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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 01:22 PM
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Am I the only one who does'nt care about New Years ?
This has always been the one holiday that I could care nothing about. I am not sad or depressed ... I think its overhyped. Its just another day. Bah ... someone pass the Champagne.
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Bennyboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 01:32 PM
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1. This year...not so much.......
Edited on Sun Dec-30-07 01:32 PM by Bennyboy
every other year I have spent NYE with my favorite band. The Grateful Dead every year since 68-69 and then String Cheeese Incident after that. but now SCI is done and the GD are not doing anything.

SO I am gonna stay home this year. Pretty big bummer...
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 01:34 PM
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2. I've got an unpaid day off for it, and I'm none too thrilled.
I need the money more than the time off.

x(
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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 01:56 PM
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6. I know what you mean ...
I know exactly what you mean.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 01:41 PM
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3. I've felt that way for years...
not sure how I feel this year, it actually seems kind of lonely this year.

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no name no slogan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 01:43 PM
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4. Nah. I'm staying home and doing laundry
after working a regular workday new years eve. I could honestly care less about it.
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qwertyMike Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 01:49 PM
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5. When I was young about 100 years ago
It meant I could get a free kiss at the dance.

Now I go down to City Hall (Halifax, N.S.) and freeze to death, but drink a lottta hot chocolate.

My kids are a little older now, but we still do it - for nostalgia I guess.

Fireworks at midnight - can't beat it.
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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 01:57 PM
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7. Fireworks at midnight was big when I lived in Germany.
It was a sight to see if you were on a train and seeing the fireworks shooting from villages.
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qwertyMike Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 02:16 PM
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14. In Cape Breton N.S,
They all go out and shoot guns in the air at midnight (Toward the sea I should add)

Mike
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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 02:05 PM
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8. It's just another day here too
Actually for the last several years it has been a day I go against the norm and remain sober. Yup, just another day. I guess it would be cool to be in a great embrace at that particular moment in time, but hey.. I want that at this moment too :D

:hi:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 02:11 PM
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12. it's amateur night
:P

:hi:
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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 02:18 PM
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15. A fact I'm not proud of
:blush:

:hi:
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lizerdbits Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 02:10 PM
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9. Not much anymore
Early/mid 20's is a reason to go out and drink. Now it's a paid holiday so I can get something done. This year I'll probably take the day and use a gift card I got from my grandmother. And go to the gym if my cold clears up.
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 02:11 PM
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10. It is good to take a look back at the past year. If only to take your own
pulse and ask if smoking is really something you want to be doing - as I ask myself these days.
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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 02:15 PM
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13. I actually had a great year this year.
I grew up a lot this year and I feel stronger.I think I am not looking forward to New Years because I am anxious and hoping that the year 2008 is a great year for me :)
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 02:37 PM
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19. Here's hoping 2007 was the start of a trend. And growing up helps
that alot.
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MorningGlow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 02:11 PM
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11. New Year's for pagans is Samhain (Halloween)
January 1, therefore, really doesn't mean anything. Plus it infringes on my birthday (the 2nd); nobody wants to celebrate my birthday the day AFTER. Plus I'm not a huge fan of fireworks, and any New Year's party I've gone to, single or married, was a total bust. I'm still wondering where all those allegedly kickass New Year's parties are, because I never found one in all my 40+ years. So...overhyped? Yeah, I'd say so. :shrug:
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DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 03:26 PM
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22. Yeah, my grandma's birthday is on the 1st and that's probably what I'm gonna be celebrating. :)
'sides, the only girl I'd want to kiss at midnight is out of the state at the moment. So unless I meet somebody else in the next day or two... :P
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MorningGlow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 04:19 PM
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25. Welp, at least we don't have a blizzard 'round here this year
That's always the other big January birthday challenge in Rochester--managing to have a party or go out drinking when it's -40 degrees with blowing snow, which has happened on more than one of my birthdays--most of 'em, in fact.

My mom hands me a cake at our New Year's Day family dinner, and reminds folks to bring me small token presents, and that's my birthday. It gets so I forget it's actually on the 2nd.
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DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 07:30 PM
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29. Yeah, I went away for a couple days to my brother's house in VT for christmas
and came back to a barren, snowless landscape here...

Sucks, 'cause I just moved back here after living in FL for 20+ years and I never did get around to making a snowman. :(
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MorningGlow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 07:32 PM
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30. Patience, grasshopper
I hear we're getting 3-6" tonight. Cross fingers!
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DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 07:52 PM
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31. Heh... typical. And I had errands to do tomorrow... :P
Couldn't it have waited until tomorrow night?

I keed, I keed...

Out of curiosity though... IS there anything to do in Rochester on New Year's Eve?
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MorningGlow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 07:57 PM
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32. Yeah, me too
Pick up some coffee beans for me at Leaf & Bean for me? :evilgrin:

Anyway, over the years, I have gone to private parties, parties sponsored by the Memorial Art Gallery, and the fireworks show downtown. I have yet to find a kickass party in these parts. I hear the big 'do is still downtown, but that's more family oriented--kettle corn and fireworks and stuff. All I know is it's outdoors, it's cold, and there's no "adult beverages", so I haven't been since I was in high school.

Parties? Every bar and bowling alley has one. DECENT parties...? Ya got me. :shrug:
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DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 07:58 PM
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33. Where's Leaf & Bean? :)
I found a nice little place downtown in the Eastman area recently, but I forgot what it's called. Don't think that was the name though.
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MorningGlow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 08:32 PM
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34. Ah good coffee
Leaf & Bean is on Chili Avenue (Rt. 33)--one of the strip malls on the north side of the road...but don't ask me which one. There are SO many.

You found Java Joe's, perhaps? That's right next to the Eastman School. Or perhaps Spin, on East Ave.?

If there's one thing we've got around here, it's a decent amount of independently owned coffee places to compete with Starbucks.
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DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 08:52 PM
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35. That might be the name, not sure.
I also found a nice little place in Victor that's a coffee-shop/breakfast place. Great home-cooked style breakfasts and really good homemade bread. Can't remember the name, but it's right across the street from a nice shiny new Duncan Donuts... and guess which parking lot is usually full? :)

Unfortunately since they specialize in breakfast, they usually close around lunchtime.
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MorningGlow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 09:59 PM
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36. I think I know the one you're talking about
I think...although there are several good places right on Rt. 96 just before and right in the village. I don't get out to Victor too much these days (in Livingston County now, although I used to live in Ontario County).
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DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 11:13 PM
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39. I have to go out to Victor three times a week, hence my familiarity with it more so than the rest of
the Rochester area. :)
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The Velveteen Ocelot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 02:19 PM
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16. No, you're not. Never cared much about it.
Edited on Sun Dec-30-07 02:21 PM by ocelot
The only time I had any real fun was on the evening of 12/31/99, when a friend and I rented an airplane and flew around Minneapolis, wondering if the power grid was really gonna go out at 12:00 GMT. Otherwise I just stay home watching movies on TV. This year I have to work on both days, anyhow.
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bikebloke Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 02:25 PM
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17. No big deal for me.
I don't care for the drinking. I've always been a light drinker even when I drank more. Though I never minded the snogging with women strange to me at midnight.
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texanwitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 02:36 PM
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18. I enjoy the time around the day because that is when we have our big beach gathering.
This is the only time of the year we get together anymore, many have moved out of the area.

Some of the people attending work on Yule(Christmas) so this is our time to be together.

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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 02:56 PM
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20. I get a day off on tuesday.
Apart from that, nope.
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Iggo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 03:16 PM
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21. I'm in bed by 10 on New Year's Eve, anyway.
Once I quit drinking, it became just another day.

(Yeah, i know...boring. But I'd rather be boring and alive and free than exciting and in jail or dead.)
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DS1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 03:31 PM
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23. I like the day off
other than that. meh.
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RadiationTherapy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 03:47 PM
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24. spring equinox is WAY better
...at least you can SEE some change of season. After 3 months of fading and 3 months of "death", spring is a welcome (and obvious) relief.

I dig the renewal idea, but think it is silly in terms of when we celebrate it...

OOOh the Gregorian/Julian calendar is STARTING OVER!!!
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tigereye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 04:35 PM
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26. I like the idea of it...
we have a little family celebtration here at home with chips, goodies and watching the ball drop. I always think we should go out to First NIght, but we never do - either too cold or too wet. I make gingerbread and last year I made a nice Red snapper dish.


Then we sometimes go out to see friends on NY Day. It's nice to go to a NY day open house, with lots of good food and drink.


It's not a big deal like it was when I was in my 20s - we used to go to a couple of parties, and race to be at our best friends' house by midnight.
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Chovexani Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 05:30 PM
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27. I don't either
Then again I'm Pagan and ours was on 10/31.

Chinese New Year is WAY cooler, anyway.
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femmocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 07:03 PM
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28. My two least favorite holidays are NY and Labor Day.
They both represent the end of vacation time to me.

New Year's doesn't even have good food. Or TV. bleah.
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Sultana Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 10:06 PM
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37. NO
Because I always spend every New Year's at home x(
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mcscajun Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-30-07 10:42 PM
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38. You are not alone.
I haven't cared much about New Year's Eve in quite some time. Maybe it's being on my own too long without an SO, maybe it's just getting older. :shrug: Maybe it's a combination of the two. Maybe it's NYE fatigue.

Sometimes there's a party to go to, sometimes there isn't. Sometimes there's a party but I'm sick, the weather's bad, or I just don't feel like going. So I don't. I don't stay up and watch the ball drop half the time unless I'm at a party, where it's like an obligation.

In the end, it's just another tick of the clock, another flip of the calendar. :shrug:
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