Reply #47: You're wrong about that. No one

[pnwmom]

in the straight world ever suspected my father ( including my mother, for years).

And through him I learned about quite a number of other married men whom no one would have "suspected."

I'm also on a list-serve with a number of children, like myself, who had no idea about their parent's sexuality until one or the other suddenly came out.

It happens every day.