Check In Here If You've Ever Felt "Spied" On

[SPKrazy]

by someone important in your life....


:shrug:

[fizzgig]

1. ...

:hug:

[SPKrazy]

2. hey...

thanks!

:hug:

[BarenakedLady]

3. Uhmmm helllloooo?

Keylogger ring any bells?

:banghead:

[Random_Australian]

5. I had a keylogger on my computer, but luckily it was only one after my bank account details.

:)

[SPKrazy]

12. As long as your bank account is empty

then no problems?

:shrug:

:hi: RA

[Random_Australian]

14. I never do online banking, especially since then.

Fuckers. Means I can't donate to DU, but "I Have A Dream" was kind enough to do so for me. :) She's real cool in my book now. :)

[SPKrazy]

6. Yes it does...

and I'm feeling empathy for you at the moment...

:hug:

[BarenakedLady]

16. Damn

I hope you aren't going through that crap.

:hug:

6 months later and I still obsessively run spybot programs and delete all info before logging off computer every day. And I don't have anything to hide. :shrug: But once your privacy is compromised it is hard to get over that vulnerable feeling.

:hug:

[SPKrazy]

18. ---

not as high tech as all that

but ya never know, I'm guarding the flank from now on, no more "trust" there

:hug:

[BarenakedLady]

19. If you need any advice just pm me.

LoL...my snoop is unfortunately more computer savvy than I.

[SPKrazy]

23. ---

thanks

:hug:

[NewWaveChick1981]

4. Yes.

:hug: :hi: The first one to do that was my mother when I started dating my first boyfriend. She wasn't the last. :(

[SPKrazy]

8. Well, I Have Been There Now

with parents

and they weren't the last either

and I'm apparently there again

:mad:

[cwydro]

7. oh lord honey

I have had some scary girlfriends...so that answer would be a resounding yes.

Actually that is why I am feeling quite content being single.:hide:

[SPKrazy]

10. Yes, that is sounding more and more peaceful

at the moment

:hug:

[Texasgal]

9. Why must so many threads lately in the lounge

have to be so damn veiled?

Some of us have no idea what the hell is going on!

[SPKrazy]

11. It has nothing to do with the lounge

it is veiled only in that I was asking for other's experience

I found out today that someone I've lived with for 20 years has been spying on my computer activities

I thought I trusted them, but then again, maybe I haven't been trustworthy?

guard my flank is my new motto

:hi:

[zingaro]

22. oh dear...

What a motto: GMF

I'm sorry to hear this, btw. Can I help?

:hug:

[SPKrazy]

24. Thanks Zing!

:hug:

GMF LOL

[cwydro]

13. well now...

speaking only for myself. I have no idea if there is a veiled message in these threads. I answer on sight and without prejudice...but then ....I may be missing something.

I am usually missing something. Now, if I could just figure out wht the hell it is...

[TOhioLiberal]

15. Yes.

I'm sure you can guess who...

[SPKrazy]

17. ---

:hug:

[Dangerously Amused]

20. Hey.

I thought you were going to stop posting in your underwear.



But perhaps I've said too much.



:yoiks:

[SPKrazy]

33. Shhhhhh!

people are watching

[snailly]

21. I do right now

Every time the inlaws call the spouse runs outside to talk. Hello?!!!!! Mr. Obvious is knocking at my door.

[SPKrazy]

32. That's strange

well not really, but it would bug me, and in fact...

that does happen sometimes

:shrug:

[Nicole]

25. Yes

He's no longer important in my life. If you can't trust me then we got nothing, IMHO.

[SPKrazy]

30. That's a good

point my friend

:hug:

[Nicole]

36. I hope you can do the same.

Either get the trust or get rid of the snooper who doesn't trust you. :hug:

[SPKrazy]

38. Yes...

good advice thanks

one or the other it will be.... :hug:

[Nicole]

41. ...

:hug:

[SPKrazy]

42. ...

'nite

:hug:

[Nicole]

44. ++++

Night. :pals:

[Left Is Write]

26. Was that you?

;)

Actually, yes, I was involved with someone who was oppressively jealous. Not good.

[SPKrazy]

28. Yes it was you!

;)

[KitchenWitch]

27. Spied on?

How about stalked for years and nearly killed?

x(

[SPKrazy]

29. Well now that is

a lot more than I'm talking about right now.

good gawdess KW, that is terrible.

I hope that the person that did that is now somewhere that they can't do it.

:hug:

[KitchenWitch]

31. I think I and he are finally far enough apart, geographically speaking

[SPKrazy]

34. Good to know!

:hug:

[Fuzz]

35. The first year I was married, we rented a condo on the first floor

and apparently, there was a peeper who liked to spy in the area. We were newlyweds, say no more, and when we found out, that creeped us out. We left that place as soon as our one year lease was up and bought a place, but as soon as we found out about it from a neighbor, our windows were closed and shades pulled real tight.

[Cobalt-60]

37. my grandparents

They were aggressively nosy.
If they touched your mail it was opened, callers for you were interrogated.
And personal belongings were routinely searched.
And when they would say while I was going through your -insert private area here- I found -insert anything they didn't like-. they always ignored the inevitable "What were you doing in my - insert private area here-?.
They were all right otherwise.
It was best to stay at the motel and keep your stuff locked in the car while visiting.

[wildhorses]

39. big brother is always watching

and the big boss man, too:P

and my ex had some strange tendicies

[SPKrazy]

40. Hey horsey!

welcome back to DU!

what do you know, i forgot about the big boss man... geez, spied on there too... home... where else is there to go?


:shrug:

[wildhorses]

46. with gps...i am afraid there is NO place to go

:shrug:

[SPKrazy]

47. ,,

tagged like a wild animal :shrug:

[Wapsie B]

43. Spied on? Yes.

By someone important in my life? No. That poor excuse for a boss meant nothing to me then and even less now.

[grannylib]

45. My ex used to stalk me on campus after I filed for divorce; I became a mistress

of disguise! It got to be quite a game, to see how much I could alter my appearance and have him skip a glance right over me.
Fucker.

on edit: it used to drive my poor profs NUTS though *lol* They never knew from one day to the next either what I might look like, but once I explained to them what was going on, they were very cool about it, and a couple of them even offered to walk me to my next class or to my car if I needed them too, or to find someone who would if they couldn't.

[ForrestGump]

48. Yes

To some small extent by my wife, way back, but she stopped. And then I returned the favor when I investigated her infidelity years later, though mine was not real-time surveillance, or whatever, but after-the-fact excavation of data followed by an ambush (in another country) that a guerilla warfare expert would have been proud of.

Very recently I was spied on -- stalked, online -- but she was and is not important in my life beyond her invading it and spreading vicious lies about myself and (worse) a good friend.

People can be scum.

[leftofthedial]

49. yup. my ex-wife

and her brother