Which of these would have described your last relationship?

[Pushed To The Left]

Poll question: Which of these would have described your last relationship?

My last 3 relationships have tended to fall into choice 1, which was really frustrating, but I imagine that choice 2 would be frustrating too. Has anybody ever fallen into choice 4? (Mine at least started out that way, but it didn't last)

[NewWaveChick1981]

1. #1 describes the way my first big relationship turned out.

:hi:

[Pushed To The Left]

4. Back when I was a youngster, I never would have imagined #1 happening

How could a relationship have really great s** and still be a bad relationship? But that describes my last few relationships. Great s** followed by an argument a few minutes later, or vice versa, makes everything feel so strange! If my ex-fiance had been as kind to me the rest of the time as she was in the bedroom, it would have been a whole different relationship!

[u4ic]

2. None of those choices

Ok sex, ok-turned-lousy relationship. :shrug:

[TheMightyFavog]

3. Mine was just like yours...

Only no sex.

[Rhythm]

14. yeah... that's how things were with me, too...

I was married for 13 yrs...
The sex was so-so all the time...
The actual relationship was so-so for the first few years, then slid downhill and weird from there.


Fortunately, that has not been the case this time around.
Oktoberain is the greatest.

[u4ic]

15. I'm glad you found the love of your life

We should all be so lucky... :pals:

[hippywife]

5. I chose the fourth option.

I did the only thing I could do under the circumstances and married him! LOL

[NNadir]

6. Happily, number 4.

I'm still in the relationship after 2 decades and I hope it is my last relationship, inasmuch as I would like to die before she does, since I could not live without her.

[Critters2]

7. I always say "I had a beautiful wedding. And a horrible marriage." nt

[leftofthedial]

8. my last relationship was a thirty-year marriage, so

all of the above

[Kat45]

9. Hardly any sex, good (friendship-like) relationship

Very frustrating, and sad because our personalities are so compatible that we could have had a great relationship if he had a libido. We're very good friends now, which is as it should be. After I broke up with him, I fell into a fwb situation with a handsome man 15 years younger than me. Then I found a relationship with great sex, good relationship that seemed headed for great and now may be headed for oblivion. :shrug:

[Shell Beau]

Seeing how that was sooo long ago since I am married to

my highschool sweetheart (even though we did have a couple of breaks, I would say great **** but a piece of shit person.

[Shell Beau]

10. dupe

[Whoa_Nelly]

11. ...way back from 2001

that was last time had a relationship.

Lousy *** and lousy one year almost to date, relationship.

Meanwhile...damn... life has been a lot simpler since then! :toast:


...now...just where IS that new relationship and when the fuck is it going to come into my life?

oh, well.... moving along...

[MrSlayer]

12. Choice 4 is my current relationship.

That has been going on for 15 years now. Gets better everyday.

[quiet.american]

13. What's a relationship? :) n/t

[SPKrazy]

16. Great... then Lousy

over a 20 year period

prolly 5 years great

5 years fair

10 years increasingly lousy

:shrug:

[Pushed To The Left]

17. It looks like the 3s are in the lead!

But I'm happy to see I'm not the only one that had choice 1 happen, though it still boggles my mind how it's possible. It gives me hope to see a few 4s, though! It's possible after all!