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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:35 PM
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My Dad is dead. His small plane crashed.
We'd been estranged for many years. I called him a few times a year. He sent me avocados from his tree every year.

He build his ultralight in his warehouse. I told him I'd lose a hundred pounds so I could go up with him. That plane was his dream for years, and he'd been able to fly it for about a year.

I don't know how it happened yet.

I hope he wasn't scared. I hope he didn't suffer.

Oklahoma farm boy, school boy


His ultralight in progress


Business owner - a great picture


09/06/39 - 01/10/08
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greenbriar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:37 PM
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1. I am sorry
I lost my dad 10 years ago

Time heals
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:38 PM
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2. I am so sorry...
:hug:

RL
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:39 PM
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3. I am so sorry...
:hug:
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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:39 PM
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4. My deepest sympathies
very sorry to see this :hug:
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quip Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:39 PM
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Oh God, I'm so sorry
That's such terrible news. Please accept my heartfelt condolences to you and your family. :hug:
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SallyMander Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:39 PM
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5. So sorry, bertha

:hug:
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Robeson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:39 PM
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6. Oh hell. I'm so sorry bertha...
...:hug: :grouphug:
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Ptah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:39 PM
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7. You are in my prayers, my friend.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:40 PM
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8. I am so sorry my dear bertha...
I am in shock, and I know you are ...

Oh sweetie...

Wish I could do something more to help you ...

I hope for the same things you do: that he wasn't scared, and that he didn't suffer...

Safe passage to him...

Hugs for you...:hug: :hug:
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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:41 PM
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9. Oh Bertha, I'm so sorry.
:hug: :hug: :hug:

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Ikonoklast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:41 PM
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10. May you both find peace.
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Blue Diadem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:41 PM
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11. OMG Bertha, I'm so sorry
:hug:

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DeposeTheBoyKing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:42 PM
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12. OMG - what shocking news
I'm so sorry for your loss. I also hope he didn't know anything and that it happened quickly, if it had to happen. :cry: :grouphug:
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Lex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:42 PM
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13. My condolences to you and your whole family
Many cyber-hugs coming your way.




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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:42 PM
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14. I am so sorry, bertha.
:hug:
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Hobarticus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:43 PM
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15. I am so sorry, bertha...eom
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Bullwinkle925 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:44 PM
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16. Very sad news.
My condolences to you and your family.
BW925
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zabet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:45 PM
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17. So sorry for your loss.
:hug:
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:46 PM
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18. I am so sorry to hear this.
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MonkeyFunk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:46 PM
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19. Oh Bertha, I'm so sorry!
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SammyWinstonJack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:47 PM
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20. ....
:hug:
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:48 PM
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21. bertha, I am so sorry!
:hug:

If you need anything just PM me.
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Joe Fields Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:48 PM
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22. My condolences to you and your family, bertha.

That is so tragic.
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Flaxbee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:49 PM
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23. oh bertha, I am so, so, sorry
I hope he wasn't scared, either, and that he didn't suffer. I just have no words. I am so sorry. :hug: :hug:
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otherlander Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:49 PM
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24. OMG I'm so sorry to hear that
:hug:
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:50 PM
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25. Oh Bertha
:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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cabraverde Donating Member (234 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:50 PM
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26. I offer my condolences
I will say a prayer for you, your dad and your family.
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lavenderdiva Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:51 PM
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27. oh, bertha, I'm so very sorry-
please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I'm sending you lots of these: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:52 PM
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28. I'm so sorry
:hug:
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CreekDog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:53 PM
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29. I'm so sorry
:cry:

I don't know what to say, but I'm very sorry to hear this has happened.
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Marrah_G Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:54 PM
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30. I'm so sorry- I wish I could take away your pain
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Prisoner_Number_Six Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:55 PM
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31. My condolences to you and your family.
:hug:
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:55 PM
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32. Oh, damn. Sorry to hear that.
Redstone
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Richardo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:56 PM
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33. Oh Bertha, I'm so sorry...
Sending you and your family wishes for peace and strength at this difficult time. :hug:
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BuelahWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-10-08 11:56 PM
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34. I am so sorry Bertha
:hug:
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liberaltrucker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:00 AM
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35. Coldolences from us, Bertha
PM if you want a shoulder.

:pals:
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TBreeze Donating Member (393 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:00 AM
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36. I'm so sorry
:hug:
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reyd reid reed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:03 AM
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37. I am so sorry....
I have no words.

Just

:hug:

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Ryano42 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:04 AM
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38. To touch the sky...
To live his dream...to fly.

Doing what he loved...remember this. And celebrate him. :)

:hug:
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:04 AM
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39. I am so very sorry.
:hug:
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tigereye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:06 AM
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40. I am so sorry Bertha!
:hug:

my heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.
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bullwinkle428 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:11 AM
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41. I'm so sorry for your loss, BK...
my deepest condolences to you and the rest of the family! :grouphug:
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Writer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:11 AM
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42. I am so sorry to read this.
:hug: He looks like a wonderful person.

~Writer~
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Starbucks Anarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:11 AM
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43. I'm so sorry, Bertha.
:hug: :hug: :hug:
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Wapsie B Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:13 AM
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44. I am so sorry.
My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
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Withywindle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:14 AM
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45. I'm so sorry.
:hug:
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RushIsRot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:15 AM
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46. I am sorry for the sad outcome, but I suspect your dad perished
in a manner that he would have perhaps chosen -- had he been asked. May your lasting memories of your father be warm ones.

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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:17 AM
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47. Oh Bertha...
:hug::hug::hug:
I wish these could be real...
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
:hug::hug::hug:
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Kali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:18 AM
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48. I'm so sorry
It sounds like he was doing something he loved - we should all be so lucky when the time comes.
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bridgit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:19 AM
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49. That's very sad, bertha, please accept my condolences...
:hug:
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Connonym Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:22 AM
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50. I'm sorry
sympathies to you and your family
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murielm99 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:22 AM
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51. I am very sorry. n/t
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FloridaJudy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:34 AM
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52. I'm so sorry.
My condolences to you and your family. At least you were back in touch with him when he died. I also hope he didn't have time to be scared or in pain.

And died doing something he obviously loved. :hug:

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fizzgig Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:34 AM
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53. i am so sorry, bertha
i wish i could say something that would help

:hug:
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LadyoftheRabbits Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:35 AM
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54. Oh my god, I am so sorry
Please know that we're here for you, Bertha... :hug:
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opiate69 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:37 AM
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55. My deepest condolences, Bertha.
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Lydia Leftcoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:52 AM
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56. I'm so sorry, Bertha
:hug:
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:52 AM
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57. I'm very sorry.
:(

:hug:

I hope he really loved all the time he got to spend up in the air.
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JVS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:53 AM
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58. My deepest condolences.
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NMDemDist2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 01:05 AM
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59. O Bertha, I'm so sorry
what a shock for all of you

:hug:
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Arugula Latte Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 01:18 AM
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60. No words ...
:hug:
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 01:19 AM
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61. Oh, I'm so sorry.
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flamingyouth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 01:23 AM
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62. I am so sorry.
What a terrible shock for you. You are sure in my thoughts and prayers right now. :hug:
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medeak Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 01:25 AM
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63. none of us really grow up
until we lose out Dad... am so sorry
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puerco-bellies Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 01:27 AM
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64. I am sorry for your loss.
He was able to live his dreams, that is a life well lived. Don't dwell on whether or not he was frightened, when you are doing things like flying stuff happens so fast you only get to be scared later. Peace to you, and your family
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Radio_Lady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 01:36 AM
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65. What a sweet boyhood photo! Bertha, my condolences to you and your family.
He was just a few months younger than me (05/31/39).

I guess he passed doing something that he loved -- flying!

I am sorry you were estranged; as I was from my father.

Try to remember the good times.

In peace,

Radio Lady in Oregon



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amitten Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 01:37 AM
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66. I'm so very sorry and I hope you are doing all right.
May you and your family find peace in the days to come.
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question everything Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 02:11 AM
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67. Sorry about your loss
At least he died doing what he liked and, like you, I hope that he was not scared.

Hope you will cherish the good memories of him.
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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 02:24 AM
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68. omg! katzenengel, I dunno and I'm a lil buzzed
but I got a vibe of a top notch dude.

Sorry you have to worry bout such a large heart.

:hug:
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Fox Mulder Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 02:25 AM
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69. I'm so sorry for your loss.
:(

:hug:
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rockymountaindem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 02:26 AM
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70. My condolences n/t
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 02:27 AM
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71. No words
Many :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Zookeeper Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 02:29 AM
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72. My sincere condolences to you, Bertha....
I'm so sorry for your loss. :(

:hug:

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hunter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 02:31 AM
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73. .
:hug:
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devilgrrl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 02:33 AM
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74. I am so sorry for the loss Bertha
:hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:
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Quantess Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 02:36 AM
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75. How sad.
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Indi Guy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 02:39 AM
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76. Nothing much to say, except that...
...I hope your Dad's physical end doesn't dampen your spirit.

He went for his dreams & his body died in the process. Protect your body & your dreams will die.

Only you can decide which is better for you.
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Kat45 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 02:50 AM
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77. I'm so sorry, Bertha.
Small consolation, but at least he was doing what he loved.
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LeftCoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 02:55 AM
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78. Bertha, very sorry for your loss
Hang in there! :hug:
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MagickMuffin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 03:00 AM
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79. Bertha, I'm sorry for your loss
:cry:

I know losing your father so suddenly has to be quite a shock for you and your family. But take pleasure in the joy that he had while flying.

Always keep him in your thoughts and memories, and he will still be there for you.

You are in my thoughts.

:hug:


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UrbScotty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 03:07 AM
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80. ...
Sometimes words can't express what you're feeling.

My love to you and all who knew him.

:hug:
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Yuugal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 03:28 AM
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81. I'm sorry
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JCMach1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 03:29 AM
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82. I am sorry...
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Bunny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 04:26 AM
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83. Oh Bertha I'm so sorry.
How tragic. :hug:
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Lady Freedom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 04:43 AM
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84. I am so sorry.
Please think of this: He has already had flight time so the wing are going to be
easy to get use to!

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krispos42 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 04:50 AM
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85. Sympathies, sympathies
Edited on Fri Jan-11-08 04:50 AM by krispos42
hugs, hugs

:hug: :hug:

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mikita Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 05:42 AM
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86. I'm so sorry
Take care :hug:

Mikita
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UndertheOcean Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 05:43 AM
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87. I am so sorry
:hug:
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LaurenG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 05:47 AM
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88. I am so very sorry Bertha
My deepest sympathies and big hugs to you. :hug:
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Sanity Claws Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 06:08 AM
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89. I am sorry for your loss.
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Spacemom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 06:40 AM
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90. My condolences for you and your family
:hug:
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chknltl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 06:52 AM
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91. What a nice photo tribute... we share a measure of your pain
and wish only the best wishes to you and yours :hug:
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KatyaR Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 07:03 AM
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92. Oh, Bertha, how awful!
I'm so very sorry. Those are some wonderful photos.
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conscious evolution Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 07:04 AM
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93. High Flight
Oh! I have slipped the surly bonds of Earth
And danced the skies on laughter-silvered wings;
Sunward I've climbed and joined the tumbling mirth of sun-split clouds, – and done a hundred things
You have not dreamed of wheeled and soared and swung
High in the sunlit silence. Hov'ring there,
I've chased the shouting wind along, and flung
My eager craft through footless falls of air...
Up, up the long, delirious, burning blue
I've topped the wind-swept heights with easy grace
Where never lark, nor eer eagle flew –
And, while with silent lifting mind I've trod
The high, untrespassed sanctity of space,
Put out my hand and touched the face of God.



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hippywife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 07:16 AM
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94. I'm so sorry, Bertha.
My deepest condolences for your tragic loss, sweetie. Was your dad still here in Oklahoma?
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Cannikin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 07:18 AM
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95. Oh, Bertha, I cant tell you how sorry I am.
For what its worth, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 07:19 AM
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96. so sorry bertha
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nadine_mn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 07:20 AM
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97. So sorry for your loss
peace be w/ you and your family
:hug:
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RainDog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 07:35 AM
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98. Condolences
no matter what, your dad is always your dad. I'm sorry for you loss. Peace to you.
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lildreamer316 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 07:41 AM
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99. Bertha..
I am so very sorry.
hope you don't mind me saying this...he died doing what he loved. That is always a gift...
I will be thinking of you and your family.
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Ellen Forradalom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 08:03 AM
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100. Oh no.
I'm so sorry.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 08:05 AM
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101. I'm Sorry...
I hope it was quick and he wasn't scared either

:hug:
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 08:11 AM
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102. I'm so sorry.
I'm glad he got a chance to realize a dream.

:hug:

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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 08:13 AM
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103. Oh, I'm so sorry.
:hug:
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MissMillie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 08:24 AM
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104. Bertha, I grieve for you and your loss
:hug:

If there's anything we can do....
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 08:32 AM
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105. I'm so sorry, Bertha.
I'll join you in wishes that he wasn't afraid nor suffered.
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QMPMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 08:34 AM
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106. I am so sorry, Bertha. I will keep you in my thoughts.
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bluethruandthru Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 08:37 AM
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107. I'm so sorry!
:hug:
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NewJeffCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 08:38 AM
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108. I'm very sorry for your loss
you have my sympathy.
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LeftyFingerPop Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 08:40 AM
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109. I am very sorry Bertha...
:hug:
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lightningandsnow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 08:42 AM
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110. I am so sorry to hear that.
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terrya Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 08:48 AM
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111. Bertha...I'm so sorry.
My condolences and my thoughts are with you, my friend.

:hug:
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LynneSin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 08:49 AM
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112. Oh my!!!
:hugs:
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seemunkee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 08:53 AM
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113. I am very sorry bertha
You and your family have my deepest condolences.
:hug:
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malta blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 08:56 AM
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114. Oh Bertha - I am so sorry.
How tragic and shocking for you.

:hug: :hug:

You made me cry when you said "I hope he was not scared". Those are the sentiments of a beautiful person Bertha...

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kedrys Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 08:58 AM
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115. I'm so sorry, Bertha
:cry: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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youthere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:04 AM
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116. Oh Bertha...I am so sorry.
I wish there was something wise and comforting I could say. I'm so so sorry.
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coffeenap Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:04 AM
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117. So very sorry, Bertha.
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MrsMatt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:07 AM
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118. I'm so very sorry
I've lost both my parents under sudden circumstances, and I think it is in some ways much harder, because you never had a chance to say goodbye.

I'll be holding you, Mrs. V and the rest of you family in my prayers.
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zanne Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:08 AM
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119. I'm sorry, Bertha.
I hope to die while doing something I love to do. I know that your grief is fresh and that doesn't help you right now, but please know that my heart goes out to you and your family.
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dropkickpa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:12 AM
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120. I'm sorry for your loss
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:12 AM
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121. Oh, Bertha, I'm so verry sorry. Take care, sister--we're here when you need us.
:hug:
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Evergreen Emerald Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:12 AM
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122. Sweety. I am so sorry.
hugs for you.
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antigop Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:14 AM
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123. So very sorry, bertha.
I am sorry for your loss.
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The Velveteen Ocelot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:16 AM
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124. My condolences -- I'm so sorry...
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Sugar Smack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:17 AM
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125. Bertha. All my love to you right now.
I'm so sorry.
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Maine-ah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:18 AM
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126. I'm so sorry, Bertha
I know how hard it is to lose a parent.:hug:
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J-Lo Biafra Donating Member (418 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:19 AM
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127. I am so sorry...
:hug:
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ingac70 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:24 AM
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128. Sorry for your loss....
:cry:

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Catshrink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:25 AM
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129. Oh Bertha!
I am so sorry to hear about your dad. He died doing what he loved. My dad died in August and I am still devastated. I miss him so much.

We love you here and are with you in spirit.

:grouphug:
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1gobluedem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:26 AM
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130. Oh, how awful; I am so sorry
My sympathy to you and your family.
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Renew Deal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:26 AM
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131. I'm sorry to hear that.
It's good that he got to experience his dream. :pals:
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babylonsister Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:26 AM
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132. I'm so very sorry for your loss, bertha katzenengel...
:hug:
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demnan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:26 AM
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133. Bertha, Oh I am so sorry
I just feel bad for you. It is very difficult when we daughters lose our fathers. I lost mine over 10 years ago and I still think of him fondly.

Your Dad looked like he was enjoying himself with that plane. I'm glad for you that you resolved differences with him that you had had, whatever the reasons. It is always good to have had those last years be without conflict.

:hug:

Nancy
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LaraMN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:27 AM
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134. Oh sweetheart, I'm so, so very sorry.
:cry:
:hug: :hug: :hug:

My heart breaks for you.
Much love to you, honey. I wish there were more I could say or do.

:hug: :hug: :hug:
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momto3 Donating Member (497 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:28 AM
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135. I am so sorry for your loss.
:hug:
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Bluerthanblue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:30 AM
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136. Oh, my...
I am so sorry.
:hug:
peace, comfort and love
blu
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nuxvomica Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:34 AM
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137. My condolences
Peace to you and yours. :hug:
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CoffeeCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:35 AM
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138. I'm so sorry...
I am sure your father was fighting to control the plane. He probably thought
he would walk away from it. I have a friend who was in a bad accident and
almost died. I asked him if he was scared and if he knew he would die. He
said, "I was embarrassed. I thought I'd crash and make a fool out of myself.
When you're in trouble, all you do is think about how to survive. It wasn't
scary."

I hope that provides some comfort. His remarks always stuck with me.

You mentioned that you were estranged from your father. However, you made
phone calls and I'm sure they meant a lot to your father, and you'll always
have warm memories when you see avocados.

Peace and light to you during this painful time.

:hugs:
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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:35 AM
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139. I'm sorry to hear it, Bertha. How very sad!
I echo your sentiment that he hopefully died without terror or suffering, and that in that last flight he knew pure joy while he was in the air and free of earthly constraints.

Good vibes to you!
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leftynyc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:38 AM
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140. I'm so very sorry
You and your family will be in my prayers.
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RFKHumphreyObama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:44 AM
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141. Words are inadequateat this time, I know
But rest assured that you and your family have my deepest and sincerest thoughts, prayers, condolences and sympathies. I'm so, so very sorry Bertha
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 09:45 AM
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142. I am very sorry for your loss.
:hug:
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ronnykmarshall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 10:21 AM
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143. I'm so sorry Bertha.
:hug:
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Swede Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 10:23 AM
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144. Sorry to hear this Bertha.
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stuntcat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 10:27 AM
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145. oh no
This is sad, I'm so sorry :hug:

That looked like a beautiful plane he built, he had to be so proud of it. And that last picture is great of him!

I am sorry.
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Mad_Dem_X Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 10:28 AM
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146. My deepest condolences. nt
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plcdude Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 10:30 AM
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147. I am so sorry
for your loss. Like my father who died on the golf course he went out doing what he loved. I miss him and my mother everyday. Yet they are with me and in me and come out of me as I live and raise my family. Hang in there.
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cloudythescribbler Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 10:31 AM
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148. My condolences to you and your family
Peace be upon him
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Tektonik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 10:35 AM
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149. .
:hug:
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Anouka Donating Member (712 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 10:35 AM
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150. He's smiling down upon you.
Cute little freckle-faced boy. I'm sorry you two were estranged for so long. I'm sorry you have lost your father.

You and your family have my family's good thoughts and prayers at this time.


God bless you and your father and your family.
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racaulk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 10:37 AM
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151. I'm so sorry, bertha.
:hug:
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grace0418 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 10:37 AM
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152. I'm terribly sorry Bertha.
As you said, I hope he wasn't scared and wasn't in pain. I also hope he died doing what he loved. Not the worst way to go. Just sad for his loved ones.

:hug:
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Highway61 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 10:41 AM
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153. Dear God...I am so sorry
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huskerlaw Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 10:46 AM
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154. I'm so sorry, Bertha
Peace and good vibes to you and your family.

:hug:
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alphafemale Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 10:48 AM
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155. I'm sure you were never estranged from his heart.
I'm very sorry for your loss.

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Parche Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 11:39 AM
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156. Sad
:hug: :hug: :hi:
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peekaloo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 11:41 AM
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157. Condolences.
:hug:
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LynzM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 11:47 AM
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158. Oh Bertha, I'm sorry....
Much love and many hugs to you and the rest of your family... :hug:
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Phentex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 11:52 AM
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159. I'm so sorry!
sending hugs your way. :(
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fed-up Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 11:56 AM
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160. sending hugs to you and your family....nt
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ProfessorGAC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 11:58 AM
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161. Bummer!
My condolences, BK.
The Professor
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VenusRising Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:03 PM
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162. My condolences to you and your family.
I would take some solace in the fact that he went doing something he loved.

Peace to you and your family.

:hug:

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Mz Pip Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:17 PM
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163. I am so sorry Bertha
There really are no other words.

Mz Pip
:dem:
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July Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:21 PM
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164. I am very sorry, Bertha.
Your pictures are a lovely tribute.
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Stuart G Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:28 PM
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165. My sympathies to you
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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:32 PM
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166. my dear friend ..
I'm so very sorry for your loss. I missed this thread completely.

:hug:

please check your pm.

love.

kesha
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Dora Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 12:55 PM
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167. I am sorry for your loss, Bertha.
But happy for your dad that he was doing something that he loved. I hope to be so fortunate when my time comes.

Peace and love to you and yours in your time.
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Thirtieschild Donating Member (978 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 01:14 PM
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168. So sorry. Lots of light coming your way.
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 01:16 PM
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169. I'm so, so sorry...
:(

:pals:

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Momgonepostal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 01:17 PM
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170. Wow, Bertha...I'm sorry nt
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Burma Jones Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 01:34 PM
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171. I am sorry for your loss
Peace......
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MANative Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 02:13 PM
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172. My deepest sympathies on your loss...
He had a great smile. Wishing you peace and comfort.

:hug:
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miss_american_pie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 02:45 PM
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173. I am so sorry for your loss
:hugs:
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 03:35 PM
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174. Oh my God, Bertha! I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry.
Your dad was born just one day before mine.

:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Crazy Dave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 03:37 PM
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175. So sorry to hear that BK
:hug:
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ismnotwasm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 03:39 PM
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176. I'm so sorry
So very sad. (Wonderful pictures)
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Lisa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 03:42 PM
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177. sorry to hear this ...
Condolences to you and your family.
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Shine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 04:05 PM
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178. What a tragedy. I'm so sorry, Bertha.
:hug: Like you, I hope he didn't suffer too long. I think it's probably easiest for those who pass suddenly, but definitely harder for the ones left behind. I send you all my best wishes for Peace and Comfort to you and your family during this difficult time. :hug:
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driver8 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 04:09 PM
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179. Bertha, I am so sorry for your loss.
Sending hugs and good thoughts your way...:hug:
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MrScorpio Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 04:19 PM
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180. My goodness, Bertha. I am so sorry for your loss
:hug:
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guitar man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 04:25 PM
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181. so sorry to hear that
:hug:
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Bucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 04:27 PM
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182. Oh how horrible.
I'm so sorry for this terrible moment. What a shocking way to lose someone.
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Zoigal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 04:55 PM
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183. My sincere sympthy, Bertha k

Heard of an ultra crash on the news. Must have been your dad. So sorry. z
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redwitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 04:58 PM
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184. So sorry for the loss of your dad.
Edited on Fri Jan-11-08 04:58 PM by redwitch
He had a very friendly face. I am glad you were able to reconnect a bit before losing him again. :hug:
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RoadRage Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 04:58 PM
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185. Very sorry for you.. i lost my dad last year. NT
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 04:59 PM
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186. I am so sorry for your loss
:hug:
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GCP Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 05:08 PM
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187. Oh, I'm so sorry, Betrha
It's hard losing a parent, even if you you weren't that close any more. :hug:
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fortyfeetunder Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 05:15 PM
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188. Sorry to hear about your dad
He was a handsome and can imagine, creative man.
Sorry he left this world so tragically.
My condolences to you and your family.
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Richard Steele Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 05:19 PM
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189. I wish I had useful something to say Bertha...
But I don't, so can I just offer you a hug? :hug:
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greatauntoftriplets Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 05:21 PM
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190. I am so sorry for your loss.
My deepest condolences.

:hug:
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Blue-Jay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 05:22 PM
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191. Condolences, my friend.
Estranged or not, that kind of news is devastating.
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Pithlet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 05:27 PM
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192. I'm so sorry.
My deepest sympathy :hug:
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MrMickeysMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 05:31 PM
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193. Dear Bertha,
Good Lord... How can your pain be eased? It can't.

But, (in my own way) I want to send you strength and want you to know you are being held in my :hug: thoughts.

:grouphug:
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BlueJazz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 05:39 PM
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194. I'm sorry Burtha. You're in our Hearts.
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appal_jack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 05:46 PM
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195. condolences & respects
I'm very sorry to hear of your loss bertha.

Your Dad looks like a fine man who lived life fully.

:hug:

-app
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TK421 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 05:59 PM
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196. My sympathies....I'm sorry to hear the news
:(
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Nutmegger Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 06:54 PM
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197. I'm really sorry to hear this.
:hug:
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WinkyDink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 06:57 PM
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198. {{{Bertha}}} You have my deepest sympathy.
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Giant Robot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 06:58 PM
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199. My sincerest condolences
Wishing you peace and love during the difficult times that you are going through. PM me if I can help.
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brentspeak Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 07:04 PM
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200. Prayers for you and your family
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Coyote_Bandit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 07:11 PM
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201. .
:hug:
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Darth_Kitten Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 07:38 PM
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202. I am truly sorry.
:hug:
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ThatsMyBarack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 07:40 PM
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203. Sympathy....
:grouphug:
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Quakerfriend Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 07:42 PM
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204. So, so sorry, Bertha...
:hug:

He looks to have been are very kind fellow. All my condolences to you and your family.
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jackson_dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 07:43 PM
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205. Sorry to hear. My thoughts are with you
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warrior1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 07:47 PM
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Bless his heart
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 07:47 PM
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206. I am so sorry, hon *hugs*
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hedgehog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 07:50 PM
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207. I sorry to hear of this.
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TheCentepedeShoes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 07:54 PM
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208. You have my
:hug: He looks like a heck of a guy.
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femmocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 08:06 PM
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209. Oh bertha, I am so very sorry.
Edited on Fri Jan-11-08 08:09 PM by femmocrat
Thank you for the lovely tribute to your dad and for telling us a little about his life. He looks like a wonderful man from the pictures. I'm sure he was always very proud of you as you were of him. My sincerest condolences to you and your family.

:hug: :cry:
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GenDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 08:13 PM
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210. So very sorry.
:hug:
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cwydro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 08:18 PM
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211. In honor of your dad...
and for you too...

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
High Flight
Oh! I have slipped the surly bonds of earth
And danced the skies on laughter-silvered wings;
Sunward I've climbed, and joined the tumbling mirth
Of sun-split clouds - and done a hundred things
You have not dreamed of - wheeled and soared and swung
High in the sunlit silence. Hov'ring there
I've chased the shouting wind along, and flung
My eager craft through footless halls of air.
Up, up the long delirious, burning blue,
I've topped the windswept heights with easy grace
Where never lark, or even eagle flew -
And, while with silent lifting mind I've trod
The high untresspassed sanctity of space,
Put out my hand and touched the face of God.

Pilot Officer Gillespie Magee
No 412 squadron, RCAF
Killed 11 December 1941

I wish you peace Bertha. Hang in there.
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Pacifist Patriot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 08:22 PM
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212. I cannot tell you how sorry I am to hear this.
:hug:
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 08:24 PM
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213. I am so sorry.
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pitohui Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 10:34 PM
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214. so sorry to hear this
i think it's how we all want to go, doing something we love, but it's sure hard on the survivors

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snailly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 10:40 PM
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215. I'm sorry
Conflicting emotions and just plain old grief. I know. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 10:42 PM
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216. I'm so sorry my sweet
so, so sorry
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YellowRubberDuckie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 10:43 PM
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217. I am so sorry for your loss, Bertha...
:hug:
He looks so familiar.
Duckie
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 10:59 PM
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218. My condolences Bertha. RIP dad.
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GigiMommy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-11-08 11:22 PM
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219. I am so sorry
about your Dad. My heart goes out to you and yours. :hug:
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AwakeAtLast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-12-08 12:08 AM
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220. {{{{{bertha}}}}}
:hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

So sorry for your loss!
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sazemisery Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-12-08 12:17 AM
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221. When you are sorrowful look again in your heart,...
and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight. ~Kahlil Gibran
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CherokeeDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-12-08 12:20 AM
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222. Deepest Condolences
Bertha:

I don't post often but I have been around for years and so many Du'ers are like friends in that your lives and laughs and sorrows have touched me in many ways. I have so enjoyed the escapades of your cats, the fun and troubles that you and your partner have both enjoyed and endured. Now, I am so sorry for your loss. I, too, hope he had a peaceful departure doing what he enjoyed.

May he rest in peace.

Debbie
Lexington, KY
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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-12-08 03:15 PM
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226. I can't reply to everyone but I had to reply to this
Thank you, Debbie. I can never get over how words on a screen become a loving community. But I'm glad you and I are both part of it.

Thank you. :hug:
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CherokeeDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-12-08 04:02 PM
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227. I Am Glad We Are As Well...
Take care and thank you.

Debbie
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Rhiannon12866 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-12-08 01:10 AM
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223. Oh, wow... I am so sorry, and I sure do sympathize with your feelings.
At least he was doing something that he loved. You and your Dad are in my thoughts. He sounds like a remarkable man...;(

Rhiannon:hug:
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BreweryYardRat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-12-08 08:27 AM
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224. I'm sorry.
I'm terrible at being reassuring, so that's all I'll say.
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Maestro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-12-08 09:38 AM
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225. My condolences
I am so sorry. :hug:
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Eurobabe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-12-08 04:17 PM
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228. Condolences
So sorry for your loss. :hug:
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no name no slogan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-12-08 05:10 PM
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229. ....
:hug:

I'm so sorry
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NewWaveChick1981 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-12-08 05:14 PM
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230. Bertha, I am so sorry.
:hug: :hug: :pals: My heart goes out to you. :hug:
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yellowdogintexas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-12-08 05:19 PM
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231. this is sad news, please accept my condolences
for what it is worth, I used to know a bunch of EAA types with homebuilt aircraft of various types and all of them would tell you they wanted to go doing what they loved most, flying.

but I am sorry for your loss.

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Left Brain Donating Member (895 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-12-08 05:21 PM
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232. I'm so very sorry for your loss, Bertha.
You posted a nice memorial of pictures, I enjoyed seeing them.
Take care...
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gbate Donating Member (900 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-12-08 07:12 PM
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233. I am very sorry for your loss.
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