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Pryderi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 07:59 AM Original message |
Love, Trust, Privacy and Betrayal? |
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Magrittes Pipe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 08:02 AM Response to Original message |
1. If you log on to her email, you absolutely have violated her trust. |
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Pryderi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 08:05 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. What if it is the same email acct in which she had an online affair when she was single? |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 03:33 PM Response to Reply #2 |
7. I've had one of my email accounts for almost 10 years. |
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Connonym (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 03:37 PM Response to Reply #2 |
11. I still use the email account I always used when I was online dating |
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Pryderi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 03:27 PM Response to Original message |
3. *bump* Any advice? Should I talk to her about it? What should I ask/say? |
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Connonym (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 03:32 PM Response to Reply #3 |
6. if it's really bugging you then ask but whatever you do don't snoop around |
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Spacemom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 03:29 PM Response to Original message |
4. I say leave it alone |
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MrCoffee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 03:31 PM Response to Original message |
5. Don't marry her |
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SOteric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 05:52 PM Response to Reply #5 |
20. What he said, -AND |
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pokerfan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 05:58 PM Response to Reply #5 |
21. Yep, don't marry her if you are unable to trust her |
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BarenakedLady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 03:34 PM Response to Original message |
8. Talk to her |
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ceile (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 03:35 PM Response to Original message |
9. Question- |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 03:35 PM Response to Original message |
10. you did invade her privacy and you can't unring the bell. Maybe she wanted you to see it. |
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Inchworm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 03:39 PM Response to Original message |
12. You lost me in the first sentence |
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TimeChaser (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 03:52 PM Response to Original message |
13. Perhaps she was just submitting a story? |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 04:08 PM Response to Original message |
14. This is IMHO, YMMV |
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Westegg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 04:11 PM Response to Original message |
15. Yes; Hell, might as well NOW; No. |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 04:21 PM Response to Original message |
16. We're talking about a computer right? |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 04:24 PM Response to Original message |
17. If you can't trust her there is going to be problems |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 04:27 PM Response to Original message |
18. talking is better |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 04:27 PM Response to Original message |
19. My Ex liked to read my diary |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 06:18 PM Response to Reply #19 |
23. I went through this too. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 06:40 PM Response to Reply #23 |
26. I totally agree with you |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 06:51 PM Response to Reply #26 |
28. I had thought I had my head on straight about these things too. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 07:17 PM Response to Reply #28 |
31. Eek! Did we marry the same guy?! |
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Capn Sunshine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 06:03 PM Response to Original message |
22. If you don't trust her now |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 06:21 PM Response to Original message |
24. Yes, you have violated her trust. |
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TimeChaser (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 06:47 PM Response to Reply #24 |
27. ... |
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LaurenG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 06:33 PM Response to Original message |
25. If you do not trust her, this isn't going to work out well |
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madinmaryland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 07:00 PM Response to Original message |
29. A couple of comments here. |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-11-08 07:16 PM Response to Original message |
30. Why would you care what she's doing online? |
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Pryderi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-13-08 09:47 PM Response to Original message |
32. I found out she's still in touch with the guy she's had an online affair with. |
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