I dated a married man who is posting my kitten pictures on dating sites now. Ask me anything...

[Dystopian]

:D


I already posted them here:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_topic&forum=105&topic_id=9817124#9817447
And here:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_topic&forum=105&topic_id=9790234


He's trying to attract women online with kitty pictures!

omg!

I need help! I have a bad case of giggles...

Please advise...
:rofl:

**He was separated when we met. But he lied. She was still living with him, and he told me she was *gone*


I'm okay with no replies...I am doing 'my own thing' again here....
At home...home in the lounge.

peace~

[rurallib]

1. wow - what kind of person would use someone else's kitty's like that

wish they could wreak revenge.

[Dystopian]

3. Sorry... I wasn't really clear...

rurallib:hug:

I hooked him up with the kitties .....
I took the first pictures after I placed them in the box ... then delivered them to him.
His sweet daughter wanted a kitten ... then his boys asked for both.

I was at his house a couple of weeks ago...took quite a few pictures of the kitties, him and his daughter.
I emailed all of the pictures to him..

Can you imagine my disgust when I saw those kitties posted in his profile pictures?
I told him he was 'pathetic'...and I'm usually quite mellow.
I thought it was a slimy thing to do ...
It's not like he can't take his own pictures...
I wouldn't have thought anything of it if he posted his own photos.
The picture of him holding one of them cracks me up...
It's just crazy!
He also posted the photos I took of him and his daughter...

I'm not angry ...
I just think it's bizarre ....
I knew he lacked character from the beginning....

He'll be forced to tell yet another lie if a woman asks about the kitties...

Oh well....hope he's happy.

peace~

[Tuesday Afternoon]

2. I don't even reply if their profile says separated.

:hi:

must be divorced for at least ONE year.

every time I break that rule, I regret it.

It is always a HUGE mistake.

NEVER say ALWAYS. This is the exception that makes the rule ;)

[Dystopian]

5. I'll never do it again ....

Hey Tuesday :hi:


It was the first and last time.
Guy was a mess..
Tangled web of lies...
Never experienced so much negative energy in my life...
And we had nothing in common!




peace~

[Tuesday Afternoon]

8. yep --

had to burn sage for months ;) :hug: :loveya: :hi:

[BiggJawn]

4. Lovely kittehs

They're marked like our bad boy.

[Dystopian]

6. Yes..

Those babies are beautiful....
Two bad boys :D
Funny...playful..purrfect.
I'm happy that his daughter has them.
She's a sweet angel...touched my heart.
And I loved his doggie....



peace~

[Aristus]

7. There;s a joke to be made here about cats.

But I'm not gonna make it.

Sorry he turned out to be a dipstick, Dystopian... :hug:

[Dystopian]

10. Thanks....

Aristus :hug:
Hmmm...wondering about the cat joke.
And I'm really okay ...
Just glancing back in wonderment ... why would I knowingly venture down the wrong path at this point in my life?
Never too old to learn ...

Dipstick. :o
Funny...haven't heard that word in years.



peace~

[Aristus]

11. We all do regrettable things in the name of that exquisite hormonal reaction

we call 'love', or at least 'lust'. We usually save our regrets until after the orgasm, but still...

And as far as 'dipstick' goes, I see a picture of Rick Perry, and that's the only word that seems both appropriate and printable.

[MiddleFingerMom]

9. I'm sorry you went through that -- everything I know about you says you DESERVE total honesty.

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You seem so loving and understanding and forgiving and honest yourself that ANYONE who
feels the need to be dishonest with you is acting doubly shamefully.
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There ARE good people out there -- I think many of the relationships we see here are evidence
of that and can renew your hope and belief in people.
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:grouphug:
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[Dystopian]

20. Love those sleeping babies ...

Thank you, MFM :hug:

You are truly golden...
I did forgive.....
I should let go of the ugliness .. No longer part of my life.
I felt the need to put the kitties out there..
And you doubled them!
Love..
:loveya:

I really do see the love here ...
There are those who have made a lifetime of living love...
And I still believe in the goodness of the human spirit..

I see it here all the time...


Thank you for your kind words...
You always make me smile...
You bring joy



peace~

[Incitatus]

12. Well, at least he didn't get a chance to post the other 'alternate word for cat' online. nt

[Kali]

13. what a dick!

feeling the grrrrr

I let a dick push some buttons with me today. Hope I don't regret my reaction (email):scared:

[MiddleFingerMom]

14. I am NOT gonna do der Google for "dick pushing a button". Nope. Not gonna do it. n/t

[Ptah]

18. I'll wager that your sketchpad is getting busy.

[Major Nikon]

15. Turn him in for posting kitty porn

[Dystopian]

21. I will!

Major Nikon :hug:

That cracked me up!
Thanks for the laugh....
He did commit a dirty deed!

Yet the kitties remain pure ...



peace~

[HappyMe]

16. Maybe it's just me,

but pictures of kitties wouldn't convince me to date a guy. :shrug:



edited to add--
Sorry you had a rough time with this loser.

[Dystopian]

22. It really is odd...

HappyMe ~

Just love your name!

I think that by posting pictures of kitties and doggies he believes that he may not appear to be a liar.
Most everyone loves kitties...
He probably thinks of them as a magnet... or a cover.

In fact, I have pictures of myself romping with my doggies in the yard...
But, they are my pictures ... not ones from any relationship!

Thank you for your kindness...
Rough time is over ... done.

Still ... I can only shake my head in wonderment regarding those photos...
So very strange...as I simply move on and beyond...

peace~

[Enrique]

17. is he claiming to be one of the kittens?

:shrug:

[Dystopian]

23. Not at all : )

Enrique :hug:
Cute and funny...:D

Maybe he's trying to hide the fact that he's a dog!:o

Oh...he had some good qualities....
No one is completely evil ...
And he didn't lie 100% of the time ...

Oh well...
Who really knows?




peace~

[raccoon]

19. What lovely cats! nt

[Dystopian]

24. They are : )

raccoon :hug:

A beautiful story behind them ... those little orange baby boy kitties.
They left their sister.. A beautiful calico.

The three kitties without a mother had a happy ending...
I suppose...looking at the big picture ...that's what is most important...

And now I shall put this to rest...



peace~

[Tuesday Afternoon]

25. I dated a married man who --

the jokes just write themselves ;)

[Dystopian]

28. They do! Do they not?

Hi Tuesday

:hi:

:hug:

Too funny!
Oh those married men!
The merry married men!
The myriad married men!

"I dated a married man.... who wasn't a smoker. I smoked outside, and left my cigarettes on the hood of my car. I refused to give him cigarettes...he used to smoke....I looked out the window and saw him hunched over my car. I asked him for my stolen cigarette as he came through the door. He handed it back to me and told me that it wasn't stealing...."

:shrug:



peace~

[Tuesday Afternoon]

30. oh lord. that cracked me up!

truly, I am over here chuckling out loud.

I dated a married man . . .who didn't drink but, when I went to bed he opened a bottle of wine and drank it, hid the bottle and put the cork under the sofa cushion . . .

:shrug:

:hug: :loveya: :hi:

[Dystopian]

31. omg!!!

Now you have me in tears!
Hid the bottle! Cork under the sofa cushion!!!!
:rofl:


love ya!


peace~

[baldguy]

26. Is he using a link? Or has he just copied them & is hosting them somewhere else?

If he's using a link, change the picture to something else. Perhaps something unflattering to him?

[Tuesday Afternoon]

27. heh

I like the way you think :D

[Dystopian]

29. That is too funny...

Hey baldguy

I could never do that. But the thought of doing it is hilarious!
I emailed the pictures to him ... It was an act (or so I felt) of kindness ...
We were going on our separate ways .... There were no photos of 'us'...just him, child and kitties.

I think it's a matter of ethics. He had no code of ethics that I was aware of...
So...he felt free to use the photos as he saw fit.
Dating sites!

If I could change the picture...something unflattering to him...
Impossible.
Deceit and defects are hidden ...inner being.
All that is meaningful dwells within.

But...you did make me smile...:D




peace~