Reply #162: i think we are defining terrible twos differently. the tantrums.... the no no no no

[seabeyond]

the inability for reconciliation.

i had two totally different children. and in addressing the time of independence and exploration and anonymity we had to address the terrible two behavior differently with each child.

yes it is a 24/7 watch, but that is just a parent doing the job. it is the parent that doesn't give the time, and then when the child goes into the explosive, dismissing it with terrible twos, that continues to have the problem with the child. as opposed to the parent that is doing the 24/7 and the child goes into mine mine mine and addressing that patiently, calmly and thru example and other means gets beyond that.

only to move on to the next stage and address that. help guide them to take each stage, live in it, be in it and go beyond, in the higher