talk to the therapist that you don't see any improvement with her.
If the therapist is not helpful in that regard, then find another therapist.
I used a combo of therapy, 12 step, and a PTSD treatment called EMDR, and my particular religion.
EMDR sounded weird to me, but it worked. Big time.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eye_movement_desensitization_and_reprocessing this is a link about it on wiki. I'm not an expert on it.
I just know it worked for me, and I had a very reputable PHD psychiatrist (not psychologist) that really helped me.
I was able to move on in my 12 step work, after getting treatment for several traumatic events during my childhood and early 20's.
Life's been on the upswing for me since then...about 10 years now.
I would say call every agency regarding help...get every bit of help you can from friends, family...
private agencies, government agencies...
just be a squeaky wheel.
Make sure to be around people who build you up, not tear you down. Be around people who want you to succeed.
I found these people at my church and in Al-anon, but you can find them with what works for you.
I had to have people to call and talk to.
If there is someone in your family that has a drinking problem, I would suggest Al-Anon for you. It's free.
Read everything you can on getting better.
If you are concerned for your immediate safety, I would go to a friends house where you could get away...
or somewhere where he wouldn't be able to find you.
But also you can only do just one thing at a time, one hour at a time, one day at a time.
All you have to do is today :)
I found that a little self defense training goes a long way.
I'm not an expert in Karate, but I've been shown how to put a someone of any size on the ground and hurt him enough to get away.
I've never needed it, but it makes me feel better that I know how.
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