why don't men call???

[bac511]

Come on, lets settle this debate!!!!

They say they will, and they don't. WTF?

[billyskank]

1. I do

but women don't want me to.

Life sucks, doesn't it?

[New Earth]

46. you are kidding, right?

[Phillycat]

2. You're dating the wrong men.

[MissMillie]

22. are there any right men left?

:shrug:

[Phillycat]

29. Well, I married one.

:shrug:

[MissMillie]

42. well, then he's not left

:P

[One_Life_To_Give]

32. Don't you want a Left Man, Right?

[La Lioness Priyanka]

3. they are not that into you. when they are they will call.

i am not being mean, but just stating the truth.

when a man wants you and likes you, he will call.

if he is feeling lukewarm towards you, he might not call.

[TheCentepedeShoes]

43. You're right

And you're not being mean.

[redqueen]

4. Cause they don't like to talk on the phone?

:shrug:

[MrCoffee]

8. that's your answer right there

:thumbsup:

[Solon]

30. I guess it depends on the guy, I've talked for hours on the phone...

with women I'm interested in, almost every day for the past 3 weeks or so, in fact.

[redqueen]

33. I think you're right... people are different so it varies...

For some guys they just don't like the phone... for others maybe they're just not that interested.

I'm alone though, so... *sigh*

I wish... oh how I wish...

[Solon]

34. Oh redqueen, I wish I could say that everything is going to work out...

but life doesn't work that way. I know what its like being alone, to suffer heartache. The only thing I can say, I don't know if it will help, is that, sometimes, opportunities arise from unexpected corners. I wish that I could say something to make you feel better, but all I can offer is this:

:hug:

[bac511]

5. does it make any difference...

if they're 1500 miles away most of the time?

[JVS]

6. Because of the new Man Plan from cingular. 30 minutes a month for $5

[Breeze54]

7. Because you don't know how to cook yams?

:shrug:


:P

[HERVEPA]

9. Possible they're not sure if you're interested?

[kwassa]

10. Because men lie.

[Deep13]

27. I hope you are not suggesting that vice is exclusive to men.

Both genders seem equally adept at spreading falsehood, in my experience.

Of course, I'm probably lying about that. Unless you were lying in your post. Now I'm really confused.

[kwassa]

28. no, I was just being flip ...

both genders lie, and as a guy I have seen the other side of it, too.

Men say they'll call when they don't intend to because they are afraid to say that they really aren't interested. Avoiding a potential confrontation.

Also, they may not call because they get the jitters after the fact. Intimacy scares lots of people.

[guitar man]

11. they sober up

:shrug:

:hide:

:yoiks:

[edbermac]

12. I don't own a cell phone.

B-)

[NewJeffCT]

13. We want the woman to call

it makes it easier for us - we're lazy.

plus, what priyanka said.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

16. yeah women have accused me of behaving like a man before

:P

[NewJeffCT]

19. that's probably

because you're so manly looking.

:hide:

:evilgrin:

[begin_within]

14. They have nothing worth saying

[Deep13]

24. Probably true.

No point burning daylight on the telephone if he said everything he wants to say on the date.

[begin_within]

25. Men just don't know how to talk with women.

I think that's why they don't call. They think, "well, what would I say?"

[Swede]

15. Shyness,afraid of rejection.

Lots of reasons.

[IronLionZion]

17. Women are always welcome to call too. What happend to equality?

Some men are shy and wonder if you're interested in them. Some will wait for you to call them as confirmation of your interest. Some will wait a while before calling so they don't seem too eager or desperate.

I always call, I don't wait so many days or whatever. I usually mention I had a good time and am looking forward to seeing her again. But I don't get many dates so take this with some salt.

[IndianaJones]

18. its not money. nt.

[Hand]

20. Insh'Allah.

That settles that. :rofl:

[Fire Walk With Me]

21. What's your number?

[Deep13]

23. Two possibilities:

1. They did not think the date went well and, therefore, don't want to talk to you, OR

2. They have nothing in particular to say. Men telephone to relay specific information, not to share emotions.

[Bucky]

26. Blame caller ID. Now they all know if you're calling from that payphone by their bathroom window.

Why don't men call? Why don't you lose the Venetian blinds, sister?!

[AngryAmish]

31. 'cause my wife gets mad.

[EstimatedProphet]

35. Why don't men call what?

[Gen. Jack D. Ripper]

36. I hate calling women

I figure, if she's interested she can call me.

[Rambis]

37. Because we are scared to death!

Did she sleep with me because we were both langered? How friendly should I be? How unfriendly should I be? It was a sick bet with one of their girlfriend's and she lost? If I call to soon she will think I am one sad bastard. Should I play hard to get? You slept with her you daft fucker you weren't that hard to get. What was her name? She might not even remember who I am? Did I miss dial or did she give me the wrong cell # on purpose? For fuck sake I can't call now I'm a mess. That about sums up the internal dialog the day after.

[DarkTirade]

38. Oink oink my dear. Oink oink.

Or bark bark, depending on whether you prefer to call them pigs or dogs. :P

[idgiehkt]

39. I'm more interested in why people lie about that stuff.

Why say "I'll call you" if it's not true...bad karma.

Of course it could just be when they sober up they change their mind or something. :shrug:

[rug]

40. Men are not cruel and will not say they won't call because you have a fat ass.

[Boojatta]

41. Maybe one day you'll get a lot of phone calls.

How do you know they don't call? Is there an agreed-upon deadline?

[Mike03]

44. Fear

Men are more fragile than women know.

[MichiganVote]

45. They don't call because they aren't women. End of story.

[Bennyboy]

47. Whenever I haven't called it was always because....

I was afraid of being turned down, the girl coming to her senses or something like that.... In the few cases that I did not call, I though the girl was WAY OUT of my league and I was afraid she might realize it....