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UpsideDownFlag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:06 PM Original message |
how much say should a husband have over his wife's abortion? |
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MikeG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:07 PM Response to Original message |
1. He gets say if he agrees to carry it for 4 1/2 months. |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:09 PM Response to Reply #1 |
8. HAHA! Great answer! |
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kerry-is-my-prez (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 10:55 PM Response to Reply #8 |
96. Wouldn't that be great! |
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XanaDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:11 PM Response to Reply #1 |
11. The last 4.5 months |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:13 PM Response to Reply #11 |
15. She gets the morning sickness... |
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RoeBear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:07 PM Response to Original message |
2. the male has zero legal rights |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 06:50 PM Response to Reply #2 |
63. Ding!!! Ding!!!! Ding!!! We have a winner!!!! |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 07:47 PM Response to Reply #63 |
70. When did men gain the ability to get pregnant? |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 09:15 PM Response to Reply #70 |
80. If the man doesn't want the baby, he shouldn't have to pay support. |
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cidliz2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 10:02 PM Response to Reply #80 |
86. Wrong Wrong Wrong |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 10:17 PM Response to Reply #86 |
88. A man's right to choose. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 05:38 PM Response to Reply #88 |
205. The difference is |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 06:39 PM Response to Reply #205 |
211. In other words, |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:26 PM Response to Reply #211 |
234. No! |
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U4ikLefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:38 PM Original message |
So you are saying that a man should have to pay for his genetics alone |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:42 PM Response to Original message |
238. Where did I say |
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U4ikLefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:52 PM Response to Reply #238 |
244. Oh my bad, I thought you were someone else |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:01 PM Response to Reply #244 |
248. How do you reconcile |
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U4ikLefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:18 PM Response to Reply #248 |
254. Nice rhetoric, but doesn't address any point. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:25 PM Response to Reply #254 |
256. It absolutely addresses the point! |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:36 PM Response to Reply #256 |
264. Robert Kennedy |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:41 PM Response to Reply #264 |
268. Why the hell do you think I'm arguing for child support? |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:04 AM Response to Reply #268 |
281. My Kennedy comment is directed at your |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:07 AM Response to Reply #281 |
282. How is removing the support of one parent a better way? |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:39 AM Response to Reply #282 |
301. That's our disagreement in a nutshell |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:42 AM Response to Reply #301 |
303. And you seem to think |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 01:05 AM Response to Reply #303 |
311. Yes, because she made the CHOICE |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 01:12 AM Response to Reply #311 |
315. It is not |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 01:33 AM Response to Reply #315 |
319. It is too |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 01:42 AM Response to Reply #319 |
321. No |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 02:03 AM Response to Reply #321 |
324. You just need to accept that you dont support choice for men |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 02:12 AM Response to Reply #324 |
326. LOL |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 02:16 AM Response to Reply #326 |
327. Funny |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 02:28 AM Response to Reply #327 |
330. Yes |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 02:47 AM Response to Reply #330 |
331. Yes, you are a power hungry victimizer |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 02:57 AM Response to Reply #331 |
332. I'm a Leo |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 03:27 AM Response to Reply #332 |
333. Well, thanks for being honest finally |
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U4ikLefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:40 PM Response to Reply #256 |
267. Then shouldn't a woman subsidize the child they |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:43 PM Response to Reply #267 |
270. Yes, and sometimes they are. |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:49 PM Response to Reply #256 |
274. No it doesnt address the point |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:55 PM Response to Reply #274 |
276. The point is |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:46 PM Response to Reply #234 |
272. They are also the ones that CHOOSE |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:57 PM Response to Reply #272 |
277. I'm not against choice for men!!!!! |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:20 AM Response to Reply #277 |
289. If the point is to do what's best for the kid, how's about |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:32 AM Response to Reply #289 |
298. While we're at it |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:44 AM Response to Reply #298 |
304. Well, here is where ideas start isn't it? |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:47 AM Response to Reply #304 |
306. Yes. Yours is crystal clear. n/t |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:22 AM Response to Reply #277 |
291. Why on earth are you advocating single motherhood then? |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:27 AM Response to Reply #291 |
295. The child didn't choose. |
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Alenne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:18 AM Response to Reply #272 |
288. men have control over their biological destiny |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:22 AM Response to Reply #288 |
292. Honestly |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:16 AM Response to Reply #205 |
285. You make a good, calm, reasoned argument here. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:21 AM Response to Reply #285 |
290. Pro-lifers are going to say that regardless |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 10:38 PM Response to Reply #86 |
89. Tra saying the same thing about a woman |
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Cheswick2.0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 06:31 PM Response to Reply #89 |
165. you can't say the same thing about a woman |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 07:25 PM Response to Reply #165 |
170. Thanks for spelling that out in the detail it deserves. |
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striderjames (4 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 03:43 AM Response to Reply #165 |
193. Why? |
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iverglas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 04:27 AM Response to Reply #193 |
195. much as I might agree |
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MrSandman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:18 AM Response to Reply #195 |
287. Now I have seen the argument.... |
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progressivebydesign (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 11:36 PM Response to Reply #86 |
112. Sorry.. but too many men have been tricked into it.. |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 11:47 PM Response to Reply #112 |
117. I actually broke up with a girlfriend |
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CaTeacher (983 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 05:08 PM Response to Reply #117 |
152. I know a very nice |
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loyalsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 12:56 AM Response to Reply #112 |
122. I'm sure it happens |
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cidliz2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 09:21 PM Response to Reply #112 |
177. Match absent/delinquent fathers against women that trick men and prick |
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iverglas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 02:14 AM Response to Reply #177 |
186. don't play the game, please! |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 02:35 AM Response to Reply #186 |
188. Hey hey I was just saying I don't wanna pay for some baby coming out. |
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iverglas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 02:40 AM Response to Reply #188 |
189. uh |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 09:32 AM Response to Reply #189 |
197. Point taken. |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 12:51 AM Response to Reply #80 |
121. Is this true? |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 01:05 AM Response to Reply #121 |
123. I don't know, I'm just fucking around again. |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 01:11 AM Response to Reply #123 |
126. I know in some cases you can give up parental rights. |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 01:08 AM Response to Reply #121 |
124. No it's not true |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 08:47 AM Response to Reply #124 |
129. Not really though. |
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0007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 02:27 PM Response to Reply #80 |
142. Very poor logic! |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 06:17 PM Response to Reply #142 |
160. No, you have very poor logic. |
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Tight_rope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 06:08 PM Response to Reply #80 |
158. Although you've made a good argument....sorry it's don't work that way! |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 06:17 PM Response to Reply #158 |
159. There's that "you play you pay" argument again... |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 07:31 PM Response to Reply #158 |
171. Willing to play - willing to pay |
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Alenne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 08:07 PM Response to Reply #171 |
175. Women don't have to have the baby |
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Cheswick2.0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 06:30 PM Response to Reply #80 |
164. nope, living children have the right to support from the father |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 07:24 PM Response to Reply #164 |
169. No they don't. |
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Cheswick2.0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 06:29 PM Response to Reply #63 |
163. We do have male choice |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 07:23 PM Response to Reply #163 |
168. That is the same as the anti-abortion argument against females. |
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DrWeird (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:07 PM Response to Original message |
3. none. |
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Mountainman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:07 PM Response to Original message |
4. If it were me, I would discuss it with my wife but in the end it is |
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JudgeSmales (88 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:08 PM Response to Original message |
5. No. It is her body. |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:09 PM Response to Reply #5 |
7. Welcome to DU, JudgeSmales.... |
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JudgeSmales (88 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:14 PM Response to Reply #7 |
16. Thank you very much. This is a great site. I have learned much. |
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Tight_rope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 09:13 PM Response to Reply #5 |
79. Welcome to DU JudgeSmales! |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:08 PM Response to Original message |
6. I think in the final analysis, the woman ALWAYS has the final say. |
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LittleApple81 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:10 PM Response to Original message |
9. But you know that, at least 18 years ago, in Kansas (and I don't think |
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rene moon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:15 PM Response to Reply #9 |
17. Same thing happened to my mother |
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ldf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 12:44 PM Response to Reply #17 |
134. if that is the way he felt |
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Tight_rope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 05:47 PM Response to Reply #134 |
156. Sex and "CONTROL"! |
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ChickMagic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:19 PM Response to Reply #9 |
20. That still happens in Catholic hospitals |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:10 PM Response to Original message |
10. One would hope they were in a communicative relationship wherein this |
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UpsideDownFlag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:26 PM Response to Reply #10 |
26. well said. n/t. |
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put out (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:38 PM Response to Reply #10 |
31. Not where I'm from. |
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Zing Zing Zingbah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 06:38 PM Response to Reply #10 |
61. I guess the woman could always get a divorce if her |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 08:53 PM Response to Reply #10 |
75. Exactly so. In this case, biology trumps all. When men can get pregnant |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 01:42 PM Response to Reply #10 |
137. I had to sign a consent form for a vasectomy 2 years ago. |
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melv (506 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 02:23 PM Response to Reply #10 |
140. actually, yes |
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spotbird (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:12 PM Response to Original message |
12. Obviously the final say is the wife's. |
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rene moon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:12 PM Response to Original message |
13. They should talk about it |
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UpsideDownFlag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:20 PM Response to Reply #13 |
21. i was leaning that way. i was just imagining what it would be like for |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:36 PM Response to Reply #21 |
30. Adoption is alive and well. Men have choices, just not THIS choice. |
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rene moon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:41 PM Response to Reply #21 |
33. All I can say is: oh well |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 10:43 PM Response to Reply #21 |
90. As a husband, obviously |
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iverglas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 02:32 AM Response to Reply #21 |
187. "what it would be like for the husband ... |
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wurzel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:13 PM Response to Original message |
14. None. It is the woman's choice (or burden). |
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LibraLabSoldier (429 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:17 PM Response to Reply #14 |
18. in a good marriage, |
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Demobrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:18 PM Response to Original message |
19. He has no say at all, unless she wants him to. |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:21 PM Response to Original message |
22. first off, abortion is a last resort |
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LibraLabSoldier (429 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:24 PM Response to Reply #22 |
23. I agree |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 10:48 PM Response to Reply #22 |
91. Not always a last resort |
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iverglas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 01:43 AM Response to Reply #22 |
185. actually, abortion is the ONLY resort -- |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:24 PM Response to Original message |
24. Ideally, a couple would discuss it first |
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progressivebydesign (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 11:39 PM Response to Reply #24 |
114. Yeah.. a normal, happy couple would not approach it as adversaries. |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:25 PM Response to Original message |
25. What if it is not his genetics? |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:29 PM Response to Reply #25 |
28. No the law does not stipulate this..that is a misunderstanding on your |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:40 PM Response to Reply #28 |
32. Actually - |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:47 PM Response to Reply #32 |
42. It sounds like an archaic law |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 10:53 PM Response to Reply #42 |
95. True it should be |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:49 PM Response to Reply #28 |
43. No, you are 100% wrong |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 06:04 PM Response to Reply #43 |
57. If it's 30 out of 50 states, then I'm only 60 % wrong...simple math |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 07:21 PM Response to Reply #28 |
67. Deleted message |
Demobrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:36 PM Response to Reply #25 |
29. If it's not his a simple blood test will prove it. |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:50 PM Response to Reply #29 |
45. Nope |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 11:14 PM Response to Reply #45 |
104. That's an amazing story DrGreg |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 09:35 PM Response to Reply #104 |
178. Its for the children!!! <feminine sighs> |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 05:45 PM Response to Reply #178 |
206. Men are incapable of birth control responsibility? |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 06:33 PM Response to Reply #206 |
210. Not even |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 09:27 PM Response to Reply #210 |
216. Incredible link |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:01 PM Response to Reply #216 |
224. No, Yupster, we don't care. |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:13 PM Response to Reply #224 |
227. Anyone have any suggestions then? |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:22 PM Response to Reply #227 |
232. It' not "serves him right" |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:09 PM Response to Reply #232 |
250. "he shouldn't have to pay" |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:11 PM Response to Reply #250 |
251. Link please |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:39 PM Response to Reply #251 |
265. From the article linked right above |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:52 PM Response to Reply #250 |
275. It still doesn't change the fact |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:13 AM Response to Reply #275 |
284. Hell, I agree with NOW on most things too |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:17 AM Response to Reply #284 |
286. Why? |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:00 PM Response to Reply #210 |
223. I don't have to accept that |
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Djinn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 09:24 PM Response to Reply #206 |
215. according to some "doktors" |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 09:29 PM Response to Reply #215 |
218. I just have one kid |
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Djinn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:12 PM Response to Reply #218 |
225. of course it can happen |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:17 PM Response to Reply #225 |
253. Why do you gotta be dishonest like that? |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:33 PM Response to Reply #253 |
261. I only did a study of one |
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Djinn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:57 AM Response to Reply #253 |
309. that's rich |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 01:29 AM Response to Reply #309 |
318. Well here you go |
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Djinn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 02:06 AM Response to Reply #318 |
325. OK then |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 10:55 PM Response to Reply #29 |
97. That's how it should be |
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U4ikLefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 11:12 PM Response to Reply #97 |
103. I agree...it is totally unfair |
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kiahzero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 12:27 AM Response to Reply #29 |
118. Nope |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:43 PM Response to Reply #25 |
37. What does that have to do with the question? |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:51 PM Response to Reply #37 |
46. It has to do with the original question because |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:54 PM Response to Reply #46 |
47. How often is paternity established early in the pregnancy |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 06:40 PM Response to Reply #47 |
62. I advocate choice for men |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 06:56 PM Response to Reply #62 |
64. mis-applied paternity at 40% in some populations? |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 10:56 PM Response to Reply #64 |
98. So if it's only 10 %, |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 11:25 PM Response to Reply #98 |
108. Yes it does and the fact that USA today reported it certainly |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 11:33 PM Response to Reply #108 |
111. So if the male had sex with her, then |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 01:52 PM Response to Reply #111 |
201. Hey dont joke about that |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 11:15 PM Response to Reply #64 |
106. His USA Today link |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 07:40 PM Response to Reply #62 |
69. You seem to have a pretty dark view of women |
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Djinn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 09:29 PM Response to Reply #69 |
217. I hear this attitude alot |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 09:41 PM Response to Reply #217 |
220. Beacuase as a society, we don't |
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Djinn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:15 PM Response to Reply #220 |
228. also because a large percentage of men |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:26 PM Response to Reply #228 |
233. See that's where we differ |
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Djinn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:31 PM Response to Reply #233 |
235. and I think calling the father |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:38 PM Response to Reply #235 |
237. That's why I suggest my affidavit idea |
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Djinn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:50 PM Response to Reply #237 |
242. yes I think problems exist - who said life is perfect |
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U4ikLefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:02 PM Response to Reply #242 |
249. There is only one person responsible for the baby's birth |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:17 PM Response to Reply #249 |
252. Deleted message |
Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:25 PM Response to Reply #252 |
257. What's my solution? |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:27 PM Response to Reply #252 |
258. Deleted message |
Djinn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 01:08 AM Response to Reply #258 |
313. so what was this quote |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 01:41 AM Response to Reply #313 |
320. A full 1/3 of child births are to forced fathers |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 01:47 AM Response to Reply #320 |
322. Where do you get this stuff? |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 02:02 AM Response to Reply #322 |
323. I got this tidbit from the US CENSUS data |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 02:24 AM Response to Reply #323 |
329. This gets better and better |
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Djinn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 07:19 PM Response to Reply #323 |
336. please provide a link to back up "forced fathers" stat |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:23 PM Response to Reply #242 |
255. Please read the Navarro case |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 02:21 AM Response to Reply #255 |
328. I think it means |
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cidliz2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 10:12 PM Response to Reply #62 |
87. I have seen countless men walk away from their families |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 11:27 PM Response to Reply #46 |
109. How does a woman biologically FORCE a man into paternity? |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 11:37 PM Response to Reply #109 |
113. I think you're confusing |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 01:48 PM Response to Reply #113 |
139. It's not just about the pro-lifer concept... |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 04:35 PM Response to Reply #139 |
146. I think when you bring rape into the mix |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 05:45 PM Response to Reply #146 |
155. It was only very recently... |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 07:34 PM Response to Reply #155 |
172. I think there's universal agreement with you |
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loyalsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 01:10 AM Response to Reply #46 |
125. BULL! |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 01:37 AM Response to Reply #125 |
127. The woman can have an abortion |
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loyalsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 10:16 PM Response to Reply #127 |
182. You either missed the point |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 12:01 AM Response to Reply #182 |
184. I guess I just don't get it? |
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loyalsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 03:15 AM Response to Reply #184 |
191. Apparently, you don't |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 12:47 PM Response to Reply #191 |
200. Exactly, thank you for agreeing, women are not forced parents |
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loyalsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 09:24 PM Response to Reply #200 |
214. Again- you don't get it |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 09:47 PM Response to Reply #214 |
222. I get it now |
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loyalsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:33 PM Response to Reply #222 |
262. Sure it's a beautiful scenario |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:42 PM Response to Reply #262 |
269. How do you figure that? |
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loyalsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 05:26 AM Response to Reply #269 |
334. Your afadavit doesn't vacate existing law |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 10:51 PM Response to Reply #25 |
92. True |
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Vladimir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:28 PM Response to Original message |
27. None n/t |
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CrispyQ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:41 PM Response to Original message |
34. Absolutely none. |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:41 PM Response to Original message |
35. He can influence but... |
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slinkerwink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:42 PM Response to Original message |
36. no say at all unless he agrees to carry the fetus |
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DU GrovelBot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:43 PM Response to Original message |
38. ## PLEASE DONATE TO DEMOCRATIC UNDERGROUND! ## |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:43 PM Response to Original message |
39. MrGrumpy had a vasectomy even though I asked him not to. In time, |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:45 PM Response to Original message |
40. How much say should a wife have over a husband's vasectomy? |
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wettap (66 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 09:57 PM Response to Reply #40 |
85. Vasectomy |
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TexasBushwhacker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 04:50 PM Response to Reply #85 |
150. That may be his policy .... |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 10:01 PM Response to Reply #150 |
180. Actually it makes a lot of sense if they are married... |
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Serra (9 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:47 PM Response to Original message |
41. none |
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rene moon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:49 PM Response to Reply #41 |
44. welcome to DU! |
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Lithos (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:54 PM Response to Original message |
48. Excellent thread |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:56 PM Response to Original message |
49. I'm not trying to be snotty, but is this one of those |
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UpsideDownFlag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:58 PM Response to Reply #49 |
51. its not. |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 06:00 PM Response to Reply #51 |
53. Okay. Seems like a reasonable question, then. n/t |
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UpsideDownFlag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 06:05 PM Response to Reply #53 |
58. well, i could have given a little more context- i was trying to |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:57 PM Response to Original message |
50. none |
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Gman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 05:59 PM Response to Original message |
52. This is not a black or white issue |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 06:03 PM Response to Reply #52 |
55. You've made this way harder than it needs to be. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 06:03 PM Response to Reply #52 |
56. Okay |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 11:00 PM Response to Reply #56 |
99. Get a divorce is all he can do |
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Xipe Totec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 06:02 PM Response to Original message |
54. I Consulted With My Wife |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 06:12 PM Response to Reply #54 |
59. LOL...in the event the partners are married, I concur and share your |
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Xipe Totec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 06:26 PM Response to Reply #59 |
60. Common Sense... |
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Tierra_y_Libertad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 07:17 PM Response to Original message |
65. How much say does a wife over her husband's prostrate operation? |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 11:01 PM Response to Reply #65 |
100. Sorry but |
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Tierra_y_Libertad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 02:28 PM Response to Reply #100 |
143. How so? |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 04:46 PM Response to Reply #143 |
148. Because |
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Tierra_y_Libertad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 03:19 PM Response to Reply #148 |
203. Vacation problem. |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 04:40 PM Response to Reply #203 |
204. Your vacation compromises would be very apt |
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QC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:20 PM Response to Reply #100 |
231. But you have to admit that the typo is hysterically funny! n/t |
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Gregorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 07:20 PM Response to Original message |
66. None n/t |
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hyphenate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 07:24 PM Response to Original message |
68. It's a complicated issue |
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TowelBoy (142 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 08:16 PM Response to Original message |
71. I'm so going to be flamed... he should have an... equal... share... |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 08:25 PM Response to Reply #71 |
72. Well, instead of cringing, why don't you explain your position? n/t |
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TowelBoy (142 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 08:27 PM Response to Reply #72 |
73. Mostly because I am against abortion... |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 08:34 PM Response to Reply #73 |
74. Well you can erase your post if you want to. |
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Tight_rope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 09:04 PM Response to Reply #74 |
78. I totally agree with you...It's all about "CONTROL".... |
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DoktorGreg (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 09:56 PM Response to Reply #78 |
179. History is about war and conscription |
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TowelBoy (142 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 09:22 PM Response to Reply #74 |
81. That's a good point, thank you |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 11:03 PM Response to Reply #71 |
101. How can he have an equal say though |
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TowelBoy (142 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 02:28 AM Response to Reply #101 |
128. Touche, yes |
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Tight_rope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 09:00 PM Response to Original message |
76. None....She has no control over him "SHARPING HIS PENCIL" with others! |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 09:02 PM Response to Original message |
77. Let's reframe the question. |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 09:24 PM Response to Reply #77 |
83. See, you use reason and argumentation to make a point though. |
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put out (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 09:43 PM Response to Reply #77 |
84. Beautifully said. |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 11:05 PM Response to Reply #77 |
102. I think the long-term solution |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 11:30 PM Response to Reply #102 |
110. Interesting since nobody told him to have unprotected sex |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 11:40 PM Response to Reply #110 |
115. Of course the woman chose to have unprotected sex too |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 06:00 PM Response to Reply #115 |
208. I don't know if you answered it |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 09:06 PM Response to Reply #208 |
212. Both children are equally deserving of support |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:12 PM Response to Reply #212 |
226. Why? |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:36 PM Response to Reply #226 |
236. "Why the burden on the woman?" |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:53 PM Response to Reply #236 |
245. No no no no no no no no no |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:28 PM Response to Reply #245 |
259. Children should not have to suffer |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:35 PM Response to Reply #259 |
263. I don't believe that a father "should" |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:45 PM Response to Reply #263 |
271. I don't propose putting any kid in poverty |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:59 PM Response to Reply #271 |
279. Yes, you do. |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:24 AM Response to Reply #279 |
294. I've honestly enjoyed the discussion, but |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:39 AM Response to Reply #294 |
302. Yep, you are |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:58 AM Response to Reply #302 |
310. To paraphrase Lennon |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 01:06 AM Response to Reply #310 |
312. Those things may yet happen |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:30 PM Response to Reply #245 |
260. Also it is much more fair for the child to get his means |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:39 PM Response to Reply #260 |
266. But those examples are things no one can control |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:48 PM Response to Reply #266 |
273. Daddy lottery is apt |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:04 AM Response to Reply #273 |
280. If you think |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:27 AM Response to Reply #280 |
296. If I think that all poor children are |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:35 AM Response to Reply #296 |
300. Then I don't understand |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:51 AM Response to Reply #300 |
307. Because if the state stepped in and |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:56 AM Response to Reply #307 |
308. I never said we can't afford it |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 01:08 AM Response to Reply #308 |
314. How's about giving me a little bit of a break? |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 01:14 AM Response to Reply #314 |
316. You're the one arguing |
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kiahzero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 12:36 AM Response to Reply #110 |
119. Why do you persist in using that straw man? |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 05:53 PM Response to Reply #119 |
207. Because it is his child either way |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 09:11 PM Response to Reply #207 |
213. That child is the responsibility of all of us |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:16 PM Response to Reply #213 |
229. No, it should not |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:43 PM Response to Reply #229 |
240. We need to work to increase support for kids in need |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:57 PM Response to Reply #240 |
246. Bull |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 11:58 PM Response to Reply #246 |
278. Here's the NOW's |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:12 AM Response to Reply #278 |
283. Hmmm |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:32 AM Response to Reply #283 |
299. You said you didn't know of a single |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:46 AM Response to Reply #299 |
305. I don't |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 06:16 PM Response to Reply #110 |
209. And you act like.. |
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Alenne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:43 PM Response to Reply #209 |
239. Stop putting the responsibility on the woman |
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lgardengate (341 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 09:24 PM Response to Original message |
82. Law says husband has no say,but if they are married....... |
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kerry-is-my-prez (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
93. None - just because I'm married to him he doesn't own my body. |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
94. Since I believe the wedding vows are inviolate and an absolute... |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 11:18 PM Response to Reply #94 |
107. And what if they each give their honest opinions, |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 11:58 AM Response to Reply #107 |
131. They continue to discuss it... |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 04:50 PM Response to Reply #131 |
149. If they come to a agreed decision |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 07:20 PM Response to Reply #149 |
167. Maybe I missed something... |
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iverglas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 02:52 AM Response to Reply #131 |
190. here's a tip |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 02:15 PM Response to Reply #190 |
202. Nice points |
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Tight_rope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 05:43 PM Response to Reply #94 |
153. "vows are inviolate and an absolute"...this is total rubbish! |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 07:14 PM Response to Reply #153 |
166. Maybe it is total rubbish... for some people. |
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Tight_rope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 10:48 PM Response to Reply #166 |
183. A valid point you have made...One that I considered when writing my post! |
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WillyT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 11:15 PM Response to Original message |
105. None !!! Or... Whatever 'Say' She Chooses To Give Him !!! |
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mitchtv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-20-04 11:40 PM Response to Original message |
116. 49% |
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jus_the_facts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 12:44 AM Response to Original message |
120. if she didn't want the child....then she shouldn't even TELL him.... |
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robcon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 09:09 AM Response to Reply #120 |
130. The "ownership" that is suggested by your post, jus-the-facts... |
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jus_the_facts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 12:22 PM Response to Reply #130 |
132. Oooookay...... |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 12:27 PM Response to Original message |
133. None |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 12:55 PM Response to Original message |
135. None legally |
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murray hill farm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 01:06 PM Response to Original message |
136. None!!! |
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IndianaGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 01:46 PM Response to Original message |
138. None, zilch, nada! |
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0007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 02:25 PM Response to Original message |
141. Nada - His freedom ends where her nose begins. |
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Tight_rope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 05:44 PM Response to Reply #141 |
154. LMBAO...thanks for the laugh of the day! |
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Mandate My Ass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 02:29 PM Response to Original message |
144. I've been thinking about this lately too. Here's my conclusion |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 05:01 PM Response to Reply #144 |
151. By your dead horse picture, do you |
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Mandate My Ass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 06:17 PM Response to Reply #151 |
161. Any woman who demands child support |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 07:38 PM Response to Reply #161 |
174. I don't agree with you |
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Mandate My Ass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 08:47 PM Response to Reply #174 |
176. Could've fooled me |
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Djinn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 09:42 PM Response to Reply #161 |
221. and lock up all those women |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:19 PM Response to Reply #221 |
230. I don't think anyone is saying anything |
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Djinn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 01:16 AM Response to Reply #230 |
317. the sort of legislative changes you want however |
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pinto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 07:38 PM Response to Reply #151 |
173. I trust that the decisions made about pregnancy are, when possible, mutual |
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rbnyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 03:25 PM Response to Original message |
145. None |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 04:42 PM Response to Original message |
147. Depends on what the woman is comfortable with |
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Castilleja (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 05:53 PM Response to Original message |
157. None. |
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Cheswick2.0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 06:27 PM Response to Original message |
162. none |
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happynewyear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-21-04 10:10 PM Response to Original message |
181. the day a man can give birth, he has the right to have an opinion |
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striderjames (4 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 03:35 AM Response to Original message |
192. I am generally against abortion, but..... |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 03:48 AM Response to Original message |
194. Deleted message |
kayell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 05:14 AM Response to Reply #194 |
196. Please don't feed the 14 year old |
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Zynx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 09:37 AM Response to Original message |
198. Technically, he cannot stop her, but if it were my wife and she did it |
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The Flaming Red Head (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:30 AM Response to Original message |
199. After being married to an abuser |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:51 PM Response to Reply #199 |
243. Amen! |
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DubyaSux (366 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 09:37 PM Response to Original message |
219. WHY NOT ADOPTION???? |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:50 PM Response to Reply #219 |
241. There is also a waiting list of LIVING children in homes waiting to be... |
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Alenne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-22-04 10:57 PM Response to Reply #219 |
247. one has a say before she gets pregnant |
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Placebo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:23 AM Response to Original message |
293. He Should Have ABSOLUTELY NO SAY. |
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mstrsplinter326 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 12:28 AM Response to Original message |
297. if the answer is no... |
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ReallyTired (13 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-23-04 05:31 AM Response to Original message |
335. The husband gets NO say if the condom POPS |
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