is not really the issue here. This phrase refers to something eight graders said in class, defending the recent killing of a young woman ("It was her own fault", "The whore was acting like a German"--"Die hat doch selber Schuld", "Die Hure lief rum wie eine Deutsche.")--and was spectacularly made public in an open letter by their headmaster. These youths (including one girl) were punished, I believe one of them was expelled from school.
This young woman was certainly not killed for "living too much like a German". The offenses calling for punishment by death, so-called "honor killings" of women, are pretty much clearly defined and we should not cheat ourselves: the concept of such acts being offensive/offenses is not entirely alien to our own "culture(s)". I
Basically, it is sex outside of marriage that contaminates the purity of the female image. Whether before, after, or on the side, even if forced upon you such as in rape and sexual torture--if the woman cannot keep clean she is no longer welcome ...
I don't know if someone keeps count on murders committed by jealous husbands in the Western world, but according to UN figures, "honor" murders occur about 5000 times yearly, worldwide. Mostly in rural regions populated by Kurds and Arabs (Eastern Anatolia, Northern Iraq, Jordan), where the majority of marriages are arranged by parents, and the role of women, being deprived of a sound education, is to serve as willing servants of their husbands and children and as unpaid labor force.
The official Turkey does not approve of this "culture" in any way, with respect to women's rights they are quite modern, and were quicker to adopt e. g. the suffrage of women than some "Western" states. They had an exemption for "honor" murders on the books, or rather for cases where the crime had been "provoced" by the victim, which provided for more lenient sentences (still up to about 25 years in prison, I believe). This exemption has been done away with recently--the change will come into effect right now, actually, in April 2005.
So I would expect that German judges no longer feel obliged to be lenient towards conspiracy to murder, even when fathers and brothers are crying and whining they just HAD to do it in order to save their ugly faces. Public statements to this effect have indeed been made. In Germany, the excemption was not explicit, the judges are bound by a general rule to take cultural motives and customs into account.
The German public -- mostly motivated by stereotypical foreigner bashing rather than serious information, though -- is certainly not in favor of accepting the backward, anti-modern repression of women and would not see this as an acceptable trait of any "culture".
As far as I can see, such traits are also no longer acceptable in our own culture, although remnants certainly exist, and before hurling general insults at "Turks" or "Muslims" we had better take a good look at our very recent history.
From:
EXPLORING THE CONTEXT OF WOMEN’S SEXUALITY IN EASTERN TURKEY
Published in: Reproductive Health Matters, Vol. 6, No. 12 (November 1998): 66 - 75
http://www.wwhr.org/?id=743
Marriage and sexuality
According to Article 88 of the Turkish Civil Code, the minimum age for a civil marriage, which is the only legally valid marriage ceremony in Turkey, is 17 for men and 15 for women. However, the age of majority for all other legal procedures except marriage is 18. Despite this law, 16.3 per cent of women living in the region are married under the age of 15 and in a religious ceremony, although it is against the law to hold a religious ceremony of marriage before a civil ceremony has taken place.
Ninety-seven percent of women who were over 24 years of age, and all of the women who were over 34 years of age were or have been married, indicating that marriage is almost compulsory for women living in the region. The tradition of bride price, the sum given by the man to the wife’s family for the realisation of marriage, is very widespread in the region and plays an important role in the attitude of men, who assume that through this payment they have gained all rights over their wives’ sexuality and fertility. In fact, this tradition can be considered as the sale of women for marriage by their families. Although 78.9 per cent of all married women have indicated that they are against this tradition, 61.2 per cent have indicated that their husbands had to pay bride price for them.
(...) The institutions of polygyny, early and forced/arranged marriages, kidnapping and the exchange of women for marriage are widespread in the region.
(...)
A majority of the women (66.6 per cent) believed that, contrary to the law, they could not divorce their husbands if they committed adultery, even if they would have liked to. (...)
On the other hand, the percentage of women who thought they would be killed by their husbands and/or their families if they committed adultery was very high, 66.6 per cent. This perception was even more common among those who had little or no education, those who had only a religious marriage and those who lived in rural areas.
Most of those who thought that their husbands would do something else other than divorcing or killing them, expected that they would be beaten up very badly by their husbands if they were suspected of an extra-marital affair.
The removal of fornication as a criminal offence in law is very recent, and although there are no provisions explicitly referring to ‘crimes of honor’ in the Turkish Criminal Code, this tradition is still supported in law. An extra-marital affair of a husband or wife is considered to be a ‘provocation’ and the sentence can be reduced by one eighth if such provocation is deemed to have taken place.
If the wife commits adultery
My husband would_____________divorce me___kill me___Other
Education
None/primary incomplete______19.4_________75.3_______5.3
Primary complete_____________39.0_________54.5_______6.5
Secondary +__________________45.3_________46.9_______7.8
Marriage type
Only civil___________________53.3_________26.8______19.9
Both civil and religious_____28.4_________66.1_______5.5
Only religious_______________17.1_________79.4_______3.5
Residence
Urban________________________38.5_________56.5_______5.1
Rural________________________19.2_________74.3_______6.5
Total________________________27.5_________66.6_______5.9