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pokerfan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 04:37 PM
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Is 'balls to the wall' sexist language?
I got called out for saying it over the holidays (while skiing). :(
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Iggo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 04:41 PM
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1. Nope.
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 04:44 PM
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2. I think so, I wouldn't use it.
But life would be boring if everyone were like me. Actually, life would be fun and full of humor if everyone was like me, and we'd have more peace, no crime, better literature and music, and a lot fewer hate posts on DU.

But it would still be boring. :)
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pokerfan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 04:49 PM
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4. But all it means is 'full throttle"
That balls is also a euphemism for testicles makes it sexist?
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 05:00 PM
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6. Yeah.
It implies that it is a specifically male trait to go "full throttle." I'm not saying it's the worst phrase ever or anything, but when we constantly characterize courage and full-throttleness and virtue in male terms and weakness, cowardice, and fear in female terms, it affects our concepts of gender, and yes, that ultimately serves to keep gender stereotypes in place. Ask Noam Chomsky, a linguist, of the power of language to mold our perceptions.
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av8rdave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 06:27 PM
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21. Actually, it is not sexist at all.
Edited on Thu Dec-30-10 06:28 PM by av8rdave
In the older days of aviation, where the throttle quadrant consisted of throttle, mixture and prop levers, the tops of the levers were given different shapes for simplicity. "Balls to the wall" referred to moving the ball topped levers all the way forward, towards the firewall. (In fact, "firewall" is also a term for full throttle).

Nothing more, nothing less.

The term is no more sexist than is "cockpit." (Which also has no sex - related origins).

Edited for crappy grammar.
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tigereye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 08:21 PM
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28. nice etymological history - good to know!
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-10 05:54 AM
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29. Just because you missed the double entendre doesn't mean most pilots did. nt
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Orsino Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-10 03:38 PM
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38. Hell, yeah.
DU is not a place where I could expect to insist that a given word can have only one possible meaning.
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av8rdave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-10 07:34 PM
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43. I didn't miss anything about it. Re-read the origin.
If someone wants to read something into it that wasn't part of the original expression, so be it.

It is what it is.
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watrwefitinfor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-10 07:04 AM
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30. So, for the second time since 2004 I wander into the Lounge,
and right away I learn something.

Who knew?

Wat :hi:
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WinkyDink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-10 01:44 PM
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35. If you believe that one,......
Edited on Fri Dec-31-10 01:48 PM by WinkyDink
BTW: What gender, again, are fighter-pikots?
Yeah, I thought so.
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-10 06:15 PM
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39. You are just an anti-pikotite.
Sorry, couldn't resist. :)
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av8rdave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-10 07:36 PM
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44. Um, fighter pilots are both genders these days
Sorry if you want to be offended. The origin is what it is.

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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-10 11:38 PM
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53. Deleted message
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krispos42 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-01-11 01:31 AM
Response to Reply #21
54. I thought it came from centrifugal governors?




By adjusting the top of the governor, you could set it up so that the weights (balls) would have to be nearly horizonatl before the engine was throttled. That is, an engine set to go really fast would have the weights extended far out... and near the surrounding walls of the building.
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cherokeeprogressive Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-02-11 04:30 PM
Response to Reply #54
79. I think that's "Balls Out". n/t
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trof Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-02-11 05:13 PM
Response to Reply #21
80. Bingo! I remember 'throttle, prop, and mixture'.
Well done.
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DutchLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-10 11:36 PM
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52. Oh, for the love of God...! Cut that fucking politically correct crap!
I have to barf when I read your response. I mean, is this psychobabble for real?: I'm not saying it's the worst phrase ever or anything, but when we constantly characterize courage and full-throttleness and virtue in male terms and weakness, cowardice, and fear in female terms, it affects our concepts of gender

"Blah blah blah" is all I read. Some people *really* need to get over themselves. It's one thing to not use misogynist or sexist terms; it's a whole other thing to actively seek out and search for 'potentially sexist' terms --if you only twist an expression around enough and if you add enough intelligent-looking (but empty) second-rate 'analysis' to justify your getting upset over something that's not in the slightest worth getting upset over.

People need to stop looking for reasons to label something sexist. All this over-analyzing is getting seriously tiring and if we continue at the pace DU's PC-police is acting, soon we can't say *anything* anymore.
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MiddleFingerMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 04:47 PM
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Kali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 04:53 PM
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5. if balls = testicles
most likely somebody finds it sexist

doesn't offend me, nor does using balls as a term for guts or courage (in respect to ANYBODY) but I do understand that does bother some people
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pokerfan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 05:23 PM
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8. But it doesn't in this case
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Kali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 05:40 PM
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13. then whoever called you on it owes an apology if you ask me!
interesting, never used the term, but have heard it before - just assumed it was something testicle-oriented
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NewJeffCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 05:48 PM
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15. I had thought it was testicle oriented as well...
I stand corrected.
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Orsino Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-10 03:36 PM
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37. But that's exactly why this phrase IS a bit sexist in current use.
Mildly so, I would guess, but I don't get to be the final arbiter.

That there's an ancient engineering origin surprises me, too, as I believe it would most people who have used the phrase. In today's banter, I think that it subtly implies maleness to most ears. Someone might fairly retort, "What? A woman can't drive fast, too?" If someone were to take offense, insisting that s/he is simply wrong would be a rather arrogant, simplistic response. "But I didn't mean anything by it" is an excuse that often fails.

Discovering a genesis of the phrase in aviation mechanics doesn't suddenly make decades of a subsequent usage vanish. Context is all, and yes, these particular words have taken on a slight masculinist tone that ought to be acknowledged.
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av8rdave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-10 07:39 PM
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46. So, if a batter in a baseball game has a count of 2 balls on him, is that sexist?
Surely you know the origin. So do decades of misuse of a word make it sexist now, after all these years?

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Orsino Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-10 07:54 PM
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47. I refer you back to "context is all."
Who says it and to whom are only a couple of possible factors here. No matter how tempting it is to decide that a given word must mean this and nothing else because that's what I meant, we should avoid arguments that parse to "Well, why can't I say it whenever I want?"

We don't get to decide what might be offensive to someone else, or when, or why. What a phrase meant when it was coined decades ago is probably less important than the various other meanings it might have now.
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av8rdave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-10 11:07 PM
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51. I disagree
If the phrase was coined a certain way decades ago, we can't go back and change the original meaning or intent just because we don't like the sound of it now.

I consider myself as racially/sexually/ethnically sensitive as anyone alive, but you can't retroactively change the intent or meaning of something that was coined long ago for a specific reason.

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OhioBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-01-11 02:31 AM
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55. we do it all the time.
We may not change the original intent, but when words or phrases morph into something else, we change the way we speak in polite society.

We evolve as a society and change our language as we change and evolve. If a word or term becomes viewed as derogatory, we change our language. We do it all the time. The words "Negro" or "Retarded" were not viewed the same way 50-100 years ago as they are today.

"Political Correctness" gets a bad rap - I think for the most part it is from people that are reluctant to change. We change our language and in society, hopefully we place consideration for others above our stubbornness. Not many women I know would find being called a "dame" a polite term, although the original intent was indeed polite. Calling someone a "dick" could mean "private investigator" tho - I doubt if you called a guy that they would take it that way.

That being said, as a woman, I don't personally find "balls to the wall" as terribly offensive. However, I don't find it as something appropriate to say in polite conversation. That's my personal opinion. I've also scoffed when execs have used the term "were in bed with them".
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av8rdave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-01-11 10:08 AM
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57. I get your point, but...
Expressions such as "balls to the wall" are peculiar to my profession, and I have not a second thought using them in that environment. Would I use it in polite, non-aviation conversation? Most likely not, which makes your point.

However, as far as the question in the OP goes, I don't believe that phrase in particular is sexist at all, but then that's because there was nothing sexist whatsoever in its origin. I participated in a similar debate some years ago over the term "cockpit*," which also has no sexual origin or implication.

Though I would not use the "balls to the wall" term in polite conversation, it is more because it's irrelevant outside of an aviation context than it contains the word "balls."

I guess to me, "ball" is one of those words that describes a spherical object. The fact that someone one day chose to apply it to part of the male anatomy doesn't cheapen or change the word at all.

When I'm in Las Vegas and I see signs for "The loosest slots in town," it has no other meaning than gaming to me, though I know that isn't the case for some.

While I'm sitting here typing....HAPPY NEW YEAR! :hi:


* "cockpit" is such an ingrained (and accepted, and used even in official aviation publications) word that I refuse to use any other term for it, including when I make my public address announcements to passengers. My greetings always come from the cockpit - not the flight deck, or control cabin, or any other term that sounds more like an office than what it actually is.

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OhioBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-02-11 12:03 AM
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66. Happy New Year to you as well
:hi:

sounds like we agree for the most part.

I didn't even realize that there was such a debate around the word "cockpit".
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Orsino Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-01-11 06:44 PM
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62. No one's talking about "going back and changing the original meaning"...
...anymore than we are doing so when we argue in favor of marriage equality.

When we use a phrase now, and an audience hears it now, the received meaning is going to depend less on an obscure original meaning than it will on everyday usage in more recent decades.

I didn't know about the origin of the phrase in aviation, nor did most of my fellow Americans, I submit. I think you ought to concede this much: that we folks ignorant of your preferred usage have been thinking of something else whenever we heard or used it. An archaic meaning, or one out of the mainstream now, has no bearing on what's going through our minds.

See, I've heard the phrase used mostly by men, about men doing stereotypically manly things--usually driving hot rods (now there's another loaded term whose origin might have had nothing to do with our current mental associations).

Isn't it reasonable to set aside this "original" meaning when we are trying to divine the mindset of people who never heard it before? Shouldn't we recognize that meanings evolve and multiply?
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Chan790 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-02-11 12:05 AM
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67. Your last paragraph.
Edited on Sun Jan-02-11 12:06 AM by Chan790
It is a question to which the answer is emphatically "No." (with the period, mind you. Not sans punctuation.)
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Orsino Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-02-11 12:37 PM
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73. Then could you explain how people unfamiliar with the original meaning...
...could still be thinking about it?
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Chan790 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-02-11 03:05 PM
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76. Well...
I'd argue that they're probably misusing it and thus deserve mockery for it...much like my brother who uses "Je'ne sais quot" ("I don't know what") when he means "flair, style or panache". The fact that he has no idea what "je'ne sais quot" means is beautifully ironic...just like when he thought "scatological" meant "esoteric".

So, I'd say it's more legitimate to question people who seem to be misusing it or using in the sexist context as to what they think it means followed by much mockery and a lecture on etymology than it is to buy into their dilution and corruption of language.

I admit, I think of language as absolute and beautiful. I also tend to earn the reputation that I'm an elitist shit.
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av8rdave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-02-11 11:26 AM
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70. You're correct, but because someone who doesn't know better finds it offensive
Isn't the fault of the user of the phrase. As ThomCat so eloquently put it, just because it sounds like a euphemism doesn't mean it is.

I've used the phrase without a second thought through 30 years of aviation, as have my female coworkers and students. My guess would be that in any specialty there are phrases that seem to have a completely different meaning to those outside of that specialty.

I just try not to assume until I know.

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Orsino Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-02-11 12:39 PM
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74. Right. Only someone who keeps using it...
...after becoming aware of what else it might mean, might be edging closer to offense. Context is all.
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av8rdave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-02-11 05:53 PM
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81. I use it all the time. The people I use it with (male AND female) are informed and aware
No big deal.
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Orsino Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-03-11 09:57 AM
Response to Reply #81
82. I couldn't ask for more than that. n/t
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panader0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-02-11 11:36 AM
Response to Reply #46
71. I had a baseball date once
I kissed her on the strikes, she kissed me on the balls.......
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Chan790 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-01-11 11:56 PM
Response to Reply #37
65. Etymology is absolutist.
It's not up for public interpretation. Subsequent usage does not necessitate validation of that usage; the fact that some people are idiots does not change the origins of the word, nor does it by-necessity legitimize that usage.

"Context" is subjective and unique to each individual person. Your statement that "Context is all, and yes, these particular words have taken on a slight masculinist tone that ought to be acknowledged." is striking to me; as Wolfgang Pauli once said: Das ist nicht nur nicht richtig, es ist nicht einmal falsch! ("Not only is it not right, it's not even wrong!")

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Orsino Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-02-11 12:45 PM
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75. I'll bet you a bundle of faggots that you are incorrect on this point.
Edited on Sun Jan-02-11 12:46 PM by Orsino
Or are you about to tell me that that word's etymology invalidates all other usages?
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Capn Sunshine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 06:28 PM
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22. except it was always, always meant as a double entendre.
so whatever, because Sticks to the max sounds kind of sexual anyway :bounce:
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WinkyDink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-10 01:47 PM
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36. Right. NOBODY TODAY is using it in ANY sense other than the off-color one.

Please do NOT expect us to accept that there are all these male geniuses around who know etymologies.
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av8rdave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-10 07:37 PM
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45. If balls must = testicles, then please don't watch any sports events on TV!
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The Velveteen Ocelot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 05:02 PM
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7. No. It has nothing to do with testicles.
It's old military pilot slang. When you put the "balls to the wall," it means you are pushing the throttle levers, which usually have a round (ball) handle, all the way forward, right up to the instrument panel (wall). In other words, full power.
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Kali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 05:36 PM
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12. thanks!
I wondered. Knew somebody here would have the scoop.
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av8rdave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-01-11 10:15 AM
Response to Reply #7
58. Thank you
You are always so much more economical with words than I am!

Happy New Year! I escaped to Mexico for all of this crappy weather. I think it's the only time in my life I've been sipping gin & tonics on the beach while the excrement hits the fan elsewhere. I hope it hasn't been too crazy for you!

:hi:

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The Velveteen Ocelot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-01-11 01:38 PM
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59. So you escaped from ATL and missed the blizzard mess out East.
At least for now. I think we will be getting strange wx all winter. You might still get your chance to enjoy it.

Happy new year; enjoy your vacation. I'm envious. I am currently freezing my butt off in MSP -- but I do that every year. Maybe I'll get away later when we're a little less busy.
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petronius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 05:24 PM
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9. I've never used it because it made no sense to me, and sounded painful
But now that I've learned its non-scrotal origin in this thread, I think it's fine...
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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 05:32 PM
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10. Is "man in the boat?"
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madinmaryland Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 05:34 PM
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11. There will always be someone who will find anything you say offensive.
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cherokeeprogressive Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-10 06:44 PM
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42. Witness some of the replies in this thread. n/t
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lukasahero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 05:46 PM
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14. I think your post would have been better served
if you just told people your story instead of asking a question. You seem to believe you have your answer and point it out to anyone who seems to think differently. jobycom has the best answer in post #6. In it, he explains why some people might find it sexist. I noticed you didn't respond to that post though.
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pokerfan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 05:59 PM
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17. Thank you
But I wanted to get responses prior to getting into the etymology. If the average person feels that it has something to do with testicles then perhaps I just shouldn't use it anymore.
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Chan790 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-02-11 12:24 AM
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68. Joby is wrong.
I respect him (he's one of the few people I can have a high-falutin comp. lit. debate with.) but sometimes you've got a theory that is so far off the mark it's best left to being ignored like a fart at the opera.

If you look for the "-ism" in everything, you'll find the "-ism" in anything. As the rastas say "-ism is schism."
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 05:53 PM
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16. Deleted message
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Moondog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 06:02 PM
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18. ~
Edited on Thu Dec-30-10 06:52 PM by Moondog
On reconsideration, I have eliminated my rant. To the OP - it wasn't directed towards you; it was directed towards those who accused you of un-PCness.
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tigereye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 06:18 PM
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19. ehh, I always thought it simply meant "intense"
so, I guess I would say no. :shrug:
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tinkerbell41 Donating Member (722 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 06:23 PM
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20. To me to be sexist
It would usually be a demeaning, word or phrase.
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one_voice Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 06:39 PM
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23. I don't think so...
I've used the expression before.
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 06:43 PM
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24. Sexist? I don't know. Vulgar, definitely yes.
Redstone
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Throd Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 07:11 PM
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25. Only Udo Dirkschneider knows for sure
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Withywindle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-10 08:06 PM
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48. I can't believe how far this thread got before someone posted that.
:headbang:
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MrScorpio Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 07:18 PM
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26. Nnnnaw!
That person is a dumb ass.
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MiddleFingerMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-30-10 08:02 PM
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27. Oh, the copycat threads I self-censored!!!!!! n/t
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HughBeaumont Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-10 08:02 AM
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31. I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody.
- Bill Cosby

So, yeah, after the "Street Harassment" bear trap, I just decided I'm not going to be "The Most Unattainably Progressive Male In the Universe".

And, if anything, it's also an untintentionally funny Accept song/video.
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xchrom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-10 08:11 AM
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32. can i just say -- i LOVE cursing -- cursey type phrases?
cause i do.
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LucySky Donating Member (297 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-10 09:37 AM
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33. No, it is NOT sexist.
There are phrases in our language which may imply either masculinity or feminism, without being "sexist".

The spirit behind the word "sexism" relates to the discrimination of, or the oppression of one gender, usually women.

"Balls to the wall" does not fit into this category just because it is a phrase tilted toward masculinity.
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WinkyDink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-10 01:44 PM
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34. It's a vulgarism, if that's what you wanted to know. (PLEASE don't use that "etymology with pilots"
Edited on Fri Dec-31-10 01:50 PM by WinkyDink
thing, unless you are a certified pilot.)

I suppose you thought all the "Bond Girls' had "just names"?
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Forkboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-10 06:20 PM
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40. Udo didn't think so.
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Kaleva Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-10 06:26 PM
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41. It wouldn't make any sense if it was supposedly sexist.
What the hell would "testicles to the wall" mean?

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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-10 09:09 PM
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49. "Testicles to the wall?" um, no, I don't think so.
Edited on Fri Dec-31-10 09:13 PM by ThomCat
I can't imagine any way anyone could possible get their testicles up against a wall in a way that could ever mean "giving it everything you've got."

It seems to me that that would be pretty uncomfortable and would prevent you from giving any activity "all that you've got." You're pretty much stuck there not doing anything, as a matter of fact.

So, no, this clearly isn't about testicles, and if it isn't gender based, then it is incredibly unlikely to be sexist. So don't go reading more into it if it just isn't there.

:shrug:


Edit to add: I just saw the aviation explanation for the term "balls to the wall." That makes sense. A lot of terms have technical origins that are now in common use.

Just because it sounds like a sexual euphemism doesn't mean that it is.
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MiddleFingerMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-10 10:24 PM
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50. copykick
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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-01-11 08:04 AM
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56. all male children should be aborted since they are *potentially* rapists
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Angry Dragon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-01-11 02:25 PM
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60. The Land of the Amazons
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-01-11 10:54 PM
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63. is that "your way?"
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Recovered Repug Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-01-11 05:23 PM
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61. Isn't "balls to the wall" another way of saying walnuts?
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JVS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-01-11 10:56 PM
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64. Crude, but I don't see what's sexist about it. Kind of like saying a business went tits-up.
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alphafemale Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-02-11 04:37 AM
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69. I got called out for using the word "picnic" once
Yes.

There are people offended by the word "picnic."

Because they are stupid and believe everything they read on the Internet.

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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-02-11 11:55 AM
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72. no.
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cherokeeprogressive Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-02-11 03:17 PM
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77. Only if you can compare going really fast to
pressing testicles against a fence.

I'm SURE there are some who can. Make the comparison I mean.

When I tried to press my testicles against the wall I fell on my ass.
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Bucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-02-11 04:05 PM
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78. splinters from wall
just think about it.
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snooper2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-03-11 12:07 PM
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83. tits in the wringer?
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JustABozoOnThisBus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-03-11 12:52 PM
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84. If it's supposed to mean "testicles to the wall", ...
that would imply a sexist (and very painful) end to your ski holiday.

Wham!

Ow.

:scared:
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