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Bush_Sucks (247 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 06:57 AM Original message |
Need some advice DU...Please leave your opinion... |
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DoYouEverWonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:00 AM Response to Original message |
1. Are you living in your father's house at this point? |
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Bush_Sucks (247 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:03 AM Response to Reply #1 |
3. Yes, I live at home for the moment... |
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Minnesota Libra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:27 AM Response to Reply #3 |
16. Don't you think you're getting paid for pain, suffering, living, and...... |
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Bush_Sucks (247 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:58 AM Response to Reply #16 |
27. Just a point on medical bills... |
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DoYouEverWonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:42 AM Response to Reply #3 |
21. Then be thankful you have such good parents |
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Bush_Sucks (247 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:59 AM Response to Reply #21 |
30. Yes, I would move out if I were to take this action. |
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abluelady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:39 AM Response to Reply #3 |
57. As a Mom |
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quickesst (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:05 AM Response to Reply #1 |
6. It was an accident.... |
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Wetzelbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:01 AM Response to Original message |
2. you should be paid for your pain |
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Wetzelbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:14 AM Response to Reply #2 |
7. oh I should add |
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DoYouEverWonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:40 AM Response to Reply #7 |
20. Do you normally allow your employees |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:15 AM Response to Reply #20 |
37. Agreed n/t |
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Wetzelbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:16 AM Response to Reply #20 |
40. their relationship |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:37 AM Response to Reply #40 |
55. Deleted message |
Wetzelbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:45 AM Response to Reply #55 |
62. self-delete |
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Hamlette (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 09:32 AM Response to Reply #7 |
73. you cannot be paid for pain in workers' comp law n/t |
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Synnical (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:03 AM Response to Original message |
4. Workers' Comp Claim? n/t |
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acmejack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:05 AM Response to Original message |
5. I would leave well enough alone. |
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Bush_Sucks (247 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:17 AM Response to Reply #5 |
8. If I let it go I feel that it is an injustice... |
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acmejack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:23 AM Response to Reply #8 |
13. You asked I answered. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:19 AM Response to Reply #8 |
42. What injustice has been done? Seriously? |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:17 AM Response to Original message |
9. I've Been Injured on The Job |
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ChairmanAgnostic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:19 AM Response to Original message |
10. most states limit on the job recoveries to workers comp. |
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sweetheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:22 AM Response to Original message |
11. its a family matter |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:27 AM Response to Reply #11 |
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sweetheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:16 AM Response to Reply #15 |
39. Its a family matter |
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Bush_Sucks (247 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:36 AM Response to Reply #39 |
53. So what are you saying? |
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sweetheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 09:03 AM Response to Reply #53 |
66. I'm bringing up the context |
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Bush_Sucks (247 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 09:19 AM Response to Reply #66 |
69. OK... |
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sweetheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 10:28 AM Response to Reply #69 |
92. Pain is a wise teacher |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 09:25 AM Response to Reply #11 |
99. very good advice |
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calmblueocean (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:22 AM Response to Original message |
12. This is a worker's comp injury. Dad needs to file a worker's comp claim... |
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Bush_Sucks (247 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:25 AM Response to Reply #12 |
14. My father told me to lie to the worker's comp people... |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:46 AM Response to Reply #14 |
23. He's paying full salary all summer and wants to avoid a workers comp |
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calmblueocean (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:17 AM Response to Reply #14 |
41. I called my wife, and she said you can file your own claim |
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Wetzelbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:24 AM Response to Reply #41 |
45. best post on this topic |
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HamdenRice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:36 AM Response to Original message |
17. Definitely don't sue -- pain & suffering = attorney's fees |
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Bush_Sucks (247 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:44 AM Response to Reply #17 |
22. My relationship with my father is rocky to say the least... |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:47 AM Response to Reply #22 |
25. You are hurt and hopefully on pain meds and feeling sorry for |
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madokie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:03 AM Response to Reply #22 |
32. No not at all, count your lucky stars and give your dad a hug |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:28 AM Response to Reply #22 |
48. He gave you a job, he's supporting you |
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DemonFighterLives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:37 AM Response to Original message |
18. I wouldn't go against your father |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:30 AM Response to Reply #18 |
49. Everyone I know who was raised on a farm |
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DemonFighterLives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 06:58 AM Response to Reply #49 |
95. I don't know if everyone gets it |
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lectrobyte (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:40 AM Response to Original message |
19. I wouldn't sue my father. Would be worried about someone that |
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DiverDave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:47 AM Response to Original message |
24. Don't sue your dad. |
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Jersey Devil (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:53 AM Response to Original message |
26. You are not entitled to be paid for pain and suffering |
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tkmorris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:58 AM Response to Original message |
28. I'd sue your Dad.......... but |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:32 AM Response to Reply #28 |
50. As my 14-year-old niece would say: WORD |
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IsIt1984Yet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:59 AM Original message |
I would never try to sue my father. |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 07:59 AM Response to Original message |
29. You want to sue your father for causing you pain??? |
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Jersey Devil (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:00 AM Response to Reply #29 |
31. He can't sue his father or a co-worker |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:05 AM Response to Original message |
33. What Was The Pure Negligence? |
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Jersey Devil (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:12 AM Response to Reply #33 |
34. I didn't mention recklessness because it is virtually impossible to prove |
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Bush_Sucks (247 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:21 AM Response to Reply #33 |
43. Basically... |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:27 AM Response to Reply #43 |
47. Well Then Get Over It. |
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Jersey Devil (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:32 AM Response to Reply #43 |
51. Well, what were you doing so close to the machine moving poles? |
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Bush_Sucks (247 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:12 AM Response to Original message |
35. I don't get to choose my family or |
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Saturday (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:42 AM Response to Reply #35 |
59. If you want to end your relationship with.... |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 09:13 AM Response to Reply #59 |
67. yes, how dare we discuss things on a discussion board--it might make |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 09:22 AM Response to Reply #35 |
70. What Principle? |
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MercutioATC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 10:08 AM Response to Reply #35 |
89. Worker's comp will NOT pay you for pain and suffering..and you'll get less |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:13 AM Response to Original message |
36. Are you truly serious? |
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lonestarnot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:15 AM Response to Original message |
38. Good luck |
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Democrat 4 Ever (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:34 AM Response to Reply #38 |
52. I am appalled that you think there is some kind of a "principle" here |
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lonestarnot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:45 AM Response to Reply #52 |
61. Hey you accidentally responded to me rather than the OP want to edit? |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:49 AM Response to Reply #52 |
63. Good post n/t |
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newportdadde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:24 AM Response to Original message |
44. I worked for my father on the family farm. |
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Generic Other (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:40 AM Response to Reply #44 |
58. Someday what's dad's may be yours |
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radwriter0555 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:26 AM Response to Original message |
46. Your case wouldn't get to a jury in something like this, and even thinking |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:49 AM Response to Reply #46 |
64. unfortunately for workers |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:37 AM Response to Original message |
54. I worked on my uncles' crab boats through high school |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:37 AM Response to Original message |
56. Do they have worker's comp in Canada? If so your dad has |
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Wetzelbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 09:35 AM Response to Reply #56 |
74. he is looking for a way out of what he was legally responsible for |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:44 AM Response to Original message |
60. You could try (non?)binding arbitration. Seek out someone with |
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Blue Diadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 09:00 AM Response to Original message |
65. How awful! |
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Wetzelbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 09:15 AM Response to Original message |
68. ok, just to be clear |
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Bush_Sucks (247 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 09:29 AM Response to Reply #68 |
71. I don't want to sue my dad...I just layed out the question... |
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Wetzelbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 09:42 AM Response to Reply #71 |
75. I'm not criticising you |
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Bush_Sucks (247 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 09:45 AM Response to Reply #75 |
76. I know you weren't criticizing me... |
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Wetzelbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 09:49 AM Response to Reply #76 |
79. hey no problem |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 09:52 AM Response to Reply #75 |
82. The requested "lie" may have been to benefit both parties |
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Wetzelbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 09:54 AM Response to Reply #82 |
85. yeah I see that |
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Democrat 4 Ever (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 11:09 AM Response to Reply #82 |
94. Again, I'm not familiar with Canadian WC law but in Kentucky |
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Hamlette (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 09:30 AM Response to Original message |
72. legally you have no right to payment for pain and suffering |
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Catherine Vincent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 09:45 AM Response to Original message |
77. Nevermind, I didn't read your post above. |
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musical_soul (398 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 09:46 AM Response to Original message |
78. What's your father like? |
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Bush_Sucks (247 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 09:53 AM Response to Reply #78 |
84. My father... |
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musical_soul (398 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 09:57 AM Response to Reply #84 |
86. What I would do. |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 10:24 AM Response to Reply #84 |
90. I hear, ya, man. |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 09:50 AM Response to Original message |
80. You asked for advice but object when it is offered. |
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Wetzelbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 09:52 AM Response to Reply #80 |
83. yeah the lying part |
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Bush_Sucks (247 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 10:01 AM Response to Reply #80 |
87. I'm not objecting any advise offered. |
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mtnester (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 09:50 AM Response to Original message |
81. This should be worker's compensation issue |
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Sammy Pepys (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 10:03 AM Response to Original message |
88. Are you serious? |
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nolabels (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 10:24 AM Response to Original message |
91. The cold reality, your father is just your father |
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StinkyMcPinknose (26 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 11:00 AM Response to Original message |
93. I'm sorry, but you should consider yourself lucky |
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kiraboo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 07:05 AM Response to Original message |
96. Life isn't fair, and sometimes we are not compensated |
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DemonFighterLives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 08:01 AM Response to Original message |
97. Hi Loungers |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-10-06 09:20 AM Response to Original message |
98. Does your father provide for and protect you? |
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