. I couldn’t be-lieve it! I went to see my colleagues at the University, but they could not see me either and didn’t answer to my calls. What should I do? I went up the hill where Grete lives. I saw her, alone and sad, but she couldn’t see me either. I had to surrender to the truth. The very moment I realized I had left the material world, I saw my mother coming to me with an overjoyed expression on her face and telling me I was in the afterlife.



Nearly one hundred years earlier, the spirit of one Jim Nolan — died during a typhoid epidemic during the American secession war, speaking through medium Mrs. Hollis explained the transition process in very similar terms:

It was like waking up from a sleep, only with a feeling of bewilderment. I didn’t feel ill anymore, and that surprised me greatly. I had a feeling something weird had happened, but couldn’t understand exactly what. My body was lying on the bed of the field hospital and I could see it. I told myself ‘What a weird phenomenon!’ I look around and saw three of my comrades who were killed in the trench and whom I had buried myself. And still, they were there, in front of me! I looked at them with astonishment and one of them greeted me saying: ‘Hello Jim, welcome to the spirit world’. I was deeply shaken and said ‘My God, what are you saying? I’m not dead. . . !’ ‘No’, said the other, ‘you are more alive than before. But you are in the spirit world. All you have to do to convince yourself is look at your body’.

These two quotes describe a pattern common to any other description of the process of death I have read, and — if you remember — are practically identical to what the NDErs say about their experience: separation of consciousness from the body, awareness of all that goes on in the surrounding environment, impossibility to interact with the physi-cal world and, very often, encounter with deceased loved ones, friends or other spiri-tual guides. I could bring to you literally dozens of similar quotes, but believe me — the substance is exactly the same: death, as far as we are told, is not a curtain followed by black nothingness...cont'd

http://anti-matters.org/ojs/index.php/antimatters/article/view/102/95


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This is from an old post of mine:


The Book of the Dead, The Book of Breathings are two sources that come immediately to mind if you want to start with the Egyptian "funerary" literature (as well as the Book of Passing Through Eternity and the Book of Transformtions), which among other things talk about what to expect 'on the other side'.

"The next world is represented after the pattern of this one," wrote de Horrack, "the life of the spirit is so to speak just another step in human existence, the activities of the elect being analogous to those of men on earth. It is not an existence dedicated to eternal contemplation, a passive state of bliss, but an active and work-filled life, yet one, to make use of M. Chabas's expression, endowed with infinitely vaster scope than this one."

These were thought to be the teachings of Thoth (Hermes). Might read, The Way of Hermes: New Translations of The Corpus Hermeticum....

And of course the roots of Tarot and Astrology are about the cyclic death that is inevitable within each cycle (study of Pluto and Saturn in astrology, for instance, and the Death card in Tarot for their deeper meanings).

Western culture lives in fear of death because it is so out of touch with natural cycles and its own divine nature.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_topic&forum=245&topic_id=8266





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I Have A Dream Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 07:22 AM
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1. I love this subject.
Edited on Wed Dec-03-08 07:24 AM by I Have A Dream
It's unfortunate that there's such grief around death because I think that the most difficult thing for people who have passed away is dealing with the grief of their loved ones. Of course, the grief is understandable since the person is no longer available to their loved ones in corporeal form, but it's my understanding that our grief really can make the transition take longer.

We've discussed "Journey of Souls" by Dr. Michael Newton many times in this forum, but I'll mention it here again for anyone new who is interested in this subject.

Thanks for posting this, Dover.

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MorningGlow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 11:25 AM
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2. I think I mentioned in another thread here
that I was reading Echo Bodine's new book, Look for the Good and You'll Find God. One of the stories she tells is when she asked her spirit guides to show her what the afterlife was like. She thought she'd get a vision, but she actually nearly died. She went to the other side while her friends were in a panic. She saw all kinds of wonderful scenes, including seeing Jesus teaching in a field, a place where famous musicians were still playing music (together), etc. She also said that the angel who was her guide explained that different people with different views reside in different areas.

Now, I firmly believe pretty much the same thing--what I've read elsewhere, that you see what you expect to see--that everyone's version of the afterlife is different, and as you gain more understanding of the other side, your "reality" changes. So if a Christian expects to be greeted by angels and Jesus, that's what the person will experience. Unfortunately some people who believe in hell will experience that until they are guided to the reality that they don't need punishment. Some people who don't believe in the afterlife are shocked and are eased into understanding where they are gradually in a kind of "hospital" or recovery area. Echo talked about that as well, and said that people who committed suicide were pretty pissed off that they succeeded.

It was a really interesting part of the book. She was sent back to her body abruptly because it was starting to have trouble existing without her spirit. Then it took her days to recover, and she had that feeling that other people who cross over and come back have--that they want to go home now that they know how wonderful it is.
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lildreamer316 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-09-08 02:55 PM
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23. I was reading this to husband
out loud,and he said "Of all the things I've lost; I miss my life the most."
Sorry, had to laugh.
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LaurenG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 05:00 PM
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3. I love synchronicity and I was just reading in one of Barbara Hand Clow's books
that the biggest hurdle we have to get over is our fear of death.

Thanks Dover.
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I Have A Dream Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 05:28 PM
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4. I'm not personally afraid to die. The only thing that concerns me...
is the way the people who care about me are affected.

I really don't remember ever being afraid to die. (...but I don't want it to hurt. :()

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Kind of Blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-04-08 12:27 AM
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5. Thanks very much for posting, Dover. This subject haunts me
every single day of my life, since 1997 when I had an NDE during surgery to remove a tumor. I'm shaking as I write this because it's not what happened during the experience but when I came back that bothers me. Shortly after leaving the body and looking at my sad dead face and watching my anxious doctors and nurses, I was visited by a beautiful Lady who seemed made of pure white light and I knew she loves me. She was incredibly familiar but I couldn't remember how I know her. Though I asked her name many times, she only responded with more love and smiles saying, "Are you ready to go?"

Then I was in the waiting room and my family knew something was wrong. They held each other worrying intensely, and get this, I didn't care. This detachment unsettles me to my core and I've tried but can't find a way to reconcile it with daily life. I ask myself, how can I possibly love them with all my being and not give a darn when all is said and done?

The other thing that bothers me is that I was once very outgoing and had tons of friends, had showings in art galleries, and did a lot of traveling. After coming back I have absolutely no desire to be around others and would, if I could, be a hermit living in a cave. My husband calls me the Cave Woman. I just don't like being around other people any more, other than those who I love. I'm totally happy to be at home working, painting, taking life as it comes. I don't think I'm depressed, but it just doesn't feel right not to be a part of the world, not to be out there sharing with other artists and people.

After seeing myself on the O.R. table, though I prepared myself beforehand, just in case, I realized why I looked sad in death. It hit me like a ton of bricks that I just let the saddest part of life get to me and suppressed it. I'd forgotten how to live in Joy. It was like remembering you forgot to unplug the iron when you leave for work. You've just got to get back and take care of the problem. Well, I've found Joy again and again it's directly from what I remembered from my time with the Lady, and I know I won't die again with a pitiful face. But I'm wondering if you've ever heard or read anything about this feeling of practically detaching from the world after NDEs? Any insight is greatly appreciated because I don't think the point of coming back is to hole up. Maybe it's just a phase but it sure is lasting a long time.:crazy:
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Nia Zuri Donating Member (576 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-04-08 12:58 AM
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7. In "embracing the light" the author mentions a similar detachment
She menitons a NDE and being aware that she would be leaving her children behind but that she realized that there is no such thing as time and that her children's lives would fly by in a twinkling of an eye and that they wouldn't be without her for long. I don't remember but it had something to do with her being dead and "outside of time" that made her aware that the loss her children would experience would be almost like a skinned knee in the scheme of things. It's been about 20 years since I read that book but that is what I remember...
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Kind of Blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-04-08 01:21 AM
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8. Thank you! I hadn't thought of NDE being outside of time.
I will have to get "Embracing The Light." It sounds like a good start in understanding this feeling.
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Cleita Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-04-08 02:08 AM
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9. Here's a website that has all kinds of information on NDEs.
http://www.near-death.com/

Maybe there is something there that can explain your experience to you better. I wish I had something more comforting to say, but since I've never experienced anything like that I'm at a loss. What I do understand is that people do come back from those experiences with profound changes in how they viewed life before.
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Kind of Blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-04-08 02:27 AM
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11. Thanks, Cleita! As soon as I finish work I'm gonna dig in.
I checked out the site years ago but am hoping there will be more experiences there now to relate to. Thanks again.
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Dover Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-04-08 02:26 AM
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10. Hi tcdq. Welcome to the ASAH forum.

What a wonderful experience to feel that divine love....:hug:

I've never had an NDE myself so can only speculate based on personal experience of a spiritual nature and my own journey. You also might look into Eckart Tolle's books, as he talks quite a
bit about detachment.

When one begins to detach from the personality or ego self and the material dualistic world,
we become detached from the emotionality of that more limited world and lose fear as well.
It's a feeling of being in but not of the world. And that detachment seems a very common
experience during NDE's as well. That sense of detachment from one's own body (though perhaps still feeling compassion without the emotionality), I would assume extends to family or friends as well from this new vantage. I don't think that detachment is devoid of love though. It's just devoid of our ego attachments. It might be considered very freeing too, yes?

An NDE experience must surely be life changing on so many levels that expecting things
to return to the old 'normal' seems unrealistic and perhaps is an attempt at some level to reject the experience because it's difficult to integrate or rectify it with the old reality. I don't know how "joyful" your life had been prior to the NDE but perhaps its significance has since deepened and taken on a new level of meaning...one that you must rediscover in new ways with people, life situations and within yourself.
And that may take some time. Ultimately it takes as long as it takes and not a second more.
Perhaps time with yourself in the cave is just what's needed for now. "Cave time" has a long historical precedence in spiritual journeying. In fact it was and is essential. If it turns into a hiding place after awhile, then it's probably time to leave that space. We often don't know how much we've shifted internally until we leave the cave and re-experience ourselves in the world. Only you can know the answers to these most intimate soul questions. Of course you cannot experience joy when you are being critical of yourself for where you are right now or by feeling guilty. Be honest with yourself about where you are and what you need and then trust the process...even if others can't quite understand. Love yourself as unconditionally as the 'beautiful lady'.
Your journey to the other side seemed to be asking you to revisit the experience of 'joy' within and without. Not a bad assignment!

I thought this NDE experience was particularly poignant, and perhaps you can identify:
http://www.near-death.com/nightingale.html

Joy!
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Dover Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-04-08 03:43 AM
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12. P.S. - I forgot to add that if you have found joy in your life
then that is an indication that you are one the right path, yes?
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Kind of Blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-04-08 04:33 AM
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14. Absolutely! The Lady was right about so many things that led right to it
and the clear path that led me here. I may sound daffy but I'm also realizing that Love and Joy are really not meant to be all locked up in one place. I've got to integrate the experience with daily life, as you say to experience it "within and without." That truly resonates with me. :)
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Kind of Blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-04-08 04:15 AM
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13. Thank you, Dover. Wow, you are correct on many counts.
Particularly on the cave experience and not fully realizing the shift until we leave it. It truly helps in knowing it is not bizarre and it's part of the process. I'm very grateful for reading Nightingale's account and going to her site. I have a feeling I'm gonna be spending some time there, as well as at neardeath.com. I'm honestly not sure when I'll leave this cave but there's no doubt the impetus to do so has been building, and hence, I guess so was the guilt. But in the meantime, I'm understanding that it is not a waste of time spent in it. It's like being reborn and having to take baby steps all over again. Sheesh! and YAY! :D I'm just so happy right now that I finally found the voice to ask the question. Thanks to the info from you, Cleita, and Scard there's a lot more to investigate.
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Dover Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-04-08 03:45 PM
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17. I'm so glad you found the courage to voice this as well.
And I'm betting there are other ASAH readers who can identify with your situation.

Your analogy of being as a child learning to walk again sounds so appropriate to your experience.
Baby steps seem like a good idea while you steady your new legs. Perhaps you can take some
brief steps outside and then retreat back for awhile until you establish a healthy
balance that works for you, simply responding intuitively to whatever beckons.
These 'outings' may also be very instructive in recognizing the changes as well as the
parts that are still in need of some deepening and further development or can simply be an exercise in holding your center out 'there'.

As you have discovered, joy and love are one and the same and cannot be compartmentalized or contained as they are a state of being that eminates out from and through us from a greater source.
And it's effortless because we are being authentically who we are.

The world needs this warmth and lightness of being.
In fact it's contagious!
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crikkett Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-04-08 12:29 PM
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15. tcdq - you said you found joy again, and in the act of being *here*
Edited on Thu Dec-04-08 12:31 PM by crikkett
you're participating in the world, and reaching out to people.

Are you beating up on yourself, are you insecure? Maybe you can venture out by doing something as simple as joining a local quilting club, and spiral out from there.

I can trace my entire (very satisfying!) social life in the place I live now to randomly answering a single ad in a newspaper for a musical studies club. All I did was pick up the local rag from my living room table and announce, "we're going to do something".

:hug: to tcdq. I'm glad you're here. Thanks for sharing your story.

(edited for spelling. sorry for my pre-coffee fuzzy eyesight)
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Kind of Blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-04-08 03:36 PM
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16. Hi, Crikkett. Thanks very much for the questions.
Definitely think I'm beating up on myself because I'm still trying to gain more clarity from the detachment from my family when I saw them in so much pain. I mean, just this Thanksgiving we're having a great time but in the back of my mind I'm thinking, you can actually just let them go without a second thought. How mean. But from Dover's and Scard's posts it's more of a compassionate detachment, knowing they will be okay and it would be more like a scar in the scheme of non-linear time. Then guilt from gaining so much from the experience and withdrawing from the outside. I've thought what's the point? But now I'm finding the cave experience is necessary and I do love it.
I guess I've been afraid to ask my Guides for clarity because I will not know how to deal with the answer of, yes, you're really mean. But it is leading to insecurity because may be people will feel I'm cold. I guess I've just answered a question - funny, I use to give 100 percent and see I'm still trying to adjust this Now to the old reality.
I joined a caucus of women artists a few years ago, and it was great but the overwhelming feelings and emotions from the group was too much; always came away feeling fragmented. So I'm thinking of volunteering in the art department at one of the middle schools as a way out. And I'm going to look up the caucus, maybe not plunge in headlong as I did before. They were a great bunch of women doing good works and giving back to the community.
:hug: back atya. This group is great! :grouphug: Thank you.
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conscious evolution Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-04-08 05:13 PM
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20. The cave
is a substitute for the cage you escaped from with your NDE.
It can be scary till you get used to be it.
Remember the line from the movie Shawshank Redemption about a charecter having become institutionalized?And how hard it was to reintergrate into society? The cave becomes our safe place while we reintergrate and come to grips with our changed perceptions of existance.
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Mnemosyne Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-07-08 09:43 PM
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21. tcdq, I need to say that the 'detachment' may actually be your interpretation of
a feeling from that realm, felt in this realm that was actually the understanding of others missions in this realm from that realm, thus causing you to feel it was 'detachment' when it really was more of an understanding than of not caring.

Does that make any sense? Not sure I explained clearly enough, but needed to say it for some reason. :shrug:

:hi:
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Kind of Blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-08-08 12:47 AM
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22. I understand what you mean :) That once in that realm, our
understanding about feelings is different and perhaps not highly charged anymore. :think: You got me thinking that when I met the Lady, not a word was spoken but the Love she generated was all encompassing and calm. But here we express it through actions, words, gestures, and expressions backed by the intensity of the emotion. I do remember now feeling sad that they were sad, but not sad enough to come back. And at the same time, all that amazing Love was not enough for me to stay There, because when I realized what I was missing (the mission, as you say), it was like having studied well for a test and being excited to take it. Thanks for your perspective 'cause it really helps juggling here, there, before, and now. :crazy:
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Kind of Blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-04-08 12:34 AM
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6. Strange, I responded directly to this post and it shows up here
But I don't know why it also shows up as an OP. Wonder what I did wrong.
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Dover Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-04-08 03:49 PM
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18. A magic trick?
Edited on Thu Dec-04-08 03:54 PM by Dover


I've never seen that double posting happen before. Kewl!
Like being two places at once.
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Kind of Blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-04-08 04:33 PM
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19. Too funny.
:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: I guess the Multidimensional Universe sensed my desperation and really got the message out there.
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