|
Printer-friendly format Email this thread to a friend Bookmark this thread |
This topic is archived. |
Home » Discuss » The DU Lounge |
Rainbowreflect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 10:25 AM Original message |
I need some help from DUers that have kids or deal with kids. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 10:27 AM Response to Original message |
1. gag him? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
elfwitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 10:28 AM Response to Original message |
2. bite him back? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 10:29 AM Response to Reply #2 |
4. GMTA, Elf... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 10:29 AM Response to Original message |
3. We were always bitten back... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mr_hat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 10:30 AM Response to Original message |
5. Those "Silence of the Lambchop" masks are awful cute. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
obietiger (438 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 10:30 AM Response to Original message |
6. do NOT bite him back |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
shugah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 08:59 PM Response to Reply #6 |
45. that's not a bad method...but |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Mistress Quickly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 10:33 AM Response to Original message |
7. Get down on your knees (to his level) |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Marymarg (773 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 10:33 AM Response to Original message |
8. Yes, bite him back |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
democratreformed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 10:45 AM Response to Reply #8 |
13. My answer too - bite him back n/t |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mcar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 10:34 AM Response to Original message |
9. My son was a biter |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 02:03 PM Response to Reply #9 |
28. Precisely because kids that age don't have empathy or much in |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
adriennui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 10:39 AM Response to Original message |
10. have you tried a muzzle? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
havocmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 10:41 AM Response to Original message |
11. at 18 months, isolation will work better than a reprimand |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
bearfan454 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 10:44 AM Response to Original message |
12. Bite back. I also |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Kadie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 10:46 AM Response to Original message |
14. My son was a biter |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Sticky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 10:46 AM Response to Original message |
15. Don't Bite back |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 10:47 AM Response to Original message |
16. That kid's got a hankerin for a spankerin |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
MissMarple (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 12:27 PM Response to Reply #16 |
21. Physical punishment is inappropriate, especially for an 18 month old. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 12:40 PM Response to Reply #21 |
23. At 18 months... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
drfemoe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 04:55 PM Response to Reply #23 |
41. the "message" it teaches .. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 06:29 PM Response to Reply #41 |
42. That's crap. I was spanked and I don't think that... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
drfemoe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 08:37 PM Response to Reply #42 |
43. but you "were spanked" |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 11:34 PM Response to Reply #43 |
49. Were you spanked? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 11:47 PM Response to Reply #42 |
51. How is not hitting children "crap"? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-14-04 09:25 PM Response to Reply #51 |
57. I've never considered Spanking abuse... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-14-04 10:23 PM Response to Reply #57 |
59. No, I'm not. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
put out (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-14-04 10:30 PM Response to Reply #57 |
60. It might be a bit of a cycle |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-04 12:29 AM Response to Reply #60 |
62. Dude, I'm not talking paddling or belting... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 11:50 PM Response to Reply #42 |
52. Was your "research" |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-14-04 12:24 AM Response to Reply #52 |
53. I seriously doubt it |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
drfemoe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-14-04 09:13 PM Response to Reply #53 |
55. Thank you for posting |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
quisp (926 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 10:51 AM Response to Original message |
17. father of 3 ... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Kadie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 10:54 AM Response to Reply #17 |
18. good advice |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Rainbowreflect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 11:04 AM Response to Original message |
19. Thank for everyone's suggestions. I will pass them on. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
drfemoe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-14-04 09:25 PM Response to Reply #19 |
56. The VERY FIRST TIME |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
forgethell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 11:53 AM Response to Original message |
20. A awat with the board of education |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
amandae (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 12:30 PM Response to Original message |
22. Time-outs REALLY worked for us on this |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
TXlib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 12:44 PM Response to Original message |
24. 18-month olds really can't be punished |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 12:45 PM Response to Original message |
25. It may not be a discipline issue |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
drfemoe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-14-04 09:34 PM Response to Reply #25 |
58. That's a lovely story .. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
LuLu550 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 01:00 PM Response to Original message |
26. my advice is to go to a parenting page, not DU |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
proud patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 01:03 PM Response to Original message |
27. I'm a mom and a Trained Childcare Professional |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
ohiosmith (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 02:11 PM Response to Original message |
29. This sure fire cure worked on me and every one of my six siblings: |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
proud patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 02:26 PM Response to Reply #29 |
31. Did you know this technique is practiced in Native American childrearing? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
ohiosmith (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 02:29 PM Response to Reply #31 |
33. That's interesting. I have Cherokee ancestors. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
proud patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 02:33 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. I have very close family friends |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
ohiosmith (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 02:46 PM Response to Reply #34 |
36. Irish/German/Welsh/Cherokee. My uncle once told me I had so little |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
proud patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 03:38 PM Response to Reply #36 |
37. LOL ..... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
BigMcLargehuge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 02:16 PM Response to Original message |
30. biting is a communication of frustration |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
proud patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 02:28 PM Response to Reply #30 |
32. see my post #27 , you are exactly right Big |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
BigMcLargehuge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 02:43 PM Response to Reply #32 |
35. Ahhhhh... what happens when you get two early child care pros together? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
proud patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 03:40 PM Response to Reply #35 |
38. A rollicking fun time |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Burma Jones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 04:01 PM Response to Original message |
39. We discipline our kids by taking things away from them |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
shugah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 09:18 PM Response to Reply #39 |
47. that's great - but if a child doesn't have the cognition |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 04:17 PM Response to Original message |
40. Mom of 4 and early childhood ed. degree here |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Snoggera (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 08:49 PM Response to Original message |
44. a dentist can remove those pesky teeth? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
shugah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 09:15 PM Response to Original message |
46. there is no right answer |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
ACK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 09:36 PM Response to Original message |
48. 2 kids biting stuff common |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
drfemoe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-13-04 11:38 PM Response to Reply #48 |
50. one of my most horrifying |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
MinnFats (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-14-04 12:28 AM Response to Original message |
54. Biting a kid is abusive! |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Maestro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-14-04 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
61. I absolutely cannot believe some of the stuff I am reading |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
DU AdBot (1000+ posts) | Tue Apr 23rd 2024, 09:04 PM Response to Original message |
Advertisements [?] |
Top |
Home » Discuss » The DU Lounge |
Powered by DCForum+ Version 1.1 Copyright 1997-2002 DCScripts.com
Software has been extensively modified by the DU administrators
Important Notices: By participating on this discussion board, visitors agree to abide by the rules outlined on our Rules page. Messages posted on the Democratic Underground Discussion Forums are the opinions of the individuals who post them, and do not necessarily represent the opinions of Democratic Underground, LLC.
Home | Discussion Forums | Journals | Store | Donate
About DU | Contact Us | Privacy Policy
Got a message for Democratic Underground? Click here to send us a message.
© 2001 - 2011 Democratic Underground, LLC