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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 09:54 PM Original message |
Blacks and gays have a lot in common in how they experience America |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 09:57 PM Response to Original message |
1. The difference tho is that a black person can generally not pass for white |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:06 PM Response to Reply #1 |
4. Why do you think gay people get gay bashed? |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:07 PM Response to Reply #4 |
5. No, I'm saying many gays (and in fact, in the past almost all) tried to pass as straight |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:08 PM Response to Reply #5 |
6. yes, and many lived utterly miserable lives because of it |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:25 PM Response to Reply #6 |
10. When you can conceal your identity, you have an advantage..... |
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NMMNG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:37 PM Response to Reply #10 |
24. Do you have a clue how bad it is? |
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casus belli (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 02:26 AM Response to Reply #24 |
71. With all due respect... |
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NMMNG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 02:44 AM Response to Reply #71 |
72. Thank you |
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casus belli (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 03:54 PM Response to Reply #72 |
76. :) |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 04:44 PM Response to Reply #24 |
78. Wait, you're confusing two different and separate things |
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Smarmie Doofus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:30 PM Response to Reply #1 |
14. "Passing"... and *having* to pass is such a great thing? |
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NMMNG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:32 PM Response to Reply #14 |
17. So we keep getting told. |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 04:46 PM Response to Reply #14 |
79. Of course not. But they're not equivalent situations. |
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Kurt_and_Hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:56 PM Response to Reply #1 |
37. Here's a question... (re: merely) |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 04:52 PM Response to Reply #37 |
80. You're right. One doesn't have to hide it from their families. |
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Creideiki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 03:32 AM Response to Reply #1 |
73. The difference is |
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JackBeck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 04:39 PM Response to Reply #1 |
77. Care to explain to me, then, |
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thevoiceofreason (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 09:58 PM Response to Original message |
2. Amen |
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angie_love (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 09:59 PM Response to Original message |
3. Its true. Actually my boyfriend and I talk about this all the time. |
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sorrybushisfromtexas (416 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:18 PM Response to Reply #3 |
8. My nephew |
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daleo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:44 PM Response to Reply #8 |
32. That's a nice anecdote |
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Whisp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:25 PM Response to Reply #3 |
11. the system should be supportive of everyone. |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:35 PM Response to Reply #11 |
21. I don't think they should be more supportive |
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davidinalameda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:14 PM Response to Original message |
7. I don't think that anyone ever confused me for a straight guy |
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Creideiki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 03:35 AM Response to Reply #7 |
74. Unfortunately it's not much easier when you can operate under "deep cover" |
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David__77 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:24 PM Response to Original message |
9. I'm gay, and I don't think it's the same thing. Black people have it far worse. |
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Smarmie Doofus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:28 PM Response to Reply #9 |
12. In some ways, yes. But what's the suicide rate like for ... |
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ExtraGriz (405 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:33 PM Response to Reply #12 |
18. no sure about AA ten suicide rate |
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Barack_America (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:39 PM Response to Reply #12 |
27. Must it be suicide? Why wouldn't homocide and incarceration count? |
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David__77 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:39 PM Response to Reply #12 |
28. Lower. But the murder and imprisonment rate is higher. |
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Smarmie Doofus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:48 PM Response to Reply #28 |
33. Natch. My point: both groups suffer in different ways. |
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Teaser (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:51 PM Original message |
They have someone else suicide them |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:32 PM Response to Reply #9 |
15. I don't think one |
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David__77 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:38 PM Response to Reply #15 |
25. Agreed. |
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Creideiki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 03:39 AM Response to Reply #15 |
75. Aside from here |
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MaryCeleste (898 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 11:15 PM Response to Reply #9 |
40. Agree |
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Traveling_Home (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:28 PM Response to Original message |
13. Not even close |
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Bluebear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:32 PM Response to Reply #13 |
16. Oh? What's "not even close"? |
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Traveling_Home (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:33 PM Response to Reply #16 |
19. Blacks and gays have a lot in common in how they experience America |
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Bluebear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:36 PM Response to Reply #19 |
22. Yes we all know what the topic is, do you care to elaborate? |
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bilgewaterbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:40 PM Response to Reply #22 |
30. For blacks, bigotry is in the eye of the beholder. |
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Bluebear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:42 PM Response to Reply #30 |
31. Your question marks indicate you really have no idea about the gay experience, then. |
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bilgewaterbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:48 PM Response to Reply #31 |
34. You're right! Are YOU saying that I could tell you are gay by looking at you? |
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Bluebear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:54 PM Response to Reply #34 |
36. Are you saying that people aren't gay-bashed for nothing else than their appearance? Please. |
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bilgewaterbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:59 PM Response to Reply #36 |
38. How 'bout you answer my question? |
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NMMNG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 11:21 PM Response to Reply #38 |
42. Many people can be identified as gay just by their appearance. |
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bilgewaterbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 11:26 PM Response to Reply #42 |
44. YOU missed the point! |
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NMMNG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 11:31 PM Response to Reply #44 |
45. Would you stop yelling please? |
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bilgewaterbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 11:35 PM Response to Reply #45 |
47. I wasn't yelling, I was emphasizing. |
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NMMNG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 11:50 PM Response to Reply #47 |
48. In nettiquite typing in all caps is yelling |
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bilgewaterbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 11:53 PM Response to Reply #48 |
49. You made my case for me. |
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Bluebear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 11:57 PM Response to Reply #49 |
50. 800 posts in four years and it took THIS to bring you out? |
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bilgewaterbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 12:00 AM Response to Reply #50 |
51. Nice! |
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NMMNG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 12:03 AM Response to Reply #49 |
52. Piss the fuck off |
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bilgewaterbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 12:07 AM Response to Reply #52 |
53. The people rest. |
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NMMNG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 12:09 AM Response to Reply #53 |
54. Rest on this homophobe |
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bilgewaterbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 12:18 AM Response to Reply #54 |
57. It's alright, Baby. I forgive you. |
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NMMNG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 12:22 AM Response to Reply #57 |
58. I have every right |
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bilgewaterbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 12:44 AM Response to Reply #58 |
64. I pray the Lord will watch over you. Sounds like you need it. G'Night. |
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NMMNG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 12:46 AM Response to Reply #64 |
65. Right |
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bilgewaterbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 12:50 AM Response to Reply #65 |
66. I'll pray for you anyway. Try to open your heart. |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 04:55 PM Response to Reply #54 |
82. Homophobic how? What precisely did he say that was homophobic? nt |
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Whisp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:34 PM Response to Original message |
20. There is more than two communities here. |
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Smarmie Doofus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 11:15 PM Response to Reply #20 |
41. OP doesn't say that blacks should be more supportive of gays. |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:37 PM Response to Original message |
23. You can add women into the fight for Social Justice,btw. You know how many women are beaten daily? |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:38 PM Response to Reply #23 |
26. I agree |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 04:57 PM Response to Reply #23 |
83. Thank you. Women are discriminated by men all over the globe.... |
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scheming daemons (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:40 PM Response to Original message |
29. Imagine what it must be like for a gay black woman... seriously.... |
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NMMNG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 11:25 PM Response to Reply #29 |
43. It's hell I've heard |
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GoldieAZ49 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 10:51 PM Response to Original message |
35. Isn't that part of the problem in the party - lets see who has it worse |
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anigbrowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 11:03 PM Response to Original message |
39. Two related points... |
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aquart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-14-08 11:32 PM Response to Original message |
46. Women, of course, don't know a thing about that. |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 12:13 AM Response to Reply #46 |
56. Yep |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 12:12 AM Response to Original message |
55. Not to mention that it's kind of weird to treat the two groups this way |
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NMMNG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 12:26 AM Response to Reply #55 |
59. Very good point |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 12:27 AM Response to Reply #55 |
60. Maybe |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 12:31 AM Response to Reply #60 |
61. I just wanted to emphasize it more, that's all. |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 12:33 AM Response to Reply #61 |
62. look at the results of this poll |
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dugggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 12:35 AM Response to Original message |
63. I am a good example of why you are wrong.. |
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FrenchieCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 12:53 AM Response to Reply #63 |
67. Last I checked, being from India is not quite the same as being |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 12:54 AM Response to Reply #67 |
68. lol |
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dugggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 01:23 AM Response to Reply #67 |
69. The CEO's of some of the biggest corporations in US are African-Americans |
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FrenchieCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 02:22 AM Response to Reply #69 |
70. No one says that African-Americans can't get ahead...... |
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dugggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 08:52 PM Response to Reply #70 |
87. You are 100% correct white Americans have the edge |
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AGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 04:52 PM Response to Original message |
81. Transgender and gender non conforming ppl too. We are more marginalized, I contest. |
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Bluenorthwest (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 08:02 PM Response to Original message |
84. Well it is not as bad as recent times suggest |
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psychmommy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 08:28 PM Response to Original message |
85. i think the the biggest obstacle to this happening is: |
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JoFerret (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-15-08 08:46 PM Response to Original message |
86. And some people are both! (and female) |
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