One could write all I know about Clay Aiken on a postage stamp -- still, I find these celebrity coming out stories interesting. Here are a few fan posts from
"The Clayboard":
This is a gut wrenching day for The ClayNation. Somebody wake me up, I hope its a dream.
After a sleepless night, I am back reading everyone's posts. "I love the Claymates!" They
all make sooo much sense. Me, right now, not so much. I have worked with many gays,
the nature of the hairdressing business. And Clay always fit the profile. They all could
write his story, except their not famous. I don't think he meant to lie, he was confused, not
about his preference, but, everyone was pulling him, and telling him how to handle everything.
Then it got beyond him, it was too late to try to fix things with the fans. We all worshipped him.
I will be thudding a little softer now, until I sort things out in my OWN mind. I still love him,
how can you not by a single admission? Its been 5 years, he is a part of me now.
LET ME SAY THAT I'M STILL A FAN OF HIS VOICE.....
NOT SO MUCH A FAN OF HIS....CHOICE....
II wish him well and hope he gets some peace of mind now BUT I feel he lied to everyone-especially us fans. He should have just said so years ago. I feel like we were "used". I still love to hear him sing but I also feel he has now become like a Michael Jackson and it's a bit too weird! He isn't just the plain ordinary person with the values he first stood for.-but it's just my opinion.
IThis has to have been a difficult decision for Clay - particularly considering the lies and the crap that the haters have thrown at him for the last 2 1/2 years. What should be a very private matter has become all too public and hateful.
And this has to be a particularly difficult day as he waits to see what we will do, think, feel and say.
Clay is still the same wonderful human being he has always been. This changes nothing for me.
Love you Clay.... always and forever. And I am soooo proud of you !!
I have been a CLay fan from the start and a member of this board since 2004. I know many of you from my Clay travels and have enjoyed your company and influence in my life immensely. I felt I owed you my goodbye though lately I had not posted much. Here are my feelings. .....
I love Clay with all my heart and that will never change. I feel nothing but love. However, I am deeply saddened. I know one thing is that I do not hate him. I never will. I will support him but the support I will give til the day I die is that of a different kind. Like Clay, I need to be honest and true to myself. I will support him in prayer but I can't continue to be a fan at this time. I do not agree with his belief about homosexuality or by what I believe to be his choice. Many of you may disagree with me and even rail at me. Your right and I understand. I respect that this has had to be very difficult for him and actually understand why he hid it all even for as long as he did.
However, how I feel and what am I going to do now.....
I am grieving deeply as I will miss that glorious gift of God that is Clay, his voice, his love, his passion. I will miss the fandom. The fun. The comaraderie. I will miss him and I will miss all of you. This tears me apart and pains me greatly. This is one of the most difficult days of my life. I am in deep sorrow that I have to walk away like this now. But I can't stay and live a lie myself, no matter what. No matter how much I love his voice and many things about him. No matter how much I want the experience of being a fan in many ways. I have to do what I believe is right. And no matter how painful that is.
I have given much of the last 5 years to Clay. I have met him 3 times: Book signing, the tour bus and my M&G. I have seen him perform live almost 100 times. I have supported him at other appearances even when he was not singing. I have gone to gala's. I have contributed to UNICEF and the Bubel Aiken Foundation in money and time. I have promoted and defended the man to the hilt in many ways. All choices. My choices. Blessings have been mine the whole time. Though looking back perhaps I gave too much of my life and there has been a down side to my fandom. I have put CLay before God, my husband and my children and friends, often times. But again that was my choice and I believe no good intention, effort, or relationship was a waste. All comes together for the good.
I hope the best for Clay all his life.
I love him and I love you all
With this I say goodbye to Clay and this fanhood
Margaret Meeuwen
aka
Marge
There seem to be a fair amount of supportive posts. And all this goes on for 47 pages! :wow: Who knew? Not me.