Democratic Underground Latest Greatest Lobby Journals Search Options Help Login
Google

Fellas: would you still want to marry a woman who pulled a runaway bride?

Printer-friendly format Printer-friendly format
Printer-friendly format Email this thread to a friend
Printer-friendly format Bookmark this thread
This topic is archived.
Home » Discuss » The DU Lounge Donate to DU
 
CatWoman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-02-05 06:14 PM
Original message
Fellas: would you still want to marry a woman who pulled a runaway bride?
Groom Still Wants to Marry Runaway Bride

By CHARLES ODUM, Associated Press Writer 31 minutes ago

DULUTH, Ga. - The jilted groom whose bride-to-be ran away four days before their wedding still wants to marry Jennifer Wilbanks, saying, "Haven't we all made mistakes?"

"Just because we haven't walked down the aisle, just because we haven't stood in front of 500 people and said our 'I Do's, my commitment before God to her was the day I bought that ring and put it on her finger, and I'm not backing down from that," John Mason said Monday in an interview with Fox News' Hannity & Colmes show.

It was Mason's first public statement since he learned on the morning of his scheduled wedding day that his fiancee was not kidnapped, but instead had cold feet.

As her family and friends feared the worst, police say the bride-to-be cut her hair, took a Greyhound bus to Las Vegas and didn't call her family to say she wanted to back out of a lavish, 600-guest wedding planned for Saturday. The runaway triggered a huge manhunt and requests from police that Mason take a polygraph test.

Mason said he has given the 32-year-old Wilbanks her ring back — she'd left it at the house — and said they still planned to marry.

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/runaway_bride
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
Bunny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-02-05 06:17 PM
Response to Original message
1. I'm torn between thinking that this guy is unbelievably
Edited on Mon May-02-05 06:18 PM by Bunny
compassionate and understanding in standing by his woman, despite what she did.

Or thinking that he's amazingly controlling, who is going to have this woman, whether she likes it or not, goddammit!
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
CatWoman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-02-05 06:18 PM
Response to Reply #1
2. I'm with you on the latter..........
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Bok_Tukalo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-02-05 06:22 PM
Response to Reply #2
8. See what I mean?
Public humiliation and people speculating about your character.

I would get as far away from her as I could.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
CatWoman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-02-05 06:25 PM
Response to Reply #8
11. heh, if you think we're rough
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
petronius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-02-05 06:19 PM
Response to Original message
3. If my bride had run away
it would have shown how intelligent she was, so I would have wanted to marry her even more...
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
matcom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-02-05 06:20 PM
Response to Original message
4. depends how HOT she is and how much $$ she has
i'm a "realist" :P
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
CatWoman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-02-05 06:20 PM
Response to Reply #4
6. If i recall correctly, his family is quite affluent
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
matcom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-02-05 06:22 PM
Response to Reply #6
9. then BRING IT ON I say!!!
:bounce:

yeah, i'm a slut :P
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Bok_Tukalo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-02-05 06:20 PM
Response to Original message
5. No.
It would be hard to think of a worse humiliation.

I haven't been following this story (it's a bit Jerry Springer to me) but to be so publically rejected would not be something I could easily forget.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
MrScorpio Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-02-05 06:21 PM
Response to Original message
7. I'd dump her ass in a heartbeat
So long, sweet thang
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
ClintonTyree Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-02-05 06:24 PM
Response to Original message
10. No....
I think the guy has a self image problem. Any guy who would take her back after the shit she pulled would have to be crazy himself. Maybe he thinks he'll never get another woman so he's sticking with this one through thick and thin.

She'd be on her own if I were he. Adios.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-02-05 06:29 PM
Response to Reply #10
12. Deleted message
Message removed by moderator. Click here to review the message board rules.
 
bufffbison Donating Member (384 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-02-05 06:33 PM
Response to Original message
13. instead of being exhausted by wedding guests of 600
she gets national attention of 200 million viewers! wow!
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Lexingtonian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-02-05 06:41 PM
Response to Original message
14. Yes

But it would require a period of some serious rethinking and renegotiating the relationship, because some large chunk of that work evidently wasn't done right.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
CatWoman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-02-05 06:43 PM
Response to Reply #14
15. you're very "grounded"
:D

such a nice reply.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
DU AdBot (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view 
this author's profile Click to add 
this author to your buddy list Click to add 
this author to your Ignore list Thu Apr 25th 2024, 06:37 AM
Response to Original message
Advertisements [?]
 Top

Home » Discuss » The DU Lounge Donate to DU

Powered by DCForum+ Version 1.1 Copyright 1997-2002 DCScripts.com
Software has been extensively modified by the DU administrators


Important Notices: By participating on this discussion board, visitors agree to abide by the rules outlined on our Rules page. Messages posted on the Democratic Underground Discussion Forums are the opinions of the individuals who post them, and do not necessarily represent the opinions of Democratic Underground, LLC.

Home  |  Discussion Forums  |  Journals |  Store  |  Donate

About DU  |  Contact Us  |  Privacy Policy

Got a message for Democratic Underground? Click here to send us a message.

© 2001 - 2011 Democratic Underground, LLC