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All my life I never understood what it was about my oldest uncle that caused, both my grandfather, a Korean War and WWII veteran (army), and my younger uncle, a Vietnam veteran (marine) to despise him. This Thanksgiving, I finally realized what it was. In the process, I also figured out why John Kerry was not elected President on Nov. 2.
My uncle served in the Navy for 8 years, but never saw a day of combat. He ended his tour of duty shortly after the Vietnam War broke out. He went home, raised a family during the Vietnam War, had a moderately successful sales career, but was and still is overextended on his bills and constantly borrowing from Peter to pay Paul. He came down with a debilitating illness in his early thirties that left him filing for bankruptcy just a few years later. Even after that however, he continued to overextend himself. He has “borrowed” more money from my parents than their own children have. In fact, I can honestly say, I don’t think I have ever borrowed more than $100 from my parents at any time since I left home, and I promptly paid them back as soon as I possibly could. He is currently on complete disability and social security. His wife still works her butt off to pay for the tiny house they have re-mortgaged until they can no longer re-mortgage and the fancy Cadillac they must have at all times no matter how financially strapped they are. Mind you this woman was diagnosed with what we thought would be terminal cancer about five years ago and somehow managed to beat it while still working a full 8-hour shift at her job. She hardly took any time at all off after her initial surgery to remove a tumor that had invaded her lymph nodes and continued to work while undergoing radiation therapy except for the mandatory time her doctors told her she could not go to work. I still have no idea how she managed to do this but she did. She had to. Her husband was at home unable to hold down even a part-time job (at least in his mind) because of his illness. In reality, he was fired frequently because he was, at best, a complete ass to everyone within earshot. No one in our family will eat out with him in attendance because it seems his favorite pastime is making waitresses cry over his obnoxious behavior. He is a lazy, self-serving, greedy, blatantly ignorant, self-proclaimed-patriotic, God fearin’, redneck, good ol’ boy, veteran (of no war), racists Republican.
His disqualifying reason for John Kerry bid at Presidency is “He threw his medals away and went to Hanoi!” Mind you he also was ignorant enough to agree with me that the Vietnam War was WRONG! I suspect he only said that because he knows his brother has lived a life of misery because of his service in that war. What he does not know is that his brother also THREW AWAY his medals when he arrived home from that war. The only reason the family still has them is that my grandfather dug them out of the trash and hid them until his death. My father (the middle son, who was rejected for service for medical reasons) now hides them until either his death or his younger brothers death.
My uncle also admitted that Oliver North was a bad guy, “but not really that bad.” The Bush family are criminals, but “so is everyone else in Washington.” We probably should have searched harder for Osama bin Laden, there were no WMD’s, “but Saddam was a bad guy, even if Bush Sr. did give him weapons to use against the Iranians, and “we’ve always put bad guys in power, like Castro.” He saw no hypocrisy or ignorance in his statements. He seemingly thinks the world is just fine and dandy with all the “bad guy’s we put in power. He is pitiful and he is representative of the voters we didn’t know about. Those pompous asses, who think they deserve the world on a silver platter because they served this country well, in NO WAR at all, but gave their time nonetheless.
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