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KG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 04:37 PM
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the woman I'm seeing has had breast augumentaion. i find it, um,
inspirational. :) :hi:
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WinkyDink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 04:45 PM
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1. Well, one "beauty" on last night's "Beauty and the Geek" said she'd get hers paid off
in free drinks.

;)
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CGowen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 04:49 PM
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2. is it contagious ? n/t
Edited on Fri Sep-21-07 04:49 PM by CGowen
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KG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 04:50 PM
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4. (checks chest) no, i don't think so....
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CGowen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 06:32 PM
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40. It's really bad when men get breast implants, like Brian Zembic

http://www.maximonline.com/articles/index.aspx?a_id=664...

In 1998 Maxim introduced Brian Zembic, the man who cashed in on a $100,000 dare by getting breast implants for a year. So, eight years later, how come hes still got em?
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SKKY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 04:50 PM
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3. Yea, kinda hard to argue with making something great even better...
...but I'm shallow like that.
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KG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 04:51 PM
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5. um, me too.
:hi:
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 04:56 PM
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6. Thanks for sharing.
I'll put that in my "another reason I should never show my natural breasts to anyone ever again" file.

:eyes:
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Starbucks Anarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 04:58 PM
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7. I prefer natural.
:hi:
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 05:00 PM
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9. Awww
I wanted to say so many more nasty things in this thread... thanks for lowering my blood pressure a little. :)
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Starbucks Anarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 05:14 PM
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11. Of course.
:D
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Whisp Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 05:00 PM
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8. bleh, no kidding.
wonder who the falsies are, doncha?
to go through all that pain and expense to please some dorks that will dump you for a better augmentation... oiy,
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 05:45 PM
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21. the worst part of it
is hearing horror stories from friends of mine... about guys who see their boobs once, then want them to keep their bra on for sex later

*sigh*

i admire their courage.

i really could. not. take. that. shit.




i can't fault any woman for spending thousands of dollars on her boobs.
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Whisp Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 05:53 PM
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25. ?
'i can't fault any woman for spending thousands of dollars on her boobs. '

I can. and really I don't believe it's a 'fault', it just not understandable to me. I am so thick in so many ways.
if a woman goes to those lengths to enhance her boobs just to get guys that are shallow and define her by boobdom, what's the point?
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 06:04 PM
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28. i don't know...
all i'm saying is i've heard SO much crap about real boobs... from men AND women...

i can see firsthand how having such an expensive, invasive and risky surgery might be considered worth it by someone who was that committed to feeling better about their body
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Iris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 06:16 PM
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32. whatever happened to just having sex?
I mean, do all these people who complain about boobs, pubic hair, whatever... have a lot of sex? And if you have a lot of partners, wouldn't the thrill be that no one's body is exactly like anyone else's?
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 06:21 PM
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36. don't ask me... i'm sworn off it for life.
as for what others are thinking... noooo idea

:shrug:
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Missy Vixen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 07:42 PM
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54. I've wondered the same thing
>do all these people who complain about boobs, pubic hair, whatever... have a lot of sex?<

I also wonder what the complainers truly look like IRL. They're so obsessed with perfection that they can't see the person standing in front of them.

IMHO, YMMV,
Julie
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Iris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-22-07 07:53 AM
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67. yep. Sad state of affairs when we become so blinded by the media and pop culture
that we can't even get it on our ownselves.
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Whisp Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 06:19 PM
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34. I think those women should look for real men
there are plenty of them out there.
my guy loves my unperfect breasts (and I love many imperfect parts of him as well) and he would be mortified if I took a surgeons knife to myself.
but I do have a partner and maybe that's a diffferent thing. But looking back when I was single, I really really didn't have a seconds worth of thought that I would be more desireable or more whatever if I had different or better breasts. I was me first, the boobs sorta comes along wth the package. take it or leave it.
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 06:21 PM
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37. yeah...
i certainly see where you're coming from...
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Iris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 06:24 PM
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38. It's called having some sexual maturity.
Shouldn't sex be about pleasing your partner and not about making unrealistic demands?

but, like you, I have a partner. If not, I'd be like redqueen and just go without (a partner that is! I can have undemanding sex by myself!)
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pokerfan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 06:58 PM
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48. It's an investment
Edited on Fri Sep-21-07 06:59 PM by pokerfan
I saw that Beauty and the Geek.

One of the women referred to her boob job as an investment! All the men who will now buy her drinks in the future will eventually pay for her surgery.

She is smart.

Don't know whether to laugh or cry so I will just: :rofl:



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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 05:04 PM
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10. I ain't picky
I like both
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 05:21 PM
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12. Don't like 'em.
They just...feel fake.

Plus, I'm a butt and legs man anyway. :shrug:
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KG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 05:28 PM
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13. me, too
but what the hey!
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 05:30 PM
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14. Well, if she's already got 'em, whaddya gonna do?
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KG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 05:35 PM
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15. well, that's what i'm saying...
Edited on Fri Sep-21-07 05:36 PM by KG
actually, she had really good work done, because i couldn't tell. she had to tell me, um, after. :hi:
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Fire Walk With Me Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 05:37 PM
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16. Find someone who accepts themselves and has fun being who and what they are?
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 05:42 PM
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18. I think that's an unfair statement to make without knowing the individual herself.
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KG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 05:44 PM
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20. she's doing just fine the way she is now, and i kinda like her
Edited on Fri Sep-21-07 05:46 PM by KG
fuck you very much.
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Fire Walk With Me Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 05:59 PM
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26. "You're welcome", to both of you.
Myself, I consider augmentation to the the equivalent of Tammy Faye Bakker's makeup. I just can't get around it.

If you like the person for who they are, then there's no problem. I'm speaking for me. I don't see how someone who likes themself could do the Tammy Faye. I'll freely admit that there are always exceptions to any rule, and damn, I've been wrong before, but I'd likely leave a woman who lied, or omitted the truth, about such things.

And I'm extremely serious about love. I want someone who is happy with themself as they are, and as they will be.

What's right for me isn't right for others. I don't have to call anyone names for having a difference of opinion, even an extremely strong one. But thanks.
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 06:05 PM
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29. Well...I prefer women to be all natural.
Edited on Fri Sep-21-07 06:05 PM by GOPisEvil
However, I can't judge another person for what he or she chooses without walking a mile in their shoes.

I am happy that the love of my life is all-natural. In fact, there isn't anything fake about her.
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Fire Walk With Me Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 06:14 PM
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31. "I can't judge another person for what he or she chooses without walking a mile in their shoes."
I didn't know you had a thing for pumps and high-heels. But I kid.

That's an excellent statement, and I respect your philosphy. I try to do so as well, so if you ever see me going off on someone, it's because I -do- feel that I understand them, know where they're coming from and why, and find the intent egregious.

I've met a lot of damaged women (I attract them) as well as some very well-adjusted women. I wish for every individual to realize the total extent of themselves, and to transcend fear and doubt, and to live in joy, which is our natural state. When I see a woman who has edited herself, I worry about what insecurity has driven her to it. And if it will rear in ways where I cannot be of assistance.

My unreasonable expectation is that people, and myself, can overcome such things through internal work, and not external compensation.

If you already love someone, no worries, you're already there.
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KG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 06:12 PM
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30. kiss my ass. your post wasn't a 'difference of opinion'. you felt complelled to
Edited on Fri Sep-21-07 06:14 PM by KG
make a snide comment about someone you don't know and that i happen to like.

man i hate weasely passive-aggresive b.s.
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 06:57 PM
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47. so you can actually....feel the, er, bags?
*SHUDDER* I will never understand why women elect to do this to themselves
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KG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 08:00 PM
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56. no. Skittles, couldn't feel the bags. and she didn't do this to herself,
she obviously hired some experts! :hi:
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-22-07 04:37 AM
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58. LOLOL
too funny. :hi:
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Mojambo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 05:42 PM
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17. I'm pro boobs.
I try to not discriminate, and to keep an open mind w/r/t natural vs fake.
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Whisp Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 06:45 PM
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43. and I'm pro peni
I try (tried) to not discriminate, and to keep an open mind w/r/t natural vs fake.

meaning, are we making love or are you just masterbating in me?
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Mojambo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 06:53 PM
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45. Whatever you prefer. n/t
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Whisp Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 06:55 PM
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46. I'll pass, thank you. nt
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ZombieNixon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 05:44 PM
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19. Nice post, Titler.
:hide:
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DS1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 05:46 PM
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22. this post deserves more credit than it will get
:thumbsup:
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KG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 05:47 PM
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23. oops
Edited on Fri Sep-21-07 05:47 PM by KG
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ZombieNixon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 07:17 PM
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49. Thank you.
Sadly, I fear its quiet brilliance will be subsumed by the waves of the impending flame war. :cry:
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 07:21 PM
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51. FWIW
I also think it's top notch material. Excellent lighthearted response. :)

:thumbsup:
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KG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 05:47 PM
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24. !
:rofl:

DUzy!
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ZombieNixon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 07:17 PM
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50. Tip your waitress, try the veal.
Edited on Fri Sep-21-07 07:18 PM by ZombieNixon
Oh, wait, that led to another flame war. :yoiks:
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 07:24 PM
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52. AHAHAHAHA!
Genius! Genius!
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Bjornsdotter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 07:54 PM
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55. OMG


... :rofl:

Nice one!

:toast:
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NewJeffCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-22-07 07:33 AM
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65. ROFL
good one. Thanks for making me laugh after reading the horrible trials Operation Mindcrime's wife and family are going through right now.
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 06:00 PM
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27. Google "breast implants" and "health risks" and see how inspiration you find them then.
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Esra Star Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 06:19 PM
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33. Breast augmentation is the 21st century's foot binding.
Eventually women will be totally unrecognizable.
Males will be permanently programmed to respond to a complete lie.
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Iris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 06:33 PM
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41. no kidding.
I'm always amazed when I see older sitcoms or dramas - where the people look like, well, people.
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Nikia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 06:20 PM
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35. I would never consider getting breast implants
On the other hand, I have always had above average sized breasts in comparision to the rest of my body.
I understand why someone who has below average breasts for their size might consider getting implants, although I think that it is unfortunate considering the health risks.
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 06:25 PM
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39. not all augmentations are implants n/t
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madinmaryland Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 06:40 PM
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42. ..


:evilgrin:
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achtung_circus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 07:26 PM
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53. You asked, you bring this upon yourself:


I am in no way responsible for your sense of revulsion.

BTW, the woman I am currently seeing had reduction. I can only imagine the pre-surgery dimensions. But her back pain is gone.
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CGowen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-22-07 06:41 AM
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60. my eyes, my eyes....I'm blind n/t
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AlCzervik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 06:50 PM
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44. why "inspirational"? Are you inspired to have something augmented surgically as well?
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KG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-21-07 08:01 PM
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57. well, I would have a certian something augmented, but it would be overkill
.
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lildreamer316 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-22-07 05:28 AM
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59. I'm excited to get mine.
Been dancing without for ...what..12; 13 years? They dropped a bit after I breastfed. I've got a great doc picked out too..
Enjoy that lady for all of her great assets, including those! I'm sure she's cool.

Oh, and just in case anyone else is reading this: I am very happy with myself. It IS an investment; a business one; and a very, very carefully considered one after ^^^^ many years of working in close proximity to those who have had them..good, bad, and ugly. Still want them. Call me shallow or whatever; I don't care. You're not walking in my five inch heels...
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Forkboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-22-07 07:00 AM
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61. This thread is useless without pics.
:P
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SoCalDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-22-07 07:27 AM
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64. Here ya go..enjoy
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Forkboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-22-07 07:44 AM
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66. LOL
Curses! Foiled again!
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Katherine Brengle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-22-07 07:17 AM
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62. Yaaay for feeling compelled to adhere to patriarchally approved beauty standards.
I hope she never has any serious health problems because of them.
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SoCalDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-22-07 07:26 AM
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63. For you to fondle when she's not with you..
Just close your eyes and pretend :)

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