I need a man's opinion

[yvr girl]

Would you like it if your wife/girlfriend did the following, or would you find it corny?

Send him a formal invitation as follows:

YVR Girl requests the honour of your presence at a party
Friday, October 29th, 2004
at her home
123 Main Street
Anywhere Town, USA

Cocktails - 8:00 pm
Massage - 9:00 pm
followed by "Dessert"

RSVP by October 22, 2004
Casual - Clothing Optional (Eventually)

I was also planning on making up a Dessert Menu that he can order off of.

[salinen]

1. Heck no

Why would anyone like a cocktail, message, and dessert, all prepaired by their lover?

You're kidding right?

[yvr girl]

6. It's not dessert but

"dessert". Food is not necessarily involved. A bit obscure, perhaps?

[mike_c]

2. sweet, but I'd find it a bit contrived....

Still, I'd likely accept the invitation. :evilgrin:

Have fun!

[Still_Notafraid]

3. Sounds good to me

I am sure he will always remember it ,and will mean a lot to him in his thoughts.

[Kire]

4. you better back it up

with a very memorable evening

[WannaJumpMyScooter]

5. A Party? For me! Go on, ya shouldnt have....

Thanks, of course, the only thing missing is the date.... let me know.

[yvr girl]

9. Sorry, the guest of honour is the only guest

Let's call it an intimate gathering.

[WannaJumpMyScooter]

10. Oh bother.

I thought I was the guest of honor....

If you offer your honor
And he honors your offer....


all through the night you will have honor and offer!

[GingerSnaps]

7. I am not a guy but

Go to Spencer's gifts and buy a book of coupons for lovers and include a few in the invitation.

BTW Its a very cute Idea that you came up with.

[amerikat]

8. throw in his favorite dinner with an "appetizer"

sounds good, I'd accept. Have fun.

[Johnny 99]

11. No, it would mean I have a date

n/t

[yvr girl]

12. You have a date?

Does your wife/girlfriend know that you have a date? She seems very understanding.

[Johnny 99]

13. You misunderstand

Getting something like what you propose would mean I have a date. Which means I will never get one.

[Kire]

15. yes, I do misunderstand

?

[yvr girl]

18. You've decided on becoming a monk?

If not, don't lose hope. They say that there is someone for everyone.

[MrSandman]

14. I used to recieve them like that...

And give them.

It is great fun.

[seventhson]

16. It is very hot, BUT

I might include a few more details.

Candlelight, music, cuisine/good eats

(guys like to eat too)

[yvr girl]

17. So, my mother was right

A way to a man's heart...

[MrSandman]

20. You said a party...

Not a dinner.


Go party :party:

[yvr girl]

21. Most parties do have some food

The central focus will be "dessert"

I'm wondering if the items on the "Dessert Menu" should have straight forward descriptions, or if something coded would add a surprize element.

[MrSandman]

22. I thought it was a theme party...

Well I thought better. I don't want to get your thread locked, but a party with "dessert only" would fit the theme.

:evilgrin:

[seventhson]

29. Something sexy to stimulate ALL the senses: Chocolate Covered Strawberries

you made yourself. Dip them in steaming chocolate dipping chocolate

finger foods - steamed shrimp, sweet things

suggestive foods: tropical fruits sliced, maybe some Brie and grapes

whip
Spicy foods Jalapena poppers or maybe stuffed muchrooms.


If YOU are the dessert and you will have an hour of cocktails and massage you NEED some satisfaction for the tongue AND stomach (and not just the tongues if you know what I mean)

Music, candles - a sexy movie (like water for chocolate is great)

[JimmyJazz]

26. Hershey's chocolate syrup...

:P

[JohnKleeb]

19. Ha its cute

If you want to, I'd say go for it, if he has a good sense of humor which many guys do, i am sure you'll get a good response.

[ET Awful]

23. I'd be fine with it, in fact. . . .

I've done a similar invitation for an ex-girlfriend several years ago :).

[sandnsea]

24. Old married lady says

It's a great idea. Men love this stuff, even the "macho", too cool to show their feminine side types. They'll only tell you after you do it (meaning the whole experience, not, well, you know). I particularly like the "dessert" menu, haha. Go for it!

[daddybear]

25. In this w orld today....

any sweet gesture like that should be appreciated and LOVED!!!! Do it...

[psychopomp]

27. It is a bit...sweet for me

But, you know, to each their own. Men's fantasy and women's fantasy are different, is all.

I do not think most men need much verbal cueing or otherwise to get them caught in a pleasurable experience.

[GOPisEvil]

28. I think that's a cute idea.

As a special occasion, it's nice.