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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 03:20 PM Original message |
Poll question: Are babies the end of having a good social life? |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 03:23 PM Response to Original message |
1. Yeah it is, but they don't stay babies long. nt |
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radwriter0555 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 12:22 AM Response to Reply #1 |
49. That's right. Babies only get in the way for the first couple of years, |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 03:23 PM Response to Original message |
2. Here's more about me than you'll ever care to know... |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 03:28 PM Response to Reply #2 |
5. Well... |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 03:30 PM Response to Reply #5 |
8. My life is way better because of them, not in spite of them. |
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miss_american_pie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 03:25 PM Response to Original message |
3. I'm quite certain |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 03:26 PM Response to Reply #3 |
4. haha |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 03:29 PM Response to Reply #4 |
7. I babysat for a couple who I am absolutely convinced were swingers. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 03:32 PM Response to Reply #7 |
10. and...have an extra bathroom in the basement with a locking door... |
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miss_american_pie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 04:04 PM Response to Reply #4 |
21. My social life involved |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 03:28 PM Response to Original message |
6. You sound like a friggin dinosaur. |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 04:11 PM Response to Reply #6 |
23. yawn |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 03:32 PM Response to Original message |
9. I've never had a baby, but my live-in SO has a three-year-old. |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 03:32 PM Response to Original message |
11. I think it depends on you and your kid. |
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Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 03:34 PM Response to Original message |
12. more an end than a means, no doubt. n/t |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 03:37 PM Response to Original message |
13. They certainly change it, but they only end it if you're unimaginative. |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 03:42 PM Response to Original message |
14. It's a different kind of social life |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 03:44 PM Response to Original message |
15. I don't, but my social life isn't that great anyway... |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 03:48 PM Response to Reply #15 |
16. They would surely say |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 03:53 PM Response to Reply #16 |
17. Goddamnnit, you! Don't do that whilst I'm drinking tea! |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 04:03 PM Response to Reply #17 |
20. no way |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 08:59 PM Response to Reply #20 |
43. If you do it again I'll chop your hands off. |
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LaraMN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 03:57 PM Response to Original message |
18. Heck no! |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 04:01 PM Response to Reply #18 |
19. hehe |
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kmla (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 12:56 PM Response to Reply #18 |
68. "...once you (or your spouse) burst(s) a child from your loins." |
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izzybeans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 04:09 PM Response to Original message |
22. nope nt |
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seemunkee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 04:16 PM Response to Original message |
24. They change it but don't destroy it |
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fishnfla (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 04:31 PM Response to Original message |
25. We would rather hang out with our kids than most adults |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 04:42 PM Response to Original message |
26. Kids are my social life |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 04:43 PM Response to Original message |
27. Okay, this is bothering me |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 04:46 PM Response to Reply #27 |
28. heh |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 04:48 PM Response to Reply #28 |
30. Ah. |
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Cascadian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 04:48 PM Response to Original message |
29. I am childfree and proud of it! |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 04:59 PM Response to Original message |
31. no |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 05:08 PM Response to Reply #31 |
34. After reading your response |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 05:14 PM Response to Reply #34 |
36. well, what is a social life, how are you defining it? |
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nickinSTL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 05:04 PM Response to Original message |
32. it depends... |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 11:46 AM Response to Reply #32 |
62. That is |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 05:06 PM Response to Original message |
33. It definitely put a crimp in it, but I wouldn't call it an end. |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 05:10 PM Response to Original message |
35. oh wait...i was thinking of Liv TYLER... |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 11:53 AM Response to Reply #35 |
63. she's great too |
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SteppingRazor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 05:28 PM Response to Original message |
37. Of course it's the end of your social life... |
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rbnyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 01:21 PM Response to Reply #37 |
71. You can have a social life without staying out til 5 am. |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 05:41 PM Response to Original message |
38. excuse me -- just passing through. |
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tjdee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 05:54 PM Response to Original message |
39. Depends on what your social life was like before the kids. |
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yellowdogintexas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 10:56 PM Response to Reply #39 |
45. agreed/ our social life before baby was dinner with friends, |
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xmas74 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 01:06 AM Response to Reply #39 |
52. That's the best part about the bars- |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 11:35 AM Response to Reply #39 |
60. bar |
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China_cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 05:55 PM Response to Original message |
40. Remove the word 'good' from the first choice |
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Xipe Totec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 06:20 PM Response to Original message |
41. Question is ambiguous |
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devilgrrl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 06:23 PM Response to Original message |
42. No. You just can't hang out as much... |
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fortyfeetunder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 10:30 PM Response to Original message |
44. All depends when you have the kids |
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mykpart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 11:00 PM Response to Original message |
46. I have some dear friends that I met BECAUSE I had children.f |
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AutumnMist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 11:06 PM Response to Original message |
47. At First When You Have A Baby |
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Beausoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-12-06 11:18 PM Response to Original message |
48. We have 5 kids. We were never social butterflies to begin with. |
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Robeson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 12:25 AM Response to Original message |
50. I've just never wanted them. Neither has my wife. We wouldn't be... |
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xmas74 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 01:03 AM Response to Original message |
51. It's definitely different. |
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last_texas_dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 01:57 AM Response to Original message |
53. Other |
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texanwitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 02:27 AM Response to Original message |
54. My friend and her husband have no social life after having the baby, |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 02:33 AM Response to Original message |
55. I dunno about kids, but having a cat sure can be. (nt) |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 02:47 AM Response to Original message |
56. Happily, Proudly Child-Free |
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kiraboo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 09:10 AM Response to Original message |
57. Babies grow up. So while, right now, your social life |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 09:19 AM Response to Original message |
58. It's very temporary |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 09:22 AM Response to Original message |
59. On the other hand my parents moved to a new city 2 years before my older.. |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 11:40 AM Response to Original message |
61. Finally, some honest parents. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 12:21 PM Response to Reply #61 |
64. Speaking of active social life, should three be a central IL Du meetup... |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 12:47 PM Response to Reply #64 |
65. Not a bad idea |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 12:52 PM Response to Reply #65 |
66. I think a chambana event might be nice. $4 pitchers of Old Style rock! |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 12:54 PM Response to Reply #65 |
67. I can't make that one. I must be off to Pennsylvania on that evening |
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Wetzelbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 12:58 PM Response to Original message |
69. if they are as bad as I was yes |
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rbnyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 01:20 PM Response to Original message |
70. It takes more planning... |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 01:35 PM Response to Original message |
72. What's a "good social life?" |
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newportdadde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 02:05 PM Response to Original message |
73. Social life? We have a 2 1/2 year old and twin boys 4 months old. |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-13-06 02:06 PM Response to Original message |
74. Yes |
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