HUGE credit card bill. I'm responsible for about 25% of it. But I'M the one getting yelled at.

[DeposeTheBoyKing]

This really pisses me off.

[Fire Walk With Me]

1. The sound you are hearing is fear.

Sit him down with a multiple-step plan showing what you're going to do to solve the problem.

Hope it works out.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

2. sorry. that sucks/

[lateo]

3. A couple of things.

1. The obvious...don't use the card.
2. Save your receipts and create a ledger to show your expenses with the card.

[Generic Brad]

4. Sounds like you need seperate cards

It might help define who spends what. My guess is that your SO is angry at the situation more than at you even though it may not feel that way tonight.

[flvegan]

5. Yelled at for what?

The charges? The amount?

[Wapsie B]

6. I know how you're feeling.

The ex let our son run up a helluva bill on our credit card, but I was the one getting yelled at. Oh yeah.

[Midlodemocrat]

7. Tell him to fuck off.

[barb162]

8. Who is yelling?

[DeposeTheBoyKing]

9. He always likes to pay off the entire monthly bill, which is understandable

He says the bill this month is $3000. Yes, I do have some expenses on there, but most of them are GROCERIES. I also bought something on eBay which he okayed. It just annoys me that he can purchase any bloody thing he wants and I get yelled at for going to the grocery store one too many times.

Everything's okay now. I think if I ever got a job that would help. My fingers are crossed for the interview I had this week.

[Seabiscuit]

12. Sounds like he's tired of being the only one bringing money into the house to pay credit cards debt.

[Wcross]

10. Sounds like you need to discuss the dreaded "B" word.........

Budget. If you guys develop a budget you will know WHO exceeded their planned spending and who is to blame. It would be funny to see him yell at himself!

[Quixote1818]

11. Sounds like you should be yelling at him!

I would turn it around and put him in his place.