How do you kiss with a SMALL TONGUE?

[liberalpragmatist]

A "friend of mine" has trouble making out and esp. frenching b/c he has a small tongue that portrudes no more than an inch when he sticks it out of his mouth. He, uh, recently asked *me* how he can make out well with this, er... condition. Got any advice for this "friend"? :P

[On the Road]

1. Not a Problem

Your "friend" will just have to be more of a receiver. Tongues go both ways. :P

[boobooday]

2. Has anyone complained?

I think it's more about how you use it than how much it sticks out.

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[Nevernose]

3. I, too, have a small tongue

It seems only to make a difference depending upon, uh, er, where I'm doing the kissing, if you know what I mean. *blush*

[belladonna]

4. Boy, oh BOY

I could have some fun with that, but I'm too busy recovering from rejection :D

[Hell Hath No Fury]

5. Frankly there is nothing...

that grosses me out more that a guy swabbing my tonsils during kissing. A little (as in a small amount of) tongue action goes a very l-o-n-g way for many of us.

Tell your "friend" there is nothing wrong with him.

The best kissers I have ever been with -- and I have been blessed with two of them -- understood the pleasures of the "dance" between a pair of lips and tongues. And neither one of them had anything going on but your very average, not so big tongue.

[radwriter0555]

6. it's all in the lips baby...

he just needs practice.

[Hell Hath No Fury]

9. Agreed!

I can't tell you how many guys I've kissed who just jammed their tongue in my mouth and swirled it around as if giving a toilet bowl a good cleaning with a brush. One guy actually kept probing my teeth with his tongue as if he were checking for old food.

Bleck!

Totally unsexy.

The two fellas who knew what to do with their lips -- sigh, just heavenly. :)

[Terran]

7. Kissing is 95% technique

Although I admit to being very tongue-oriented, a good kiss doesn't depend upon one's ability to get at the back of one's partner's throat (although, I, um, rather like that, giving and receiving). Skillful use of lips is all important, and one should learn to use the sensitivity of that organ to please one's partner.

Geez, I sound like Dr. Ruth. I would also say, tell your 'friend' to learn to use what he has; tongues can be very VERY erotic, regardless of size.

Dirk

[Endangered Specie]

8. I have a ***friend*** with the same problem.