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Liberal Veteran Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-10-07 08:31 PM
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My kitty is missing!
Mischief has somehow managed to run away and I have scoured the neighborhood, visited the shelters and posted a bounty for his return on every telephone pole within a mile radius.

Please think good thoughts for me and the safe return of my kitty.

I miss him terribly and am beside myself with worry for him.

:cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry:
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Caoimhe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-10-07 08:32 PM
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1. How long has he been missing?
Hopefully he's just feeling his oats....Heres to your kitty being home and open to belly rubs PRONTO
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Liberal Veteran Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-10-07 08:34 PM
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2. He's been gone for two days now.
He's an indoor kitty and I don't know how he slipped past one of us and got out, but I have torn the house apart so I know he isn't here.

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liberalnurse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-10-07 08:44 PM
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5. Oh my.....
I have been there! :scared: :cry: :hug: :hug: :hug: :cry:
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idgiehkt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-10-07 08:35 PM
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3. certainly
sending him protection vibes and you hugs. They can come home after a month or more sometimes. :hug: :hug: :hug:

Just be sure to check the shelters frequently, in person, because they rarely know what animals are there.
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SOteric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-10-07 08:41 PM
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4. Sending Mega-Vibes.
I know how distressed I'd be in your shoes. I'll keep a good thought for a quick and safe return.
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yellowdogintexas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-10-07 08:46 PM
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6. oh, I hope he comes home soon. Please keep us updated. nt
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The Velveteen Ocelot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-10-07 08:48 PM
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7. He's probably hiding out nearby, trying to figure out where home is.
Indoor kitties tend to get pretty nervous if they go outside -- they aren't used to it and tend to hide. Keep calling him, put food out, keep looking. Chances are he'll turn up before long.

Some years ago my totally indoor cat (Leonard, R.I.P.) slipped out the back door and took off -- and this was in Minnesota in January. It was below zero, and although I put up posters and checked the animal shelters, I was sure he'd frozen to death and I'd never see him again -- I was worried sick. But after almost a week, he showed up on the back steps with dried leaves in his fur, with this look on his face like, "What??" I think he was hiding out under somebody's porch. He stuffed his face and sacked out for like a day on top of a radiator, and never tried to sneak outside again. He lived to be 17, happily living indoors.

Hang in there. I'm betting he comes back soon.
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Wcross Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-10-07 08:57 PM
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8. Been there, done that. Relax, cats wander sometimes.
Odds are better than even that he will return in another day or two. My cat "Flea Taxi" wandered off for a week once. He returned none the worse for it, I suspect he found something really interesting to him.

I am an animal lover myself and understand the worry & concern. I hope all works out in the end.
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MonkeyFunk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-10-07 08:59 PM
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9. You've done all the right things
I've had two cats go missing. I put signs up all over the neighborhood, and both cats were found and brought home within days.

Try not to panic - cats sometimes wander.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-10-07 09:00 PM
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10. Come home mischief...
:hug:

surely mischief will be home soon.

good vibes and thoughts...
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GenDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-10-07 09:02 PM
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11. One of my cats got stuck in a neighbors shed once
I've also had one get into the attic, and an unused closet. You know how they love to crawl into places. I would check every nook and cranny.

Sending some positive vibes for Mischiefs safe return.
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alphafemale Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-10-07 09:11 PM
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12. Really look under bushes and things.
Cats can be weird and not answer when you call even though they are scared.

Leave out food and water in a few places.

He probably hasn't gone far.
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TZ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-10-07 09:28 PM
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13. Come home soon, Mischief!
I hope he is just hiding somewhere. Good vibes to you!:hug:
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stuntcat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-10-07 10:01 PM
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14. True Kitty Love Vibes
I hope he's just fine.. I mean, hungry and scared I'm sure, but I hope he'll be happy at home soon :hug: it is very important.

Your kitty banner was mostly the reason I wanted to make one I think, then I saw someone else's so I didn't feel like a copycat. I have a Tonka too, he's the gray cat in the middle of my picture.
Once our cat Percy, the tabby one, got out and stayed gone for 3 or 4 days. It was really scary with him because he's a basket case, but he finally came home.
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-10-07 10:03 PM
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15. Mischief...come home!
Sending out my best vibes. :hug:
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ThatsMyBarack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-10-07 10:11 PM
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16. I don't even know Mischief, and I miss him.
Come home soon. :loveya:
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Bryn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-10-07 11:29 PM
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17. I hope this will help you recover Mischief
by Kate Albrecht (she's seen on Animal Planet now and then) Kate does not mind if I post the whole thing as she is always helping people recover their lost pets. She was a LAPD detective before she became Pet Detective.

Author ~ Speaker ~ Pet Detective
www.katalbrecht.com

Understanding Lost Indoor-Only or Timid Cats

IMMEDIATELY AFTER ESCAPE
If you actually see your indoor-only cat escape, do not make any quick moves. If the door or window your pet escaped from is closed, slowly and quietly open the door or window, then slowly back away in order to let your kitty return on its own. Timid, indoor cats usually become so frightened once they realize they are outside that they want to return immediately. So you simply clear a path.

If your cat remains frozen in place and does not make any move to return, slowly and carefully approach. If you are standing right in the doorway it may look threatening and trigger your kitty to bolt away from you — which would be AWAY from the house. Instead try to position yourself on the outside. That way if your pet panics and bolts, it will run away from you — which would be TOWARDS the house. Any loud noise or quick motion might frighten your pet further away. Resist the temptation to chase after your cat.

If your cat does not return on its own, read below.


How is a lost indoor-only cat different from other missing pets?

If your lost pet is an indoor-only, very timid, or possibly sick/injured cat, the chances are higher that it is very close by — perhaps a mere 1-5 houses away. On the other hand, if your missing pet has been an outdoor-access cat whose normally very regular schedule has been suddenly disrupted, the chances are higher that it has become inadvertently trapped, relocated, stolen, hurt, or ill, and therefore may not be as close by.

If my kitty is close by, why doesn't it come when I call?

When an animal is extremely frightened, its instinct is to hide and not make a sound. Even if nearby, indoor cats or sick/injured cats often do not meow back when their owners go out calling for them. This "complete cover" mode is an instinctive, self-defense mechanism and the cat will do everything possible to stay hidden.

In this state of extreme fear (whether it's the fear of the unfamiliar outdoor world, fear of being chased by a dog, or fear and pain from injury or illness), ANYTHING is perceived as a threat — including the sight, smell, and sound of their owner offering a fresh rotisserie chicken. This is one of the hardest things for people to understand — how can we, as providers of food and love, be perceived as a threat to our own kitties?

To the frightened kitty, it is not a choice between comfort, food, and love versus fear, thirst, and starvation. It is completely instinctive and automatic. Your cat is not choosing to avoid you, or choosing to starve, and it doesn't mean your cat doesn't love you. In this defensive mode, your kitty believes that in order to survive, everything and anything must be treated as a threat — including you.

The closest I can come to understand this behavior is to imagine that my pet — under these circumstances — has become "wild." How often do you see raccoons, opossums, or coyotes? Yet many communities have plenty of "wildlife." They, too, keep themselves under cover, though we know that they are out there and may see upturned garbage cans or other evidence that they exist. So, imagine that your pet is now wild and living under cover. It won't be responding in the same way it responds at home. . .and unfortunately your kitty has many fewer survival skills than raccoons, opossums, and coyotes.

Cats who fit this description would be in the Classic Complete Cover personality profile. If you believe your missing cat may be in this category, do not expect your sweet kitty to come running towards you at the familiar sound of a kibble bag. Instead, your missing pet is most likely hunkered down to the ground, more frightened than ever, ready to dart away from any perceived threat — even from you. The only way to successfully bring your pet home may be with a humane trap.

If my cat is so close by, how come I haven't seen it?

"It's as if my cat disappeared into thin air!" is a phrase nearly every owner expresses.

Universal Rule #1: Cats cannot simply disappear, no more than a house, truck, or horse can simply disappear. Because of their size and instinct to stay hidden, cats can do a pretty darn good imitation of it though.

Universal Rule #2: Just because you don't see your cat DOES NOT mean your cat's not there.
Many owners assume that if they have looked for their indoor-only pet and couldn't see it, the pet must have been taken in, stolen, or must have run to some distant location. While this occasionally happens, it is rare.

When your cat first ran, it looked for the first safe spot it could find. It very well may know where "home" is, but to get from its current "safe spot" (wherever that may be) back to "home" means exposing itself. But this complete cover instinct tells it to STAY PUT and HIDDEN rather than venture AWAY from its new safe spot — even if home is only a few yards away, even if the animal is starving.

Universal Rule #3: Just because you don't see your cat DOES NOT mean your cat's not close by.
Many people assume that if their kitty has not been spotted or heard meowing, it must not be close by. NOT SO. One elegant white Persian boy Prince was finally found inside his own home burrowed under a pile of sheets, in the back of a linen closet after his owner had been frantically searching for several days — and without making a single peep! Many people have reported that when they finally found their missing cat, their kitty did not make a sound nor move towards the owner.

What are typical behaviors of cats in this category?

These cats are desperate to find a place that they perceive as safe. They will run if spotted or approached, keep very low to the ground, legs short, dart from place to place if they perceive additional threats. They will typically hide during the day and sneak out at night for small bits of food, then quickly dart back to their hiding place. Use this information when you do foot searches and when screening calls of sightings of your cat. Confirm that the markings and location of the sighted cat match your cat. Then ask the caller to describe the behavior of the cat at the time it was seen. If the caller describes a cat lounging in the sun, it doesn't fit the profile of a frightened or timid cat.

What places might my cat be hiding?

The ideal place for a hiding cat is an area with no resident cats or dogs, but with access to food and water. Indoor cats are often found within a five-house radius of their own home. They may move if chased by a dog or a cat, or if they feel threatened, but once they spend some time and deposit their scent in an area, they will most likely stay put. If your cat is a timid outdoor or sick/injured cat, there is a greater chance that your cat will be found somewhere within its territory which can range in size from several acres for a country cat to micro territories for a city cat. If you know the area your cat roams, concentrate your search in this area, then move out from there. Think like your cat. Where would a frightened kitty hide? What areas would be attractive and what areas would be avoided? Think low, not high.

What if I see my cat early on?

In this category of Classic Complete Cover Cats, several things are true:

• The cat will likely be closer, rather than farther, particularly early on.
• Early on, the cat may show its body, but that is no guarantee it will come to the owner, or allow the owner to approach it.
• The longer the amount of time has passed, the greater the chances that something might occur that will scare the animal farther away.
• The more experience a cat has outdoors previously, the farther it may venture.
• The more timid the personality, the closer it will stay.

Over and over people have recounted that they were able to see their pet the first or second day it was lost, but then the kitty ran off in fear. Many times the owner will not spot their cat again for days or weeks, if they spot their cat at all.

What this means is, as more time passes, either they are less courageous, better at hiding, or are scared farther away where it is more difficult for the owner to spot.

What if I see my cat a month or two later?

Sometime after 4-8 weeks of hiding, some cats begin to show themselves. My guess is that these cats who maintain complete cover so successfully early on also have trouble maintaining their weight. Once their weight drops below a certain point, they begin to throw a little caution to the wind because they are so hungry.
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KT2000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-11-07 02:18 AM
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18. Sending good thoughts
to you and Mischief
Have been where you are right now - stress for sure.
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-11-07 02:21 AM
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19. I hope you find him soon.
:hug:
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grasswire Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-11-07 02:57 AM
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20. go door to door and ask people to open all spaces
garages, sheds, storage places. That's the best way to get a cat back pronto. Our Zeek went missing a couple of months ago and returned five days later really hungry and thirsty. There's hope for your furbaby. But I urge you to ask neighbors to open everything.
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Maru Kitteh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-11-07 03:19 AM
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21. Prayers and vibes for you kitty. Cats are some of the best people I know.
I hope he comes home to you soon.
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qanda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-11-07 04:25 AM
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22. On Edit:
Edited on Sat Aug-11-07 04:29 AM by qanda
Nevermind, I saw in another thread that you found him. I'm very happy for you!
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-11-07 12:59 PM
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23. So sorry.
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-11-07 01:02 PM
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24. Any construction or repair on your place or a neighbor's?
Good thoughts for both of you. :hug:
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Rhiannon12866 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-11-07 01:18 PM
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25. Call your local shelters, animal hospitals and the radio station.
If someone picked him up, he'd end up at either the local shelter where they bring strays or a local animal hospital which takes them. The local radio station here broadcasts lost pet announcements and that's how my colleague found her lost cat. Aside from the telephone poles, which is a good idea, you might post notices at shelters and animal hospitals, since the people who go there are animal people and will pay attention. I always look at the ones at my vet. Also, you could post a newspaper ad, with a pic, which will reach many more people. My friend in rescue swears by those... Good luck, my friend, and let us know how this turns out. I will be thinking of you both...

Rhiannon:hug:
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Liberal Veteran Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-11-07 02:40 PM
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26. Update....I found him last night
At about dusk, I went walking in the alley behind my house and found him a few houses down on the roof of a neighbor's garage.

Thanks everyone. He had been gone since Wednesday and I was really worried.

I went and took down all the lost posters and donated 50 dollars to the Humane Society while I was taking down my poster there.
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bluethruandthru Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-11-07 02:59 PM
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27. Great news!
Glad he's safe and sound. :hi:
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YellowRubberDuckie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-11-07 03:43 PM
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28. Glad the cutie is safe.
Give him some extra love from the lounge tonight!!
Duckie
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Eurobabe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-11-07 04:21 PM
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29. Thank god, now did you spank him?
For being a bad kitty? J/K.

I hate it when they do that...
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grasswire Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-11-07 05:16 PM
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30. does he have a chip?
You might want to have one implanted if he doesn't. Also, even my indoor cat wears a collar with my phone number on it, just in case he gets out.
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laylah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-11-07 05:17 PM
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31. ...
:hug: It is a hard thing to endure. I hope s/he comes back soon and eases your fears, as well is okay!
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