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Quantess Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-11-06 03:00 AM
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39. Hi, no offense but
Edited on Thu May-11-06 03:20 AM by quantessd
I groan when I see anti-male rants. I think they make women seem spiteful to men. Should we care, you might ask. And I'd say yes. Men and women need to get along without a lot of resentment toward each other just because of gender, and I don't think a whole lot of peace is resolved by men complaining about women or vice-versa. Trust me, I get super pissed when I see anything that resembles an anti-female rant.

However, point well taken that religion is used by society to enforce the status quo. Males have the physical advantage, combined with a tendency toward aggression / dominance......surprise, surprise, the Deity is MALE! It means, obey. Obey the nearest male, while you're at it, as if you weren't going to already....How about those Aztec-inspired paintings, with some hunky warrior pounding his chest, and a mamacita is hugging his ankles? Oh, and isn't there a national "penis day" in Japan, where males and females alike wear penis costumes? Penis worship is deeply embedded in probably most cultures. And yes, anti-women messages abound in established religions---I don't know where to begin, and I don't have enough time to expound on all the women-bashing by major world religions. (Let's not even begin with oppression of women).

And yes, many men are intensely jealous of the women-can-give-birth fact of life, warping their silly minds to want to control womens' bodies and everything they do. Not all men, by any means. I know a lot of really excellent human males who do a good job of being respectful to human females. How did I get so lucky? For one, I had really excellent, supportive male figures in my family---my non-religious family. And, I appreciate the men who have good character. I expect respect, otherwise, I'm leaving.

A man can be complete *******, just because he assumes all women to be hateful bitches--in his own mind, of course--and does violent acts to a woman just for being a woman. This happens far, far, more than the nice guys want to know about. The incidence of a man murdering a woman is statistically much higher than a woman murdering a man (or a woman murdering anyone, for that matter). How about creeps who commit random acts of violence to women, such as serial rapists or murderers? WHAT HAVE THOSE WOMEN EVER DONE TO HIM, I wonder.

But, what do we women want to do about the smart, nice guys? They need love and attention. Encouragement, and confidence. Give them the love they deserve. Some guys love women, and we want them to keep on loving us. So, love those nice guys back!

The gross woman-haters can go **** themselves.
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