Okay, I'm Going On A Date With A Gemini

[THUNDER HANDS]

What the hell does this mean?

She keeps talking about it like it's some big deal and that I don't know what I'm in for.

On top of that, she's a Sicilian Gemini.

Any astrology buffs know what I'm in for here on this date?

What's the deal with Gemini's?

[molly]

1. Is this a new one or that one with mixed messages?

[THUNDER HANDS]

2. new one

Right now I'm playing the field, so to speak.

This is the fourth girl I've gone out with in the past two weeks.

The other three I'm still seeing, but I can't decide which one I like.

[molly]

8. OK - I was married to a Gemini and if you knew what he

did to me you would break your date and make sure you never go out with one. I also knew a couple of female Gemini. They cheated.

[tridim]

12. I'm a male Gemini

and I've never cheated on a GF. Never even thought about it. Maybe it's just me?

[burr]

23. How unstable is your temper?

(1) being as stable as Nitrogen...

(10) being as unstable as Uranium.

Where are you on this scale?

Just wondering because, I too am a male Gemini.

[tridim]

25. I'm very easy going

so probably a 2 or 3 on your scale, Neon maybe?
Are Geminis high strung? To be honest, I don't know many.

[burr]

30. Considering that I am somewhere between 9 and 10...

I think we have proved your point. But still, it would be fascinating if there was an astrological connection based on our birthdates.

[Maddy McCall]

31. My only experience with a gemini was...

crazy as shit. One day he was fine, and the next a raging lunatic. Then, of course, he would excuse his bad behavior by saying, "You know, you married a Gemini," as if to tell me, "You know, when I am an asshole, it's only because of my sign...has nothing to do with me personally."

He used it to avoid taking responsibility for his MAJOR mistakes. Best wishes to you. I won't ever date or marry another one.

[otohara]

3. Twins - You're Going Out

with 1 person, who has two personalities. What's your sign? If you are an earth or fire sign, you most likely won't get along with a Gemini.

[THUNDER HANDS]

5. I'm a virgo

which, I'm not sure is earth, wind fire or one of the Temptations

:evilgrin:

[Avalux]

11. From a gemini who dates

a virgo - we do just fine - for the past 5 years. Since I'm kinda all over the place, he keeps me grounded. I'm not a sicilian but he is...don't know what that means. Good luck!

[DagmarK]

14. Virgos and Geminis do great.......

they are both ruled by mercury -- the planet of communication. The thing is.....the method of communication/expression is very different.

Geminis are fair-weathered friends......they get bored very easily. They are witty. They are masters at the spoken word. They wave their hands around a lot! They excel at jobs using their hands (if she's an accountant.....she might be a bit tortured!) They are known to be unfaithful I think because they legitimately get bored easily. But there are lots of very faithful gems out there. Once they are yours, they are yours forever......unless you change too awfully much. They relish freedom -- of expression, movement, thought. And are very passionate. They change subjects an awfully lot. They can be very messy and disorganized, but they like it that way. (Don't try to organize them.....they will never figure out what you have done!) BIG FLIRTS!

Now, this doesn't fit with virgo at first glance. Virgos who are so stable, level headed, loyal, reliable, service-oriented. But for the Gem.....these are things they admire and may wish they possessed (esp the organization). Now, I tend to think virgos are NOT anal retentive as people say. I think virgos are pretty darned perceptive, penetrating in vision and extremely intuitive.

Check out this interesting article entitled, The Radical Virgo http://www.aplaceinspace.net/Pages/JMRadVirgo.html

I would think that if a virgo and a gem were to succeed.....the virgo would have to offer the gem much freedom.....and the virgo would have to realize that the gem is the center of attention. Which I think virgos are fine with (as long as they can be in charge of the IMPORTANT behind the scenes make-the-world operate things, like managing the house budget! LOL)

Also, Geminis love to flirt - with people, children, puppies, life. So if this gal totally dazzles you from the get-go, don't take it too personally. She probably dazzales most!

[Avalux]

19. This is a fairly good description

of me and my boyfriend. The best things he can do is give me a lot of space and be willing to go with the flow when I wanna try something new, or when I get a hairbrained idea - I love him for that, and I am faithful. We have incredible conversations and the phyisical is really good too. Opposites attract??
I will tell you that Geminis find intelligence a huge turn-on.

[ElementaryPenguin]

21. Wow!! I'm a Gemini and you pegged me EXACTLY!!

Funny thing is, my girlfriend in high school was a Virgo - and she was soooo stable and level-headed (and conventional) compared to me!

[KoKo]

27. DagmarK! I replied to Magic before reading the thread! BUT Virgo/Gemini/NO

Disaster!!! Unless it's a very old Virgo paired with a young Gemini or a Very Young Gemini paired with an Older Virgo! BAD BAD BAD!

Although there is a wonderful attraction and much pizazz because both are ruled by Mercury Communicator......the relationship has the potential for disaster. Virgo's crave security to rebel against. Gemini's crave "freedom" at all costs.......

As renegade and rebellious as Virgo's can be (which few suspect) when up agains what can be "faithlessness" from Gemini's, it's not an easy road for a Virgo to go down. Since Magic is a DU'er and a Virgo, I don't want to see him hurt. If he was a Gemini/Du'er, I would know that it didn't matter if he took a Virgo for a ride down that road.........So it's just my "virgo" loyalty which wants to protect one of our own.

I love Gemini's........love all of them on DU ( and there are many, here) but they know their faults as well as I know mine. We don't want a "crack up/tragedy" here. Magic needs to look for a Cancer female.......or knowing Magic from his posts a Scorpio female woul be a great match for him.. All that romance, intrigue, and sexual mystique.......definitely a Scorpio for Magic............

:-)'s

[KoKo]

28. BTW, DagmarK, I'm checking that "Radical Virgo" site out.......being one

of them.......LOL's

[kixot]

4. Gemini?

Gemini?
Read: Bipolar manic/depressive.

Sicilian Gemini?
Read: Bipolar manic/depressive bitch.

Just stay on her good side and you're in for a great ride.

[thermodynamic]

15. The cynic's Guide to astrology, I love it!

:loveya:

What's in the Guide for Taurus folk?

[Dem2dend]

16. Not that there's anything wrong with that...

Gemini?
Read: Bipolar manic/depressive/bitch

[DoYouEverWonder]

20. Excuse me !

I just so happen to be a Sicilian Gemini and for the most part my mental health is a lot better than most people I've ever met.

Sorry, if you had a bad experience but please don't assume the worst about people based on a couple of insignificant bits of birth data.

MR: As for dating someone you does nothing else but talk about astrology, as a real Sicilian Gemini, I think I would be bored rather quickly with someone like that.

Either way good luck with you playing the field, hope you find someone nice to play with.

[unfrigginreal]

6. You're very lucky.

I'm not an astrology buff but for some reason have always been drawn to Gemini's. Smart, witty, and very unpredictable.

[w13rd0]

7. As long as she's not another blonde Republican...

...looking to take you to a freeper rally ;)

[Redbear]

9. Gemini is the TWINS.

You see references made to the complexity or mystery of a Gemini .

[Demobrat]

10. You're in for

a boring evening talking about astrology. Get her to talk about your sign. Then you can just space out for an hour or two.

[PeakOil2008]

13. Virgo and Gemini

You both will probably have a lot to talk about, albeit from different angles. Both signs are ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication. Gemini is an Air sign, while Virgo is an Earth sign. Air represents ideas, the mind and communication, while Earth symbolizes the physical body, strength and practicality. You both are very likely sharp witted, flexible people. The difference is that Gemini views the world through abstract concepts, while Virgo tends to approach life through practical methods.

There's more, but those are the basics.

NP, who is looking for a good, sharp-minded virgo lady himself...

[Astarho]

17. Known a few Gemini's

Never dated one, though. Expect her to change subjects a lot and to her going from one topic to another, it'll be perfectly logical, while you'll be going, "Wait, how did we get on this topic?" And Gemini's can change suddenly without warning from one mood to another, (and it probably won't be anything you do).

That's about all I can think of now. I dated a pisces once (drama queen!) NEVER AGAIN!!!

[hotphlash]

18. My last girl friend was a Gemini

She broke my wittle heart that Bi-polar -----

:nopity:

[Capn Sunshine]

22. You're dating a Gemini?

Which one?
:nuke:

[MiltonLeBerle]

24. Astrology is the only thing-

that's more pure bunk than organized religion.

[KoKo]

26. Hey, Magic.....seems way back you identified yourself as a Virgo.....

I'm a Virgo..........and there are strange attractions between Virgos and Gemini's. Both of us are ruled by Mercury.

Take my advice........I'm way older than you.. Go for a Cancer, Taurus, Capricorn or Scorpio....

Life will be easier. Those Gemini's are "heartbreakers" for Virgo's. I know from experience!

But, Good luck to you! You're still young enough to learn from mistakes.

And, if I read your "sgn" wrong........my apologies. I go back to a long time ago on DU when someone asked us to post our birthdays and astrological signs came into play. I remember I counted the Virgo's. Maybe I got it wrong and you're a Pices! LOL's and, as I said, GOOD LUCK!!! :-)'s

[sendero]

29. Hehe

Well, since you are a Virgo it might work ok. But if you were say a Scorpio (like me, once married to a Gemini) I would tell you to run, not walk the other direction :)

[proud patriot]

32. I'm a female gemini my husband has this advice for you

read up on your own horoscope so you might be able to
discuss this on your date .