Reply #15: There is a reason for hackneyed phrases like : "Don't play with fire"

[Mira]

If you are having trouble in your marriage then your marriage is the place where you are committed to give it your all.
See a counselor for support, not another woman. You will hurt your wife, your marriage, and your self image along with the best chances for a good future.

My X remarried 4 days after our divorce. Then 2 weeks after the next divorce. He died 3 weeks ago, married, but sad, drunk, addicted to nicotine and with 3 cancers. And he never built a relationship with his son or grandson.
He never got happier with subsequent marriages.

Moral:
The grass in your own back yard has the best potential for greening if fertilized.
Give your full attention to what you are committed to, and worry about new flirtations when the time is right, if ever.


(Sorry for showing up here unannounced, did not even know this forum existed til I just now saw it on the 10 latest update list)