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deadparrot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 04:35 PM Original message |
Dad: Son put up for adoption without his knowledge |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 04:38 PM Response to Original message |
1. What a horrible story |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 10:57 AM Response to Reply #1 |
60. Excuse me, women sometimes forget children have two parents? |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 11:47 AM Response to Reply #60 |
66. Sometimes we are n/t |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 01:26 PM Response to Reply #66 |
72. Well sometimes men are then? |
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Zhade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 08:51 PM Response to Reply #60 |
109. My own mother kind of did, actually. |
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maddezmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 04:39 PM Response to Original message |
2. heartbreaking story |
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scot (145 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 12:44 AM Response to Reply #2 |
42. Heartbreaking indeed! |
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maddezmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 03:23 AM Response to Reply #42 |
53. communication thru a 3rd party |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 04:39 PM Response to Original message |
3. Boy, that adoption agency sure screwed up. |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 04:41 PM Response to Original message |
4. The woman should be jailed and the agency disbanded |
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1monster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 06:50 PM Response to Reply #4 |
17. I don't believe the natural father should be cut out of this child's life. |
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Beausoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 11:33 PM Response to Reply #17 |
34. Please don't use the term "natural father". |
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shanti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 01:09 AM Response to Reply #34 |
44. right - birth father |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 02:01 AM Response to Reply #44 |
46. He is not exactly the birth father either, considering he |
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Chrisduhfur (163 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 09:39 AM Response to Reply #46 |
56. but but but... |
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Beausoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 11:21 AM Response to Reply #56 |
64. Semantics DO matter..to alot of people. |
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Chrisduhfur (163 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 12:10 PM Response to Reply #64 |
67. I dunno. |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 12:37 PM Response to Reply #64 |
70. Please explain. |
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Beausoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 05:10 PM Response to Reply #70 |
81. I obviously explained well enough for you to agree. Why carry it further? |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 06:19 PM Response to Reply #81 |
95. Sorry that you misunderstood. |
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Beausoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 10:46 PM Response to Reply #95 |
120. My bad, then. |
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harpboy_ak (437 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-14-06 05:21 AM Response to Reply #81 |
184. Stop being so hyper-sensitive, it's ridiculous! |
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hyphenate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 06:33 PM Response to Reply #64 |
97. A friend refers to the mother |
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BiggJawn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 10:11 AM Response to Reply #46 |
58. Oh, split hairs, why don'tcha? |
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CTLawGuy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 10:53 AM Response to Reply #58 |
59. too late |
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ronnykmarshall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-14-06 04:25 PM Response to Reply #59 |
199. how about ... |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 11:01 AM Response to Reply #58 |
61. Anti father bias? |
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zanne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 05:10 PM Response to Reply #61 |
82. Men walk away all the time. |
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BiggJawn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 10:31 PM Response to Reply #82 |
118. And a woman can take his child 300 miles away.... |
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Zhade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 08:57 PM Response to Reply #61 |
110. Please remember, though, that it's often not a choice. |
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Speed8098 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 06:58 AM Response to Reply #61 |
127. Are you kidding me? |
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trixie (696 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 05:53 PM Response to Reply #61 |
166. Let's be fair here |
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nodehopper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 12:29 PM Response to Reply #4 |
69. I think that was a sh*tty thing of her to do, but jail? come on! |
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ovidsen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 02:35 PM Response to Reply #69 |
77. Did you read the full story? |
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nodehopper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 11:04 PM Response to Reply #77 |
123. ah, I missed that part. I suppose that could be blackmail |
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trixie (696 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 05:57 PM Response to Reply #123 |
167. let's not forget |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 10:12 PM Response to Reply #69 |
173. give me money or I tell the birth father |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 04:50 PM Response to Original message |
5. Some lawyer will jump on this for contingency fees only--it is a slam dunk |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 05:22 PM Response to Reply #5 |
8. the adoptive parents sound pretty blameless here |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 05:42 PM Response to Reply #8 |
9. The very first thing the adoption agency director will likely say is that |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 05:45 PM Response to Reply #9 |
11. even if they paid the hush money |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 05:51 PM Response to Reply #11 |
14. Well, if you receive stolen property, ya still don't get to keep it |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 06:20 PM Response to Reply #14 |
16. these are the only parents the kid has ever known |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 08:43 PM Response to Reply #14 |
23. The stolen TV is not going to get attached to you. |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 02:12 PM Response to Reply #23 |
74. I know that, but it DOES NOT MATTER in law |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 08:25 PM Response to Reply #74 |
104. Human beings are not property. The welfare of the child should |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 11:48 AM Response to Reply #104 |
137. What's worse? Living with rich people to whom you were sold, like cattle, |
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Zhade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 09:01 PM Response to Reply #74 |
111. But it sounds like it's the agency and the lawyer's fault. |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 11:44 AM Response to Reply #111 |
136. They did know, though--the woman told them, and their lawyer was |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 10:56 PM Response to Reply #14 |
30. More Information in this AP Story |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 02:07 PM Response to Reply #30 |
73. The story backs up my original assertion though--that the father has a |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 05:33 PM Response to Reply #73 |
87. So they will give the child to a sick and penniless man? |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 11:43 AM Response to Reply #87 |
135. We know nothing of his extended family |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 12:37 PM Response to Reply #87 |
143. Are rights restricted to the healthy and well off now? |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 08:45 PM Response to Reply #9 |
24. If you read the article, it says attorney for the parents informed |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 02:17 PM Response to Reply #24 |
75. No, the attorney for the adoptive parents SCREWED up!!! |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 08:37 PM Response to Reply #75 |
107. but we don't know if he knew who the father was |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 11:37 AM Response to Reply #107 |
134. Oh, yes, we do--and the attorney plainly didn't cross the T's or dot the |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 12:15 AM Response to Reply #5 |
39. You just quoted the article stating that adoptive parents |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 02:21 PM Response to Reply #39 |
76. See my post above, re: their lousy lawyer |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 05:14 PM Response to Original message |
6. The child is 5 now |
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Occulus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 01:58 AM Response to Reply #6 |
45. My experience was sort of opposite to this |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 04:55 AM Response to Reply #45 |
54. Life's a crap shoot |
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Canuckistanian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 11:11 AM Response to Reply #45 |
63. Same with me |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-14-06 02:59 PM Response to Reply #63 |
195. Thanks for the reply, Canuckistanian. |
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fortyfeetunder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 05:22 PM Response to Original message |
7. Cry me a river, Daddy. |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 05:43 PM Response to Reply #7 |
10. Did you read the article |
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fortyfeetunder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 06:24 PM Response to Reply #10 |
96. I did read the article, and it's lacking. |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 07:53 PM Response to Reply #96 |
100. given the woman's behavior |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 11:50 AM Response to Reply #100 |
138. From what I have read, she left him |
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PatGund (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 06:07 AM Response to Reply #96 |
125. which doesn't change the fact she LIED to him |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 05:46 PM Response to Reply #7 |
12. Uh, the article clearly explains all that--they had split up, and she LIED |
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TriMetFan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 05:47 PM Response to Reply #7 |
13. Amen to that. He knew she was pregnant, so why was he not there |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 05:56 PM Response to Reply #13 |
15. Well, she moved from CO to NJ-- and we aren't flies on their wall |
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TriMetFan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 10:45 PM Response to Reply #15 |
119. She could have told him to get lost "Who Knows?" |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 02:56 PM Response to Reply #119 |
159. Well, according to one story, she was living with him, and then left |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 08:38 PM Response to Reply #13 |
21. Curious |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 02:47 PM Response to Reply #21 |
78. The fraud consisted of the mother representing to the court that the |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 12:55 PM Response to Reply #7 |
149. If she just leaves town where precisely is he to look for her? |
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DELUSIONAL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 08:09 PM Response to Original message |
18. Her body -- HER choice-- |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 08:18 PM Response to Reply #18 |
19. Nobody's saying he could stop an abortion |
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anitar1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 05:05 AM Response to Reply #19 |
55. The Father has Parkinsons disease, is poverty stricken, |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 12:16 PM Response to Reply #55 |
68. I read the article |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 05:29 PM Response to Reply #68 |
86. And if you did comprehend this article, you would see |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 08:31 PM Response to Reply #86 |
105. Yeah, 'cause when you buy a foreign kid with parents, nobody cares. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 08:35 PM Response to Reply #105 |
106. No, you should actually get the kid, raise him for years and |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 08:43 PM Response to Reply #106 |
108. The father naver indicated he didn't want him |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 09:24 PM Response to Reply #108 |
114. What exactly do you consider to be parents? |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 09:25 PM Response to Reply #114 |
115. It's not his fault he never met the kid |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 10:56 PM Response to Reply #115 |
121. Shoulda, woulda, coulda. It's not the kids or adoptive parents |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 10:58 PM Response to Reply #121 |
122. How does being raised by his actual parent penalize the kid? |
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shrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 09:32 AM Response to Reply #122 |
128. I know plenty of kids who NEVER should have been raised by |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 10:50 AM Response to Reply #128 |
133. If he's unfit a court should decide that |
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shrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 12:15 PM Response to Reply #133 |
139. But so many are NOT responsible |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 01:02 PM Response to Reply #108 |
151. Ummm ... I'm not a purchaser. |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-14-06 03:59 AM Response to Reply #108 |
180. aaay-men! |
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mitchum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 08:20 PM Response to Reply #18 |
20. Read the story again (more carefully) |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 08:42 PM Response to Reply #18 |
22. She told him the boy was still born. |
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seriousstan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 08:54 PM Response to Reply #18 |
25. You have quite the appropriate name. |
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QC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 10:40 PM Response to Reply #25 |
29. I have often thought the same thing. n/t |
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TankLV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 12:09 AM Response to Reply #18 |
38. Well, I have to agree with you there. |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 02:23 AM Response to Reply #38 |
48. My understanding of the term |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 02:57 AM Response to Reply #38 |
51. Jesus Christ. If she had wanted child support, after the baby was |
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TankLV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 12:51 PM Response to Reply #51 |
71. Good points all. I hadn't thought of it. |
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CTLawGuy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 03:06 AM Response to Reply #18 |
52. so you're against forced child support I take it |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 04:58 PM Response to Reply #52 |
80. I am against forced child support |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 05:27 PM Response to Reply #80 |
85. The man has a choice whether he becomes a father or not. |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 06:05 PM Response to Reply #85 |
89. Yes that's the pro-lifer's argument |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 06:08 PM Response to Reply #89 |
90. I do believe in abortion. |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 07:44 PM Response to Reply #90 |
99. Well we certainly agree on a man |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 08:24 PM Response to Reply #99 |
103. This will never happen. |
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CornField (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 12:42 PM Response to Reply #89 |
147. Nope, as I've told you again and again, It's biology |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 10:07 AM Response to Reply #80 |
132. Your "plan" will never be adopted. |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 02:43 PM Response to Reply #132 |
157. I've never met any |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 02:51 PM Response to Reply #157 |
158. I didn't instruct anyone to keep it in his pants. |
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Evergreen Emerald (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 09:49 AM Response to Reply #18 |
57. I agee with you |
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PatGund (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 06:14 AM Response to Reply #18 |
126. Bull. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 10:07 AM Response to Reply #18 |
131. After birth it's not in her body any more. |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 05:32 PM Response to Reply #18 |
163. A womans right to choose ENDS the moment the baby is born. |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 10:15 PM Response to Reply #18 |
174. How if messing up the boys adoption best for the boy |
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harpboy_ak (437 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-14-06 05:31 AM Response to Reply #18 |
185. Merely a sperm donor? |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 09:11 PM Response to Original message |
26. Does he have "dibs", so to speak? |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 10:20 PM Response to Original message |
27. My brother knocked a woman up, and she wanted an abortion. |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 10:32 PM Response to Original message |
28. this happened in illinois a decade or so back...baby richard. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 11:26 PM Response to Reply #28 |
32. That was so heartbreaking and infuriating |
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Beausoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 11:42 PM Response to Reply #32 |
35. Link to a devastating column about "baby Richard" . |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 11:45 PM Response to Reply #35 |
36. He must be thirteen or so now |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-14-06 02:23 AM Response to Reply #36 |
178. @ last report, Danny Kirchner was a straight-A student in parochial school |
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shrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-14-06 01:24 PM Response to Reply #178 |
194. A self-published book. (It's Moriarity's own publishing company) |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-14-06 04:20 AM Response to Reply #35 |
181. yeah, Bob Greene loves kids -- perhaps a little too well... |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 12:07 AM Response to Reply #32 |
37. California has very strict time limitations. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 12:17 AM Response to Reply #37 |
40. Well, hopefully this won't end up the same as in baby Richard's |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 12:28 AM Response to Reply #40 |
41. I pray so (n/t). |
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Beausoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 11:24 AM Response to Reply #37 |
65. But..his parental rights were not terminated...that's the catch. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 05:24 PM Response to Reply #65 |
84. The father is broke,sick, and he lives with his mother. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 12:34 PM Response to Reply #84 |
141. That doesn't terminate his rights. |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 09:03 PM Response to Reply #65 |
112. Actually, they can terminate a bio's rights without him knowing. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 12:36 PM Response to Reply #112 |
142. Of course it has been decided that being returned to a bio dad was |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 12:54 PM Response to Reply #142 |
148. Well, I guess we'll have to agree to disagree. |
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TriMetFan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 11:06 PM Response to Reply #65 |
124. Thats what he say's. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 12:42 PM Response to Reply #124 |
145. You need not rely on his say so. The simple question is did he |
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TriMetFan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 01:28 PM Response to Reply #145 |
153. I will stick to "thats what he said" |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 02:27 PM Response to Reply #153 |
156. Mountain moving is not a legal requirement. But a signature |
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TriMetFan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 05:04 PM Response to Reply #156 |
160. My point is that he knew she was with child. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 07:40 PM Response to Reply #160 |
169. How could he know that if she told him she miscarried? |
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TriMetFan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 08:49 PM Response to Reply #169 |
170. I'm just putting out some points that need to be made. But... |
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shrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 09:38 AM Response to Reply #28 |
129. I knew people who were acquainted with the birth father |
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shanti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 11:03 PM Response to Original message |
31. so how do you make a woman tell you |
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Beausoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-11-06 11:31 PM Response to Original message |
33. What is in the best interest of the child? |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 01:02 AM Response to Reply #33 |
43. agreed...the child's mental and physical welfare need to be |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 12:59 PM Response to Reply #33 |
150. Of course there are different opinions about what is in the best interest |
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neuvocat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 02:19 AM Response to Original message |
47. Unfit parents |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 02:31 AM Response to Reply #47 |
49. Sounds like she's the one with the problems... |
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neuvocat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 06:08 PM Response to Reply #49 |
91. She was the one who was with him |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-14-06 06:08 PM Response to Reply #91 |
203. Gee, do you think her being a liar and blackmailer might indicate |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 02:53 AM Response to Reply #47 |
50. Sounds like something is wrong with her. Especially |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 11:10 AM Response to Reply #50 |
62. no she doesn't seem like a winner..... |
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shrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 09:47 AM Response to Reply #47 |
130. There was a case in Florida |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 12:40 PM Response to Reply #47 |
144. Why do you assume her judgment is trustworthy? |
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kalibex (189 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 05:26 PM Response to Reply #144 |
161. Why do you assume she is not? n/t |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 07:36 PM Response to Reply #161 |
168. I didn't make any assumption. But you did. Per your post, her |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 10:16 PM Response to Reply #161 |
175. I assume she isn't due to her blackmailing the adoptive parents |
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WhiteTara (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 03:34 PM Response to Original message |
79. this is why abortion should be legal and easy |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 05:23 PM Response to Reply #79 |
83. What exactly does it have to do with abortion? |
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WhiteTara (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 05:49 PM Response to Reply #83 |
88. Well, if she had wanted the child |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 06:09 PM Response to Reply #88 |
92. Many people prefer giving child for adoption as alternative to |
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WhiteTara (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 06:53 PM Response to Reply #92 |
98. since we're both mind reading this woman |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 06:14 PM Response to Original message |
93. it seems the best would be visitation in this case |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 06:17 PM Response to Reply #93 |
94. what about cases where the woman may not know the biological father |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 08:23 PM Response to Reply #94 |
101. I guess if she knows what her choices are, she has to notify all |
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umass1993 (302 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 08:23 PM Response to Reply #94 |
102. The bigger question is...do women have any responsibilities at all? |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 09:23 PM Response to Reply #102 |
113. Considering that usually women are the ones that end up |
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lastliberalintexas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 01:53 PM Response to Reply #102 |
154. Women get an equal share of the "good things" in this country? |
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umass1993 (302 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 09:37 PM Response to Reply #154 |
171. anybody who bothered to check. |
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lastliberalintexas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 11:36 PM Response to Reply #171 |
176. I'm sure those women who have more education but earn less than men |
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umass1993 (302 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-14-06 01:18 PM Response to Reply #176 |
193. Whining doesn't change the numbers... |
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judaspriestess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 09:29 PM Response to Original message |
116. as a person with close ties to adoption |
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InsultComicDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-12-06 10:04 PM Response to Reply #116 |
117. You're jumping to a lot of conclusions here |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 12:32 PM Response to Reply #116 |
140. Your unsubstantied assumptions ignore a simple fact: |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 12:42 PM Response to Reply #116 |
146. I agree that the child should ALWAYS be the first consideration. |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 01:05 PM Response to Reply #146 |
152. And the 'best interest' criteria will be applied here. |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-14-06 04:49 AM Response to Reply #146 |
183. how far does this "best interest of the child" philosophy go? |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 02:21 PM Response to Original message |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 05:29 PM Response to Reply #155 |
162. The attitude displayed here towards adoptive parents is so .. |
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Proud_Lefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 05:44 PM Response to Reply #162 |
164. Many roses for my friend |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 05:48 PM Response to Reply #164 |
165. Thanks so much! (n/t). |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-14-06 01:59 AM Response to Reply #162 |
177. I haven't called YOU anything... |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-14-06 04:33 AM Response to Reply #177 |
182. The Psychological Sequelae of Adoption |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-14-06 05:43 AM Response to Reply #182 |
186. ah yes... the Loving Option (tm) strikes again |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-14-06 06:27 AM Response to Reply #186 |
187. But Don't You Understand - They Really WANT That Baby! |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-14-06 07:41 AM Response to Reply #187 |
188. ... and no wonder: not having kids is officially a Fate Worse Than Death! |
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shrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-14-06 01:03 PM Response to Reply #162 |
191. Human trafficking |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-14-06 03:16 PM Response to Reply #191 |
198. Again, thanks for your info. (n/t). |
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shrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-14-06 01:16 PM Response to Reply #162 |
192. Yes, it is sad |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-14-06 03:15 PM Response to Reply #192 |
197. Thanks, Shrike. |
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Patiod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-14-06 05:02 PM Response to Reply #162 |
200. Not everyone here is an angel - that's what "ignore" is for |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-14-06 05:47 PM Response to Reply #200 |
201. Thanks. (n/t) |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-13-06 09:58 PM Response to Reply #155 |
172. So let me get this straight... |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-14-06 03:40 AM Response to Reply #172 |
179. so let me get THIS straight... |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-14-06 09:35 AM Response to Reply #179 |
189. But what about the child? |
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TriMetFan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-14-06 10:47 AM Response to Reply #189 |
190. Well Said. |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-14-06 03:13 PM Response to Reply #189 |
196. Well said. |
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