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Our local news is doing an investigation of school bullying. There was a report of a junior high boy, being stuffed and locked in a locker for about 40 minutes, was unlocked by a student and let out. He yelled and banged, but apparently no teacher heard this. It happened before the start of the day. I remember that part of the day as being particularly noisy as kids roamed the halls prior to homeroom, and not all teachers are prent in their homerooms until the bell rings. He and his mother went on the local news about the incident, his face was not revealed. The police were contacted but said they could not get involved without the school's cooperation. I ask , why not? If a child was seriously injured or worse, would the police not look into it if the school didn't cooperate??? The school, strongly denied this happened, and claims the kid just said this happened because he was late for class and wanted to avoid getting in trouble. (apparently late because he spent 40 minutes inside of a locker) The school also claims he could not fit into a locker, though he did appear on the smaller side for his age. The victim said he could give a description of the boys who did this. Why a kid would lie about this, and go on TV, even without his face revealed, they know who he is, and chance further ridicule is beyond me. I went to high school, and yes, pranks happen, and some of them are on the nasty side. I remember an incident with duct tape, and a kid being hurt pretty badly. I feel the school could and should have said at this time they could not find any evidence to support the kid's claims, but they will continue to look into it, and of course cooperate with the police. What harm could come of them working with the police? What signs is this school sending by not cooperating with the police? An expert on school bullying was contacted and said in these situation, allegations must be carefully looked into and not dismissed.
I don't know why, but I am outraged by this. It's not my school district, but it still bothers me. What if this kid had health issues with breathing problems, it could have turned out a lot worse. Over the years, locally, there have been reports of nasty hazing rituals where kids have been seriously hurt, and charges brought up against the perpetrators.
As a parent, what do you do? Kids sometimes can not draw the line when it comes to pranks...what starts off as what they think is harmless, can turn into something more serious. Some kids can come to their senses before it turns ugly, some can not. I feel there should be a zero tolerance policy. No student should be allowed to place their hands on another student, period. School activity leaders should set policies that pranking and hazing will mean immediate dismissal from the program. School officials should also set the same policy for the school and buses. And parents should be held responsible if their kids don't respect the rules.
This is being done in another school district with great results. The school adopted a zero tolerance policy. There are no "three strikes and your out" It's one strike. The school also stresses participation in some type of school activity. It has worked well, and the kids are respectful of fellow students, whether the play sports, are in the band, or science club.
Recently someone tried to give my son a wedgie on the bus, he said he fell, and went against the window, he's 6. The kid who did it was caught by the bus driver, and sent to sit up front. There are supposed to be cameras on the bus, and obviously the bus driver saw the incident, and it was not brought to my attention. My son told me about it weeks after it happened. Though this particular bus driver informs parents of every minor incident on the bus, like your child got up out of his seat too soon at the stop, your child turns in the seat to talk to other kids, the kids laughed too much on the bus. So, why wasn't I told my son fell into a window, I don't know? I didn't contact the school about the incident because he wasn't hurt, but maybe I should have???
What policies, if any, does your school district have ? Do they work?
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