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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 09:30 AM
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Thursday Morning Questions
1. How many piercings do you have?

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO)

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true?

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality?

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now?

6. What color is your wallet?

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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 09:33 AM
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1. answers
1. How many piercings do you have? 4 active. 2 closed up.

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO): not really but we are cultivating hobbies together.

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true? Yes, because we spend time with each other.

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality? Not for another 50 or so years

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now?

Wait till you have a couple of months to hear her crying all the time.

6. What color is your wallet?

Red!!

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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 09:36 AM
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2. answers
Edited on Thu Apr-19-07 09:38 AM by Deep13
"1. How many piercings do you have?"
None unless you include dental surgery.

"2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO)"
Not really. She has hers and I have mine.

"3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true?"
No idea.

"4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality?"
Not complete equality. Some amount of prejudice is built into human nature.

"5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now?"
I have no clue.

"6. What color is your wallet?"
brown

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philosophie_en_rose Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 09:44 AM
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3. Thursday answers
1. None

2. N/A :cry:

3. Maybe. My family is gossipy, so they would probably be annoying and distracting.

4. Maybe.

5. The semester is almost over. I suggest waiting.

6. Black.
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av8rdave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 09:45 AM
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4. Thursday answers
1. How many piercings do you have? None.

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO)
A couple...skiing, wine, travel*

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true?
Not completely. I think it's important you both work out. It's good for your health (obviously), your attitude, your response to stress and your sex life. However, if you have different workout styles/schedules, trying to do it together can add more stress (I run, Mrs. av8rdave is a walker).

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality?
I do, but sadly probably not in our lifetimes. Each "baby step" builds on the earlier ones, but unfortunately I think it takes generations to change a society.

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now?
Yes! (I say this not knowing your mother). Give her a chance to share in your joy now.

6. What color is your wallet?
Black.

*It's great if you and your SO have common interests, but it's CRITICAL you have some of your own. I learned that from my parents, who shared every hobby/avocation they had. When my mom passed away, suddenly none of those things had any appeal to my dad. He just couldn't stand doing any of them without my mom. Now he has very few special interests of his own to enjoy in his later years. I know it's not really my place to give advice...just something I picked up from observing.
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cwydro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 09:45 AM
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5. answers
1. How many piercings do you have?

Only three, two in one ear and one in the other and I think they've closed up.

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO)

No SO, and in relationships past, I have rarely had much in common as far as hobbies. I'm kind of an exercise freak and always seem to have SOs who have NO interest in that.

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true?

Sure, I think it would be great.

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality?

I have no idea. There will never be class equality.

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now?

If it is stressful to keep it a secret, decide which stress is worse. She might surprise you, who knows?

6. What color is your wallet?

Black, but I just decided I want a red one. I have a red truck, red canoe, and a red kayak. Thanks for the idea!
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 09:47 AM
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6. Here it goes:
1. How many piercings do you have?
None

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO)
YES

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true?
YES


4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality?
NO-NO

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now?

Tell her before someone else tells her


6. What color is your wallet?

Black
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 09:49 AM
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8. my brother says he wil tell her, for their next big fight.
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 09:50 AM
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9. He shouldn't tell her
You should be the one to tell her and only you.

I think you should tell her before she finds out from someone else, assuming that is likely to happen.
She may not totally like the idea but I think she would rather hear it from you.
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Lil Missy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 09:48 AM
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7. Okay
1. How many piercings do you have?

just ears

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO)

Not at all. She likes nascar, hockey, working on cars, and I prefer reading a good book, politics, going on a movie and dinner date. We both like fishing trips and cookouts.

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true?

Have no idea

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality?

Probably not in my lifetime, but both have made gains in the last 20 - 30 years.

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now?

Will she flip out? If so, wait till all finals are over.

6. What color is your wallet?

I don't carry a wallet. My billfold is Black

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terrya Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 09:53 AM
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10. Mine:
1. How many piercings do you have? None. Not gonna do it, either.

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO)A lot. Both of us like to travel, see films, theater, read, have sex...

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true? No.

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality? Eventually on both. Slow getting there.

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now? Wait until the semester is over.

6. What color is your wallet? Black.
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slj0101 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 09:55 AM
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11. Good morning.
1. How many piercings do you have? 4- three in left ear, one in nostril, all closed for a number of years

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO)- not really.

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true? yes

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality? no and no, but we're getting much closer than we ever have

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now? after the semester is over.

6. What color is your wallet? black.
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AllegroRondo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 09:58 AM
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12. hooray!
1. How many piercings do you have?
none. I had an ear peirced once in high school, for about 2 days until my mom found out.

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO)
not really. but we enjoy encouraging each other and shopping for our hobbies together.

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true?
no. one of the things I enjoy about running is the quiet alone time. If my family did it with me, it wouldnt be the same.

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality?
not in my lifetime. but someday.

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now?
I like the idea of waiting until the end of the semester, unless its very likely she will hear from someone else before that. why make more stress when you need to concentrate on school?

6. What color is your wallet?
I had to look. its black.
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edbermac Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 10:00 AM
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13. Answer
1. How many piercings do you have? None

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO) No SO :(

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true? Not necessarily, some of my family are born again fundies; wouldn't care for them preaching to me; you're supposed to relieve stress in a gym, not build it up.

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality? Eventually. But I'm not too keen on a minority/female being the 'equal' of GWB. One fuckup is enough.

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now? Tell her after the semester, better to stay focused on school without her flipping out. You can change her mind, you can't change bad test grades.

6. What color is your wallet? Faded black, have had it for about 10 years.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 01:24 PM
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33. good point. i really cant change bad grades
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swag Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 10:04 AM
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14. Thanks for asking these six good questions
1. How many piercings do you have?

None

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO)

Yes. Mostly it's the art thingamabob. We're also both big fans of women's flat-track roller derby.

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true?

Depends

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality?

No. No. Time is running out on the species. American society won't beat the clock on these issues.

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now?

Sounds like a plan.

6. What color is your wallet?

Black.
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swag Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 10:04 AM
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15. Dupey McDuperson
Edited on Thu Apr-19-07 10:05 AM by swag
1. How many piercings do you have?

None

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO)

Yes. Mostly it's the art thingamabob. We're also both big fans of women's flat-track roller derby.

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true?

Depends

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality?

No. No. Time is running out on the species. American society won't beat the clock on these issues.

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now?

Sounds like a plan.

6. What color is your wallet?

Black.
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 10:05 AM
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16. Thursday morning answers
1. I have 3 closed piercings in my ears.

2. Miriam and I have no hobbies in common. We used to do a lot of volunteer work together. That's how we met in college. But I can't physically do it any more. She still does some.

3. I think, if you enjoy working out together, then it will strengthen your relationship. If you both hate it, then it won't.

4. No, I don't think we will ever see full equality of any kind. Prejudices change and evolve over time, but never actually go away. The best we can do is temper, monitor and manage prejudices so that we minimize their impact.

5. I'd wait until after this semester to talk to your mom. You really don't need any additional stress during the semester.

6. My wallet is black.

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Zavulon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 10:06 AM
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17. .
1. How many piercings do you have? - Zero.

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO) - No.

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true? - I honestly wouldn't know.

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality? - Yes to the former (a long way off, but I think it will happen). No to the latter.

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now? - Wait until after the semester is over. There is no benefit to adding to academic stress this way and no rush to tell her.

6. What color is your wallet? - Brown.
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ghostsofgiants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 10:08 AM
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18. Okay
Edited on Thu Apr-19-07 10:12 AM by primate1
1. How many piercings do you have?
Just one right now. (Bottom lip, left side.)

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO)
I don't have an SO.

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true?
I suppose it could be, but I've never tested the theory.

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality?
Call me a pessimist, but not any time soon.

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now?
I think I'd wait until the semester is over, less stress is always good.

6. What color is your wallet?
It's sort of a greenish brown canvas wallet.
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querelle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 10:15 AM
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19. Mine
1. How many piercings do you have?
One. Navel piercing. I work in a very conservative environment so such things must be discreet.

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO)
No SO at this time, but I'm looking!

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true?
No.

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality?
Not completely. There will always be people with irrational hatred. Unfortunately.

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now?
Only you can decide that. I don't know your mother or how she would react.

6. What color is your wallet?
Black leather.

Q
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cobalt1999 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 10:16 AM
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20. answers..
1. No piercings.

2. Almost all of our hobbies are in common, except she's not a camping girl...she just can't get over not having a toilet!

3. Absolutely. We run together and there is nothing like encouraging each other at the end of a 16 mile run on Sunday morning. We almost hug afterwards...ALMOST because we are sweaty and stinky. :) Running marathons together does seem to strengthen the bond/partnership...just my experience.

4. No. It's not just American society problem, it's a people problem...we are pack or tribal deep down and will always find reasons to divide ourselves into "us vs. them".

5. Go for it. Why should her reaction dictate your announcement of an event in your life?

6. ummm...just a minute...brown leather...it's actually kind of a dull boring wallet now that I look at it. Father's day is coming soon, I may have to drop a few hints.
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Chan790 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 10:18 AM
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21. Thursday Answers.
1. How many piercings do you have?

Zero currently...someday six. I live with a hard-line Catholic who thinks they're a sign of being a Satanist. Something about desecration of God's artwork.

2. Do you and your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO)

No SO.

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true?

No...well maybe. I'm anti-exercise generally because it's boring. Active things done together could be fun and bring the relationship closer together. Bike-riding for example, or kayaking or protesting-vocally outside SCOTUS for it's lame-assed ruling yesterday or pretty much anything active that doesn't involve having to go to the gym.

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality?

I hope so on both counts; I think so as well.

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her) or should I tell her after I finish this semester so I don't have to deal with all the stress now?

I had an answer typed in...but second thought tells me only you can really answer that question. Sorry if this seems like a "mysterious" or mystical response.

6. What color is your wallet?

Olive drab canvas with a gold screen-printing of a lotus and some olive embroidery.
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stuntcat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 10:31 AM
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22. MEEEEEE
1. How many piercings do you have?
2- my ears. My nose and belly botton piercings closed up almost ten years ago.

2. Do you & your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO)
Just the horror movies, which is actually MY hobby that he goes along with to humor me I think.

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true?
probably true yes.

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality?
maybe if we can make it to 2200

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now?
save yourself that stress until you can stop thinking about school!

6. What color is your wallet?
it's my back pocket so blue denim :headbang:
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SteppingRazor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 10:35 AM
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23. Thursday Morning Answers:
1. How many piercings do you have?
None anymore, though the holes in the lobes have never healed over, even though I haven't worn anything in them for years. At one time, though, I had four piercings.

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO)
Hmmm.... we both like to travel. And we both like a lot of the same TV shows. Other than that, we're pretty different. Keeps things interesting.

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true?
I would say that a family that does stuff together, whether working out or otherwise, makes their relationship stronger.

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality?
American society? No. Human beings in general? Sure. Maybe in 6 or 7 centuries.

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now?
Aw, c'mon. Tell your mother.

6. What color is your wallet?
Don't have one. But my money clip is sterling silver.
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 10:40 AM
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24. Answers
Edited on Thu Apr-19-07 10:41 AM by SarahBelle
1. How many piercings do you have? just one in each ear

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO) We are both very into films (although I talk too much during them :P), similar music tastes, both into politics.

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true? No, I get cranky when I work out.

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality? I'd like to think gender equality perhaps although we're pretty behind much of western Europe. In terms of racial equality, every generation seems to have their own ethnic groups or groups they use to scapegoat and fear. It doesn't seem to end, but it changes over time. :(

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now? Follow your gut. If you want to wait, there's nothing wrong with that. Take care of yourself and relationship with Rockit before worrying about the displeasing voice of others. However, if you need to get it out now- by all means- get it out!

6. What color is your wallet? Blue
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skygazer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 10:41 AM
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25. Answers
1. How many piercings do you have?

Just my ears

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO)

Yes, we both like to camp and do outdoor things but we also have different hobbies.

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true?

I think your personal trainer is always trying to boost membership. Also, I hate generalizations. I think that would be true for some families and not for others. I have no interest in working out with my SO (or anyone else, for that matter). I like my workouts to be solitary time which I think is something that also makes relationships stronger.

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality?

Probably not in my lifetime. I hope it will happen, though.

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now?

Yes. If everyone else in the world knows, she's probably going to find out anyway. May as well hear it from you.

6. What color is your wallet?

Black
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 10:44 AM
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26. Thursday answers
1. How many piercings do you have? Four - two in each ear

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO) Quite a few, yes

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true? I don't know. We were fine when I was working out by myself and we're fine now that he's working out with me. I think it's more fun to work out together.

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality? Sadly, no and no, at least not in my lifetime

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now? It depends on how stressful you think it would be. Would it be worse to withhold the information and have her get upset about that later? Or would it be better for your studies to avoid the subject for a while? How is your mother likely to react?

6. What color is your wallet? Brown
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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 10:45 AM
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27. Holy Christ! Plaintains eveyrwhere!
Edited on Thu Apr-19-07 10:48 AM by Rabrrrrrr
1. None, though I did have a piercing in my left ear a number of years ago.

2. Yeah, pretty much we're interested in and do the same kinds of stuff.

3. I have no reason to believe you would lie about something your trainer said, so, yes, I believe your statement is true. I think your trainer has control issues, though he's probably right - generally, doing *anything* together that isn't dysfunctional helps make the family stronger, whether camping or working out or playing cards. But working out together has the included sense of taking care of each other's health together, which has that extra element of love and nurturing to it.

4. Yes and yes.

5. Wait until after school is done, especially if she's gonna freak out about it.

6. Black.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 01:24 PM
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34. she will cry about it. a lot of crying.
sigh
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NewWaveChick1981 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 10:45 AM
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28. Here you go...
Edited on Thu Apr-19-07 10:45 AM by NewWaveChick1981
:hi:

1. How many piercings do you have? Two. One in each earlobe. :)

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO) Not really. The main one is that we are both movie buffs.

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true? Most of the time. :)

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality? As much as I would like to believe we could do both, I don't see it happening in the near or the near-distant future. :(

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now? Do it when you finish the semester. :)

6. What color is your wallet? Copper.
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trackfan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 10:45 AM
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29. answers
1. How many piercings do you have?
None

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO)

If you consider drinking a hobby, yes. Actually, we had a lot of the same childhood hobbies.

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true?

It is probably true, but I wouldn't know from personal experience.

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality?

Inevitably, if this country should last another few hundred years, our descendents will all be of one mixed, American race, and the point will, happily, be moot.

As far as gender goes, I don't know.

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now?

If it's too much stress, wait.

6. What color is your wallet?

Brown.


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ZombieNixon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 10:46 AM
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30. OK
1. How many piercings do you have?
Zero

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO)
DU's a hobby, right? Also, reading, talking about random shit. Rabbits. Cats. :P Though it's all a bit difficult when a state lies between you. Especially when that state's Indiana of all places. x( :P

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true?
Probably not with my family. I go to the gym, my mom takes walks along the river and gets her purse stolen while she does so, and my dad fixes the swamp cooler, so you could probably never get us to agree on where to go to work out.

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality?
Anything's possible, I suppose, but the way things are going right now, it'll either never happen or take a hell of a long time. I like to think it'll happen eventually before America destroys itself.

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now?
Well she'll have to find out eventually. If you don't tell her now, I'd just hope she doesn't find out elsewhere before the semester's over. Assess the risk of that happening and then decide.

6. What color is your wallet?
Duct tape silver
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1gobluedem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 10:47 AM
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31. Answers
1. How many piercings do you have? One hole in each ear.

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO) We enjoy sailing, the same books, the beach, and the kids. So, I'd have to say yes even though he's not nuts about gardening and I don't ski.

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true? We don't work out together unless running after kids counts.

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality? My heart says yes, my brain says not for a very long time. Sigh.

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now? After. Mother stress is the the worst.

6. What color is your wallet? Black Prada. SO bought it for me in Milan.
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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 11:08 AM
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32. k
1. How many piercings do you have?
1 ear
2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO)
none
3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true?
yes

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality?
Yes but it will take a few more generations to fully accept the change

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now?
Thats a hard one..I would probably wait even though it would be better to tell her...Maybe you should just be honest with her

6. What color is your wallet?
brown
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LaraMN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 01:27 PM
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35. Ok!
1. How many piercings do you have?
Six

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO)
No.

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true?
I would assume any activity that involves being together and interacting would strengthen a relationship.

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality?
I think about 35% of the population will make that very difficult to achieve.

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now?
Do it when it's best for you, if it will entail alot of stress.

6. What color is your wallet?
black and pink.
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DixieBlue Donating Member (504 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 01:27 PM
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36. Answers.
1. How many piercings do you have? -- One in each ear. I want an eyebrow ring, though.

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? -- Not a lot. We both like hiking and anime. That's actually about it.

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true? -- If it's a good time, yes. Like, hiking or biking or swimming. Hardcore working out ... not so much.

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? -- I certainly hope so. I'll say yes, just because I'm hopeful. How about gender equality? -- Same.

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now? -- Finish the semester.

6. What color is your wallet? -- It's hippy/multi-colored.
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NMDemDist2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 01:34 PM
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37. Thursday Morning answers


1. How many piercings do you have?

two (one in each ear) I have a couple more in one earlobe that have long since closed up

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO)

nope. we have a lot of common interests, but not really common hobbies

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true?

I think it's good to have a work out buddy. and I can see why it would improve a relationship

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality?

nope

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now?

does she know your SO? does she like her? but maybe the end of the semester is good

6. What color is your wallet?

it's a lovely brown leather
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 01:35 PM
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38. she knows and likes lisa. she still doesnt like that i'm queer though
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NMDemDist2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 02:08 PM
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42. well, marriage usually leads to grandchildren
maybe that will bring her around eh?
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 02:26 PM
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43. nope. its not like lisa an i can knock each other up
and neither of us want to bear children

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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 01:40 PM
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39. Hiya
1. How many piercings do you have?

three

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO)

If you are referring to the man I am married to, then no

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true?

some relationships can't be saved that easily. lol.

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality?

I would hope so. Not in my lifetime though

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now?

You would know the answer to that better than I would.

6. What color is your wallet?

I don't have one
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Burma Jones Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 01:52 PM
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40. I like you
1. None

2. Yes, theatre and choral music. Her profession is Yoga and mine is Computing. Our main focus is our Family.

3. Could be, anything that brings the bunch together you know....

4. Only when it comes from each person. So, I don't know, there will always be the ignorant and bitter among us. If you excise them from the culture, then I think there will be equality, except for them of course, so, no, there will never be complete equality, but I think we can achieve equality before the law, eventually.

5. Sure, tell her now, what can she do....shoot you?

6. Black
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unsavedtrash Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 01:59 PM
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41. my answers
1. How many piercings do you have?
I have 3.

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO)
Some but mostly intellectual interests.

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true?
Not at all. My SO likes to get in, work out, and leave. I like to take my time, chat some, and watch her lift free weights. B-) We definitely have to go at different times.

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality?
Damn I hope so.

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i don't have to deal with all the stress now?
Don't put ANY extra stress on yourself. Just getting through finals is hard enough without the insanity of family.

6. What color is your wallet? I kept losing the damn thing so now I don't carry one.
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Aristus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 02:29 PM
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44. Happy Thursday, lioness!
1. None. How boring is that? B-)
2. My wife and I both enjoy reading, community theater, fine dining, and travelling.
3. How should I know? Every family has its own thing that they do to promote togetherness.
4. Maybe someday, but not for quite a while on both issues.
5. It's your moment, lioness. Tell her only when you're absolutely ready, and you know it's the right time.
6. Black.

:hi: lioness!
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femmocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 08:14 PM
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45. Thursday evening answers...
1. How many piercings do you have? Two, one in each ear.

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO) Not a one, (except the dogs). But I don't really have any "hobbies", per se.

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true? NO.

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality? I truly hope so.

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now? After the semester.

6. What color is your wallet? Navy blue.
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KamaAina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 09:06 PM
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46. Zero.
Never felt the need. Ah, who am I kidding? I'm just a big ol' wuss.

2. Check back with me after I acquire an SO (assuming the Internets haven't been replaced by universal mental telepathy by then).

3. We used to joke that our family was so small we could hold reunions in a phone booth, back when there were phone booths. Basically there's Mom in NYC, a great-aunt in Seattle, and yours truly -- not really conducive to working out together.

4. It will approach both forms of equality asymptotically (for you non-math freaks, that means it will gradually approach full equality, getting closer and closer over time, but never quite getting there).

5. Never having been engaged, I will defer to Dear Prudence from Slate:

http://www.slate.com/id/2164369/fr/flyout

Maybe she can help.

6. Brown. And getting quite ratty, too, I might add.
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fizzgig Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 09:13 PM
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47. my 'i left for work before you posted this' answers
1. How many piercings do you have? five, all visible

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? a fair number

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true? not really

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality? i would like to think so but i doubt it will happen in my life

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now? if it's really going to create a lot of extra stress, wait until the end of the semester

6. What color is your wallet? black
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grannylib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 10:45 PM
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48. Thursday Night Answers:
1. How many piercings do you have?
Six, all ears. Four in the left, two in the right.

2. Do you are your SO have a lot of hobbies in common? (assuming you have an SO)
Yes - camping, gardening, canoeing (until someone stole our canoe dammit), music, Scrabble and Cribbage, walking, bird-watching, ranting at the television when the media whores come on...

3. Our personal trainer said "a family that works out together makes their relationship stronger". Do you think this is true?
Yes, but no more or less than families that play games together or cook together or fish together or whatever. I think the action is less important than the shared experience and conversation, whatever it is

4. Do you think American society will ever achieve racial equality? How about gender equality?
I pray that we will...I don't think it will be in my lifetime but I hope we will continue to work towards a just society for all races, creeds, colors, genders, sexual orientations, ethnicities, whatever. There is so much more that we have in common than divides us.

5. Do you think I should tell my mother I am engaged now (the whole world knows aside from her)or should i tell her after I finish this semester so i dont have to deal with all the stress now?
Do what you need to do for you right now, unless you think your relationship might be permanently damaged if you keep it from her, or if she finds out from someone else.

6. What color is your wallet?
Don't carry one. I have sufficient little pockets in my purse to hold cash/cards/small items, so I have very little that's loose in there. I hate carrying large purses so I try to keep things as compact as possible.
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