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cally (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 02:22 PM Original message |
When were you just lucky that you weren't raped or had an unwanted |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 02:23 PM Response to Original message |
1. A few times I was lucky I wasn't raped. |
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Fenris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 02:25 PM Response to Original message |
2. Sadly, I was never lucky that I wasn't raped. |
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cally (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 08:10 PM Response to Reply #2 |
94. If you were raped then I hope you had support |
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LiberalinNC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 02:26 PM Response to Original message |
3. Not only were you "lucky" you didn't get pregnant, you're lucky |
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cally (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 02:30 PM Response to Reply #3 |
9. The point is that few of us are perfect |
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LiberalinNC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 02:34 PM Response to Reply #9 |
11. No body is perfect! A rape victim/survivor should never be blamed |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 04:06 PM Response to Reply #11 |
71. Fucking well deserved |
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mtnester (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-05 10:44 PM Response to Reply #11 |
102. Exact same thing here... |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 02:35 PM Response to Reply #9 |
12. Blame is exactly the reason I waited years |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:07 PM Response to Reply #12 |
28. Such a similar story |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:38 PM Response to Reply #28 |
44. Thank you for the hug. |
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thinkingwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 06:59 PM Response to Reply #12 |
87. 21 years ago |
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cally (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 08:15 PM Response to Reply #87 |
95. I had heard the term at that point |
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thinkingwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 08:32 PM Response to Reply #95 |
96. yep... |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:44 PM Response to Reply #9 |
49. Only a fool would blame the victim for the crime |
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Modem Butterfly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 02:27 PM Response to Original message |
4. I was almost raped once |
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brainshrub (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 02:30 PM Response to Reply #4 |
8. Good for you! |
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porphyrian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 02:27 PM Response to Original message |
5. Well, they shouldn't get themselves into this position... |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:46 PM Response to Reply #5 |
51. It is a sad world we live in |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 02:28 PM Response to Original message |
6. If you combine the two than I guess, in a way, I was lucky |
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cally (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 02:36 PM Response to Reply #6 |
14. I sincerely apologize if I implied that you were lucky not |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:01 PM Response to Reply #14 |
24. Thanks |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 02:56 PM Response to Reply #6 |
23. Damn. |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:04 PM Response to Reply #23 |
26. Thanks - and I don't think that was the intention |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:08 PM Response to Reply #26 |
30. Yikes... someone said something like that!?! |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:13 PM Response to Reply #30 |
32. the sentiment has been expressed |
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cally (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:15 PM Response to Reply #26 |
35. If I had seen someone post that idiocy |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:21 PM Response to Reply #35 |
37. Believe it or not... it isn't as bad around here as it was a couple of |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:35 PM Response to Reply #37 |
42. funny I was just reading that thread the other night |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:45 PM Response to Reply #42 |
50. that is awfully sad |
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cally (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:11 PM Response to Reply #23 |
31. That was my intent but I do recognize that |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:48 PM Response to Reply #6 |
55. Please don't stay off those threads |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:58 PM Response to Reply #55 |
66. Thank you |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 02:29 PM Response to Original message |
7. Imagine if men had to pay for their errors in judgment the way |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:13 PM Response to Reply #7 |
33. Re: Entitlement |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:22 PM Response to Reply #33 |
38. It's quite pervasive, it would seem. |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:52 PM Response to Reply #33 |
59. What an obnoxious asshole |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:55 PM Response to Reply #59 |
63. No. I didn't. |
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okieinpain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 02:31 PM Response to Original message |
10. being drunk and getting raped, is like walking down a dark alley |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 02:35 PM Response to Reply #10 |
13. In college |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:03 PM Response to Reply #13 |
25. the boys were rapists. |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:18 PM Response to Reply #25 |
36. that is horrible |
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cally (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 02:38 PM Response to Reply #10 |
16. That's insane |
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likesmountains 52 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 02:39 PM Response to Reply #10 |
17. you could not be more wrong... |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 02:39 PM Response to Reply #10 |
18. Suppose you, as a man. faced the same consequences after |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 02:51 PM Response to Reply #10 |
21. So no woman should ever get drunk I suppose... |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 06:59 PM Response to Reply #21 |
86. Not getting drunk |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 02:54 PM Response to Reply #10 |
22. geez. |
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Technowitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:47 PM Response to Reply #10 |
53. Bullshit! |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:48 PM Response to Reply #10 |
56. Yeah...I had a couple drinks...please rape me |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 07:00 PM Response to Reply #10 |
88. that is just stupid |
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Catherine Vincent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 02:38 PM Response to Original message |
15. Couldn't you have thought of a better topic to discuss? |
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cally (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 02:40 PM Response to Reply #15 |
19. Sure, but I was reading the threads in the Women's forums |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:05 PM Response to Reply #19 |
27. I think this was a good call. |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:08 PM Response to Reply #15 |
29. What's wrong with this topic? |
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loudestchick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 02:44 PM Response to Original message |
20. I was 14 and getting stoned with my 16yr old male next door neighbor |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:57 PM Response to Reply #20 |
65. Bless you lc |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 07:04 PM Response to Reply #20 |
89. A very happy ending for you |
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tubbacheez (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:14 PM Response to Original message |
34. Every day I don't get raped or pregnant is a lucky day. |
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tomreedtoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:24 PM Response to Original message |
39. When I was a teenage boy, this happened... |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:39 PM Response to Reply #39 |
45. Wow...and you were doing so well |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 07:17 PM Response to Reply #45 |
91. I saw this phenomena |
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tomreedtoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-05 10:32 PM Response to Reply #45 |
99. Sorry, too late. I've given up. |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:41 PM Response to Reply #39 |
46. No, you're not a wimp. |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:47 PM Response to Reply #46 |
52. Ironically |
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tomreedtoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-05 10:35 PM Response to Reply #52 |
100. Perhaps the Law of Unintended Consequences? |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:51 PM Response to Reply #39 |
58. Your logic confuses me. You didn't rape her so she should have at least |
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tomreedtoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-05 10:28 PM Response to Reply #58 |
98. No, perhaps I didn't make it clear... |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:59 PM Response to Reply #39 |
67. many girls do go for assholes |
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tomreedtoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-05 10:39 PM Response to Reply #67 |
101. Oh, of course they don't "deserve" to be. |
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Technowitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:30 PM Response to Original message |
40. A couple incidents come to mind |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:42 PM Response to Reply #40 |
47. frightening description |
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Technowitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:56 PM Response to Reply #47 |
64. It was terrifying |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 04:02 PM Response to Reply #64 |
69. I got a chill reading that. |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 04:02 PM Response to Reply #64 |
70. Not only supposed to have happened |
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Technowitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 04:19 PM Response to Reply #70 |
77. Yeah... but sometimes reporting doesn't help either |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 04:25 PM Response to Reply #77 |
80. I would bet that because you reported it |
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Behind the Aegis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:32 PM Response to Original message |
41. Not to 'buck' the trend |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:37 PM Response to Reply #41 |
43. You're right - it's a crime of power. |
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Behind the Aegis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 06:15 PM Response to Reply #43 |
82. Thank you. |
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cally (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:48 PM Response to Reply #41 |
54. Rape is always about power and control |
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Behind the Aegis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 06:27 PM Response to Reply #54 |
83. No apology needed |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:51 PM Response to Reply #41 |
57. There it is! |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 04:01 PM Response to Reply #41 |
68. Obnoxious subject removed - my apologies |
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cally (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 04:14 PM Response to Reply #68 |
75. I think you are being sarcastic.... |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 04:21 PM Response to Reply #75 |
78. Please forgive my ignorance |
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Greybnk48 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:43 PM Response to Original message |
48. I'm lucky I didn't get pregnant from 1964 to 1970!! |
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Ironpost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:52 PM Response to Original message |
60. well bless you heart |
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oldcoot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:54 PM Response to Original message |
61. When I was sixteen, |
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Freebird12004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 03:55 PM Response to Original message |
62. I wouldn't say it was luck. |
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peace frog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 04:11 PM Response to Original message |
72. Back in the late '70s I was an intended victim |
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oldcoot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 04:14 PM Response to Reply #72 |
73. Good thing that you kept your head |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 04:14 PM Response to Reply #72 |
74. Wow... |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 04:16 PM Response to Reply #72 |
76. PHEEW!! |
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brainshrub (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 05:59 PM Response to Reply #72 |
81. Welcome to DU |
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bigwillq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 07:05 PM Response to Reply #72 |
90. Welcome to DU! |
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peace frog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 07:25 PM Response to Reply #90 |
92. Thanks for the welcome! |
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luvLLB (394 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 04:22 PM Response to Original message |
79. more times than I care to admit... |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 06:29 PM Response to Original message |
84. If you are female, rape is a "fact of life" |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 06:54 PM Response to Reply #84 |
85. Good for you |
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cally (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 08:07 PM Response to Reply #84 |
93. The world is a better place for it |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-05 11:21 PM Response to Original message |
97. Interesting discussion |
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