Reply #7: Sorry, I didn't make my point clear! :(

[cassiepriam]

I tend to put out the facts and let people come to their own conclusions but I know it may come across as too indirect!

I was saying essentially that I did not buy the basic premise of your question due to the fact that aggressive sexual fantasies are so common in women. If the premise of attraction were true then almost all women would be victims of sexual assault.

Also on a spiritual and theoretical level it doesn't make sense. I think that we are meant to be happy. I think we are meant to be sexual beings and fulfilled. And for women that seems to be strongly linked to sexual fantasies. So I do not see how we could have negative spiritual consequences for that.

Also I think putting someone else in the fantasy might diminish the whole purpose of the fantasy. And then if the whole attraction theory is correct wouldn't that be just putting someone else at risk?

As usual I am willing to be convinced, but so far not clicking for me on a logical, intuitive or spiritual plane.

Also, Geesh, poor women.
Most of the foods they love and crave are now on the bad list.
Sex is limited due to STDs etc.
And now their fantasies are bad :(
Geesh, what is left?