for saying very eloquently what I was trying to say.
A few items of note:
**First, it may seem that colleges are preparing students for the classroom but in reality they are not. **
Did you see this?
N.Y. Times column stirs debate: 'Are Japan's schools really better?'
http://asia.news.yahoo.com/051125/kyodo/d8e3pn381.htmlI've said for years that all new teachers should have to serve as teachers aides for at least one year, preferably two, before they're allowed "their own" classrooms. Speaking of teacher's "aide" - why should they be so unqualified in the first place? Maybe that's a state by state thing...
***The government provides public education for all children in the United States in the mode of a Chevy. Trouble is, no one wants a Chevy when it comes to their child. They want a Benz. So the schools have parents of smart kids who want the equivalent of a private education and parents of kids with disabilities who want a school that acts as a treatment center. In the middle are the at risk kids who have seldom progressed well in school b/c they are often slow and the system cannot/does not wait for them. ***
Very good analogy. And therein lies the real problem I think. There is NO "average kid". How could anyone hope for a "one size fits all" to really truly "fit" any one when in actuality it "fits" no one?
**Any educator who would respond to a parents concerns with a "we're the experts" attitude or statement is unprofessional. And there is no reason to do so because there are very specific steps that parents can take to debate their child's placement, i.e., mediation. Granted parents don't win all the time but neither do the schools.**
The problem is, even if the parents "win", the chld still loses due to a hostile environment.
We could have gone to court over our son, but by that time the atmosphere in the school was so poisonous, it made no sense to try and keep him there.