Can I get some love? It's been kind of a shitty fucked up week...

[ZombieNixon]

Right now I feel like this:


I can't put my finger on why, but it's been one of those weeks where nothing seems to go right. I probably made at least one new enemy, I can't find a job and I'm still single with the dreaded Valentine's Day rapidly approaching. :-(

[SeattleGirl]

1. Come here, ZN

:hug: :loveya: :hug: :loveya:

[ZombieNixon]

2. Thanks, SG

:hug:

[LaraMN]

3. Of course, ya poor kiddo!

:hug:
Hang in there!

[ZombieNixon]

4. Thanks, Lara

:loveya:

[Call Me Wesley]

5. Hang in thight.

I felt like this for quite some time. Oh, and don't forget that Valentine's day is just an invention of the flower and card companies.

No worries, even it doesn't feel like it. You'll walk your path, I'm sure. :hi:

[ZombieNixon]

6. Thanks, CMW

I saw your "uspolitics.org.net.etc" site in another thread. It made me chuckle...all is not lost.

[Call Me Wesley]

11. It's never lost, believe me.

Good vibes coming your way. Walk tall. :pals:

[ZombieNixon]

14. I seem to go through phases like this.

Fairly regularly in fact. I should start marking them on the calendar. :evilfrown:

[Call Me Wesley]

20. Nah, don't mark them, don't make them anything special.

We all go through these phases, some are harder, some are lighter because of a caring environment where we still could feel being somewhat secure. It's natural, and since we aren't dumb, we do feel it profoundly. It's not really a bad thing, even it seems a big challenge and a big down personally. And the feeling of loneliness doesn't make us alone. It took 30 years for me to understand, and you'll be way faster.

No worries, let it happen. Just don't mark it on the calendar. ;)

[Strong Atheist]

7. Hang in there!

:pals:

[ZombieNixon]

8. Thanks, SA

FSM will guide me. :D ;)

[Strong Atheist]

18. .... I will refrain from my normal, to be nice. Hope things

improve soon ...

[Deep13]

9. C'mon people now. Smile on yer brother.

Everybody get together try to love one another right now.

[hfojvt]

46. "they just don't write 'em like that any more"

"I think it's so groovy now
that people are finally gettin' together."

[miss_american_pie]

10. It'll get better

:hug: :hug: :hug:

[ZombieNixon]

15. This time certainly isn't as bad as last time I was in this mood.

That time I hosted a rather supermassive pity party which went on for days.

[sarge43]

12. Come 'mere Big Guy.

A hug from Auntie.

:hug:

[In_The_Wind]

13. Would a really big hug help?

[FuzzySlippers]

16. Here ya go.

:hug:

[Thtwudbeme]

17. Valentine's Day is a crock of shit anyway. A Hallmark Holiday from hell.

Would you even want to date a woman who wants something just because it's February 15th?

Please.

It was best celebrated in Chicago in my opinion.

Stephanie

Otherwise, I am sorry you had a shitty week.

[ZombieNixon]

21. I'm in Chicago...should that make me sad?

:hug:

On the other hand, I love how you missed the date of V-Day-from-Hell! :rofl: It's the fourteenth, dummy! :spank: :D

Would that I could forget it like that...

[Thtwudbeme]

23. Oh crap!

it IS the stupid 14th.

I really, really despise that day with a white hot passion.

It used to kill me to see the unpopular kids in school get NOTHING while the little snotwads (who were my friends, god help me) get a bunch of crap.

I HATED it.

[ZombieNixon]

24. I never got a valentine.

Barring those times in elementary school when someone brought one for everyone in class, and mass valentines have never really meant anything to me.

Middle school sucked ass. Period.

In high school, both...entaglements I would seriously consider "relationships" were March through August affairs. I just found out one of them is now an open bisexual...interesting. :D

[Thtwudbeme]

25. I did...I got them all the damned time...while I watched the "unpopular"

girls get nothing.

I despised the whole tradition; and now that I am old and crotchety...well...I just let it out!

[Chovexani]

26. As one of those unpopular girls who never got anything

I appreciate your empathy. School was absolute hell.

I've always hated Valentine's Day because I've never had anyone to spend it with. The few times I've been involved with someone on the day, they've either been long distance or unable to spend it with me for some reason. This year is...weird. Ended a long term relationship and am single for the first time in years.

The thing is I have really low self-esteem and have never really been appreciated by the few partners I've had. I know I'm too young for it, but I'm just feeling very bitter in general. Maybe I just need time to heal.

[cassandra uprising]

19. Hold tight ZN

V- Day is a stupid but effective marketing ploy to make people feel bad about themselves and that spending money make them feel better. Hang there job hunting sucks. Don't give up! :hug:

[ZombieNixon]

22. The bastards!

What's the point of trying to make me spend money when I have no one to spend it on? :grr:

[ghostsofgiants]

42. That's my contention as well..

Mind you it has resulted in me being called bitter, haha, but fuck that.

[buddhamama]

27. love is my specialty

well that, and orange chicken.

big :hug: cutie! i have had one of those weeks myself, i empathize.

[ZombieNixon]

40. Mmm...orange chicken...

I'm supposed to go get some of that on Saturday...checking out a place in Chinatown.

[TheProphetess]

28. Turn that frown upside down!

People have been looking for that smile!
Hugs to you. :grouphug:

[Shine]

29. Hugs and love, from me to you, ZombieNixon....

:hug: :hug: :hug: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya:

[LSK]

30. look on the bright side

At least you dont have to blow your nose every 10 minutes because of the cold from hell! :grr:

[ZombieNixon]

32. LOL. I did that last week.

I'm used to colds...lots of hot chocolate and chili has 'em running.

[MiniMandaRuth]

31. You're SINGLE with THAT face?!

Hottie! Sorry if I may be saying, but you're... uh... hot! To the power of a hundred!

:hug: Sorry that you've been feeling bad.

Well... enemy doesn't know what he's missing from not hanging around you, the job you will find (With someone as smart as you, I'm surprised employers aren't throwing themselves at your feet) and for Valentines, you'll find someone soon...

[ZombieNixon]

33. Thanks, MMR.

I've pretty much given up trying ot reason that one out. :shrug:

[Benfea]

34. *hugs* -NT

[bertha katzenengel]

35. hey, Zom-b

:hug:

[redwitch]

36. do not fret.

Here's something I read on the cover of a cd once. It has stuck with me ever since, and it gets me through when times are tough. Are ya ready?




"We are loved beyond our ability to comprehend"




That includes you buddy (DUer with one of the all time best DU names). And don't ever forget it!

The job and the SO will come. Be patient. And believe.


:hug: from redwitch

[ZombieNixon]

38. I'll need to remember that quote...

Thanks

[tjwmason]

37. I've never got a Valentine

They're pointless pieces of commercialised nonsense.

You're a fine and charming young man - so keep your chin up and tell the rest of the world to go and **** itself.

:hug:

[MissB]

39. Even us married folks know that Valentines Day

is a bunch of bullshit designed to make chocolate makers and card companies very wealthy.

:hug:

[northofdenali]

41. Things will change, ZN - just hang in there.

All good karma coming your way from the northland (Blue, join me here?) - including Musk Ox hugs, Moose mustache tickles, Caribou kisses and some Northern Lights for hope.

:hug::grouphug::loveya::grouphug::hug:

[GoddessOfGuinness]

43. Hugs and love...

:hug::hug::hug:
For Valentines Day, don't forget to love yourself, ok? You deserve it!
:loveya::loveya::loveya:

[amitten]

44. Everyone I know, myself included, had a crap week. Something

in the air.

[Crazy Guggenheim]

45. Zombie. Here's some hugs.

:pals: :hug: :pals: :hug: :pals: :hug:

[nemo137]

47. ZN, the virtual rum, and random, drunken stories are on me tonight

it'll be fun.

[ZombieNixon]

48. LOL. Thanks, nemo