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We had such a heartache when we looked at the satellite pictures right after Katrina and could see that the mausoleum where his favorite women are, and his boyhood home were under at least 6-10 ft. of water. My FiL has been back, but I don't think he identifies with NOLA like my husband does. FiL is a Mormon-converted-to-Catholic from Salt Lake City. Whereas my husband's maternal relatives go way back in NOLA, and he was really close to his grandmother and her sister, who lived on Royal in the FQtr. Whenever his parents wanted to go out on weekends, which was usually every weekend, he was sent into the FQtr to stay with his grandmother and her sister, while his younger sister spent the night/weekend with her friends. His grandmother's apartment was on Royal (with a courtyard), and it backed up to Pat O'Brien's on Bourbon. We have pictures of him on her balcony during Mardi Gras parades. This was during the 40s and 50s.
In fact...our first date (11-24-90), he invited me to his house for dinner (we had known each other for a couple of months). His mother had passed away six months earlier, and they were just getting around to cleaning out her things. In one of her boxes they found one of his Mardi Gras parade outfits where he had marched as a pageboy (he was probably 12-14 when he wore it), light blue silk knickers with a bow at the knees, and a matching bolero jacket. In a drunken moment, on that first date, he tried it on for me. The knickers fit (but very tight in the hooha area), the jacket, absolutely not. I was totally captivated with him from then on! How many first dates are actually that honest?!
I know, maybe TMI, but NOLA really figures into our history. I so want to get him back there...it will be painful, but we need to get back!
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