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Edited on Sun May-02-04 01:04 PM by amazona
I think the first dreams I controlled were in 6th grade when we got involved of a discussion of, is it true that if you dream of dying, you will die? We all agreed that if we were about to be killed in a dream, then we would wake up.
I just didn't believe that dreaming about being killed was fatal, so I decided I would see if I could stay asleep and dream my way through being killed in a dream. I often (still do) have dreams of falling or jumping off high buildings. I decided I would continue to fall until I hit bottom. Before going to sleep, I would think about having a falling dream, and I pretty much did every time. However, the first few nights I kept jerking awake before I hit bottom. Finally I did hit bottom, and my spirit (still in the dream) lifted out of my old body and started flying around. Having satisfied myself that I was immortal in my dreams, I started flapping my wings and flying whenever I started to fall off a tall building. I still do this very often.
It seems I stumbled on the path to lucid dreaming by chance but if you want to try it, start by meditating or daydreaming about what you want to have happen in your dream before you go to sleep. When asleep, if you are dreaming, try to notice that you are dreaming. Next, see if you can fly, walk through walls, etc. Maybe jumping off buildings or using an AK to your worst enemy is the not the FIRST test you should make to be sure you are dreaming, but I was a kid! It would be more advisable to be sure that you can flap your wings and fly. When that works, you know you're dreaming, so suggest to yourself anything else you would like to do. Don't be shy. Your body can take different shapes, it can rise from the dead, it can be another person or another gender, it can even engage in sexual activities...just play around with it.
I have also heard if you have real trouble with getting any dreams to work with, add some vitamin B supplements to your diet. I've always had vivid dreams but I've heard from former non-dreamers it can be a big help.
On Edit: Alcohol can cause shallow sleep or sleep disturbances. Once you are already experienced at lucid dreaming, you can control these shallow dreams without waking up; however, when first starting to practice lucid dreaming, I might recommend avoiding alcohol or caffeine for awhile.
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